Nothing is there just a nature of life

PUSSYHOE:
Every guy feels this exciting, joy and enthusiasm before sex but immediately after, it is the opposite of all the feelings before it.

I ain't concluding, it may not be so for other guys. Even so Can someone explain why some of us few like that? Even with the girls I love wholeheartedly I still feel like that with them. is it a biological, psychological or emotional problem? and what is the remedy?

PUSSYHOE, you left some things out in the detail.

The feeling you highlighted here happens only when you come in her. Let me clarify what "in her" means, any "body hole"!

She is a fertile ground. In other words an altar. When you ejaculate in her it is synonymous to taking an animal to the altar for a sacrifice. You actually die! Your reawakening is a refresher, a reborn and thats the clarity you get. The altar now takes your deposited dead persona to create a new life to manifest in 7 to 9 months.

You cant get a girl pregnant from her mouth or her butthole but the symbolic meaning of death, reawakening and reborn should be clear here. My explanation is the mystery behind it and what she is. A woman is an altar, men are her sacrifices, we worship them and die for them and out of our death they rebirth a new individual.

If you cum on a girl anywhere outside the holes in her body you will desire her even more. You dont get that reawakening you described because you have not died in her. Similarly if a girl masturbates you or insert you between her thighs because of her period, your desire for her will surge and you do not feel a disdain or turn off after ejaculation.

I love my girl friend and I enjoy sex with her over and over again..no disgust or irritation at alll

If you actually believe that is actually scientific or an actual medical condition then I'm sorry for you.

You have to know the difference between a actual science and pseudoscience. Just cuz it has a fancy name don't mean it's true eg gender dysphoria.

Omihanifa:
it is called Post-coital dysphoria, or post-coital tristesse

This Is The Easiest way To Identify Lust, you Are Not In Love you Only lust after Women. When You Find A Woman You Love You Will Never feel Such Rubbish after Having Sex With Her.


A High Percentage Of Guys Out There Are Lusting and Not Loving.

Chii59:
Sweetheart, can I be your side chick?

You want to corrupt the man of God right? Oh yea devil, depart from him

Masterclass32:
Oh, science already coined a name for it; Post coital whatever.

Like someone said, it's simply your conscience telling you that you just messed up.

Conscience telling you you've messed up with your wife/husband?

Did you know married folks experience this too?

Man doesn't like sex, but nature most preserve human existence. Sex is the exhausting and energy consuming activity, men wouldn't even too involve in it even for once in a year.

Nature knows this that's why it makes it the way it gives you the highest pleasure, the dopamine is at his highest here... So you can't stop re-procreating.

If your body doesn't produce sexual hormones, you can for ages without wanting to involve in it.

No man by nature wants to work, but bills will always be the pushing force... Get the picture?

That's like going to a doctor with an illness and saying, "doctor I have Bleep condition and I need any remedy you can offer except Bleep" which happens to be the only solution to your problem.

If you didn't want religions input you could've simply stated so and I'd not bother to reply and since you don't want religious solution then let me give a non religious solution.

First you must know that the reason you feel that way is because God designed it to be so, to tell you that sexual immorality is not good and that you body is for your wife and your wife alone.

You feel that way because your conscience is still alive and intact.

The only way to stop feeling that way is if you have so so so much sex and with random girls too. Yes that's right.

If you keep having so much sex your conscience will be gradually eroding until it becomes completely gone.

Then, you won't feel it anymore but I must warn you. A dead conscience will leave you worse than before. It will make you a lower human. And be ready to bear the consequences of that because you be literally be depraved.

That is because the farther away from God you become, the worse for you.

PUSSYHOE:

If i wanted religious advice I know where to go. please I dont need it

Mind you, it doesn't happen to men alone. Women also experience this but are better at concealing it probably due to money and other things they tend to get from the guy.

Lightangel65:


Its normal when a guy sleeps with a girl he would loose interest and she would seem like shit to h especially if she played hard to get

pansophist:
It's known as "post nut clarity".

The euphoria you get before sexual activity is basically nature forcing you to procreate and after the act is done, you get back to your senses, you can think clearly and not under emotions anymore. And some women knows this hence, they pinned their request before action time, cause you're under the influence of konji

Evolution played you.

PUSSYHOE:
Every guy feels this exciting, joy and enthusiasm before sex but immediately after, it is the opposite of all the feelings before it.

I ain't concluding, it may not be so for other guys. Even so Can someone explain why some of us few like that? Even with the girls I love wholeheartedly I still feel like that with them. is it a biological, psychological or emotional problem? and what is the remedy?

It depends on the reasons why you feel sad and lost after a hot sweaty sex session that ordinarily out to leave you happy, glowing and relaxed, especially during post cortial moments.

1. You are having sex spiritually, emotionally and psychologically with the wrong person. The lovemaking is ordinarily is an act of body worship is not connecting you and your partners. Rather than feel relaxed, you feel empty, sad, lost and might need a glass of whiskey to kill that empty feeling.

My advice is that you stop having sex with that partner. He/she is sapping you.


2. You and your partner did not match each other's expectation. My advice, sit down and talk it. Better if you guys talk about it over a bottle of red or white wine. It will hastily satisfy the need to set hands to fulfil the purpose of things spoken about.

That my understanding of your question.

I rise.

Oga it also happens to women and please there is a correlation between this and intimacy.

If you feel everything is true because it has a fancy name then I pity you.

Fattest lie of the century... A man can have and even sustain an erection for a woman he isn't attracted to.

By the way, this isn't science, it is pseudo science and holds no water.

You can't tell someone their feelings aren't valid just cuz study proves it otherwise.

Parablesonmarble:


Are you a man? If not, kindly google post coital tristesse (PCT). Males experience PCT more than females and there is no correlation between PCT and intimacy.
If a man is not attracted to a sex partner, it is either he won't be able to get it up or sustain an erection, especially when exposed to repeated sex with that same partner. Like a guy rightly inferred up there, nature plays with men's psyche everytime, in many different ways.

Aswear, they be coining names for purely psychological issues that have nothing to do with science and making anyone diagnosed with them addicted to taking drugs in hopes for a solution when there is literally no medical solution for it.

Na gender dysphoria pain me pass.

They make a man or woman think they're
born into the wrong gender and make them cut off their penis or breast and start giving them drugs knowing fully well that gender can never ever be changed....

Smh...

Masterclass32:
Oh, science already coined a name for it; Post coital whatever.

Like someone said, it's simply your conscience telling you that you just messed up.

Righteousness89:
Flee Fornication
Flee Immorality of any kind, Shape and size!
You are Polluting your Body!
That's why u feel messed up after such Wickedness.. !

Who's talkin' bout Fornication here.


If you want to preach, please go somewhere else.

If you have good sex with your Wife that you love... you wont feel that way. You will even be happier together. Both of you will even talk about it about sex. But if you have sex outside marriage or someone who isnt your wife, bro.... the guilt is forever except God helps you.

Loool, this one happens for those who engage in premarital sex

PUSSYHOE:
If I get you right it is just natural to feel that way.

I really understand you. It has happened to me before. I got married 6 years ago. The feeling is sometimes natural. All you just need to do at this point is to use a strong mind, curdle her, or talk to her.

How to start: You need to ease yourself first, clean up then, return to bed. You may feel the bed is stained with sperm and feel like trying to avoid the filthy sperm. Just look for a clean place to sit or lay down. You will know if the attitude usually comes from 'seeing her unclothedness', just cover her with cloth. The effect of this is to build your confidence back. Then force yourself to talk to her.

Do it every time after sex. You will overcome it.

I don't understand what you are talking about. When am truly in love with a woman and she loves me too, having sex feels like our of this planet. And after the first one, na so so to do again and again go dey hungry me.

Unless you are just there to have sex which I personally can't. If am not in love, having sex randomly will never ever come to my mind and that's why I take my time finding someone that will never make me feel the way you are talking about.

Sex outside marriage will lead to such,the thoughts of you offending God,hate, sadness and all that,
But one done within the confines of marriage is enjoyed without guilt or remorse,so use your sense to know which one is acceptable,
Remember marriage is honorable and the bed undefiled

KristaPretty:
If you have a special love, affection and attraction towards someone, the feelings remain same after you are done with the whole sex thing.

With this special kind of feeling, all you want to do is to cuddle and talk or do something special together.
If you feel disdain or disgust towards this person after this, you are clearly not attracted to this person but all you need at that point is to get your urges taken care of (wether you're male or female).

So ia anything wrong with you
I leave to others to answer

But when she say she's a virgin and later say I done it just once. Madam after sex I won't love her.
I no dey find virgin b4 but you no gas dey deceitful

baby124:

You are a gay man. Being repulsed after sex by a girl you are attracted to means you are not with the right gender.

As per your assumptions about me on this topic, if that makes you sleep better at night or deny the truth in my comment. Look, at the end of it all,
Man and woman want the same things and do the same things for the same reasons. Time and age will teach you this truth.

Anyway. Just go ahead and lie to yourself to gain a false sense of being desirable in all condition.

No man still feels any bit of desire towards a woman immediately after ejaculation. Maybe after some mins or hours he could.....but after ejaculation, you are just no more desirable.

That's nature for you. Not even acquired trait. Same way a man wakes up in the morning with hard ons. No, he is not a sex freak. He is just being a healthy man.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
You are not alone son

It happens to every niggarrr

Na post-coital dysphoria

But the degree of that sadness after sex with the woman depends on your closeness, relationship and intension towards her

Well said...Real Niggarr wey sabi

Righteousness89:
Flee Fornication Flee Immorality of any kind, Shape and size! You are Polluting your Body! That's why u feel messed up after such Wickedness.. !

wickedness again? how ?

It happens to me too.

That is why wanking is just as good as sex. All you need is that particular moment to climax , and urge will be satisfied. As soon as the urge is satisfied, the despise sets in, but after awhile, the craving starts all over.

It is all about the mirage that life is all about. The mirage of emptiness that comes with achievements.

That's how you'll feel if you don't enjoy the sez or you're one minute guy.
Do you think people will visit brothels if they feel this way?

It's your conscience because you are not married and should not engage in sex. After marriage, such feelings are non-existent

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
You are not alone son

It happens to every niggarrr

Na post-coital dysphoria

But the degree of that sadness after sex with the woman depends on your closeness, relationship and intension towards her

It doesn't happen to me. I have never had a feeling of disdain and resentment towards my wife after sex. Infact I get to love her more. We cuddle and talk before I sleep off. Most times I sleep off, sometimes I go back to what I was doing before while she either fix food cuz she knows I'll be hungry when I wake up or she sleeps too. No disdain, not even close. I think the reason why most men feel this is because they don't actually love the person they are making love too. They probably mistake love for obsession or infatuation. Don't generalize. We don't all feel that way.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
You are not alone son

It happens to every niggarrr

Na post-coital dysphoria

But the degree of that sadness after sex with the woman depends on your closeness, relationship and intension towards her

When I was single every time I had premarital sex I felt that way but ever since I got married having sex with my partner does not in anyway hurt me. I guess the reason is your moral compass (conscience) taunts you when you have premarital or extramarital affair because you have committed a grave sin.

PUSSYHOE:
Every guy feels this exciting, joy and enthusiasm before sex but immediately after, it is the opposite of all the feelings before it.

I ain't concluding, it may not be so for other guys. Even so Can someone explain why some of us few like that? Even with the girls I love wholeheartedly I still feel like that with them. is it a biological, psychological or emotional problem? and what is the remedy?

STOP HAVING SEX WITH A LADIES THAT ARE NOT LEGALLY MARRIED TO YOU.
PREMARITAL SEX IS FUNICATION (SIN)
God planted in you a judge(conscience) that convicts you when you sin, that's why you feel bad after funicating.
Sex with your own wife won't leave you feeling bad or disgusted.

speaking from experience....

GOD bless you as you take steps to change..

baby124:

[s]You are also in denial with your sexuality? If you behave like this, the love of your life is definitely a man. [/s]

Trash