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Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by Nobody: 10:20pm On Aug 14, 2020
dont let a woman try to block your career path.good thing u let her go and didnt run around to beg her or change ur career path
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by Burgerlomo: 10:25pm On Aug 14, 2020
Congratulations cool
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by victorian(f): 10:25pm On Aug 14, 2020
skimena:
Due to this pandemic, the company where I work decided to lay off some staff. Unfortunately I was 1 of the people sacked. But I have N1 million as savings.

Now I'm thinking of starting a small scale business and also buy a car that I can use to pick passengers that are returning from work every evening from 4pm to 8pm everyday. But my girlfriend is against the idea. she said it's too downgrading for a graduate like me that if I go ahead with the plan she's going to quit the relationship. She said she wants her man to do a white collar job n not to hustle like a taut.

As for me, I'm tired of working with people. I want to be a Boss of my own. This situation will help me find my true love. A woman that will love me for who I am, what I have, what I do and not what she wants me to do.




Don't mind her
Cut her loose !

She doesn't know what life is all about .

Just do the needful and make your money .

U no kill person and u are not a thief .

My dear just give thanks giving , u are now free to live your life without answering to any boss.
There Is nothing as free and fulfiling as earning your pay without your superiors or colleagues breathing down your neck and with little take home allowances .

It shall be well with your hustle. Enjoy your freedom!

Cheers !

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Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by ogwuche4u(m): 10:28pm On Aug 14, 2020
Just listen to your self. Talking out of context. Na una type dey fornicate pass, dey mess people children up. Nonsense...
Taiwojon:

that is great!!!!!!


say no to fornication
say no to girl friend, boy friend.

make Jesus your Lord and humble yourself and God will life you up.
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by od501: 10:30pm On Aug 14, 2020
skimena:
Due to this pandemic, the company where I work decided to lay off some staff. Unfortunately I was 1 of the people sacked. But I have N1 million as savings.

Now I'm thinking of starting a small scale business and also buy a car that I can use to pick passengers that are returning from work every evening from 4pm to 8pm everyday. But my girlfriend is against the idea. she said it's too downgrading for a graduate like me that if I go ahead with the plan she's going to quit the relationship. She said she wants her man to do a white collar job n not to hustle like a taut.

As for me, I'm tired of working with people. I want to be a Boss of my own. This situation will help me find my true love. A woman that will love me for who I am, what I have, what I do and not what she wants me to do.

My brother no vex oo...what does she do for a living?
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by skimena: 10:31pm On Aug 14, 2020
mentored:


Too early to jump to Mairaland bro.
No go Update your village pipu about your plans
u have a very good point
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by Taiwojon(m): 10:33pm On Aug 14, 2020
ogwuche4u:
Just listen to your self. Talking out of context. Na una type dey fornicate pass, dey mess people children up. Nonsense...
.

the message is.
stay clear fornication.


whatsoever sin a man sin, sin not against his own body but he that committed fornication sin against his own body.


he stay off boyfriend and girlfriend and it is paying for him.


wise up
life is beyond boyfriend and girlfriend

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Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by od501: 10:33pm On Aug 14, 2020
ogwuche4u:
Just listen to your self. Talking out of context. Na una type dey fornicate pass, dey mess people children up. Nonsense...


How many choir members and the so called prayer warriors are virgins? Oh...I forgot, old things has passed away! I am not justifying formication ooo...but na church people slay pass!
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by skimena: 10:35pm On Aug 14, 2020
shugasofttouch:
I love this spirit. Won't mind being your friend.
babe drop ur contact now
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by ogwuche4u(m): 10:36pm On Aug 14, 2020
Are you married? If yes, how did you go about it? Na people like una dey push people into arranged marriage.
Taiwojon:
.

the message is.
stay clear fornication.


whatsoever sin a man sin, sin not against his own body but he that committed fornication sin against his own body.


he stay off boyfriend and girlfriend and it is paying for him.


wise up
life is beyond boyfriend and girlfriend
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by onegig(m): 10:38pm On Aug 14, 2020
jay7:


I like your quote, it's either you are a transporter or you are close to someone in the system, I will keep saying it, there is money in transport business but if one ia not careful maintenance will take back the whole money, people will be giving figures as if the OP will be the only driver on the road. If you are not into haulage to make good morning from cab these days, you have to huzzle well.

Not a transporter but if you have ever owned a car and take a cursory look at the lives of those drivers you would understand how that job is an endless pit of money down the drain. 90% of mechanics out there know nothing coupled with fake parts, over aged cars and very terrible road networks. The card is stacked against you as a driver in such circumstances.

Most giving figures are arm chair analysts who have never ventured into a biz in real life. They think once you own a car and put into biz . You are set for a killing. Lol. They would learn the hard way.

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Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by joinnow: 10:40pm On Aug 14, 2020
skywalker240:
Op never listen to the words of a vagina person, it would always lead you astray.

checkout Samson in the bible he was led astray by vagina being.

even the downfall of a wise man like Solomon was because of the vagina people he kept as companion.

they only reason with 2 things

1 Emotions

2 Vagina

i stoped falling for the manipulations of vagina beings a long time ago.

even my girlfreind angry
is like you are missing something
Some Angels too
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by Meedon: 10:43pm On Aug 14, 2020
ogwuche4u:
Just listen to your self. Talking out of context. Na una type dey fornicate pass, dey mess people children up. Nonsense...

Truth is bitter


E deh pain you but na the truth

Repent Ogwuche

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Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by ogwuche4u(m): 10:44pm On Aug 14, 2020
Are you a virgin? grin

Meedon:


Truth is bitter


E deh pain you but na the truth

Repent Ogwuche
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by matthewbrian150: 10:45pm On Aug 14, 2020
You need to set your priorities and expectations before dating any lady....
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by Meedon: 10:45pm On Aug 14, 2020
My brother.


I celebrate you keep doing the work of our Lord Jesus Christ.


God bless you sir.







Taiwojon:
.

the message is.
stay clear fornication.


whatsoever sin a man sin, sin not against his own body but he that committed fornication sin against his own body.


he stay off boyfriend and girlfriend and it is paying for him.


wise up
life is beyond boyfriend and girlfriend

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Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by Meedon: 10:47pm On Aug 14, 2020
ogwuche4u:

Are you married? If yes, how did you go about it? Na people like una dey push people into arranged marriage.

Forget arranged marriage.

What is bad is bad.



Say no to fornication

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Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by Meedon: 10:49pm On Aug 14, 2020
ogwuche4u:

Are you a virgin? grin


Give your life to Jesus bro.

He loves you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by alizma: 10:50pm On Aug 14, 2020
skimena:
Due to this pandemic, the company where I work decided to lay off some staff. Unfortunately I was 1 of the people sacked. But I have N1 million as savings.

Now I'm thinking of starting a small scale business and also buy a car that I can use to pick passengers that are returning from work every evening from 4pm to 8pm everyday. But my girlfriend is against the idea. she said it's too downgrading for a graduate like me that if I go ahead with the plan she's going to quit the relationship. She said she wants her man to do a white collar job n not to hustle like a taut.

As for me, I'm tired of working with people. I want to be a Boss of my own. This situation will help me find my true love. A woman that will love me for who I am, what I have, what I do and not what she wants me to do.
Abeg leave her to her choice. Go for what you believe will work for you. I once had a girl with that mentality, I had to let her go because we had different understanding of life. In my own case she had the money but was willing to hand it over to me for private car but I felt it was too early to start cruising when non of us had good job to rely on, at the end we had to go our separate ways and today I am happy I took that step and I believe she is happy with her decision too.

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Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by ogwuche4u(m): 10:52pm On Aug 14, 2020
I love him more than you do bro. Stopped being too sanctimonious. And who even gave you the right to judge others? You don't even understand the Word of God.

Meedon:


Give your life to Jesus bro.

He loves you.
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by alizma: 10:55pm On Aug 14, 2020
Tina001:
So where is the good? Have you started? Are you making money now? Have you seen a better girl??...

Don't get me wrong o, I am not against your decision, Glad you want to hustle legit. But I am just trying to look for the "good" in your topic grin. Maybe you should update us tongue.

As for your girl, she is not serious, if she can dump you because you want to be a driver then please let her go. She thinks it's easy to see a white collar job? This is Nigeria, go to school, graduate and hustle like a dropout. What if you secure the white collar job tommorow and get sacked again, will she feed you till you get another? Will you keep depending on white collar jobs? I am glad you didn't allow her pussy cloud your sense cheesy. You are not a SIMP grin
Peace of my and not having to contend with someone over your person idea before putting it to use is good.
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:56pm On Aug 14, 2020
you lucky to be dumped by ur girl.

many guys are looking for girls who go use and dump dem.


u be lucky man.


nice one.
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by Meedon: 10:57pm On Aug 14, 2020
ogwuche4u:
I love him more than you do bro. Stopped being too sanctimonious. And who even gave you the right to judge others? You don't even understand the Word of God.


I'm not judging.

I'm trying to save you from destruction (fornication, adultery, immoral sex).


Some of you understand the words of God and still do the opposite. In the bible was it written that people should indulge in fornication?
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by ogwuche4u(m): 11:04pm On Aug 14, 2020
I pity you. You are a 2faced human being. Get sense for once.
Meedon:


I'm not judging.

I'm trying to save you from destruction (fornication, adultery, immoral sex).


Some of you understand the words of God and still do the opposite. In the bible was it written that people should indulge in fornication?


Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by emmnprince(m): 11:04pm On Aug 14, 2020
Issokay!

Do what your heart desire! If you SUCCEED at first shot! Congratulation! If you FAIL at first shot! Don't remain one! Give it another shot, keep doing it until you become successful and fulfilled!
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by onegig(m): 11:10pm On Aug 14, 2020
texazzpete:
You want to be a cab driver to avoid working for others.

Your Girlfriend does not see a future being married to a cab driver. Where's the growth plan?

The same way you have a right to make your own choices, so too does your Girlfriend. Why are you demonizing her here?

You've already surmised that it's 'working for your Good' when you neva even start work.

Exactly. What is the exit plan?

Be your own boss doing what? Driving the Car?

What is the Plan B? What happens if the small biz he wants to invest in doesn't yield anything. 91% of startups fail in their first year. Takes about 3 years for more than 60% to break even. How long would 1M naira sustain the biz in such scenario? Same 1 Million naira he is banking on buying a car from which means at least 70% is going to be for purchase of a car and 30% for the side business.

What is in for her? Should she wait for a man who cowers at the face of challenges and is comfortable settling for less?

Yes it is a trying time but let's flip the die. You have a girlfriend who is a lawyer. She loses her job and has some savings, comes home to tell you she is now into some small biz and selling Paraga and Jedi with a basin and wooden table at the motor park in the evenings.

Won't the OP question her and also ask why he would be with such a person?

Abeg OP, drop the number of the Girl. I have lots of friends who would appreciate a lady like that can see the future and galvanize them to do more.

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Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by na2016: 11:11pm On Aug 14, 2020
OP: good that you are starting something and leaving the girl.
But I want to ask you, what sort of car can you get for transport business with 1M? You may need to be careful else if you buy anyhow car, you may spend that balance repairing the car.
As for your girlfriend, she maynot be very bad afterall. You may need a job while your hustle on the side. 1M is not a big money. Becareful, strategize and plan ahead.
Best of luck bro.

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Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by Alexaonfleek: 11:13pm On Aug 14, 2020
All these nollywood stories sef
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by Meedon: 11:13pm On Aug 14, 2020
ogwuche4u:

I pity you. You are a 2faced human being. Get sense for once.

Repent...
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by Alexaonfleek: 11:14pm On Aug 14, 2020
undecided
All these reason with me guys have come here to wail again.
Re: My Girlfriend Dumped Me. Now It's Working For My Good by Alexaonfleek: 11:17pm On Aug 14, 2020
AngryIgboDon:
Mr Lienus Mba!! angry angry

On August 2, you created a topic and said;



So what do we believe now? undecided undecided undecided
Ah
I talk am! grin
Na nollywood story be this.
If you want to hear the ending you can mention me lemme complete the story for you.

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