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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by BREYZ: 5:01pm On Sep 01, 2020
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cant remember when last i asked a girl out. will just be on my own them go carry body come cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 5:52pm On Sep 01, 2020
globalmart:


Old enough to be married..
It's not matter of age..
It's something I have grown used to..
Some habits are difficult to drop
i check ur DP you are old enough true true

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 5:53pm On Sep 01, 2020
BREYZ:
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cant remember when last i asked a girl out. will just be on my own them go carry body come cheesy cheesy cheesy
hmmmm, finest.

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by vheckthor1: 6:12pm On Sep 01, 2020
Bugs and Codes and meetings have taken away all my time also. I hardly meet people, always indoor most times and sending inmail to people here on nairaland is not fruitful, dating website is filled with scammers, gold diggers and runs girls, I value companionship not intercourses but I am not good with sustaining chat when the other party ain't contributing.

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 8:43pm On Sep 01, 2020
globalmart:


Lol...funny though..
Most ladies don't like been approached while walking on the road .
I for one I hate been approached while on the road it pisses me off and again I kinda grew up to the understanding that is only ashewo that will stand and talk to a man you don't know on the road..so since wen I was little till now I don't answer guys who try to talk to me on d road and coupled with dis new 419 strategy so to answer men for road nah a NO NO tin for me..So for someone who don't know me am very rude and feels too big..
Am an introvert too..so I made most of my friends from school,social media,church and gatherings

As for your been lonely....well there are many dating/chatting sites online..or spend ur leisure playing video games..
Introverts makes friends more from social media..Me for one I can chat very well but to start a conversation or speak to someone one live dey difficult for..so I hate video call..though I can teach very well..
I thought as much. I feel it's razz guys that do that but I just moved to the state and loneliness one kill me

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 8:44pm On Sep 01, 2020
Odion2016:



Carry olosho
I am too get inside for that but I will try sha
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 8:44pm On Sep 01, 2020
Bellotelli:
I'll advice you to just be normal about tour convo with ladies. Don't stress yourself in trying to impress any lady with lyrics. With time you will develop confidence.
Thanks
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 8:45pm On Sep 01, 2020
globalmart:


If you start approaching ladies on the road u have more chances of ending up with gold diggers or ladies with bad attitude..

Start going out..even if you don't have who to go out with go out .
Go out to a kind of place you will meet the kind of ladies you want..
Start going to church (youth fellowship)
Join WhatsApp groups..
Take yourself out..
People who stay at home all the time find it difficult to socialize..
And when you start going out let your motive not just be to find girl u go use past time..it should be to make friends..Real friends both male and female..
Make brain
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 8:46pm On Sep 01, 2020
Youonlyliveonce:


Best Line For a Lady you see on the street

You: Hi
Lady: [Frowns] Hi
You: I can Swear I have seen you before
[That will get her attention to look at you well]
Lady: I don't think so
You: Well you look like the Angel I saw in my dream last night
Lady: [Smiles]
You: My name is bla bla by the way, what's yours
Lady: Bla Bla
You: well that name definitely fits an angel, do you mind if I have your number you never can tell I might be your future husband
Lady: i dont give out my number bla bla [or if you are cute she might give you easily at this stage]
You: don't worry I promise not to disturb you just to keep in touch that's all.

If this doesn't work come and shoot me tho your confidence is the Major player, just have in mind she can't slap you or do anything worst case scenario she refuses.

Cheers!

Bad guy. I will build confidence and try this
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 8:48pm On Sep 01, 2020
omale88:
when you get to my age you would understand most times you dont even have to say anything to get a woman.
It depends on where you find yourselves. While doing my masters at a university girls were never a problem they kept coming themselves
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 8:49pm On Sep 01, 2020
Lordfranklin:

OP run from this as far as your legs can carry you!
If you wan prize black goat you no go tell the owner say you don dey find that colour of goat tey tey to buy gringringrin
I have my very own special method which my friends named the "Yardstick method"

I go just waka come meet you and find something near you turn am to gist. Could be how she walks, her hair or high hills. Use her to catch fun bro! Don't ever make the mistake of using your precious sef to crack jokes and make her laugh instead use stuffs about her to make her laugh.
If you continue this way her defences will be down gradually. When the ovation is loudest tell her you'd like to leave and that you're busy. Now this is the most interesting part; look directly into her eyes and tell her you'd call her later and hand her your phone. Trust me, she'll input her number.
No ever tell am that nonsense talk like; "Can I have your number?"
Tell am directly say "I'll call you later" and hand her the phone simultaneously while saying that.


I've done this many times and even showed my friends the same trick yet till this moment it still hasn't failed.
Oh! I almost forgot. There is a special make you need to wear while meeting ladies. It's called "Confidence". I don't know how much it costs now but I'm pretty sure you can afford it easily.
This is very good but na the confidence man gats build

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 8:51pm On Sep 01, 2020
vheckthor1:
Bugs and Codes and meetings have taken away all my time also. I hardly meet people, always indoor most times and sending inmail to people here on nairaland is not fruitful, dating website is filled with scammers, gold diggers and runs girls, I value companionship not intercourses but I am not good with sustaining chat when the other party ain't contributing.
We are having same problem
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by GeneralKoko(m): 9:35pm On Sep 01, 2020
Kalatium:
Bro. I will advice you to read HARDDON's dating drills on this platform.

Op don't oh
That drill will only help you to get girls laid but won't help you to get social and stuff.

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by GeneralKoko(m): 9:38pm On Sep 01, 2020
I think you're an introvert and may be battling with lie self esteem.
The first thing to do is to take sex off your mind when approaching people.

Try making friends with her rather than the wooing. Introduce yourself and stuff like that.
Don't go saying you look beautiful or I like your hair and things like that.

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by GeneralKoko(m): 9:40pm On Sep 01, 2020
Jannuxajj:

I will try but the truth be say woman no dey my mind but konji one kill man

Hook up with a hoe then
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by GeneralKoko(m): 9:44pm On Sep 01, 2020
PrinceOfEast:
When i start naso i dey fear woman..until i start to mingle with gees and go outings na there i start to get liver take talk to girls based on say my gees dey give me ot and moral....

bro, no fear any vagina...them no fit slap u (abi them dey mahd!) package urself, dey free around ladies and no dare make them realise say you dey fear! talk to them like say u dey talk to ur fellow man but put sugar for ur talk, just dey whine d babe and make her smile but if her head strong..abobi disembark....

From your cappings I sure say you be PH blood
I hail bro!!

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by martinogeenz: 10:01pm On Sep 01, 2020
Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching. I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone. It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me
Hello how can i get giggs, im into full stack dev entry level, react node js javascript thank you bro
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by GeneralKoko(m): 10:08pm On Sep 01, 2020
Youonlyliveonce:


Best Line For a Lady you see on the street

You: Hi
Lady: [Frowns] Hi
You: I can Swear I have seen you before
[That will get her attention to look at you well]
Lady: I don't think so
You: Well you look like the Angel I saw in my dream last night
Lady: [Smiles]
You: My name is bla bla by the way, what's yours
Lady: Bla Bla
You: well that name definitely fits an angel, do you mind if I have your number you never can tell I might be your future husband
Lady: i dont give out my number bla bla [or if you are cute she might give you easily at this stage]
You: don't worry I promise not to disturb you just to keep in touch that's all.

If this doesn't work come and shoot me tho your confidence is the Major player, just have in mind she can't slap you or do anything worst case scenario she refuses.

Cheers!



You see this particular format?
E cast before abacha die

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 9:07am On Sep 02, 2020
Jannuxajj:

It depends on where you find yourselves. While doing my masters at a university girls were never a problem they kept coming themselves
you just repeated what i said.
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 1:26pm On Sep 02, 2020
omale88:
you just repeated what i said.
Mmmm
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Silasloaded(m): 4:36pm On Sep 02, 2020
PrinceOfEast:
When i start naso i dey fear woman..until i start to mingle with gees and go outings na there i start to get liver take talk to girls based on say my gees dey give me ot and moral....

bro, no fear any vagina...them no fit slap u (abi them dey mahd!) package urself, dey free around ladies and no dare make them realise say you dey fear! talk to them like say u dey talk to ur fellow man but put sugar for ur talk, just dey whine d babe and make her smile but if her head strong..abobi disembark....
My boss as usual your student dey loyal.

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by bigcee(m): 5:35pm On Sep 02, 2020
shawnfamous:
Bro u even try pass me.. I no even get guts to approach women for road.. Something must connect us before I go say I wan even follow person wey I nor know dey yarn
grin

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Emmzy201(m): 10:10pm On Sep 02, 2020
Jannuxajj:

Mmmm

Boss the only thing I could pick from the whole story was programming and that's my passion.
Can I send you a pm? I have things I'll like you to clear me on
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 10:12pm On Sep 02, 2020
Jannuxajj:

Wow it really exposed how weak I was with women

Don't just pick any girl off the streets though.

You are setting yourself up for a colossal heartbreak.

Best to always remember that any girl to set your sights upon is just a mere mortal like you. So there's no need to shiver in her presence.

You can read books and watch videos that'll help you out there.

It's really not a big of a deal.

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by King44(m): 10:12pm On Sep 02, 2020
Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.
if you don't drink, just try and get read wine take like almost half of the bottle find a way not to make your mouth smell of alcohol, try and compose yourself and go for your target as long has you have a target in mind and up to three or four lines inspiration and confidence would come
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by frankyychiji(f): 10:13pm On Sep 02, 2020
Blackmoran:
welcome to the game, well done am proud of you, you don't have anything to be ashamed of first of all you have express yourself instead of you keeping mute and later on your bed your turn to imaginary screen writer.. secondly don't see it as a lost but rather the other way round. .. thirdly you will get more confidence by approaching girls, but let me warn you let say in a day you are to approach 10 girls the likelihood that 8 to 9 will turn you down is normal, when you asking a girl out don't be emotional about it just see it has having fun
Tomorrow now that one too go begin claim redpiller.
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by streetsoldier1(m): 10:14pm On Sep 02, 2020
chatinent:
If you aren't ready to settle down, save yourself the stress, bro. Time will tell.

Dear Op, don't mind this poster ooo, you must do I.T before main job. You need to date to know the way women behave and how to handle them

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 10:15pm On Sep 02, 2020
Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.
Musa dey suffer for gate oooh!!! Mek una pity for Musa, wetin him dey go through everyday.

Oga, this thing wey dey hungry you, you go see'am tire! You better focus..

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by jaxxy(m): 10:15pm On Sep 02, 2020
Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

Practice makes perfect. Trust me... Lol
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Openbusiness: 10:15pm On Sep 02, 2020
OP, don't stress yourself. We all had to pass through this phase. But see ehn, there's a simple technique u can use to get any girl's number, I mean any girl. D format dey work like 95% success rate grin

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Benwallt(m): 10:16pm On Sep 02, 2020
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