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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 7:01am On Aug 22, 2020
MISSCONGENIALITY:
You will have daughters one day. Either as a married man or a baby daddy. Work hard make your girls no see this kind conditions.
Prophet.

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Bunsenbun(m): 7:02am On Aug 22, 2020
cococandy:
I had the phrase at the tip of my tongue
I don't see any wrong in what exbanker did,baba eye don clear say the babe no like am but his money which she was using sex as leverage(taking advantage of his neediness),now op wants to take advantage of her brokeness.let him be.Na She No Dey Honest Upfront.She is also a dirty piece of shit

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Crownstar01: 7:03am On Aug 22, 2020
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Why did your break up with her? Who gave who conditions that let to the break up cheesy
I broke up with her because she cheated on me. Though I was ready to forgive her but she was still lying to me and her friends, then I had no other option than to prove it to her, after that she was speechless. Her friends were also in dismay.

The thing that I hurt me the most is I stopped her painful menstruation.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Harmlesspill(m): 7:03am On Aug 22, 2020
UDUJ:


cheesy grin cheesy Victorian don come again cheesy

Your boyfriend spent 3 million on you in a span of 8 months You guys are not married and he spends 3m in 8 months.

This is the beauty of the Internet. You can build mansions and buy private jets and take vacations to exotic locations online, but always remember to wake up from the dream and face reality. Cheers cool
E fit be true but maybe the guy want use am for money ritual... Na sacrifice the guy dey do before the main sacrifice.
What do I even know sef!!

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 7:04am On Aug 22, 2020
The kind of guys in this nairaland self. Chai.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Komu1048(m): 7:05am On Aug 22, 2020
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?




Bros how do I cope when people on this forum buy their gf cars, rent houses for them in VI, set up business for them. And here u r feeling reluctant to give girl, wey u smash 50k? Cox here everybody seems rich here and spend lavishly.

Btw me I never give pass 20k for girl, so count me out of lavish spending crew.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Harmlesspill(m): 7:05am On Aug 22, 2020
BayMc:



well...if "your boo" has wifed you already, let him spend 1 billion on you, it's no big deal at all!

if he's spent approx. 3 million on you even though you're still just a "girlfriend", sorry..."your boo" is a damn fool!

there are things of worth to spend/invest 3 million on, rather than stupidly splashing it on a woman (his mother excluded).
e no worth am at all!!
.
You forget to put that the mother's boy friend must be proud of her son wherever she is.
Her boyfriend na her fellow woman in man body!!
Lubbish
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Bunsenbun(m): 7:06am On Aug 22, 2020
victorian:









Do I look like who has been milked dry? Ekpa!

You think he's a blood sucking vampire like you?

Nonsense !!

Rich guys don't think like poor hustling guys. They don't hang onto money like their lives depends on it.

We are still in the relationship, you can go hug transformer as u are so pained with it.

cheesy
NA SO
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by LINTUNE(m): 7:06am On Aug 22, 2020
Baztardmods:

I pity your punna by the time your boyfriend is tru with u, bet me u wont have any pvssy again.. After having uncountable sex with him and doing abortion u will run to another man to marry and u are here saying rubbish. In one thread u pmed a guy asking him to marry u while guys have smashed out everything in u.. I pity u and may God help u dis Asaba babe
guy keep shut, why do u guys over hype sex so much, GOD forbid bad thing, are u trying to say any amount of sex is worth the money the guy has spent on her over the 3 month?, 3?m..smh..obviously i don't believe her cos dor a guy to spend such money on a mere girlfriend, he must be earing over 5m per month, cos hebhas family to take care of too, men with such money havr nothing to do with borke leeches, such men will go for their fellow class(rich) women, when considering relationship....but here u are talking about how the said boyfriend will over sex her, what amount of sex is up to 1m per month, in this period that sex is so cheap, u just havr to play ur game right and u will be banging ur life a way...dude stop over hyping sex, its no food, its a very temporary enjoyment, its no achievement..infact when a guy sleeps with a gal, he didn't use the gal alone, they both used each other, abeg chamge ur myopic views in regards to sex...
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 7:08am On Aug 22, 2020
Crownstar01:
I broke up with her because she cheated on me. Though I was ready to forgive her but she was still lying to me and her friends, then I had no other option than to prove it to her, after that she was speechless. Her friends were also in dismay.

The thing that I hurt me the most is I stopped her painful menstruation.
Sorry brother. Is that why you created a new Monica and then that topic about Nigerian girls being cheats? May God bless you with a foreign and faithful girl. Amen
Please how did you stop her menstrual pain?
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Kingsley10000: 7:09am On Aug 22, 2020
victorian:
Exbanker u are not suppose to be labelled a human being!

So because of 50k u want to fucvkk two sisters for as long as u live!
God punish poverty!

What if u were mistakenly blessed like my boo, who has spent and doled out 3 million naira in a space of 8months of dating me, just splash and say Princess take, and make yourself happy?
And he is still deep in money.

What will u do? Exhume and Fucvkk my dead family resting their graves ?

I wonder the kind of wicked animal uv turned into?

Tell the ladies to contact me for the balance 50k!
What rubbish!

To hell with your miserable 50k!
Tufia!

God bless you dear,what men like op should know is that almsgiving is not only something we do
to benefit the poor, but to 'benefit' us.
please I need just 3k to eat,since this pandemic,I haven't been paid(Private sch teacher)
0129038929 Gtbank
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Ejenavi18(f): 7:10am On Aug 22, 2020
BabbanBura:

I love your personal text and signature, nice one!
Thanks
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Juoflife1(f): 7:10am On Aug 22, 2020
Na bottle fit you gan... I'm sure you knew they were poor before you started smashing her because of the Kobo you were giving her. I'm glad the relationship is over.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Be78: 7:12am On Aug 22, 2020
Emmatee1816:
which kind mumu(unrealistic) adage is this 1?smh

hello, sorry the adage is not mine but from what I understand is that: starting a journey that has undefined route, the castle gate can be imagined

like he is sure the babe sis might agree
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Gerrard59(m): 7:13am On Aug 22, 2020
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

I shall never be poor!

That said, thanks for making me laugh this morning. grin

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by sylve11: 7:15am On Aug 22, 2020
emkz:
Bad guy. Did you mean like a 3some with two sisters?

Your story was sweet until you got to the twist which landed on the wrong side. A man I know who bonked two blood sisters has been crippled for 15 years since the act. I am not saying his condition is the result of bonking two sisters, I am just telling you what I observed.


Ewo! shocked cool
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by abimic(m): 7:16am On Aug 22, 2020
so funny a thread, because this can never be true, i doubt anyone can tell his gf that no matter the level of hatred. so people still do relationship without values other than sex and give money in return. una dey try sha!
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Zking: 7:16am On Aug 22, 2020
Ahumanbeing:

Dirty piece of shit, you can't get a girl to genuinely love you so you use money to buy sex, you promised them 50k and because of that promise they've made a payment of 30k and you're talking about sex?
Useless piece of shit, go n bleep your mum cuz obviously you can't control your dick.
I pity the men who'll come and support you or call you a "man", you're just a whôre and you are a simpleton, aside that you're indecisive and dumb.

I’m not supporting him at all, but stop being bitter. Read the post again and tell me what he did wrong. We have a bigger & more important project at hand, instead of wait for its accomplishment before any other thing, you’re bringing up some other stuff, why?
Besides, didn’t you read where he said the girl was reluctant and showing attitude? If he’d not been randomly spending on them, I can assure you the relationship would never have gotten to the extent it did. Please don’t crucify him until the ladies are laid in the tomb.
For those of you criticizing him, I’m not sure how this story will play out if it were even true but I can assure you, if he’d talked to the older sister alone about it, it’s likely to work out.
Nevertheless, what he did or intends doing is bad, I’d give them like 70k and quit the relationship. Not my first time, I only do that if I’ve verbally agreed to do something and find out I was only a means to an end...
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Gerrard59(m): 7:17am On Aug 22, 2020
victorian:
Exbanker u are not suppose to be labelled a human being!

So because of 50k u want to fucvkk two sisters for as long as u live!
God punish poverty!

What if u were mistakenly blessed like my boo, who has spent and doled out 3 million naira in a space of 8months of dating me, just splash and say Princess take, and make yourself happy?
And he is still deep in money
.

What will u do? Exhume and Fucvkk my dead family resting their graves ?

I wonder the kind of wicked animal uv turned into?

Tell the ladies to contact me for the balance 50k!
What rubbish!

To hell with your miserable 50k!
Tufia!

Anyone who believes this tale by this ex-Amelian can believe anything.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Azmanaty: 7:17am On Aug 22, 2020
vickydevoka:

If him Bleep ashawo from January till December, 2 times every month change go remain for de 50k self

1000naira per asahawo
2ashawos x 12 months = 24
1000naira × 24 = 24,000naira

He will have change of 26,000

He can still get the money down from 1k if he sticks to familiar ashawos. They do give discounts

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by LINTUNE(m): 7:18am On Aug 22, 2020
NaijaOlosho:
So just because if small cash of 50k you dey insult these ladies

You are the biggest fool in 2020

You are not just matured at all, this is a childish act.

Let me tell you, in this life no condition is permanent, because you are aware of their current situation and problem you choose to mock them.

God is not happy with this kind of behavior.

Remember no condition is permanent. You can help someone today and you get bigger help from same people tomorrow

If you have the money just keep to your promise.

Send to them and still move on to end the relationship

Exbanker

god is not happy with this kind of behavior, but he is happy with ur occupation "olosho" right?..
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by sylve11: 7:19am On Aug 22, 2020
Ahumanbeing:

Dirty piece of shit, you can't get a girl to genuinely love you so you use money to buy sex, you promised them 50k and because of that promise they've made a payment of 30k and you're talking about sex?
Useless piece of shit, go n bleep your mum cuz obviously you can't control your dick.
I pity the men who'll come and support you or call you a "man", you're just a whôre and you are a simpleton, aside that you're indecisive and dumb.

See vexation o shocked cool
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by juman(m): 7:20am On Aug 22, 2020
You are satan himself.

I first thought the story might be made up.
But I remembered human beings always use your weak time to exploit you.
Just like nigerian leaders.

You behave like those that took ladies to abroad and force them to prostitution.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Crownstar01: 7:22am On Aug 22, 2020
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Sorry brother. Is that why you created a new Monica and then that topic about Nigerian girls being cheats? May God bless you with a foreign and faithful girl. Amen
Please how did you stop her menstrual pain?
I'm sorry, I cannot share the knowledge publicly.

I don't need a foreign babe either. I just want to be alone for now, though one of her friends want me right now, but I don't think I would fall for her. I have to protect my dignity.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Gerrard59(m): 7:22am On Aug 22, 2020
NkemChukwudi:


Ok dear but please look well as I am sure something is wrong somewhere. He may not be a politician but I am sure he is connected and accessing free money from the people’s treasury somehow.
A man dolling out 3m to you in 8 months is not normal in our country.
Take care!

Don't take that lady's tales serious. She lies recklessly. Google "Amelian Nairaland", no be today. She has built a fancy lifestyle on the Internet. Nairaland's Obanikoro fashion designer feeling funky.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by sylve11: 7:22am On Aug 22, 2020
stormborn28:
OP is pvssy now your biggest reward? One, you started the relationship on a stepping land. Here you are trying to plug yourself into a gorge. FYI you think you are wise with your condition whereas if those conditions are accepted, you will be crossing river Styx. Kindly retrace your steps and cut whatever contact you have with those ladies

Correct man! cool
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by DedeNkem: 7:24am On Aug 22, 2020
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

You met a girl and used money to get her into bed. You showered her with gifts and even promised to solve her and sister's financial problems. And yet you became surprised they saw you as their ATM?

Now you intend to use the promise you made them against them by exploiting both sisters sexually, and you somehow thought it was a good idea?

Do I think the girl's behavior after you refused to give her the 7K was justifiable? No! And niether do I think you're a good guy!

Any relationship one starts wrongly with money has the potential of ending badly, because when the person stops giving, problem ensues!

You created this mess and you had the st*upid guts to come here to validate your sick demand!!

It seems you're a f*ucking exploiter and narcissist psychopath who supposed to be in a Straight jacket in a psycho asylum somewhere in Ajegunle!

I wish the girls would bait you by agreeing and hire Agboros to beat you up severely when you visit. You seriously deserve a thorough beating!

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by juman(m): 7:24am On Aug 22, 2020
Reucy:
Just because of ordinary 75k someone has the effontery to demand such.

We are suffering so much in this senseless one nigeria.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by GoldenStreaks: 7:29am On Aug 22, 2020
grin grin grin grin grin grin

Most hilarious fake story I've had the pleasure of reading in a while grin
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by deavicky(m): 7:31am On Aug 22, 2020
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?
this is the kind situation that made me told God that instead of me to be poor let him take my life. How can someone be so means to another. It is God that has placed you in a place that u can help others. You want them to worship you just because of small help. If they are ur sister would you support such condition.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by jojothaiv(m): 7:33am On Aug 22, 2020
UDUJ:
grin grin grin grin grin Mad people full this forum sha cheesy

ExBanker if this is true and you succeed in smashing both of them I will award you The Man of the Year position grin

I swear your name will be engraved in the hall of fame.

Lwkmd cheesy
Awon Baddest Guy Ever Liveth...
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by LMS1(m): 7:35am On Aug 22, 2020
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