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Oluromantic:
Lemme be frank with you bro as man to man. The bolded is your jackpot for life. Never let go of it. To say the truth, looking at her pics alone, she looks really peaceful. I'm a PhD aspirant and a xtain. My fiancee is just a OND holder and a Muslim. Why? Bcus of all the very beautiful girls i have some of which have masters, none is as peaceful as her. Honestly I feel peace of mind like a river around her unlike the other ones and I plan to sponsor her bsc thru direct entry. We've been together for 3 yrs and i didn't propose cus I was looking for someone better. Instead I saw better wahala and future troubles waiting to enter as wives before they explode. So I strongly advice you to choose peace over beauty and appearance.

Ignore those girl-posters above me. All they know as women is Love love love. They talk of love like... If you love her, you will just choose her straight away without considering the future or all those things you're listed above. Many things comes to the mind of a man when finding love and honestly you mentioned some of them. I've been in ur exact shoes too. I'm the only child of my mom and me n my half-siblings are not close. I need a girl who will take my mom as hers and physically take care of her at old age even if I provide the money. I love my mom so much. Not all girls understand that, especially the so called beautiful ones. So choose right bro.

PROPHETmichael:
I'm just passing......

pocohantas:
Awww...You look so happy and at peace with with her. No she is not OBESE, that lady I see there isn’t obese. Cutting down the layers around the stomach region is strongly advised though. Asides that, a lot of us look like that and we don’t consider ourselves obese.

Relationships are complicated enough, adding it extra complications is an overkill. Everyone would make compromises in the long run, if yours is marrying an albino- I like to think you are very lucky. Some men (will) have it worse.


Read up with you can about albinism and reach your conclusions yourself.



Humans are always discriminating. Tribe, religion, sub-religion, educational qualifications, height, complexion...man! Just do who gives you peace.

Kemimarch16:
If u really love her then go ahead

Keketu:
hi

Oluromantic:
Lemme be frank with you bro as man to man. The bolded is your jackpot for life. Never let go of it. To say the truth, looking at her pics alone, she looks really peaceful. I'm a PhD aspirant and a xtain. My fiancee is just a OND holder and a Muslim. Why? Bcus of all the very beautiful girls i have some of which have masters, none is as peaceful as her. Honestly I feel peace of mind like a river around her unlike the other ones and I plan to sponsor her bsc thru direct entry. We've been together for 3 yrs and i didn't propose cus I was looking for someone better. Instead I saw better wahala and future troubles waiting to enter as wives before they explode. So I strongly advice you to choose peace over beauty and appearance.

Ignore those girl-posters above me. All they know as women is Love love love. They talk of love like... If you love her, you will just choose her straight away without considering the future or all those things you're listed above. Many things comes to the mind of a man when finding love and honestly you mentioned some of them. I've been in ur exact shoes too. I'm the only child of my mom and me n my half-siblings are not close. I need a girl who will take my mom as hers and physically take care of her at old age even if I provide the money. I love my mom so much. Not all girls understand that, especially the so called beautiful ones. So choose right bro.

maduxs:
Admin please bring this post to light. I have an albino girlfriend, we have been dating for a while now but the fact remains that the stigmatization is too much. People discriminate against her so much.

Every time I'm walking with her people looks at us as if we came from another planets. All my close relations and friends I told about her discouraged me from getting married to her. Everybody is against me, they told me how can I introduce albinism to my lineage.

I understand that she has a very poor visual acuity, she is prone to skin cancer, she will depend on me to get some certain task done especially under sun.

She is a very good girl, what I'm looking at is what is inside her I mean her personality even though she is obese, she gives me peace of mind.

Finally she is also a petrochemical engineer, and very brilliant person though her albinism has been disadvantageous to her from getting a better job. I just proposed to her against all odds even though I'm all alone.

Should I go on to marry her? Please I need advice from people with mature minds.

supercase1:
I prove it to you that a Muslim woman can't marry a Christian man that's the fact even in the UAE and else it is a punishable offense

dario078:

You think albinism is hereditary? Mumu!

AreaFada2:
@ Maduxs

I didn't see the pic before you took it down.

But if it's the regular albinism, then it probably oculo-cutaneous albinism (OCA) affecting skin, hair and eyes.

As against Ocular albinism (OA) normally affecting eyes. OA is typically X-linked. Meaning it's passed from the mother BUT affects sons only. Daughters will only be carriers but can pass it on to their kids. Boys only suffer it.

Important to get the genetics and phenotype aspects out of the way first.

That way you can enlighten some people in your family and get a few of them on your side if possible.

OCA has an autosomal recessive pattern. That is both couple have to have the faulty gene. Even at that their kid has a 25% chance of being an albino. 50% chance of being a carrier of the faulty gene (without being an albino physically) and 25% chance of nothing at all concerning albinism.

Unless several people in the family, down the line, decide to marry albinos, the worry of you introducing albinism into the family is exaggerated. Or you children who may be carriers also go on to marry carriers or albinos.

There are many things people carry in them quietly that are far worse. We don't see Parkinson's disease trait in people, most infectious diseases, etc.

If you are happy with her, do not let her skin or hair colour deter you. HML in advance.

Martinez39s:
Long time. How is your ministry?

maasoap:
Did you skip Biology class while in secondary school?

maasoap:
I don't know which one is worse between your ignorance and unwillingness to take correction.

IfeomaRash:
I have learnt that we should always be with those who make us happy. <Forever is too long to be sad.>

maduxs:
I'm a human Anatomist so I understand this perfectly thanks.

Oluromantic:
Lemme be frank with you bro as man to man. The bolded is your jackpot for life. Never let go of it. To say the truth, looking at her pics alone, she looks really peaceful. I'm a PhD aspirant and a xtain. My fiancee is just a OND holder and a Muslim. Why? Bcus of all the very beautiful girls i have some of which have masters, none is as peaceful as her. Honestly I feel peace of mind like a river around her unlike the other ones and I plan to sponsor her bsc thru direct entry. We've been together for 3 yrs and i didn't propose cus I was looking for someone better. Instead I saw better wahala and future troubles waiting to enter as wives before they explode. So I strongly advice you to choose peace over beauty and appearance.

Ignore those girl-posters above me. All they know as women is Love love love. They talk of love like... If you love her, you will just choose her straight away without considering the future or all those things you're listed above. Many things comes to the mind of a man when finding love and honestly you mentioned some of them. I've been in ur exact shoes too. I'm the only child of my mom and me n my half-siblings are not close. I need a girl who will take my mom as hers and physically take care of her at old age even if I provide the money. I love my mom so much. Not all girls understand that, especially the so called beautiful ones. So choose right bro.

supercase1:
Oga show me a place where a Muslim woman get married to a Christian man just show me or give me an example u can Google to give me an answer if u don't have any known example.i just gave you room to cheat.all I want is
SHOW ME WHEN A MUSLIM WOMAN MARRY CHRISTIAN MAN AND THE FAMILY ACCEPTED IT

CAPSLOCKED:
FOR MY PART, MADUXS SHOULD BE WITH WHOEVER HE DESIRES ONCE HIS DECISION TALLY WITH HIS COMMON SENSE, AND NOT DEPEND ON WHAT ANYBODY ELSE HAS TO TELL HIM. AN ADULT HAS TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR SOMETHINGS SOMETIMES.
I'M JUST CONCERNED ABOUT THE PARTICULAR DIRECTION OF EVENTS ON THIS THREAD. NOT THAT IT WASN'T EXPECTED, BUT I FIGURED YOU CAN EASILY PREDICT THESE GUYS AND KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT IN THE COMMENTS FROM JUST READING THE TITLE OF A THREAD. I'VE NEVER BEEN DISAPOINTED FOR ONCE.