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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by cocolacec(m): 6:34am On Sep 03, 2020
Jannuxajj:

I am too get inside for that but I will try sha
Never go for public toilets. Try date hardworking and employed women to avoid gold diggers.

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by PerseDew(f): 6:47am On Sep 03, 2020
JemmyAdams:
Jannuxajj

After much thought I decided to write to you.

Listen, speaking from a girl perspective... That street toasting is the most annoying thing ever.

Generally we see guys who do that as nuisance, that's why she decided to continue with her phone. Typically In a day an average Nigerian girl will get toasted by 5 guys, maybe even 10. (OK maybe I'm exaggerating) but my point is the figures are quite high.
And in our head ( or my head...) Any guy who sees me looking fine and start to do the usual, he is just being disrespectful because I believe he most have tried about 5 other girls before coming to rudely interrupt my day.

If you are in an environment that the mood calls for socialisation and you meet someone you like, you can try to make a conversation. But a random girl on the street that you don't know how stressful her day has been, you just come out of nowhere and rudely interrupt her like that. Come on.

Well this is your opinion but pls just speak for yourself..lots of beautiful relationships and marriages exist because a guy asked a girl out on the street.

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by kolade560: 7:08am On Sep 03, 2020
Those are old methods, what we have now is e- toasting. go online and select till you are tired.
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Oddsmaster06: 7:09am On Sep 03, 2020
YoungLionken:
It's a good start.

Try again next time...


Baddo
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by goshen26: 7:15am On Sep 03, 2020
Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.


You shouldn't be


Most of us were in ur shoes then; I had walked behind a lady through out a long Street without saying a word, it was like a big stone was placed on my chest that deprived me of talking.



But now ehn... I speak to any lady no matter how big and classy she is.


The gist is; start an honest conversation.... Dont ask for her name nor ask her digits.... Keep ur interesting topic going without any seriousness in ur mind so u won't misyarn


A woman entered the staff bus few days ago carrying some wine to celebrate her birthday in d office. I started by saying "today will be great Ma" she smiled and asked why.... "I said this wine is gonna make the day of some folk great"


So we continue talking althrough the trip and she was the one telling her stuff, even to the level that she told me that hubby is gone and she's lonely.... And all that, but I am not ready to cheat my wife... Etc she asked for my number and sent me numerous picture of her birthday to me after she invited me to the party in her office, which I gave excuse that I can't come...


Just think of anything that can attract her to make her feel comfortable with u...


I remember how I got to talking with a lady before I got marry... She was wearing a pink dress... I said "I don't need to be a Prophet before knowing her name" she said hmmmmm


She said oya wat is her name "I said Pink" she laughed and continued talking till I got to my destination.



My brother, just be calm

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Parisian: 7:17am On Sep 03, 2020
So you want a girl you can use for knacks and after that call her a hoe...
Jannuxajj:

I will try but the truth be say woman no dey my mind but konji one kill man
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Mubibond(m): 7:23am On Sep 03, 2020
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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by gracechellar(f): 7:24am On Sep 03, 2020
Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.
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SOrry. It will soon end. be patient. We shall scale through this
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Candycrushy(f): 7:29am On Sep 03, 2020
Poor op angry.... you'd get to find your woman soon....try more
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by xrucifix05(m): 7:37am On Sep 03, 2020
Just a little weed and u'll be so proud of yourself.
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Deborah98(f): 7:42am On Sep 03, 2020
So why were you disappointed, maybe God averted a big problem for you and ya here talking what I don't know,be prayerful about it God might even not send you a gal to date but one who you will build a family with... good luck bro,life is in stages, don't be in a hurry ...

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Risingblue008(m): 7:46am On Sep 03, 2020
YoungLionken:
It's a good start.

Try again next time...

Tomorrow will become stronger
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by RillJ(m): 7:50am On Sep 03, 2020
I have started very well. Build on it
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Pearly255(f): 7:57am On Sep 03, 2020
Jannuxajj:

Wow it really exposed how weak I was with women


Come to me papaa I’ll help you build your confidence
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Sage161(m): 7:57am On Sep 03, 2020
Sage161:
Don't let your mind hold you back. You can. Be positive and confident. Let me give you a hint - when next you converse with her, assume she likes you. It would automatically boost your confidence. Moreover don't think too much or pretend. Just be yourself and be positive.
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nasrothschild1: 8:00am On Sep 03, 2020
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by leonard509(m): 8:08am On Sep 03, 2020
Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.
I recommend "the alpha male strategy" on YouTube for you.you are the price(you don't know that yet), you have to be cocky.
Thank me later.
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by King44(m): 8:11am On Sep 03, 2020
frankyychiji:
He should and be tipsy and possibly become Hot too, then approach a girl with a hard -on abii? You get sense .wella
Alcohol doesn't make you hot, at least for guys except one has anterior motive. The thing is that for a first timer when alcohol is taken at a lite rate, you would be able to control yourself and be confident same thing goes to weed.

I have not tried weed though but I am sure of that alcohol and I have seen guys burn weed for confidence.

The truth is with his level of low confidence now e nor fit toast someone like Zzor that is gallant everywhere.

So if he doesn't cheat to gain confidence, it might take more time to get a girl or he would be left with the option of getting low standard girls doesn't want to end up with or remain lonely

Las las na village dem go go carry wife come give am

Op, if you can't try my cheat man up cos you are a man or find what works for you.
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by MartinsD12(m): 8:13am On Sep 03, 2020
Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.
As a real niggarrr you don't need to know how to toast a girl to win her over, package yourself very well, dress well and decent most importantly have lots of money because hoess only care about the money you have to spend on them but just in case you don't have money hommie stay indoors OK
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by JemmyAdams: 8:18am On Sep 03, 2020
PerseDew:


Well this is your opinion but pls just speak for yourself..lots of beautiful relationships and marriages exist because a guy asked a girl out on the street.

I very much Stand by my opinion on that ma, it's very disrespectful and rude when stranger randomly interrupt my day like that.

But I'm definitely happy if it has worked for you and some others. Cheers!
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by kodded(m): 8:27am On Sep 03, 2020
humilitypays:
I love this. The mindset of extremely successful guys.


And I always tell guys, there is nothing bad in a girl loving you because of your money or cars or house or whatever you have, to me I see nothing bad in it, money is made to be spent on things that give us joy.


At least the girl you approached, you liked her because of something too, could be her big ass, her legs, her height, her boobs, her shaky shaky body and all that, so guys should learn not to complain that ladies love them cos of money cos it feels good to have nri umu nnunu na acho grin grin
i used those rejection as a motivation to hustle more
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by wisethoughts(m): 8:31am On Sep 03, 2020
Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

This thread might be useful to you...

https://www.nairaland.com/5980776/redpillers-online-group
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by kodded(m): 8:39am On Sep 03, 2020
juneman:
Try being funny. Don't start off being too serious. Try hailing like " fine girl" that simple line can do wonders. If she ignores jus add another line "nothing bad to appreciate a beautiful woman". If she thanks you. Then enter am with " your so smart" if she still dey follow up with " I jus like meeting smart people cos I can learn alot by such interactions" then if she still dey. Talk about what you do " I am into programming" Bamboozle her a little and ask what she knows about your field. Ask her about what she is doing. From there sell yourself na marketing. Your goals, enterprise drive, etc. Trust me women will flock to you. If you market yourself well. Also look good. It doesn't have to be expensive to look good. Dress smartly and neat. Smell good. Dont wear flip flop about. Pam sandals everywhere. You get the gist. Goodluck.
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by PericomaNwankwo: 9:01am On Sep 03, 2020
YoungLionken:
It's a good start.

Try again next time...

You are living
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Highbeepeeh(m): 9:07am On Sep 03, 2020
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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by toprealman: 9:09am On Sep 03, 2020
Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.
Nothing abnormal bro, still part of the process. Keep pushing....you will get there.
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Darevofpeace(m): 9:09am On Sep 03, 2020
Kalatium:
Bro. I will advice you to read HARDDON's dating drills on this platform.
........go buy the book by Dave Carnegie "How to Win and Influence People" you don't need to win any girl for now,after you had built in your self full confidence,winning girls over to you would be like oxygen.
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by frankyychiji(f): 9:17am On Sep 03, 2020
King44:
Alcohol doesn't make you hot, at least for guys except one has anterior motive. The thing is that for a first timer when alcohol is taken at a lite rate, you would be able to control yourself and be confident same thing goes to weed.

I have not tried weed though but I am sure of that alcohol and I have seen guys burn weed for confidence.

The truth is with his level of low confidence now e nor fit toast someone like Zzor that is gallant everywhere.

So if he doesn't cheat to gain confidence, it might take more time to get a girl or he would be left with the option of getting low standard girls doesn't want to end up with or remain lonely

Las las na village dem go go carry wife come give am

Op, if you can't try my cheat man up cos you are a man or find what works for you.
Hahaha.. tomorrow him sef go begin form ubunja cheesy

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Applelips: 9:40am On Sep 03, 2020
Are you in lagos? Around ajah and sangotedo, lets meet up.
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by samsard(m): 10:10am On Sep 03, 2020
Jannuxajj:

I will try but the truth be say woman no dey my mind but konji one kill man
You hate gold diggers but are just a sexual predator yourself. You better stick to the gold diggers who are ready to have sex instead of deceiving a sister looking for a relationship

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by ojaysam25(m): 10:16am On Sep 03, 2020
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