dalass:


A cheater will cheat even if he marries Miss world... Your friend is a guy man and a cheat.... Nothing you say can change him...

He's Olojukokoro... A girl is pregnant for him, he now say he's not sexually attractive to her again, before nko

Ugo4hotish:


Idiot by normal African tradition and religious doctrines, that girl was loose. Why can't we blame her for giving her pussy without marriage.

A woman who has sex before marriage, A WOMAN INDEED

Ishilove:

*cease

rawpadgin:
Okay, was having a drink with a friend of mine last night & he told me he no longer find his fiancée attractive. They got engaged a year ago & the babe is already pregnant for him. He is however still planning to wife her because the girl is a wife material & he will grow further financially with her by his side but believes he might be cheating on her after marriage.

According to him, the said girl has done a lot for him mostly during the pandemic period but believes he shouldn't be getting married to a girl simply because she has assisted him on many occasions. All my effort to convince him that the feelings will come after marriage proved abortive.

UDUJ:
This goes to both genders - never marry out of sympathy

I feel sorry for the lady already because even if they eventually get married she will be unhappy because she wouldn't feel loved.

It's better your friend comes clean and end it. Let the girl go, I strongly believe she will see someone else that will love and cherish her genuinely. Own up and take full responsibility for the child when he or she comes. The dude doesn't look like someone ready for marriage. His eyes are still outside. The thing is immature guys will always see a prettier lady outside, it takes maturity to make up your mind to stick with one lady. And you can't get all your needed qualities in one woman, the same goes for men too. We all have our own flaws.

Speaking from a guy's perspective I can see the guy doesn't love her anymore. Let's not deceive ourselves.

Sadly the lady is already pregnant for him. What an entanglement

pretydiva:
When he dived in raw, he was attracted abi. All of a sudden the attraction has disappeared into thin air. She's a wife material, but he still feels he will cheat on her when they eventually get married

Now I ask, what do most guys really want, cos I can't seem to fathom it

rawpadgin:
u are a very wise man

He has always dated classy & beautiful chicks but discovered that they are almost unmarriageable so he decided to look beyond physical appearance. Now he's got the not beautiful but marriageable type, he now finding her unattractive

pocohantas:
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Shut up and comment on what a member of your gender is doing. Real men indeed. Guilty conscience no gree you talk true.

UDUJ:


Thanks for the correction. Haa I don fall my hand today

And I am the one always correcting other people's written English here

HeavenlyCherub:


You friend is a pure example of a terrible man. I pray God can forgive him. So if he found her unattractive why go that far? He is now thinking all these things after she is already pregnant. It wasn’t love to begin with. This is why I will never believe in love. I promise you so many of satans children roam the earth looking for who to devour. Your friend should have left that girl to find someone who really loves her. Better to break it off now than marry her, if he is already having doubts

Kazim88:


Member of which gender... Lol...
Sista, everybody for himself.
I know say na you, Chief Feminist, Nairaland Wing... go reply me with aggression and broken bottle. Lucky you, I always enjoy your thread on wildlife, I for use that bottle break your head.

rawpadgin:
u are a very wise man

He has always dated classy & beautiful chicks but discovered that they are almost unmarriageable so he decided to look beyond physical appearance. Now he's got the not beautiful but marriageable type, he now finding her unattractive

LagBae:


They want a wife material with a nice ass, nice firm boobs, pretty face and good height, but a cheat will still cheat when the boobs fall, the face is no longer as pretty and the ass begins to have stretch marks. And even if she does well to preserve her assets, a chronic cheat will still cheat simply because he feels like sampling a different ass. Maybe even a flatter one.

It all has to do with the type of man. Pray for a good man.

RTSC:

It doesn't always work.

But in this case, sex before marriage was the problem.

She has given the guy every thing she has to offer.

rawpadgin:
u think u are wise but u not. Look my profile, I ain't no blogger, I have been here for many years, I barely create thread. Mutherfucker, I am not a kid

LagBae:


They want a wife material with a nice ass, nice firm boobs, pretty face and good height, but a cheat will still cheat when the boobs fall, the face is no longer as pretty and the ass begins to have stretch marks. And even if she does well to preserve her assets, a chronic cheat will still cheat simply because he feels like sampling a different ass. Maybe even a flatter one.

It all has to do with the type of man. Pray for a good man.

Ishilove:

They say it is the plain women that understand the meaning of love; the beautiful ones are too busy being fascinating.

lefulefu:
she can still preserve the ass by doing squarts
for the boobs she can go for surgery if the guy is all about boobs
for streatch marks she can exercise to maintain her weight
no be sin if the man encourage her to be fit
there are enlightened men who encourage their wife to look good
if u dont want a man who would stress u then dont marry a bush man

lefulefu:
FALSE.
there are plain women who are full of themselves and they cheat on their husbands regularly
guys always bash attractive ladies cos of inferiority complex
its the same way u see some naija guys raising an eyebrow and accusing their wife of trying to cheat if she tries to get in shape by going to the gym
such men prefer the wife to be fat and shapeless so she wont be attractive and in his small mind other men wont look at her
thats why the west is so different
they marry for love and wen the see their partner is out of shape they try to get that partner in shape and make him or her lose weight so he or she will look more attractive.For naija that is not so

Palema007:
Lol I can't blame him, he followed the "look beyond the physical appearance" talk people give these days. The truth is, no matter how great that beyond may be , you will always meet the physical first. Before your partner shows the "beyond" it is physical you wake up to first. Your friend was fooled. Looking beyond can only be temporary never permanent especially for guys.


Well, tell your friend he can't eat his cake and have it, at least not when she's already pregnant, so he has to live with that. Tell him to keep looking beyond.it is well with him.

N2B2:
God will punish that your friend.

This is the reason why many ladies have trust issues. His interest in his girl did not wane when he was drilling her tunnel; it waned the instant she got pregnant, making him realize that there's no going back.

And if the guy already has the mind to cheat on her after marriage, you can bet that he'll already be mistreating the girl. Her only crime is trusting him and helping him with everything she could.

God will punish that your friend.
Amen

Shugavee:
ehnnnn , that’s why I will never help any man ,, come to me when u hv enough money. Cause u lots ain’t worth it

Kazim88:


Which asset is that.... How Nigeria girls think that b00bs, As$ are assets shock even a blind man. .

Unless of course the said lady have plans to do prostitution, or strip dancing...

Any man that frolics you because of your body is a male prostitute, looking for a counterpart.

rawpadgin:
Okay, was having a drink with a friend of mine last night & he told me he no longer find his fiancée attractive. They got engaged a year ago & the babe is already pregnant for him. He is however still planning to wife her because the girl is a wife material & he will grow further financially with her by his side but believes he might be cheating on her after marriage.

According to him, the said girl has done a lot for him mostly during the pandemic period but believes he shouldn't be getting married to a girl simply because she has assisted him on many occasions. All my effort to convince him that the feelings will come after marriage proved abortive.