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simple, get the full story from her and then get her to tell your friend by herself

Whiteball:
It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

That is wat happens wen a guy decides to wife a wayward lady that pretends to be born again. Tell ur friend, it's left for him to go ahead with the wedding. Na wa o things dey happen o

FreeSpirited:
Ashewo jatijati ni e

oloriburuku

I advise you to tell your friend.
Before that,allow her to tell you what she wants to say.
Give her the chance to explain herself before you decide whether to tell your friend or not.

athaboi:
oloriburuku

. so weyrey ti e gbo ede . Na play o..this one you are pressing P. Ode.

Bro before hoes... better tell your friend ASAP. don't mind those telling you to mind your business... wicked world.

Sit him down and tell him point Blank

Deborah98:
Tell your friend simple,did you say the wedding is two months away? Chai this is wickedness ooooh, what again is she looking for,why are women into this act of double dating,to me it doesn't make sense cos one day you will be caught in your own web, your friend don't deserve to be married to such a gal reason his belief and faith will be questioned when things take a rough ride. So you mean she dropped from the bus simply because she has another guy to smash,hmmmmmm things are happening..

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@bolded,that statement got me laughing, u sound as if you be born again

She's one of the lady that makes guys to always have second thought on every lady.pls tell your guy I don't support nonsense

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Lalasticlala
Tell your friend.God knows that your friend does not deserve that kind of girl that is why he made you see her and you want to lock up.She is a pretender and maybe she might be an olosho pretending to be a Born Again
Think of it this way,if he was your brother and you saw such thing,will you lock up and allows your brother that you love marry such person.
TELL HIM AND YOU WILL HAVE PEACE OF MIND.

wisest10:
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@bolded,that statement got me laughing, u sound as if you be born again

Am a Christian that's all

U beta tell ur frnd bcus if u don't she will tell ur frnd Dat u want to rape her after d marriage just to make ur frnd hate u then u cant say anytin again, she will spoil u for her husband Dat ur frnd tried to rape me while u were not around he came and touch my bumbum etc

Whiteball:
It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

If he is a good friend to you don't tell him, it'll seem as if you're trying to put asunder, destroying people's happiness.
You can't truly judge a person by just an act. She might really be a good person, your friends saw something in her before proposing.


You only have one thing to do and it'll be left on her to decide.

Persuade her to tell him. Threatened her that you're going to tell him if she doesn't.

If you don't tell your friend, then he is not your friend and you don't wish him well. You can as well see something that will kill him and turn the other way.

Whiteball:
It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

Tell ur friend ooooooo
I will do same for my guy even if he likes make e ghost me, at least he knows I get his back lasun.

obinna58:
If he is a good friend to you don't tell him, it'll seem as if you're trying to put asunder, destroying people's happiness.
You can't truly judge a person by just an act. She might really be a good person, your friends saw something in her before proposing.


You only have one thing to do and it'll be left on her to decide.

Persuade her to tell him. Threatened her that you're going to tell him if she doesn't.

he did not see d other part before proposing, let him see both parts and decide better now

Y'all shouting mind ur business, would you do so if the person in question was ur brother?. Fucking hypocrites....

If i am in ur shoes,i will tell ur friend.if you dont tell him and he marries that girl your conscience will prick u forever.save ur friend from had i known in the future.

RealEzee:
he did not see d other part before proposing, let him see both parts and decide better now

Yes and that's left for her to make him see now not you.

if you mind your biz... and you die tomorrow... naa hell fire straight...

Whiteball:
Love/marital affair is a dicey situation. if i tell him and dey finally get married d woman will forever hate my generation for trying to kill her joy,if dey dont get married same tin goes. Am thinking i should tell him to pray more.. While i stay my lane

See better tell him o..same thing happened with me,with 2 different friends,one didnt tell me he saw my girl where she wasnt suppose to be and another friend saw her and told me..guess what iam no longer in talking terms with the one who kept mute,and he means nothing to be but a betrayer and for the friend who told me,well i dont mind him getting married to my lil sister,thats how much i love and respect him..when he told me he did it maturely and started with guy i know u really love this girl but iam ur guy,this is what i saw..so guy better tell ur friend asap..that talk about saying he should pray more is nothing..just tell him she is a bloody hypocrite and tell him exactly what u saw.

Deborah98:
Am a Christian that's all

I hear you ma

Edyice:
Mr whiteball or WHITEBALLS ( your Monika funny sha..)


LEAVE the gal ( watch well ..all them ladies have said it .. they don't collect from one dude ... Or should I say having 2 basket is better )

Mind your bizz , boyz many for streets .. all of us want climb tree TOO

We that don't have relationship ( collect from those who has ) that's LIFE

if they were just dating it would have been easy for me to say 'baba free that babe she's not ur type' but they are about getting married one need to trend to trend caution before assasin begin find me. Am confused aswear.

obinna58:
Yes and that's left for her to make him see now not you.

so if na ur brother this is what you will telling ursef ni? Hmmm, I will tell him oooo, if he decides to carry on that's his own choice gbam.

bro tell your friend, if he means a lot to you, and you value friendship.

who knows it might be a test sef to know if you will talk
talk
talk

Whiteball:
if they were just dating it would have been easy for me to say 'baba free that babe she's not ur type' but they are about getting married one need to trend to trend caution before assasin begin find me. Am confused aswear.

Then its a good thing you didn't include her picture , because she can even have another dude on the forum .


Give many guyz heart break ....

duduade:
Please just face your front by not having anything to do with her friend.


Gawd forbid


All these girls can be desperate


God will provide your own missing rib or baby mama at His appointed time

Her friend is a write off as it stands . Na to block her lines sure pass. Not looking for a born again tho but i hate deceit! My guy is hansome n doing very very well financially... I dont know what lady's crave for really..

You already know she is a deceiver.... even your friend B said the guy is her bf.... and who knows how many other bf she has? What if your friend finds out just before or after he gets married? What if he flips out?... or super angry and kills her?... and then himself? Is it then you would be explaining? Hmmmm..... I don't even know why you be up here saying you're his friend.

Juliusmomoh:
Even the bible say's.. "mind ur business"

Verse pls?

Don't tell your friend straight up use your body language and avail clues for him to know all is not well these days people seems not satisfied any longer they give you egusi you will demand they mix ogbono to it no be greed

NB....Ladies this days their matter tire me that was how mine was showing me screenshot of a guy asking her out on fb I warned her neva to show me such again. I started having female Frnds right 4rm my primary school so their is no script you will play that I can't interpret....

how well do u know ur friend?
it could be ur friend and this is fiancee are doing open relationship
dont be surprised if he is not the one pimping her out to guys
no go put nose into wetin no concern u and cause trouble for urself
if u not too dat close to this ur guy then just face front
but if u guys are very close that u know the type of person he is then let him know what his girl is up to