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Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by ohosi4real(m): 5:30am On Aug 31, 2020 |
Nothing is there just a nature of life |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by BabaRamota1980: 5:39am On Aug 31, 2020 |
PUSSYHOE:PUSSYHOE, you left some things out in the detail. The feeling you highlighted here happens only when you come in her. Let me clarify what "in her" means, any "body hole"! She is a fertile ground. In other words an altar. When you ejaculate in her it is synonymous to taking an animal to the altar for a sacrifice. You actually die! Your reawakening is a refresher, a reborn and thats the clarity you get. The altar now takes your deposited dead persona to create a new life to manifest in 7 to 9 months. You cant get a girl pregnant from her mouth or her butthole but the symbolic meaning of death, reawakening and reborn should be clear here. My explanation is the mystery behind it and what she is. A woman is an altar, men are her sacrifices, we worship them and die for them and out of our death they rebirth a new individual. If you cum on a girl anywhere outside the holes in her body you will desire her even more. You dont get that reawakening you described because you have not died in her. Similarly if a girl masturbates you or insert you between her thighs because of her period, your desire for her will surge and you do not feel a disdain or turn off after ejaculation. 2 Likes |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by arewaboy01(m): 5:51am On Aug 31, 2020 |
I love my girl friend and I enjoy sex with her over and over again..no disgust or irritation at alll 2 Likes |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by Parisian: 5:52am On Aug 31, 2020 |
If you actually believe that is actually scientific or an actual medical condition then I'm sorry for you. You have to know the difference between a actual science and pseudoscience. Just cuz it has a fancy name don't mean it's true eg gender dysphoria. Omihanifa: |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by IamPlato(m): 5:53am On Aug 31, 2020 |
This Is The Easiest way To Identify Lust, you Are Not In Love you Only lust after Women. When You Find A Woman You Love You Will Never feel Such Rubbish after Having Sex With Her. A High Percentage Of Guys Out There Are Lusting and Not Loving. 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by Offpoint: 6:03am On Aug 31, 2020 |
Chii59:You want to corrupt the man of God right? Oh yea devil, depart from him |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by Offpoint: 6:05am On Aug 31, 2020 |
Masterclass32:Conscience telling you you've messed up with your wife/husband? Did you know married folks experience this too? Man doesn't like sex, but nature most preserve human existence. Sex is the exhausting and energy consuming activity, men wouldn't even too involve in it even for once in a year. Nature knows this that's why it makes it the way it gives you the highest pleasure, the dopamine is at his highest here... So you can't stop re-procreating. If your body doesn't produce sexual hormones, you can for ages without wanting to involve in it. No man by nature wants to work, but bills will always be the pushing force... Get the picture? |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by Parisian: 6:07am On Aug 31, 2020 |
That's like going to a doctor with an illness and saying, "doctor I have Bleep condition and I need any remedy you can offer except Bleep" which happens to be the only solution to your problem. If you didn't want religions input you could've simply stated so and I'd not bother to reply and since you don't want religious solution then let me give a non religious solution. First you must know that the reason you feel that way is because God designed it to be so, to tell you that sexual immorality is not good and that you body is for your wife and your wife alone. You feel that way because your conscience is still alive and intact. The only way to stop feeling that way is if you have so so so much sex and with random girls too. Yes that's right. If you keep having so much sex your conscience will be gradually eroding until it becomes completely gone. Then, you won't feel it anymore but I must warn you. A dead conscience will leave you worse than before. It will make you a lower human. And be ready to bear the consequences of that because you be literally be depraved. That is because the farther away from God you become, the worse for you. PUSSYHOE: 3 Likes |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by Parisian: 6:11am On Aug 31, 2020 |
Mind you, it doesn't happen to men alone. Women also experience this but are better at concealing it probably due to money and other things they tend to get from the guy. Lightangel65: |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by sylve11: 6:11am On Aug 31, 2020 |
pansophist: |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by Nobody: 6:16am On Aug 31, 2020 |
PUSSYHOE: It depends on the reasons why you feel sad and lost after a hot sweaty sex session that ordinarily out to leave you happy, glowing and relaxed, especially during post cortial moments. 1. You are having sex spiritually, emotionally and psychologically with the wrong person. The lovemaking is ordinarily is an act of body worship is not connecting you and your partners. Rather than feel relaxed, you feel empty, sad, lost and might need a glass of whiskey to kill that empty feeling. My advice is that you stop having sex with that partner. He/she is sapping you. 2. You and your partner did not match each other's expectation. My advice, sit down and talk it. Better if you guys talk about it over a bottle of red or white wine. It will hastily satisfy the need to set hands to fulfil the purpose of things spoken about. That my understanding of your question. I rise. |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by Parisian: 6:17am On Aug 31, 2020 |
Oga it also happens to women and please there is a correlation between this and intimacy. If you feel everything is true because it has a fancy name then I pity you. Fattest lie of the century... A man can have and even sustain an erection for a woman he isn't attracted to. By the way, this isn't science, it is pseudo science and holds no water. You can't tell someone their feelings aren't valid just cuz study proves it otherwise. Parablesonmarble: 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by Parisian: 6:23am On Aug 31, 2020 |
Aswear, they be coining names for purely psychological issues that have nothing to do with science and making anyone diagnosed with them addicted to taking drugs in hopes for a solution when there is literally no medical solution for it. Na gender dysphoria pain me pass. They make a man or woman think they're born into the wrong gender and make them cut off their penis or breast and start giving them drugs knowing fully well that gender can never ever be changed.... Smh... Masterclass32: 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by Honchoslim16(m): 6:30am On Aug 31, 2020 |
Righteousness89:Who's talkin' bout Fornication here. If you want to preach, please go somewhere else. |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by abbeyman1798: 6:46am On Aug 31, 2020 |
If you have good sex with your Wife that you love... you wont feel that way. You will even be happier together. Both of you will even talk about it about sex. But if you have sex outside marriage or someone who isnt your wife, bro.... the guilt is forever except God helps you. 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by NoToPile: 6:47am On Aug 31, 2020 |
Loool, this one happens for those who engage in premarital sex 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by rolams(m): 6:59am On Aug 31, 2020 |
PUSSYHOE: I really understand you. It has happened to me before. I got married 6 years ago. The feeling is sometimes natural. All you just need to do at this point is to use a strong mind, curdle her, or talk to her. How to start: You need to ease yourself first, clean up then, return to bed. You may feel the bed is stained with sperm and feel like trying to avoid the filthy sperm. Just look for a clean place to sit or lay down. You will know if the attitude usually comes from 'seeing her unclothedness', just cover her with cloth. The effect of this is to build your confidence back. Then force yourself to talk to her. Do it every time after sex. You will overcome it. |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by Frankcallys(m): 7:01am On Aug 31, 2020 |
I don't understand what you are talking about. When am truly in love with a woman and she loves me too, having sex feels like our of this planet. And after the first one, na so so to do again and again go dey hungry me. Unless you are just there to have sex which I personally can't. If am not in love, having sex randomly will never ever come to my mind and that's why I take my time finding someone that will never make me feel the way you are talking about. 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by Deborah98(f): 7:09am On Aug 31, 2020 |
Sex outside marriage will lead to such,the thoughts of you offending God,hate, sadness and all that, But one done within the confines of marriage is enjoyed without guilt or remorse,so use your sense to know which one is acceptable, Remember marriage is honorable and the bed undefiled 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by tollyboy5(m): 7:23am On Aug 31, 2020 |
KristaPretty:But when she say she's a virgin and later say I done it just once. Madam after sex I won't love her. I no dey find virgin b4 but you no gas dey deceitful 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by Emaprince: 7:25am On Aug 31, 2020 |
baby124:Anyway. Just go ahead and lie to yourself to gain a false sense of being desirable in all condition. No man still feels any bit of desire towards a woman immediately after ejaculation. Maybe after some mins or hours he could.....but after ejaculation, you are just no more desirable. That's nature for you. Not even acquired trait. Same way a man wakes up in the morning with hard ons. No, he is not a sex freak. He is just being a healthy man. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by deeva2: 7:28am On Aug 31, 2020 |
Slawormir: Well said...Real Niggarr wey sabi 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by kennyz247(m): 7:31am On Aug 31, 2020 |
Righteousness89:wickedness again? how ? |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by xana101: 7:32am On Aug 31, 2020 |
It happens to me too. |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by redsun(m): 7:34am On Aug 31, 2020 |
That is why wanking is just as good as sex. All you need is that particular moment to climax , and urge will be satisfied. As soon as the urge is satisfied, the despise sets in, but after awhile, the craving starts all over. It is all about the mirage that life is all about. The mirage of emptiness that comes with achievements. 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by Nobody: 7:35am On Aug 31, 2020 |
That's how you'll feel if you don't enjoy the sez or you're one minute guy. Do you think people will visit brothels if they feel this way? |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by BananaPeel(m): 7:37am On Aug 31, 2020 |
It's your conscience because you are not married and should not engage in sex. After marriage, such feelings are non-existent 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by Kelvin30286063(m): 7:45am On Aug 31, 2020 |
Slawormir:It doesn't happen to me. I have never had a feeling of disdain and resentment towards my wife after sex. Infact I get to love her more. We cuddle and talk before I sleep off. Most times I sleep off, sometimes I go back to what I was doing before while she either fix food cuz she knows I'll be hungry when I wake up or she sleeps too. No disdain, not even close. I think the reason why most men feel this is because they don't actually love the person they are making love too. They probably mistake love for obsession or infatuation. Don't generalize. We don't all feel that way. 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by Akalia(m): 7:47am On Aug 31, 2020 |
Slawormir:When I was single every time I had premarital sex I felt that way but ever since I got married having sex with my partner does not in anyway hurt me. I guess the reason is your moral compass (conscience) taunts you when you have premarital or extramarital affair because you have committed a grave sin. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by Danniedpastor(m): 7:50am On Aug 31, 2020 |
PUSSYHOE: STOP HAVING SEX WITH A LADIES THAT ARE NOT LEGALLY MARRIED TO YOU. PREMARITAL SEX IS FUNICATION (SIN) God planted in you a judge(conscience) that convicts you when you sin, that's why you feel bad after funicating. Sex with your own wife won't leave you feeling bad or disgusted. speaking from experience.... GOD bless you as you take steps to change.. 2 Likes |
Re: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by BigJoe19: 7:57am On Aug 31, 2020 |
baby124:Trash |
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