rawpadgin:
Okay, was having a drink with a friend of mine last night & he told me he no longer find his fiancée attractive. They got engaged a year ago & the babe is already pregnant for him. He is however still planning to wife her because the girl is a wife material & he will grow further financially with her by his side but believes he might be cheating on her after marriage.

According to him, the said girl has done a lot for him mostly during the pandemic period but believes he shouldn't be getting married to a girl simply because she has assisted him on many occasions. All my effort to convince him that the feelings will come after marriage proved abortive.

You're your friend.
Have a rethink! Those Nairalander's curse can manifest o

rawpadgin:
Okay, was having a drink with a friend of mine last night & he told me he no longer find his fiancée attractive. They got engaged a year ago & the babe is already pregnant for him. He is however still planning to wife her because the girl is a wife material & he will grow further financially with her by his side but believes he might be cheating on her after marriage.

According to him, the said girl has done a lot for him mostly during the pandemic period but believes he shouldn't be getting married to a girl simply because she has assisted him on many occasions. All my effort to convince him that the feelings will come after marriage proved abortive.

it is normal for men to lose sexual attraction with their wife after she gets pregnant or after few years of marriage, no matter how sexy or pretty the woman is, it is a normal thing with all men, any man that says his wife or girlfriend of many years is still highly attracted to her is a liar, and we have so many men liars who pretend their girlfriend or wife is the sexiest but deep down their lying hearts they are fvcking other women emotionally and in their wild fantasies




Marriage goes beyond sexual attraction and sex, what makes a wife attractive to her husband is not just her sexy body but other home keeping skills, ability to support her man to become successful in what he does and ability to run a balanced, healthy, happy home devoid of frustration.



Any guy that marries solely for sexual attraction will most definitely cheat with multiple partners and the marriage will also be a hell.


Men are naturally wired to desire to be with every lady they find sexually appealing, it is only the love of God or religious doctrines that can make a man make strong attempt to quench this natural thirst for multiple women in his life, so let your friend or you use your head.


If Kanye West could cheat Kim Kardashian, Jay Z cheated on Beyoncé, Tiger Woods cheated on his wife, David Beckham cheated on Victoria, and Prince Charles cheated on Princess Diana, so who is the woman that men won't cheat on

rawpadgin:
Okay, was having a drink with a friend of mine last night & he told me he no longer find his fiancée attractive. They got engaged a year ago & the babe is already pregnant for him. He is however still planning to wife her because the girl is a wife material & he will grow further financially with her by his side but believes he might be cheating on her after marriage.

According to him, the said girl has done a lot for him mostly during the pandemic period but believes he shouldn't be getting married to a girl simply because she has assisted him on many occasions. All my effort to convince him that the feelings will come after marriage proved abortive.

He will finally fall inlove with those slay Queen big boobs and ass with nothing upstairs .

Some people got got a good woman but wouldn't cherish them. Now if he finally breaks up with her it will turn into a monster due bad previous experience

Bros its the satan's work, most couples to be do experience this few moments to thier wedding

This is more of a lesson for ladies... Because someone says they love u don't mean they do.
Time tests everything. U get pregnant, love dies and he's looking for someone to cheat.. Not every body with a penis is man and marriage isn't for kids

He is now attracted to his gateman, homo.

Shugavee:
ehnnnn , that’s why I will never help any man ,, come to me when u hv enough money. Cause u lots ain’t worth it

gbam

sylvalord:
Your friend is wicked and he does not deserve that woman at all. I pray God saves her from that weakling of a man

This is exactly why ladies decline to help struggling guyz....

Most of them are too stupid!

Shugavee:
ehnnnn , that’s why I will never help any man ,, come to me when u hv enough money. Cause u lots ain’t worth it

You better change this mindset. There are lots of good men out there. You just haven't met the right one yet.

This is the type of (fake) thread most Nairaland Feminist/ slayqueen enjoys....
You would see comments like
"That's why I would never trust any man"
"Men are selfish"
"Men are scum"


Keep masturbating on top of the thread, hopefully you all will reach orgasm...

Meanwhile real Men with real life stories are still hooking up and marrying traditional ladies for we know modern ladies might appear attractive but they have no value whatsoever.

humilitypays:
it is normal for men to lose sexual attraction with their wife after she gets pregnant or after few years of marriage, no matter how sexy or pretty the woman is, it is a normal thing with all men, any man that says his wife or girlfriend of many years is still highly attracted to her is a liar, and we have so many men liars who pretend their girlfriend or wife is the sexiest but deep down their lying hearts they are fvcking other women emotionally and in their wild fantasies




Marriage goes beyond sexual attraction and sex, what makes a wife attractive to her husband is not just her sexy body but other home keeping skills, ability to support her man to become successful in what he does and ability to run a balanced, healthy, happy home devoid of frustration.



Any guy that marries solely for sexual attraction will most definitely cheat with multiple partners and the marriage will also be a hell.


Men are naturally wired to desire to be with every lady they find sexually appealing, it is only the love of God or religious doctrines that can make a man make strong attempt to quench this natural thirst for multiple women in his life, so let your friend or you use your head.


If Kanye West could cheat Kim Kardashian, Jay Z cheated on Beyoncé, Tiger Woods cheated on his wife, David Beckham cheated on Victoria, and Prince Charles cheated on Princess Diana, so who is the woman that men won't cheat on

U see ur opening statement, it's a huge lie. Infact u should have a degree in lying.
I dated my wife for 3 years and have married her for 5years and not only do I find her attractive and sexy, I will never cheat on her. And while u think its something huge it's not. Many men are doing it. Before I married, I worked in a multi national, I played the field and there's really nothing a woman can throw at me now in d way of physical attraction or seduction.
Cheating isn't only greed and selfishness, it's disregard for God and marital vows and I won't be found with such deadly sins ever.

My observation lately is that most men are hardly attracted to their wives. They just get married to a wife material and start banging runs girls

rawpadgin:
Okay, was having a drink with a friend of mine last night & he told me he no longer find his fiancée attractive. They got engaged a year ago & the babe is already pregnant for him. He is however still planning to wife her because the girl is a wife material & he will grow further financially with her by his side but believes he might be cheating on her after marriage.

According to him, the said girl has done a lot for him mostly during the pandemic period but believes he shouldn't be getting married to a girl simply because she has assisted him on many occasions. All my effort to convince him that the feelings will come after marriage proved abortive.

Hmmm Chelsea dey play Bayern today

Pepper soup for that woman bar go sweet oo.

We go de talk de drink.

Shugavee:
ehnnnn , that’s why I will never help any man ,, come to me when u hv enough money. Cause u lots ain’t worth it

So there are no ladies who dump guys after the guys helped them financially?

Many guys have trained girls in uni and they still left and married other guys.

So why the yeye comment of that is why I wil never help any man? So women are worth when help them and they run away but men are not worth it?

rawpadgin:
u think u are wise but u not. Look my profile, I ain't no blogger, I have been here for many years, I barely create thread. Mutherfucker, I am not a kid

Your response to luminouz sounds childish sha. It would have been better you just ignored his comment.

sylvalord:
Your friend is wicked and he does not deserve that woman at all. I pray God saves her from that weakling of a man

Said by a symp or a pussy herself

Princedapace:


So there are no ladies who dump guys after the guys helped them financially?

Many guys have trained girls in uni and they still left and married other guys.

So why the yeye comment of that is why I wil never help any man? So women are worth when help them and they run away but men are not worth it?

Deep...

Shugavee:
ehnnnn , that’s why I will never help any man ,, come to me when u hv enough money. Cause u lots ain’t worth it

I know how you feel but please, mind the words you use. They may come against you.
Instead always pray if you are a Christian for God to give your own assuming you are helping the guy with the intention of being his wife.

totosucker:
Your friend is confused. After getting her pregnant, he comes up with a weak excuse that he doesn't love her anymore.
Tell him to start thinking of why he fell in love with her in the first place and focus on it. Tell him to spark the fire of love in his relationship again .
If it is because the lady is pregnant and maybe her character has changed because of pregnancy, sometimes, women do weird things when they are pregnant.
If he doesn't see her beauty again because she's pregnant, then that's understandable because sometimes, women get a little ugly when they are pregnant.
Tell him not to give up yet.

Toto sucker

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fykes:

U see ur opening statement, it's a huge lie. Infact u should have a degree in lying.
I dated my wife for 3 years and have married her for 5years and not only do I find her attractive and sexy, I will never cheat on her. And while u think its something huge it's not. Many men are doing it. Before I married, I worked in a multi national, I played the field and there's really nothing a woman can throw at me now in d way of physical attraction or seduction.
Cheating isn't only greed and selfishness, it's disregard for God and marital vows and I won't be found with such deadly sins ever.

wow, Deputy Jesus, well done oh

luminouz:


Even you too?

Na fake story naaaaaa

Shut up bro

It's a true live story

I was at the scene of the story

N2B2:
God will punish that your friend.

This is the reason why many ladies have trust issues. His interest in his girl did not wane when he was drilling her tunnel; it waned the instant she got pregnant, making him realize that there's no going back.

And if the guy already has the mind to cheat on her after marriage, you can bet that he'll already be mistreating the girl. Her only crime is trusting him and helping him with everything she could.

God will punish that your friend.

Fool, why didn't your God punish the woman for committing fornication

goldensoul55:
He has seen the begining and end of her vagina and it's no longer sweeting him again .

Useless man

Lol. Nlders sha!

Your friend is not a good person. What happened to loyalty? He has even impregnated her... o ga oo... good people are getting more scare everyday

pretydiva:
When he dived in raw, he was attracted abi. All of a sudden the attraction has disappeared into thin air. She's a wife material, but he still feels he will cheat on her when they eventually get married

Now I ask, what do most guys really want, cos I can't seem to fathom it

I have seen mosr mehn that immediately there partner get pregnant, issue of non interested or coming home late comes in. I even know someone that hate seeing pregnant wife like it irritate him to his marrow. Those are the kind of mehn that may eventually cheat

fykes:

U see ur opening statement, it's a huge lie. Infact u should have a degree in lying.
I dated my wife for 3 years and have married her for 5years and not only do I find her attractive and sexy, I will never cheat on her. And while u think its something huge it's not. Many men are doing it. Before I married, I worked in a multi national, I played the field and there's really nothing a woman can throw at me now in d way of physical attraction or seduction.
Cheating isn't only greed and selfishness, it's disregard for God and marital vows and I won't be found with such deadly sins ever.

You're definitely one of the few good men left. Do you have a younger brother that is just like you? Asking for a friend.....

Typical ingrate. spit on his Dumb head .Useless thing

pocohantas:
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Shut up and comment on what a member of your gender is doing. Real men indeed. Guilty conscience no gree you talk true.

Idiot by normal African tradition and religious doctrines, that girl was loose. Why can't we blame her for giving her pussy without marriage.

A woman who has sex before marriage, A WOMAN INDEED

fykes:

U see ur opening statement, it's a huge lie. Infact u should have a degree in lying.
I dated my wife for 3 years and have married her for 5years and not only do I find her attractive and sexy, I will never cheat on her. And while u think its something huge it's not. Many men are doing it. Before I married, I worked in a multi national, I played the field and there's really nothing a woman can throw at me now in d way of physical attraction or seduction.
Cheating isn't only greed and selfishness, it's disregard for God and marital vows and I won't be found with such deadly sins ever.

Godly men are becoming more scarce. Hold on to your fear of God. It will preserve your marriage.