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Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by Nobody: 2:38pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
LordNicvuitton: I have sent you an email request. I will like to sponsor her financially. From your post, she is academically sound but limited by Finance. U can provide ur phone number here. I will call u. 13 Likes |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by Barayeks(m): 2:38pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
It will end in tears last last 1 Like |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by Nobody: 2:39pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
To spend on her and sponsor her is not the problem but her attitude when she become a full Doctor and begin to behave strangely. Please be careful. I sponsor my wife in the Uni and even migrate together to the western world, I dare not remind her of all I have done yet any small quarel, she's so abusive. I spend on her entire family but they are so unappreciative. If not God who prospered me, I would have suffered. Be careful, she can be okay now because she need you but can be a pain when she does'nt need to depend on you anymore. If she agree to be in relationship without you committing your money to it, it will be okay. Keep your money and your plan away from her 14 Likes |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by Kingkun69(m): 2:39pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
Take 7k play 7 odds |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by DenreleDave(m): 2:39pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
LordNicvuitton: lemme quickly set a lock on my Sim card ooo Thank u ooo 1 Like |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by dangoteinlaw: 2:39pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
NockMedia:no the story is genuine. For that mention of tanker water supplier the story is real coz that's their "A"pa major source of income there ie they love that side hustle so much.they do ti doesn't mean they are poor infact some have luxury cars like lexus 350 which they got from that hustle 4 Likes |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by NaijaCoverBlog(m): 2:40pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
Get in touch with me, start blogging Business Bro and thank me later |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by Analysiscorner: 2:40pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
If you really love her, marry her in a low-key way and start life with her. This is because money spent on girlfriend is a waste, unless the said girlfriend becomes your wife. Please, don't forget this. Both of you should communicate better so that every issue will be opened up and resolved. Talk with her. Like others have spoken, do everything for her to get a mean of income, even if it is as little as selling pure water. 2 Likes |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by Slynation(m): 2:40pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
LordNicvuitton:You are a good guy, I can relate to this because I've been there before, Most people giving you the advice to dump her can't really relate because it's not that easy.... But one mistake we guys always make in life is "Playing the role of a husband too early in a relationship" As you said, leaving the shop for her to run for the mean time won't be a bad idea.... 8 Likes |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by controlaltdeleat: 2:40pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
Person wey never chop bellefu wan train foreign dog 1 Like |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by sweetrace(f): 2:40pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
LordNicvuitton: In your original post you sounded like she is a freeloader. If she works for you and she is also your girlfriend, what exactly are you complaining about? If you are in a relationship with a lady it should be only one that leads to marriage. That’s what relationships are about. Understand that you’re investing in your future. You don’t want someone who is uneducated and a burden in future. However, if you have no intentions of marrying her, stop wasting both your time and end the relationship. Yes, she’ll cry, but she’ll get over it. If working for you isn’t working, let her get another job. Their many jobs that will pay her more than you are paying, and without any strings attached. 4 Likes |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by MetroSip(m): 2:40pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
Some men though |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by roseb1(f): 2:41pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
LordNicvuitton:Provided the lady in question wouldn't ditch u after these investment, I'd suggest you continue with ur good deeds. I know that the financial burden is quite enormous on ur side. You've already gone these far. Try and finish it up. Like u said she's in 400 level. It's just 2 yrs left bro. Continue to hold on ok. If she's someone u rly wanna spend the rest of ur life with, I'd suggest u do a little introduction to seal ur relationship with her. May God see u through. 3 Likes |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by Analysiscorner: 2:41pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
life2017:Thank you sir. |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by EzeAmusu(m): 2:41pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
NockMedia:so what is fake in this story.if u don't have anything tangible or meaningful to contibute. Just keep quiet. |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
I have sent you an email request. I will like to sponsor her financially. From your post, she is academically sound but limited by Finance. U can provide ur phone number here. I will call u. |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
You need to define your relationship.I don't understand you are doing business and pleasure in your organization.Anyway since she is your Secretary remove the money from the company account after all you are liable for not providing security.Now you make me appreciate my girlfriend she has never asked me for one kobo before. 1 Like |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by smartval(m): 2:42pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
Did you say Edo state, hope it's not what am thinking sha |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by obataokenwa(m): 2:43pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
LordNicvuitton:Pls don't be offended if I digress. Your laundry business. Do u use washing machine and dryer and which type? How much approximately do u make like in a month after expenses |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by gbemishile: 2:43pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
Hmmm Bro,mu only input here is a prayer for you,cus believe it or not,ur denial that u're just helping her with no intention of reward is just a sham.u have invested deeply in her while stagnating ur own business.i just pray u don't come here years later to say she jilted you.if that happens,I pray u have the threshold to Bear the pains |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by sam1919: 2:43pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
I don’t know what to say, all I can say is stop falling in love with broke ladies when you are not financially capable. If you know you don’t have a future plan with her or seeing you both together in the future, talk to her, let her know about your intentions and cut all ties. Speak with your own heart, I know your heart has told you what’s best for you already. A word to the wise is enough... 5 Likes |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by Nobody: 2:44pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
You are carrying the financial burden that doesn't come from your heart...Nah frustration go kill you. Must you help her...? If you are not financially buoyant, tell her now...what is all this street. Though I know this is not a true life story...but, nevertheless, we still need to contribute to your cook up story since we are jobless youths... You wey dey write this.long story for.nairaland, Nah God go.punish you oh 1 Like |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by AntiWailer: 2:45pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
Lol Place lady on salary ? U dey maad 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by AlabiJ: 2:45pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
LordNicvuitton: I feel for you, but if you continue at this rate, this will never end. You need to cut off that cord of overdependence. You are already in over your head and you are not even married to her yet. No do pass yourself bro. You are too young to be shouldering all such burdens. You are not her parents. 1 Like |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by Royle2014(m): 2:45pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
OP, I understand the financial stress u are going through right now, and I know presently, there's a silent war going on between the sexes where guys just hate spending money on women because they think "she'll leave nd marry someone else". In this current age and time, it's almost impossible to find a supportive nd respectful woman to date/marry and from all indications, this girl is actually supportive and down to earth, for her (a medical student, pretty nd can easily sell her body to get wealthy) to come work with u at ur laundromat means she understands the value of labor/working for money. I think your woman has very good qualities and she's very supportive but given her current financial situations, u won't really see that now. I know u have spent a lot. I know u are tired. But trust me, if u leave this girl, it's better u don't even date again till you become financially stable cos every other woman out there... U would still have to spend (unless she's Dangote's daughter) Now, what I want you to do is talk over how stressed ur finances are at the moment, leave the dry cleaning business for her to handle nd go get a part time job for the time being. I know she doesn't want u guys living apart but you let her know it's the best way for both of u to keep this relationship as u need to do better financially. All u need do now is to persevere till she graduates nd starts her internship den nur financial burdens would be over. I know its difficult but do not loose an industrious loyal woman studying a great course like dis dat can easily get a job later... For some lady who's not gna ask much from u now, but after marriage, they'll struggle to find a job nd end up being full time non working liability wife PS, I'm a medic too 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by ninocia18(m): 2:46pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
When people are told to avoid premarital relationships, they think you don't know what you are saying. Why will you get into a relationship when you haven't settled in your business? Why? By now, all the unnecessary money you have spent would have been used to develop your business and when you now enter a relationship, you'll be talking about marriage. Leave that relationship. It's a distraction. You can't play God more than God. God is her provider not you. Don't try to play God in her life for your lust. Because we both know you are enjoying things prematurely. Leave that relationship. Grow your business. Settle down. When you are ready which you'll know when, if she is around, you can enter a holy relationship sanctified to God that guns towards marriage. From all you have said, you are a young man with great promise and very bright future. A medical practitioner with entrepreneural sense. Don't sell that future cuz of this please. Give your life to Jesus. Ask him to come into your life and he will help you fix all this unnecessary wahala and distractions. Peace bro. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by kaytolee(m): 2:46pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
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Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by Nobody: 2:47pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
LordNicvuitton:obviously you ain't ready to do away with her So why then did you bring your problem to nairaland? All those advising you to free her are telling you what is best for you but you have been giving them a thousand and one reason why you don't want to leave her ... I pity you 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by sunbreaker: 2:47pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
LordNicvuitton:Why is she always goes to shop with you? From your post she has MBBS,so nobody has malaria around where you are living to treat and get little incomes for herself.That is why your story looks like cook one |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by poiunt: 2:48pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
LordNicvuitton: You are a young guy, already carrying unnecessary burden in your life...do you want to die of high blood pressure. I just hope she doesn't disappoint you and become unappreciative after all your struggles for her because many women tend to behave like that. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by neutral2000: 2:48pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
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Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by NMotorwerks: 2:49pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
MARRY HER, SHE WILL NO LONGER BE A BURDEN BUT A RESPONSIBILITY. 1 Like |
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