It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

You no go face your front

Three things are involved.

1. You can tell your friend.

2. Strike an agreement with her that you won't tell your friend, chop her then tell your friend.

3. If you keep quiet and your friend goes ahead and marry her your conscience will forever haunt you.




Singing these hoes ain't loyal till chorus fade.....

Kini big deal...she dey find her daily bread.

I would have advised you stay out of the matter.but it obvious that if your friend marries that girl he would be cheated on(am not judging but base in sentiment)..so if you have Intel about the girl you can tell your friend so you guys can catch her red handed.thats the best you can do for your friend
But back to your question, yes your friend needs to know about dis.

Tell your friend simple,did you say the wedding is two months away? Chai this is wickedness ooooh, what again is she looking for,why are women into this act of double dating,to me it doesn't make sense cos one day you will be caught in your own web, your friend don't deserve to be married to such a gal reason his belief and faith will be questioned when things take a rough ride. So you mean she dropped from the bus simply because she has another guy to smash,hmmmmmm things are happening..

Local man is just speechless ....don't hesitate to tell your friend...if him no believe you...just clear ur mind via that area.

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To Hell with the mind your Business idiots....
Tell your Guy ooo I repeat tell him...

Even the bible say's.. "mind ur business"

Whiteball:
It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

Bro, you are not a good friend if you keep this kind of secret away from your friend, a close friend at that. Please, divulge this discovery to your friend no matter what will be the consequences. Your friend may not even believe you but please, do well to let him know all these going on. These hoes are not loyal at all.

athaboi:
You no go face your front

Your type will encourage all sorts of immoralities and betrayal of trust....


Learn how to live upright.

Mind your freaking business!

Amebo, olofofo.

After your friend has finished chopping other people’s future wife, he wants to clean mouth and firm “born again”.

Well karma works in mysterious ways. And they’re not even married yet.

Juliusmomoh:
Even the bible say's.. "mind ur business"

That's how someone will be fuckiing your wife/girlfriend and your friends will laugh and "mind their business"

You said you didn't catch them doing....? What is there to catch again? Or until they make you watch live while they are doing it? Please tell your friend...very important.

Abeg allow them. It's possible ur friend is somewhere doing 3some with some sexworkerz

JidennaJason:
That's how someone will be fuckiing your wife/girlfriend and your friends will laugh and "mind their business"

Is dat a curse or a declearation ?

Honestly, am short of words. What is happening around makes me fear both men n women. Noone to trust again

. At times i b like can I ever love? Fake people everywhere

Beautiful,endowed and faithful? That's a future impossible tense....they will only pretend when they are ready for marriage and most of them end up getting married to very good simps (not men). That second guy is the real nigga (alpha)who don't give a fùck about her,won't marry her either but will always dig her even after getting married to a simp...probably your friend.
ubunja was right.

Juliusmomoh:

Is dat a curse or a declearation ?

"Do unto others what you want them to do to you"



Enjoy your business minding.

Are you a very jobless man? Why can't you mind your business? If you see that your friend in another woman's house or in a restaurant with another woman will you come to NL and write a long nonsense or seek a stupid advice. All these boys and their double standards is tiring.

athaboi:
You no go face your front

To face front really dey my mind but my heart no gree me. My guy have said plenty holy things about this babe ..and am thinking is not God that brought me to my guyB's house to unravel some shit?

Whiteball if someone was f*cking your future wife 2 months to the wedding would you like to know or would you prefer your friends keep it from you??

proclinician:
Are you a very jobless man? Why can't you mind your business? If you see that your friend in another woman's house or in a restaurant with another woman will you come to NL and write a long nonsense or seek a stupid advice. All these boys and their double standards is tiring.

Am not holy and also not jobless,as it stands am still minding my business but i strongly think a lady/man should be open to his/partner most especially when they are about tieing d knot

Whiteball:
Am not holy and also not jobless,as it stands am still minding my business but i strongly think a lady/man should be open to his/partner most especially when they are about tieing d knot

What exactly will you do if you see that your friend with another woman. Will you come to NL and seek advice?

GraGra247:
Whiteball if someone was f*cking your future wife 2 months to the wedding would you like to know or would you prefer your friends keep it from you??

I didnt see them f*ck . I wudnt wanna b at the centre of a collapse relationship and while writing i tried to b very discrete. i just wished i never saw her. My guy will b broken if i tell him .....one part of me say i should look away

I am completely flabbergasted. That portrays an indescent act 4rm her. In my humble opinion i think you should inform your friend abt it hence you both are close. trust me the truth would hurt him initially but he would definetly heal 4rm it in no time. Besides there's a way your guy would discharge his fiance without her even knowing you told him anything. He should not completely shun her or ghost on her, he should give her less attention until the feeling he has for her dissipate gradually. What's meant to be will be and vise versa

Whiteball:
To face front really dey my mind but my heart no gree me. My guy have said plenty holy things about this babe ..and am thinking is not God that brought me to my guyB's house to unravel some shit?

happy unraveling

proclinician:


What exactly will you do if you see that your friend with another woman. Will you come to NL and seek advice?

I dont expect you to strongly be taking sides with what is evil it shows alot about your personality...2months to wedding u should know that cards are out and extended families are involve.If my friend does same i wil scold him and report to his family to caution him. dont marry if u don't love.. This lady i dont know her family i would have reported her to her family...What is bad is bad bro.. peace out

Tell your friend and let him sort the situation out! This is his situation and not yours for you to think day and night, you have other issues to think about.

If you don’t tell your friend, karma too will visit you. Someone will see your wife to be in another man’s house and won’t tell you.

God no go let us get friend wey go see or know something wey go hurt us and not tell us.

Loyalty in friendship is priceless.

Tell your friend.

Deborah98:
Tell your friend simple,did you say the wedding is two months away? Chai this is wickedness ooooh, what again is she looking for,why are women into this act of double dating,to me it doesn't make sense cos one day you will be caught in your own web, your friend don't deserve to be married to such a gal reason his belief and faith will be questioned when things take a rough ride. So you mean she dropped from the bus simply because she has another guy to smash,hmmmmmm things are happening..

That is the wicked aspect of it. she allowed my guy pay for transport (i wont mention d price) and already had d plan of dropping off!!!am very sure d transport company wont refund her.I tot av seen it all

Ajosh431:
God no go let us get friend wey go see or know something wey go hurt us and not tell us.

Loyalty in friendship is priceless.

Tell your friend.

Love/marital affair is a dicey situation. if i tell him and dey finally get married d woman will forever hate my generation for trying to kill her joy,if dey dont get married same tin goes. Am thinking i should tell him to pray more.. While i stay my lane