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it may end in tears, who knows

You see why I always tell guys to do a thorough vetting before taking any lady to the altar (if they must do).
Ladies of this generation are never to be trusted. The churchy ones are to be feared more.
@OP, please ensure you let your friend know this ASAP. However, if he's a loverboy kind of guy, you may need to gather some kind of evidence to substantiate your claim.

Wise up kings. DUE DILIGENCE IS THE KEY!

If you hide this from your friend then you are far from being a friend, you will be his greatest enemy ever.

1. You are letting him marry a woman who can infect him with hiv and make his kids orphans in this cold world.
2. You are letting him marry a dangerous woman that can murder him in his sleep, it takes a very hard hearted woman to cheat when her wedding is two months away.

3. A woman who can camouflag with christianity , only God knows her dark secrets.

4. Don't you know that the worst thing that can happen to a man is when he marries a bad woman.
5. If you fail to reveal what you saw to your G, then his blood and pains will be upon you and you will be punished by forces beyond your control.

The gods have spoken.

Whiteball:
I dont expect you to strongly be taking sides with what is evil it shows alot about your personality...2months to wedding u should know that cards are out and extended families are involve.If my friend does same i wil scold him and report to his family to caution him. dont marry if u don't love.. This lady i dont know her family i would have reported her to her family...What is bad is bad bro.. peace out

If you don't want to hurt yourself and your friend, obey the bros code. Tell him what is up. If he doesn't believe. You conscience is clear and if he does clarify him.

Don't allow your friend fall into a trap you could have safe him. Tell him, let it be up to him to decided to forgive the girl.

I repeat, don't break the bros code.

dairykidd:
This man deserve 1 hour drilling. Just imagine the nonsense u typed there. You must have spittle dripping down the sides of ur mouth. I pity anyone who calls u a friend.






Stop talking like a fool.. there's a reason for checking on ur friend and bumping into her. Which other nonsense prayer u want disturb God with again. Thank God guys like u can never penetrate my circle. I hate weaklings

The dude seems a simp!

Whiteball:
It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

Seems like one of those paid write-ups. Were you hired on PPH?

To the content of your story whether real or fake, what you described is a normal thing for born-again relationships. I can bet that it's a no-sex-before-marriage sort of relationship. Your supposed friend hasn't seen the girl's pants, while another guy is oiling the engine as and when needed.

My advice is simple: Mind your business and leave them let them keep deceiving themselves. If the Holy Spirit with whom your born-again friend is supposedly filled with wants him to know, He will reveal the truth to your friend.

My point is, born-agains are directed by the Holy Spirit; carnal men shouldn't interfere in their matter to avoid becoming the enemy. Whatever happens is the way the Holy Spirit wants it! That's their way of thinking, which explains why they behave the way they do.

SeanBeezy:
If you're actually having doubts about telling him then he isn't really your friend!

Yes they ain't friend in anyway.

If you don't tell him and use friend B as evidence as soon as possible, she will flip the story on you and make your friend believe you are a bad person. she may even say you have been toasting her since.

You are a bad friend if you don't tell your guy..... just put your self in his shoes would you have love him to tell you or not then you get your answer........ just w mknth to wedding my guybif you don't open up to your Friend then you are evil

athaboi:
You no go face your front

We know your type

Juliusmomoh:
Even the bible say's.. "mind ur business"

His friend's business is his business..
My friend I would have told you,is a bad friend..

Remember the BRO CODE: One of the laws there says you're to protect the interests of your bro at all times,no matter what. You owe it a duty to save him from walking into that marriage. Tell him before it's too late

Save your friend's destiny and seat his Christian Ass down and spill the Truth to him.
This might be the last chance for him to avert the greatest mistake he would ever make. A deceitful girlfriend to the extent of fronting holier than thou would spell doom for your friend if he gets to Marry her.
Guy code wouldn't frown at you if you tell him. He would be heart broken and confused that's for sure but remember better a broken relationship than a broken marriage. TELL YOUR FRIEND, IF TRULY YOU ARE A GOOD FRIEND. Ask yourself this question, what if you were the one in your friend's shoe. Wouldn't you appreciate it if you have friends that would protect your interest ??

Whiteball:
It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

Juliusmomoh:
Even the bible say's.. "mind ur business"

which stupid 'mind ur business' nonsense and iranu

the only business I know about the bible is that we should be our brother's keeper. so Op u have to be your friend keeper by making sure he knows what is suppose fiancé is doing. if you do not tell him, u are not a truth friend. please tell him, if possible take him to the house

Is it only women that are double dating? What about us? Are there no men that sleep around days to their wedding and even shortly afterwards and so on and on.

We're are always playing holy.

Deborah98:
Tell your friend simple,did you say the wedding is two months away? Chai this is wickedness ooooh, what again is she looking for,why are women into this act of double dating,to me it doesn't make sense cos one day you will be caught in your own web, your friend don't deserve to be married to such a gal reason his belief and faith will be questioned when things take a rough ride. So you mean she dropped from the bus simply because she has another guy to smash,hmmmmmm things are happening..

Liposure:
Be your brother's keeper

Listen to this piece of advice. It sums it up.

Am sure she is from mbaise

It's better you let him know now though it'll break his heart, than to look the other way and he goes on with the marriage only to be cheated on and betrayed in future.
#SaveABro, Save A Life.

no tell ur friend anything o.AK this ones carrying placard say in tell ur friend ,tel ur friend pipe down.

his friend too have being having his own sexcapade in one hotel.
and also running up n dwn looking for wedding money.

use am collect money from her unless you be mumu.


na now u go be business man by keeping ur mouth shot.
.niggag get sense small even if na me na money I will collect from her till they wed I go chop clean mouth wetin i know.



just mind ya business o niggah smoke weed if u de fear..

It was God that sent you there to know her secret, so tell your friend

Holla the mods to summon rightouness 89 , chikena .

Holla at the mods to summon rightouness 89 , chikena .

humilitypays:
A man don't need to be religious towards women issues and relationship stuffs.

Fvck your girlfriends, romance her, flog her well well for bed, turn her left, right center, if u think ladies don't like it that hot, then u are daydreaming.


Sexually rugged guys always win in the race of life.


Being upright as a man should be in areas of being honest in your dealings with people, not stealing or cheating others, keeping to your words, not worshipping idle, helping people in need, being empathetic, caring for others, but you see women matter, comot your religious garment and fvck them like a IndecentStar, that's what ladies of today love, forget what they say they love.




But if u think u will be any woman's hero by forming mr holy holy who doesn't like to fvck, hahahahahaha, I sorry for you as a man for this life

Your Words Are Gold!

.

I'm a woman, but I will advise you to tell your friend. I hate what I hate

Juliusmomoh:
Even the bible say's.. "mind ur business"

Juliusmomoh:
Even the bible say's.. "mind ur business"

Which Bible is that

Tell your friend. That's why God gave you the opportunity to catch her cheating. Otherwise, he is not truly your friend. She is wicked and must not go unpunished.

Whiteball:
It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

Mind your fucking business.

Be warned

Don't visit that your friend again.

Keep absolute distance from your friend and his gf. Nor be your business ooo.

Whiteball:
Love/marital affair is a dicey situation. if i tell him and dey finally get married d woman will forever hate my generation for trying to kill her joy,if dey dont get married same tin goes. Am thinking i should tell him to pray more.. While i stay my lane

Sounds like you are tending towards rating human's approval or disapproval over saving your friend from eternal suffering/hell/bondage kinda marriage.

Hope you know that generations unborn are hinged on your decision to tell him or not. See the bigger picture, rise above men's approval or disapproval and help your friend. Seek God for wisdom to go about it. I was in similar shoes some years ago, not exactly this way but similar focus. I had to tell the parents what their daughter was doing. It led to hate but after some years now, truth about it all is being revealed daily and I am happy I saved a life then.
Shalom

Whiteball:
i think i like the idea ' use body language' u making serious sense here

Bro's, it'll be very evil of you not to save your friend at this dying minutes. God could have brought you to those two places (the Park and FriendB place) just for this reason of saving his son (your friend).

Modecai told Esther, it's for a time like this God placed you in the Palace as Queen to save Israel.

It'll be a curse if you ignore your friend God is using to deliver.

God uses anyone to save those He loves. Your friend may be someone after God's heart. God wants to use you to save him. Don't be like Jonah who tried to run away. Tell him the truth, nothing but the truth.

Thanks and God bless.

athaboi:
You no go face your front

Na dem!