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Your family wants to disfigure the innocent twins' faces with tribal marks

If na me be their father, una no go ever have access to those children.

The children belong to him and no one can dictate for him. He has the legal and biological right as to what goes around the children. They are toddlers so therefore quit any form of folly from yourself or any so called family member and face your business.

If your family have access to them what will they be doing.

Please go and use your time well. Only the government can collect those children from him if he is not fulfilling his role over them.

bestmutiu2019:
please don't mind my bad English,please I need you to help me or advice me on what to do before I kill someone.
My name is ade second to last born in a family of 5,my mum first and second born were male follow by a girl then me and my jnr bro that is ma mum last born
The only girl of my family that is my sister married a guy this guy is so rude and mannerless I don't know maybe it was because of the little money he has,fast forward they had their first born a boy,then two years later my sister gave birth to twins she deliver the first one by herself then CS for the second one,as Almighty Allah pleases my sister died the 3rd day she gave birth to her twins that is November 2017.
Although my late sister husband lost both his parents so those little girls are with my mum she has been taking care of them since then,so one issue arise when one prophet told my mum that they should do this 1,1. tribal marks for those little girls to prevent their late mother from disturbing them in which my late sister husband decline,he came back the 3rd day September 29 2019 that he has come to claim these little girls that he has already paid for their boarding school that they are going to boarding school,twins that is not up to 2 years, meanwhile their first born is not staying with him a boy of 4 years old he says that he should go and be staying with one of his street uncle.
We accept these little twins started their boarding school in the neighboring state, like two months after then when mum go and visit the twins at the boarding school,they says my mum did not have any right to visit these twins because of the instructions their father gave them,my mum cried like say tomorrow no dey.

Meanwhile the first born that is staying with his street uncle he also order that man not to let any of us to see him.
PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO,I TOLD MY SENIOR BROTHER TO TAKE ACTION THEY COME UP WITH NOTHING,PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE,COS I CAN KILL THIS MAN

Please for legal reasons, he is the parent here, extended family has no right to the kids unless they are at risk, he has the right to restrict access to the kids,I 4 sure see what you just wrote as marking the KIDS will take such actions and in fact arrest anyone who comes close to them, kids. Putting any kind of marks on kids in this modern era in the pretence it is going to scare away some spirits is in same line as genital mutilation.since the kids are not old enough to make decisions for themselves as to if they want marks or not, that duty falls on the responsible adult closest to them as family and in this case is the |Father.

This one is mad oh. Can you imagine blaming the man for having money?

Now you and your mother want to draw parallel lines on those kids face and the father did the right thing by taking them away, but instead you still want to kill him for exercising his rights.

I wish the man could see this. I definitely won't allow my children grow up close to an Uncle that is a cultist and a MIL that consults native doctors before making decisions.

Tufiakwa!

Their is something the OP did not tell us, especially about the death of her sister.

The mum would have taken her to one baba or prophet for concussion... And noticably they are Muslims.

The baba might have use the innocent woman for sacrifice nor he want the twins ..

Fear ignorant in-laws.

The moment your mum decided to start visiting spiritualist and planning to draw mark on his kids shows the kids are better off without her in their lives

Swissheart:
Firstly, if you kill a man, you'll go to jail and render the kids fatherless so take it easy.

Secondly, your mom wanted to give the twins mark on their faces, their father wasn't pleased with it and he came to pick his kids from your mom. That is also not a problem because he is their father, he has the right to. You mentioned it yourself that he has the finance to take care of them too.

The only issue here is that the man wants to cut all ties with your family, that is what you all have to address. Fighting him, insulting him wont work. You guys should remember he has lost his wife too and he hasn't even gotten over it. Why prepare for battle with a grieving man?

Your mom should talk to him with all sincerity and love. The love you guys have for your late sister should be the basis for whatever you are doing for her kids and to her husband otherwise that man will take those children away from you people for life.

If it was you and someone wants to use blades on ur kids won't you run far away with the kids?2020 people still believe is such backwardness!

GamalNasser:
The moment your mum decided to start visiting spiritualist and planning to draw mark on his kids shows the kids are better off without her in their lives

I'm telling you, the kids are in danger. Good one from the man!

bestmutiu2019:
please don't mind my bad English,please I need you to help me or advice me on what to do before I kill someone.
My name is ade second to last born in a family of 5,my mum first and second born were male follow by a girl then me and my jnr bro that is ma mum last born
The only girl of my family that is my sister married a guy this guy is so rude and mannerless I don't know maybe it was because of the little money he has,fast forward they had their first born a boy,then two years later my sister gave birth to twins she deliver the first one by herself then CS for the second one,as Almighty Allah pleases my sister died the 3rd day she gave birth to her twins that is November 2017.
Although my late sister husband lost both his parents so those little girls are with my mum she has been taking care of them since then,so one issue arise when one prophet told my mum that they should do this 1,1. tribal marks for those little girls to prevent their late mother from disturbing them in which my late sister husband decline,he came back the 3rd day September 29 2019 that he has come to claim these little girls that he has already paid for their boarding school that they are going to boarding school,twins that is not up to 2 years, meanwhile their first born is not staying with him a boy of 4 years old he says that he should go and be staying with one of his street uncle.
We accept these little twins started their boarding school in the neighboring state, like two months after then when mum go and visit the twins at the boarding school,they says my mum did not have any right to visit these twins because of the instructions their father gave them,my mum cried like say tomorrow no dey.

Meanwhile the first born that is staying with his street uncle he also order that man not to let any of us to see him.
PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO,I TOLD MY SENIOR BROTHER TO TAKE ACTION THEY COME UP WITH NOTHING,PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE,COS I CAN KILL THIS MAN

What is your business with another man's children. I am sorry, these kids are not yours but the father's. Just pray for them.

johnkey:
your mom is stupid for considering marking those innocent twins face to be scarred for life, rubbish. and to that fake prophet na ogun go kill am, useless family na so my useless older cousin with her dead prophetess mark my face too that year in the absence of my mom.

You are even more stupid than your moniker sounds . What ever gave you the guts to call his mom stupid?

Sometimes I do wish people that spew trash can actually say it physically na slap I go first use deaf you.

It shows how well you reverence your mom!

What a selfish and fetish family. Somebody's children, you want to kill him for protecting his children?. Your other siblings are being cautious cos they are more wiser...Ask yourself if you are the father to those children, will you want to be killed for protecting what is yours?...Unless you are destined to be a murderer, you have reason to think about taking away a life unjustly!

The man is only trying to protect his children from you guys, I would have done same. But what I don't understand is why he allowed one of them to live with a street uncle..... Wait o, why your mum wan give the children tribal marks? Nawa o!


This una mata get as e be, I nor even know the safest place where the children fit stay. I pity those poor children.

I’ll cut ties with anyone who tries to inflict mark on my kids. This is the only reason he took his kids away. They are his kids, get married and have yours. You can’t love them more than their dad. Face your life son.

merieam16:
U mean takin him 2 a cult member. Lolz

He meant Court.

bestmutiu2019:
please don't mind my bad English,please I need you to help me or advice me on what to do before I kill someone.
My name is ade second to last born in a family of 5,my mum first and second born were male follow by a girl then me and my jnr bro that is ma mum last born
The only girl of my family that is my sister married a guy this guy is so rude and mannerless I don't know maybe it was because of the little money he has,fast forward they had their first born a boy,then two years later my sister gave birth to twins she deliver the first one by herself then CS for the second one,as Almighty Allah pleases my sister died the 3rd day she gave birth to her twins that is November 2017.
Although my late sister husband lost both his parents so those little girls are with my mum she has been taking care of them since then,so one issue arise when one prophet told my mum that they should do this 1,1. tribal marks for those little girls to prevent their late mother from disturbing them in which my late sister husband decline,he came back the 3rd day September 29 2019 that he has come to claim these little girls that he has already paid for their boarding school that they are going to boarding school,twins that is not up to 2 years, meanwhile their first born is not staying with him a boy of 4 years old he says that he should go and be staying with one of his street uncle.
We accept these little twins started their boarding school in the neighboring state, like two months after then when mum go and visit the twins at the boarding school,they says my mum did not have any right to visit these twins because of the instructions their father gave them,my mum cried like say tomorrow no dey.

Meanwhile the first born that is staying with his street uncle he also order that man not to let any of us to see him.
PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO,I TOLD MY SENIOR BROTHER TO TAKE ACTION THEY COME UP WITH NOTHING,PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE,COS I CAN KILL THIS MAN

you are a scum and I forgive you the trauma you put me through reading your bad English. Killing a man for exercising his rights over his children, are you nuts? Oh, I think you are and that explains why he's trying to run away from your fetish, dysfunctional family.

bestmutiu2019:
please don't mind my bad English,please I need you to help me or advice me on what to do before I kill someone.
My name is ade second to last born in a family of 5,my mum first and second born were male follow by a girl then me and my jnr bro that is ma mum last born
The only girl of my family that is my sister married a guy this guy is so rude and mannerless I don't know maybe it was because of the little money he has,fast forward they had their first born a boy,then two years later my sister gave birth to twins she deliver the first one by herself then CS for the second one,as Almighty Allah pleases my sister died the 3rd day she gave birth to her twins that is November 2017.
Although my late sister husband lost both his parents so those little girls are with my mum she has been taking care of them since then,so one issue arise when one prophet told my mum that they should do this 1,1. tribal marks for those little girls to prevent their late mother from disturbing them in which my late sister husband decline,he came back the 3rd day September 29 2019 that he has come to claim these little girls that he has already paid for their boarding school that they are going to boarding school,twins that is not up to 2 years, meanwhile their first born is not staying with him a boy of 4 years old he says that he should go and be staying with one of his street uncle.
We accept these little twins started their boarding school in the neighboring state, like two months after then when mum go and visit the twins at the boarding school,they says my mum did not have any right to visit these twins because of the instructions their father gave them,my mum cried like say tomorrow no dey.

Meanwhile the first born that is staying with his street uncle he also order that man not to let any of us to see him.
PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO,I TOLD MY SENIOR BROTHER TO TAKE ACTION THEY COME UP WITH NOTHING,PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE,COS I CAN KILL THIS MAN

Action? What Action? Are they your kids? They are your nephews and nieces and you have no right whatsoever neither any of your family members unless the man permits.

The only action you and your family can take is to amend your ways, be of good behaviour and visit with his permission.

Like the man, I suspect that your family is dangerous and should be kept away from the kids.

Tribal marks? Prophets? Spirit? In this age and time? All of you and family no well. Ee gbadun. Ori yin ti yii danu

Young man, you want to kill someone? Can you create any life?

The story still remain....

johnkey:
your mom is stupid for considering marking those innocent twins face to be scarred for life, rubbish. and to that fake prophet na ogun go kill am, useless family na so my useless older cousin with her dead prophetess mark my face too that year in the absence of my mom.

I know your face is scarred for life but no vex abeg.

bestmutiu2019:
please don't mind my bad English,please I need you to help me or advice me on what to do before I kill someone.
My name is ade second to last born in a family of 5,my mum first and second born were male follow by a girl then me and my jnr bro that is ma mum last born
The only girl of my family that is my sister married a guy this guy is so rude and mannerless I don't know maybe it was because of the little money he has,fast forward they had their first born a boy,then two years later my sister gave birth to twins she deliver the first one by herself then CS for the second one,as Almighty Allah pleases my sister died the 3rd day she gave birth to her twins that is November 2017.
Although my late sister husband lost both his parents so those little girls are with my mum she has been taking care of them since then,so one issue arise when one prophet told my mum that they should do this 1,1. tribal marks for those little girls to prevent their late mother from disturbing them in which my late sister husband decline,he came back the 3rd day September 29 2019 that he has come to claim these little girls that he has already paid for their boarding school that they are going to boarding school,twins that is not up to 2 years, meanwhile their first born is not staying with him a boy of 4 years old he says that he should go and be staying with one of his street uncle.
We accept these little twins started their boarding school in the neighboring state, like two months after then when mum go and visit the twins at the boarding school,they says my mum did not have any right to visit these twins because of the instructions their father gave them,my mum cried like say tomorrow no dey.

Meanwhile the first born that is staying with his street uncle he also order that man not to let any of us to see him.
PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO,I TOLD MY SENIOR BROTHER TO TAKE ACTION THEY COME UP WITH NOTHING,PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE,COS I CAN KILL THIS MAN

you, your mom and the prophet no dey okay, una wan give anoda man pikin tribal mark una papa.... if na me I go use police arrest una if una near my pickin

merieam16:
U mean takin him 2 a cult member. Lolz

yeyeyeyeyeyeeeerrrr....my blocus ooooooooo

CuteTj:
I know your face is scarred for life but no vex abeg.

okay...i go vex on behalf of the guy

You are a complete arant nut. Here in the 21st century you are trying to give some kids tribal marks?
I knew this guy with Yoruba tribal marks, who is now deceased in the UK and when other Nigerians saw him on the same side they crossed over to the other side to avoid interacting with him, and over time, this chap went into depression; and we eventually heard that he died and there was suspicion that he took his life.

Alwaysachick:
Prophet ko prophet ni.

Did you say the marks will protect the kids from their mum?

You guys are fetish, the man just realized he entered the wrong family.

Bro... that's the thing.... tribal mark ...oh well... some people are die hard traditionalists........but marks to protect the kids from their mom??... fetish indeed.... time to hide the kids!

Carfreak966:
You can kill the man for what? Are they your children? Common get out of here boy

The boy never understand anything in life.. Instead of him to go hustle, marry his own and have children, he is there preparing for civil war to another mans child

Bestmitiu2019

Go marry and have your own children. If you are old enough that the only solution you can come up with is how to kill a man over how he chooses to bring up his own children, you are old enough to start your own family. Leave the man and his children alone. Mind your business.

Sincerely speaking am shocked like buhari on this ur story. Imagine ur mum want to put tribal mark on ur late sister kids so it will prevent there late mum from disturbing or seeing her kids. Even if she is late those kids are her kids now u and ur mom want to put tribal mark on the face of the kids to prevent there mom from seeing them! Can u even take that urself ? If I was the man, I swear to God I will deal with u guys more than what he has done. Ur family didn’t like ur late sister at all. May be u guys want to forcefully claim the kids from the man.... God will help All d responsible fathers in d world

bestmutiu2019:
please don't mind my bad English,please I need you to help me or advice me on what to do before I kill someone.
My name is ade second to last born in a family of 5,my mum first and second born were male follow by a girl then me and my jnr bro that is ma mum last born
The only girl of my family that is my sister married a guy this guy is so rude and mannerless I don't know maybe it was because of the little money he has,fast forward they had their first born a boy,then two years later my sister gave birth to twins she deliver the first one by herself then CS for the second one,as Almighty Allah pleases my sister died the 3rd day she gave birth to her twins that is November 2017.
Although my late sister husband lost both his parents so those little girls are with my mum she has been taking care of them since then,so one issue arise when one prophet told my mum that they should do this 1,1. tribal marks for those little girls to prevent their late mother from disturbing them in which my late sister husband decline,he came back the 3rd day September 29 2019 that he has come to claim these little girls that he has already paid for their boarding school that they are going to boarding school,twins that is not up to 2 years, meanwhile their first born is not staying with him a boy of 4 years old he says that he should go and be staying with one of his street uncle.
We accept these little twins started their boarding school in the neighboring state, like two months after then when mum go and visit the twins at the boarding school,they says my mum did not have any right to visit these twins because of the instructions their father gave them,my mum cried like say tomorrow no dey.

Meanwhile the first born that is staying with his street uncle he also order that man not to let any of us to see him.
PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO,I TOLD MY SENIOR BROTHER TO TAKE ACTION THEY COME UP WITH NOTHING,PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE,COS I CAN KILL THIS MAN

The man taking the children to boarding school and street uncle is like putting them in an orphanage. And the fact that your mom is still alive and can care for them is painful to her as a grand mother so I understand your anger. However it's not entirely his fault as he wouldn't have done that without the chasing of spirit mark prophecy. So forgo your anger and let your family speak to your inlaw. After all your mom consulted him meaning she's not stupid as some people in this thread may say but she's archaic. Without family ties,those children will not bond even with him their father. What's the best for the children should be done.

Fourwinds:
okay...i go vex on behalf of the guy

vexing no go clear the marks. e no go even solve anything.