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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Nobody: 5:54pm On Sep 07, 2020
David405:
@ubunja I have seen a lot of your line of thoughts and red pill ideologies. I now understand why some guys and a lot of ladies here usually conflict with you.

In as much as your Red pill theories have some elements of truth in them, sometimes, they are just too extreme and makes false assumptions.

It is a very huge fallacy to say Girls date for money, I mean, have you possibly interacted with every girl in Nigeria to know why they get in relationships? Personally, I have met girls that all they want is just great sex, some others, they just want your companionship and to feel good about themselves. For example, last year, on my girlfriend's birthday, we went out for a dinner date, having this mindset that spending would make her happy, but she was unimpressed, the only thing she wanted that day was that I followed her home, spent the night with her which I didn't do, I had work to do that night, she was unhappy about that for a long time.

My point is, it is a fallacy for someone to claim, all girls are the same or they want the same thing, same as guys, we all are different, we all want different things at different point in our lives, sometimes, we want money, sometimes sex, other times friendship. Red pill and PUA strategies will make more sense when they begin to factor in the fact that not all girls are the same.

Also, there is no such thing as nice guy or bad guy in terms of dating or attraction, people are people, a girl treating you badly or refusing you has nothing to do with being a nice guy, it means what it means, she ain't interested!

Most times, Red pill paints a scenario where the "nice guys" are usually naive, ugly, poor while the "bad guys" are attractive, confident, rich guys, and this sounds very theoretical and extreme, people are people, some guys want to be in a serious relationship as do some guys, some others just want a fling or play around, it has nothing to do with them being nice guys or bad boys.

@proclinician using your experience to judge the all girls puts you in the same boat as trialists that say, All Igbos are this or All yoruba are that. Our experiences doesn't always reflect reality, for example, in this same Nigeria where some people have a hard time eating thrice a day, some others are paying millions just for a flight grin.

Pardon my long epistle, I just feel I should let all these out, finally, it is a fallacy to say, the Majority makes up the whole, besides, no one has interacted with the majority of girls in the country, so we cannot even authoritatively state what the majority of girls date for. @ubunja, I believe you should listen more to what other people have to say, no one or theory is 100% correct all the time.
You've made sense.
Trust me, they'd call you a simp.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Nobody: 5:54pm On Sep 07, 2020
Please if you don't have a head with brain, a brain that reasons, a reason with average IQ at least please don't quote me.

My braincells aren't for pussy and dick matter, look for your fellow small minded person to discuss such with. Thanks!

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Nobody: 5:58pm On Sep 07, 2020
pocohantas:


This is why series of testing and debugging should be done, before rolling out a gender as complex and insatiable as the Nigerian man.

How does someone spend years whining about Nigerian girls being materialistic- meets one who doesn’t want his money and he comes to this conclusion?

How do you even satisfy this kind of human without getting grey hair or attending every crusade and revival?

Women should choose their poisons wisely.
grin grin grin
A couple of "alpha males" on this platform suffer from grandiose delusion. They're not OK upstairs.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:09pm On Sep 07, 2020

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by BigJoe29: 6:22pm On Sep 07, 2020
SegFault:
[s]Hian, is this a male thread or female thread, NL alpha males one grow vagina abi, abeg make I commot for this shitty thread, before one idiotic alpha male would come and start lecturing me about how stupid women are but still manages to exclude his foolish mother[/s].
You can leave the thread, at least the thread will be free from your stin. king pussy.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by BigJoe29: 6:25pm On Sep 07, 2020
Palema007:
[s]I have never seen guys as insecure as NL Romance section guys particularly the so called redpillers very insecure, confused and dumb lots!

I read through the first page and I could only see guys trying so hard to remind op of how relevant they are. And of all things to show they are important, they picked only SEX. Dumb beings! Very useless SEX perverts! Sometimes I look at these guys and wonder if these guys truly will become future leaders and head of homes or we should expect another. Pathetic!

You all can continue to have your "cum exchange " that's all you are good at. Type epistles to pull women down, pat each others back and continue the circle till you get tired while women face things that matter. Little wonder you lots sometimes have to grow pussies and menstruate so you can discuss women better. Despicable lots![/s]
This your ranting is epic ooo, you are just blabbing like injection was forced into your pussy cheesy grin

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:31pm On Sep 07, 2020
BigJoe29:
You can leave the thread, at least the thread will be free from your stin. king pussy.
Look at this dumb box, Mr alpha male pele if e pain you.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Regex: 6:34pm On Sep 07, 2020
SweetCunt97:
His fault? He simply fell for the wrong person.

And he's supposed to stay with the wrong person and try to make it work all the time?

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:41pm On Sep 07, 2020
SegFault:

Look at this dumb box, Mr alpha male pele if e pain you.
I'd advice you ignore that guy, he is a special candidate. Research shows he has vee cunt take up 80℅ portion of his brain box leaving only 20℅ space for brain to manage. Little wonder he has the Pussy word in almost all his posts.

Please don't waste your time telling a fool he is foolish. smiley

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:42pm On Sep 07, 2020
Palema007:
I'd advice you ignore that guy, he is a special candidate. Research shows he has vee cunt take up 80℅ portion of his brain box leaving only 20℅ space for brain to manage. Little wonder he has the Pussy word in almost all his posts.

Please don't waste your time telling a fool he is foolish. smiley
Wetin concern me, na to mock all these foolish idiots, if I apply his logic to his mother he would start howling.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by SweetCunt97(f): 6:47pm On Sep 07, 2020
Regex:


And he's supposed to stay with the wrong person and try to make it work all the time?
Offcourse not
Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by BigJoe29: 6:56pm On Sep 07, 2020
SegFault:

Look at this dumb box, Mr alpha male pele if e pain you.
Try and keep your pussy clean, that is all I have to say. It ain't good walking around with a stink.ing genital cheesy

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:59pm On Sep 07, 2020
SegFault:

Wetin concern me, na to mock all these foolish idiots, if I apply his logic to his mother he would start howling.
Lol sometimes I do the bolded too, sometimes I ignore them other times I get completely irritated. Today is an example of the latter, it's pathetic seeing what grown ups do here.
Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:02pm On Sep 07, 2020
wumi2017:
Responsible and Good men and scarce


GUYS THIS STATEMENT IS A GREAT INDICATOR OF GIRLS WHO ARE ALREADY DAMAGED. THEY MAKE THIS STATEMENT MOST OF THE TIME. DON'T BE FOOLED. BE WISE PLEASE.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by BigJoe29: 7:04pm On Sep 07, 2020
WORDWORLD:



GUYS THIS STATEMENT IS A GREAT INDICATOR OF A GIRL WHO IS ALREADY DAMAGED. THEY MAKE THIS STATEMENT MOST OF THE TIME. DON'T BE FOOLED.

True that cheesy

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by BigJoe29: 7:09pm On Sep 07, 2020
Yen yen yen...... angry Go and deactivate na, if you are so pissed with what happens here, you are of no importance here bitchhh.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by ubunja(m): 7:18pm On Sep 07, 2020
WORDWORLD:



GUYS THIS STATEMENT IS A GREAT INDICATOR OF A GIRL WHO IS ALREADY DAMAGED. THEY MAKE THIS STATEMENT MOST OF THE TIME. DON'T BE FOOLED.

lol after the hoe phase when they wanna settle....

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Chukapage(m): 7:32pm On Sep 07, 2020
pocohantas:
Life without a girlfriend; 98% comments from men. Same men ranting.


Life without a boyfriend; 3 pages so far, men ranting. 99.712% of comments from men who probably grow vaginas in their spare time.

The Nairaland alfa male is sure a special breed.


grin grin grin
You women are very much Timid and disgustingly DUMB. Did anybody prevent y'all from typing or Replying?? Truth is you women have NOTHING to say You breathe and Live on men. You're highly dependent on men for survival. Call your Feminist sisters here their opinion is needed call the "miss independents".

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:37pm On Sep 07, 2020
BigJoe29:
Try and keep your pussy clean, that is all I have to say. It ain't good walking around with a stink.ing genital cheesy
You think I'm like you, gringrin Nigerians if we spend this kind of time discussing sensible things maybe we would have moved forward, but as usual the case is inverted.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by BigJoe29: 7:38pm On Sep 07, 2020
Chukapage:
You women are very much Timid and disgustingly DUMB. Did anybody prevent y'all from typing or Replying?? Truth is you women have NOTHING to say You breathe and Live on men. You're highly dependent on men for survival. Call your Feminist sisters here their opinion is needed call the "miss independents".
Don't mind that stupid evening newspaper, why didn't the women comment, it is obvious because they have nothing reasonable to say.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by BigJoe29: 7:41pm On Sep 07, 2020
SegFault:

[s]You think I'm like you, gringrin Nigerians if we spend this kind of time discussing sensible things maybe we would have moved forward, but as usual the case is inverted[/s].
Take my advice and stop typing rubbish.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Olatara(f): 7:44pm On Sep 07, 2020
Mood11:
Baby girls kiss
.

Some of us are single and not ready to mingle. Reasons may differ but for some ladies it could be because they are working on themselves while for some there's no one yet..


Share with us your experience so far being single.
It isn't easy (make I no lie), no more babe let's go to the beach, ah no pizza, infact nah my money I dey take buy Krispy Kreme.
No more cinemas. All the same, no emotional trauma.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:45pm On Sep 07, 2020
BigJoe29:
Take my advice and stop typing rubbish.
Like you aren't typing rubbish yourself, abeg I don't have time for goats that their lives revolve around sex, this is why we should teach philosophy in schools so that people can think for themselves.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Rilley(m): 7:49pm On Sep 07, 2020
pocohantas:


Lol. The guilty are afraid and ranting already. Make the point and ignore alfa males. They need your attention... grin grin
Una done start abi

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Nobody: 7:49pm On Sep 07, 2020
ubunja:
lol after the hoe phase when they wanna settle....

grin It is a bait statement use in luring a clueless guy to herself after the hoe phase. The clueless simp runs in a hurry to present himself as that SCARCE GOODS, THE GOOD AND RESPONSIBLE MAN she has been searching for. This bait Statement hardly comes out from younger ladies except the older ones, especially the evening newspapers grin

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Nobody: 8:02pm On Sep 07, 2020
SegFault:

Like you aren't typing rubbish yourself, abeg I don't have time for goats that their lives revolve around sex, this is why we should teach philosophy in schools so that people can think for themselves.

SUCH PHILOSOPHY AS BELOW SEEMS NOT TO GO WELL WITH PEOPLE grin

WORDWORLD:


Redpill is mainly loathed because it preaches that women should endeavour to keep their legs crossed, NO SEX. Men Should settle for nothing except a VIRGIN, a woman who kept her legs crossed with an INTACT HYMEN. grin

IT IS VERY AMUSING!!! Well I can understand, those legs are too difficult for them to keep them crossed but wide open. grin Who is to be blamed in the end lol?

ubunja:
its always funny man:

Red Pill supports virgins but hate hoes.
Beta SIMPs support hoes but hate virgins.
Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Regex: 8:16pm On Sep 07, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Offcourse not

Then say no more.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by purples25(f): 8:36pm On Sep 07, 2020
Is good.
Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Baddestguyp(m): 9:23pm On Sep 07, 2020
This thread is nothing but a trap to attract simps to enter their DMs...guys stay away...

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by pocohantas(f): 9:59pm On Sep 07, 2020
There has been a decline in the number of women attending the August meeting, but that hasn’t made SENSIBLE men tie two wrappers and go talk on their behalf. grin grin

So, if you are a man and got triggered by my comment- you should check yourself. If you like, bark like rott or defend your actions like Ramos, it doesn’t change the fact that certain men didn’t comment and e get why...

Feel free to quote me, I layconed your mentions for a reason. Cuties kiss kiss

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by wumi2017(f): 10:24pm On Sep 07, 2020
WORDWORLD:



GUYS THIS STATEMENT IS A GREAT INDICATOR OF GIRLS WHO ARE ALREADY DAMAGED. THEY MAKE THIS STATEMENT MOST OF THE TIME. DON'T BE FOOLED. BE WISE PLEASE.

,,,,Oloriburuku ,,, BITCH I wouldn't say a word

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