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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 9:53am On Aug 11, 2020 |
manontree: |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 9:54am On Aug 11, 2020 |
MaziIgwe007:There is no need to reply him..am here for sensible advice |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 9:54am On Aug 11, 2020 |
merieam16:I tell you. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by REDBUNNY(f): 9:54am On Aug 11, 2020 |
oshaosha2014:i speak for myself. If you want to, you can remain in your father's house until you're 70. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 9:55am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Starhearts:Just as you're a bigger fo.ol. Idiot |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 9:58am On Aug 11, 2020 |
mrksquare:Privacy. Women love privacy. The last thing I want is for my MIL to be entering my house at odd hours, even when I'm making love to my husband. Or going to my kitchen to open my pots or complaining about the taste of my food. Some of these old women can be funny. Get a house not too far from your parents but not the same compound. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by oshaosha2014(m): 9:59am On Aug 11, 2020 |
It is nothing to be ashamed of. Thank you very much. REDBUNNY: |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ImaIma1(f): 10:00am On Aug 11, 2020 |
zed7: Loving your family doesn't mean going to live with him and his family. Marriage has it's own problems not to now add possibly walking on egg shells and facing criticism constantly. It is a bad foundation for the marriage to start by going to love with his mum. She even said the mum can come visit and stay over. But a man and wife should have their own place. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:03am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Coolgent:How long did you and your wife stay together before her saying that? Did you move straight from wedding reception to live with your mother? |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 10:03am On Aug 11, 2020 |
deathmen12:you dey mind him.... main reason why i ask him if me and him get issue before |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ImaIma1(f): 10:04am On Aug 11, 2020 |
sexy74: A lady should not start what she cannot finish just because she wants to marry. Marriage cannot break a bond between a mother and child. What of the lady? Doesn't she have a mother that she's leaving? Does it break the bond? If he is worried about bond breaking and forever tying himself to his mum, he's not ready for marriage. A marriage that starts with living with family members especially living in the family member's house is already shaky. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:04am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Truvel:Do you know if the lady is willing and able to support him financially to get their own space? If some ladies can secretly pay part of their bride price, what is getting a house they can't contribute to? |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ImaIma1(f): 10:06am On Aug 11, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: The marriage is already dead on arrival. She made the right choice. He won't be able to accept whatever wrong his mum does to the wife and this will be a major problem. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:08am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Edusouls:I'm sure the first woman in your life, you mom must have been a class act of highly stupid and extremely foo.lish for you to come to such a conclusion. It runs in your family. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:10am On Aug 11, 2020 |
PapaNnamdi:Like your mother right? That's how she manipulated your simp of a father all his life. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:11am On Aug 11, 2020 |
PapaNnamdi:Coming from an alpha simp. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 10:14am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Ferrous:yeap |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ImaIma1(f): 10:15am On Aug 11, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: You know your sister made the right choice. The man is not ready to grow up. He is still controlled by his mum. That kind of man is not husband material. Your sister has seen the future and decided to save herself from mother and son entanglement. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:15am On Aug 11, 2020 |
okine4real:You see? It never ends well. Some of these nl boys talking sh.it don't have a kobo respect for their mothers offline yet they act as if she's the best thing after slice bread on nairaland. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:17am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Ferrous:So? What difference does it make? |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ogbuefi677(m): 10:18am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Zzor:There will always be frictions in every human relationships d extent is d difference or is the husband she's wanting to fence not d same husband you all complain about everyday? Apparently, d prospective wife is also jobless and d sit at home type cos if she's some1 who has a distraction of a job and the income that comes with it she will not have such a negative mindset for her husband's mother. At worst,if na food be the problem, you/the helps cook your preferred and cook MIL's preference. These frictions only get worse with poor finances or extremely toxic ppl who its obvious the prospective bride is one. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:19am On Aug 11, 2020 |
ogbuefi677:Go and marry your motherrrrrr |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ekerintee: 10:21am On Aug 11, 2020 |
sexy74: |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by vickydevoka(m): 10:21am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Aimerosa25:U are right though, buh u see in dis lyf u can have Everything de way u want it. If I were de lady n I really lyk de guy I will go in with him in his fathers house provided de gy has a good job |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:22am On Aug 11, 2020 |
And how many of you guys in support will allow their daughters to live in this kind of arrangement from the word go? You must very destitute to allow for such to happen. I pride myself as an alpha male you must be a very stupid male to expect someone else's daughter to just put with your family. You might want to try living with your wive's family though its even better since women run the home. I saw a fool type that the woman cooks for everyone including their siblings to eat and I am like WTF?? I have a wife who is in management position in the office and i rarely bother with food as my own schedule is crazy. I must be rich enough to have a big house with a BQ and househelps and cooks to attempt to have my extended family live with me. Those your sisters and mother would not have tolerated such arrangements in their own homes and you want to scatter yours from the word go? Marriage is a death sentence with the class of males and the comments I read here. Poor broke idiots forming doing women a favor by marrying them. As long as you need a woman to build with you, you are not fucking doing them any favor. its the other way round. Only rich powerful men can afford say they are doing women a favor and that also depends on the "class" of woman. The rest of u make una park well abeg. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ogbuefi677(m): 10:23am On Aug 11, 2020 |
MaziIgwe007:Just check most families,the wife's family members can come to live with the family,there will be no problem but if the husband's family members come,the wife will complain forever. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:23am On Aug 11, 2020 |
vickydevoka:Yes. And a good job will dissolve all the differences and the misunderstandings, right? |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by TheCork(m): 10:24am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Chii59: For 300 naira (cash), will u be my girlfriends for 3 month? I will all so buy u shoe, shirt, nice trousers & bag plus lip sticks. Deal? |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:24am On Aug 11, 2020 |
ogbuefi677:Were you blind that you didn't read where the lady offered for her husband's mom to come visit when they get their own place? Were you? |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Kaypols(f): 10:25am On Aug 11, 2020 |
you guys are making it look like she can get another man
na soldier go soldier come barrack no go empty |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Kaypols(f): 10:29am On Aug 11, 2020 |
the funniest part of all this comment is that na all this poor men dey talk say the man is doing her a favour by wanting to marry her tanikas and Ego are like 5 and 6 let the man marry his mother nah � 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ogbuefi677(m): 10:30am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Chii59:My sister. I don't wanna go this back and forth with any Nigerian female on this type of topic. Good thing is most Nigerian males already woke up and are a step ahead of your type of empty handed,scheming females. |
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