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Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by pansophist(m): 5:06pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Its immaturity. He is not necessarily wicked, because a lot of immature behaviour may be tagged as wickedness, he immature. If the girl is a wife material as he says, then leaving her for someone else is cowardice. Firstly, it takes time to meet another person, and luck behold him if she is wife material like the present one. Also, feelings fade between couples and they become bonded by forces more entrenched, deep and solid, that divorcing becomes alien to them. Marriage is about partnership, not romantic love, though, romantic love is a topping. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by jaxxy(m): 5:07pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
rawpadgin: U don’t want to marry a gal bt u gave her the impression, she was helpful to u, got her pregnant, engaged her and then say ure not attracted to her again He must be wicked being if he leaves that gal. People shud take responsibility for their actions. If the pregnancy was a mistake and she was just a fling I will understand. 1 Like |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by mrdino(m): 5:07pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
rawpadgin: One thing is certain, God will punish that your 'friend'. |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by RTSC: 5:08pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Shugavee:If I have money, why should I come to you? What do you have to offer that other women can't.? 1 Like |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Nobody: 5:08pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
fykes:It's a sad thing to know you're last born. Wish you had a bro younger Anyways, keep being you and ignore anyone that'd want to make fun of you for taking the best decision ever. You won't regret this. At bolded, I'm being the best version of me, hope to meet someone like you someday. |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Lightangel65: 5:08pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
DSHADOWWALKER: Are supposed to be , before guys started fucking any skirt |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Nobody: 5:09pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
luminouz:Too many fake stories on nairaland these days. I wonder why people can't decipher them. |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Nobody: 5:09pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
I pray he finds wat he his looking for...that why I keep say stop dating a boy,...date a man that is matured ooo 1 Like |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Nobody: 5:09pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Ugo4hotish:No wonder. Sighs |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Parisian: 5:11pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Sons of Adam.... Trust them at your peril. Confused descendants of the fallen angels. pretydiva: 1 Like |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Tinocosta17(m): 5:12pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Honestly I will like you to put your self in her shoe! How are you going to feel?? With the pregnancy and also engagement ring I think your friend don't know what he wants. Indecision |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Neddyogu(m): 5:13pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
rawpadgin: Everyone is beautiful! Ur guy (u sure say no be u sef?) just needs a little bit of maturity to overcome his gamophobia. Las Las na people like dis dey troway diamond cos it's in the rough only to pick up pebbles. Bon çhance. |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by RTSC: 5:13pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
The attraction is lost because he has seen the lady finish. She is not that attractive, so her selling point is her wife material character and her vagina which she must have been giving the guy in surplus amount even without being married, especially during this lockdown period. Sex and other wifely duties after marriage doesn't always work, but it would have been best thing in this case. He has milked the cow for free and no longer likes the taste. 3 Likes |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Nobody: 5:14pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
sonofElElyon:Them no go hear. Him don chop finish, now is planning to frustrate the poor lady once they get married. I prefer God's way. 1 Like |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by humilitypays(m): 5:14pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
fykes:You will be shocked on the last day, keep it up |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by UDUJ(m): 5:14pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Parisian: Does this thing you posted make any sense to you? So only MEN are the descendants of the so called fallen angels? Nairalanders never seize to amaze me sha 1 Like |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by lereinter(m): 5:15pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
You and your friend are insane |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by RTSC: 5:16pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Chii59:It doesn't always work. But in this case, sex before marriage was the problem. She has given the guy every thing she has to offer. |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by 12inchess: 5:17pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Love is a verb and not a noun. Tell your friend that his head is not correct |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Ishilove: 5:17pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
rawpadgin:Let him continue. It will end in premium tears for him. |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by humilitypays(m): 5:17pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Ozmar:Don't let fake prophets to impregnated you, they have filled the world now with their sweet words, especially on the Internet, they can attest to have dined with the Lord and even brag to be the light you seek, but only God sees the deepest of the secrets of men. Don't let people's words move you to make hasty decisions, many are talkers but never doers, be wise so they won't finish your biscuit with lies of righteousness, the Lord hate prideful people who call themselves righteous, I know I am a big sinner and lord will have mercy on me |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by spiceadole: 5:17pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
The moment a man starts having sex with a woman,the attraction reduces. Worsens when she is pregnant. 1 Like |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by echinonso260(m): 5:18pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
rawpadgin:for me he should just light back the fire of love what makes him attracted to her in the first place though am having such issue because I really want a wife but i find it hard to love someone |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Samcent: 5:20pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
fykes:Nice one guy! May the Lord help you keep to your vows because temptations abound everywhere! |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by RTSC: 5:20pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Ladies, there are some men that must not see the color of your pant until after marriage. If you make the mistake of allowing them bed you before marriage , they will leave you. It is how they are. 1 Like |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Ishilove: 5:22pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
UDUJ:He never loved her. You just don't fall out of love for fickle reasons. 1 Like |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Ishilove: 5:23pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
UDUJ:*cease |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Ishilove: 5:24pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
pocohantas:Lol. Don't mind the nauseating double standards. |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by Nobody: 5:25pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
spiceadole:Ahhhhhhhhh, this is very contrary to what we hear from our 9ja brothers oooo. . They are always like: "If you love me, you will give me your body, soul and spirit." "come, let's cement our love" "If we do it, we will become stronger" "Sex makes us one" Some will even say, "I want to feel you inside me, I need your all". Having sex with you is tying my being to you". What do we believe now, I tire oooo. |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by CashVessel(m): 5:27pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Now we need to get one thing straight here; attraction and love are not the same. If he still loves her but doesn't find her attractive in recent times, he should still go ahead to marry her, more so when he says she's got great character. The beauty of a woman is in her character not the attractiveness that fades away with time. Once he makes up his mind to make her his wife forsaking every other ladies out there, the coming together of their minds will reveal the true everlasting attractions. 1 Like |
Re: He Is No Longer Attracted To His Wife To Be by simplelad(m): 5:28pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
I totally agree with you. Am a man, but in a situation like this, that act is inhuman after enjoying and drilling, it is now he knows she is not attractive again. Some men are just evil. The word better and for worst on wedding day is just mere say, when the worst comes, any of the partner will run away. My sister was a victim. Some men no go enter heaven. I just said the same thing. Scrolled up and read your comment. My heart just broke reading this story. How evil humans can be. Honestly for me a marriage will be transaction. I just feel I’m at a point I don’t believe in a thing called love. Only God can love. [/quote] |
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