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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by BabbanBura(m): 5:58pm On Sep 08, 2020
Blackmann001:




Lol...go check everywhere....90% guyz end up with ladies standing firm with them at the budding stage.......

I didn't say 100% for reasons we both know....

The real good guyz are not flashy and all putting, they hardly try to impress even when they have money...they face you and say they are broke, you know them easily cuz u just feel it..still don't know how it is that gals run away from such guyz and want them back at 28...only age brings ladies to their senses

Example for me...I HV always been a cool headed ,very focus but super struggling guy. My own struggle no get mate...I have everything no going well for me except looks...honestly I would lie...I grew up one of the most handsome guyz you can ever meet.....but na so so struggle...

Met a lot of gals along the way; "all" dumping my sorry ass cuz I no get money..but all attesting to they are sure I will make it cuz of the focus and hard work...now I still never mk am but far better than b4...

Du u know all these gals.7 in number are all not married and wouldn't let my fine rest..coming and doing all kind of house choirs to sell face..cuz they are all in late twenties while am in mid 30..

One says am super sure u will hit it...cuz u no dey rest..so if they are so so abt an extremely handsome ,intelligent,very cool headed guy..do u know av never drank nor smoked all my life..?..av had just 2 gf all my life..?

Am super supportive of people around me, including gals to mk positive impacts..yet they all ran away for biga boiz...

Gals will continue to b stranded and av long stopped pitying them.....

You have recounted my experiences, and guess what? All of them came back when things changed. I told them no way! You can't reap where you didn't sow!! Lailai!!!

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by SEXONLY: 6:00pm On Sep 08, 2020
Na only one remain grin don't look elsewhere na me.

FiletMignon:
Good men are scarce.
Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:00pm On Sep 08, 2020
Emarvel:
I have been reading your comments since, now i'm forced to reply you, the truth is that no matter how much a woman earns, she still want/needs a man's money, for reasonsbest know to them.

Isn't the reason why obvious?!?!?! So long as there will be mumus out there who accept women to keep their own money, yet these same women would expect you to spend your money entirely when dating/taking care of her (while she uses her money for her own selfish agenda) then it will never change.

I Don't blame women for enjoying this free ride, I blame the millions of simpleton who accept such degrading nonsense. The gazillions of mumus who have accepted the arrant rubbish notion that a woman is doing you a favor when she is dating you, thus you must be taking care of her life's needs, if you want to get unrestricted access to her Coochie, as if these women didn't come a dime a dozen.
You guys are a disgrace to manhood!!!!

*** spit on floor***

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by abdullahi45: 6:02pm On Sep 08, 2020
Regex:


Baba this you na... For some, it would have continued till the girl decides on her own.


Here's a story I witnessed.

A friend of mine Prince liked a girl, the girl is a 4 on a scale of 10, he bought so many things for this girl just to show his love. Most times the girl will tell him she's no more interested and he will beg and beg. I told the boy to stop... Tried to reason with him but he never did. The girl never gave him sex. The girl told me one day she's tired of him, I told her to continue to milk him. I took the girls phone and she told prince she lost her phone and prince got her a new one.... Well, eventually she got tired and kicked him out.


Tho prince has packed out, but each time he comes to see me, he always asks of her. Till today.

Prince is a S*** grin

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by cray91(m): 6:05pm On Sep 08, 2020
even under 18 have boyfriendssss already
Jorby:
Any girl who is yet to have a boyfried is an under 18. Since i was born and now that i'm getting old, i have never seen a girl above 18 without a ßoyfriend.
ßrothers have you seen?

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Taiwojon(m): 6:06pm On Sep 08, 2020
a life without boyfriend is nothing, because you are to keep yourself until you are ready for marriage.


don't follow the Trent of the world.
be different
be chaste


but a life without Jesus is worthless and full trouble
a repentance heart attracted God favour and men favour.



it pays to serve JESUS

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by marketplacesng: 6:06pm On Sep 08, 2020
proclinician:


Haha you will never learn eeh. I can't be unfortunate with women oo, like Nigerian scam I am 2 steps ahead at all times. I pity men like you oo because from how you sound, you want a happily ever after novel scenario and na your type be prey to these women you see. They deal with your type serious and toss them over. A woman that makes any money does not use it for embellishments. I know you don't understand. A woman that works, earns monthly salary or profits from legit biz does not use this hard earned money for expensive jewelries, hair, Cologne blah blah blah, it is men that finance these ones. You do not understand

On the contrary, I totally understand your perspective. The typical male chauvinist mindset of the average Nigerian man that relies on the patriarchal system to bolster their inherent weakness.
Unfortunately, In a world of likes attracting likes, you're bound to meet people just like you. Have an open mind and watch things change.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Regex: 6:08pm On Sep 08, 2020
jornwhite:




She replied you appropriately, "How are you?" don do, bro move to present, "whats gud ? you sound cheerful xup", come up with anytin that she will av no choice buh to "xpress herself" shuffle topics till you know where her interest lies.
sometimes it is not these gurls fault when we ask jamb questions

A little I am fine and you would have taken the whole thing to a new level.


A girl into once chatted me, and all she could talk of was Food. It was an endless talk because I like food and I like to talk about different foods.

It wasn't phone call. @bolded, a woman who don't like you, or is skeptical, or never chose you will never make express herself.
Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by PatienceJames(f): 6:10pm On Sep 08, 2020
life without a boyfriend is less stress just pray and wait for ur husband some relationship does not worth it

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by sirjoe1124(m): 6:16pm On Sep 08, 2020
Regex:


Me: How are you?
Her: I'm fine thank you.
Me: How was your weekend?
Her: it was fine.
Me: How is your day going ?
Her: it's fine.


This was a conversation between me and a girl this morning.....

Tell me how you all can contribute?
Move on she no like you

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Dalby(m): 6:26pm On Sep 08, 2020
ubunja:

Because men can't invest in a woman they don't exclusively own.

My point exactly, the other man does not know of the existence of this man...

She alone knows all the parties involved and deals with them on a one on one basis...

Frankly it is the lady with boyfriend that complains of being broke because sources are limited and the boyfriend is stretched beyond limits...

undecided undecided undecided
Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by ubunja(m): 6:31pm On Sep 08, 2020
Dalby:


My point exactly, the other man does not know of the existence of this man...

She alone knows all the parties involved and deals with them on a one on one basis...

Frankly it is the lady with boyfriend that complains of being broke because sources are limited and the boyfriend is stretched beyond limits...

undecided undecided undecided
you're missing the point I just made.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by CHoccolaTE: 6:34pm On Sep 08, 2020
Ladycewhy:
Nigerian women dey try sha, putting up with such creatures is not an easy task.

They are really trying,
Problem causing backward sex obsessed societal rejects.
Tueh,
Tufiakwa for the useless pieces of shit.
I knew before I opened the thread that the frustrated rats would have successfully derailed it with their eternal whining and I wasnt wrong

Just look at the mess, 11 pages of complaining and whinging, their excuse is that women would not contribute to the thread so they decided to help us contribute so that the thread will not waste grin

But they will not post in politics or education topics so that those threads won't waste.

Goats.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:39pm On Sep 08, 2020
Difficult to get genuine born again bro. I end up discovering most of them are just Church goer's after weighing them and so the waiting continues.
Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Ladycewhy(f): 6:44pm On Sep 08, 2020
CHoccolaTE:


They are really trying,
Problem causing backward sex obsessed societal rejects.
Tueh,
Tufiakwa for the useless pieces of shit.
I knew before I opened the thread that the frustrated rats would have successfully derailed it with their eternal whining and I wasnt wrong

Just look at the mess, 11 pages of complaining and whinging, their excuse is that women would not contribute to the thread so they decided to help us contribute so that the thread will not waste grin

But they will not post in politics or education topics so that those threads won't waste.


Goats.
the bolded grin grin cheesy

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by TheRedpillguy: 7:00pm On Sep 08, 2020
Ladycewhy:
on the contrary, there is one guy out there who would have been blessed being with me. I will have a white sperm donor when I am ready to have kids. The baby and the money what else can a woman ask for grin.


You penis people make yourselves too important in that Nigeria. Nigerian women dey try sha, putting up with such creatures is not an easy task.
Well good luck with that.

Am cool long as u you are not making a man miserable. Knock your self out.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Ladycewhy(f): 7:01pm On Sep 08, 2020
TheRedpillguy:

Well good luck with that.

Am cool long as u you not making a man miserable. Knock your self out.
lol, for a group of men who rape their own daughters in that country ,you Nigerian men are not all that, spits. It's actually men who have to be tolerated and put up with as far as Nigeria is concerned.


I am sure the useless tradition and religion is the reason why many women still put up with creatures from that country.Nigerian women dey try sha.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by THEGALADIMA(m): 7:01pm On Sep 08, 2020
Jorby:
Any girl who is yet to have a boyfried is an under 18. Since i was born and now that i'm getting old, i have never seen a girl above 18 without a ßoyfriend.
ßrothers have you seen?
So many?
Even very attractive ones at that seff

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Torie8(f): 7:07pm On Sep 08, 2020
ubunja:
Women have more sex when single than when they have a boyfriend.

As hard to imagine as it may be for guys.

What girls lack when they dont have a boyfriend is money. Not sex.



I will quote you wrong and that simply means what you wrote is a lie. Write-ups based on fallacies.
Get your facts right and quote me

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by ibuildstuff(m): 7:08pm On Sep 08, 2020
larryking540:


point of corrections ,not broke ,but avoid to be broke and left more broken when she see a new potential client ,so it's better be hustle hard and make the ladies baby mama , atleast it's a win win situation ,nobody cries
They are broke unless u are not in Nigeria. Alot of people are damn broke, e nor get how u wan talk am pass.

Is like most of u don't interact with people. Go out, talk to people enter Twitter n see what's up. This country is finished.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Regex: 7:14pm On Sep 08, 2020
sirjoe1124:

Move on she no like you

I already know that. I'm asking the women what they can contribute to this thread if they chat like that.
Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by ubunja(m): 7:15pm On Sep 08, 2020
Torie8:

I will quote you wrong and that simply means what you wrote is a lie. Write-ups based on fallacies.
Get your facts right and quote me
who cares about you??

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Slimmy0: 7:23pm On Sep 08, 2020
Hmmmm... this is how the society see women, WOW!!!
God! help our generation please.
Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by TheRedpillguy: 7:27pm On Sep 08, 2020
Ladycewhy:
lol, for a group of men who rape their own daughters in that country ,you Nigerian men are not all that, spits. It's actually men who have to be tolerated and put up with as far as Nigeria is concerned.


I am sure the useless tradition and religion is the reason why many women still put up with creatures from that country.Nigerian women dey try sha.
Daniel H..

Say what you will, I probably have similar view on north Korea.

I work so hard, all day on the internet and off the internet to make sure men avoid women like you for their mental wellbeing. You taking your self out makes my job alot easier. Its like the trash taking its self out. Its beautiful. I don't care about what you. Just stay TF away from Men. Thank you.

Accept my condolence for your future white sperm donor baby. He/she is not Here and he/she life is already doom. Poor baby.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by bukatyne(f): 7:30pm On Sep 08, 2020
cooooooks:
I knew a foreign person who wanted to know more about Nigeria, I think she was dating a Nigerian guy.

After 2 months, she left all her Nigerian FB groups and quit twitter.

Why?

Every discussion boils down to banging.


Hahahahahahahaha!

What other emotional stimulation does an average Nigerian have? undecided

Omolomo sa fun Emi e!

So far, the thread has all been about sex and money.

The only things a typical Nigerian knows.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by bukatyne(f): 7:32pm On Sep 08, 2020
proclinician:


Ubunja is very much smarter than you and I can't see any trace of intelligence in your thinking. Before a young woman chooses a boyfriend what comes to mind is the competition. Most women below 25 has a group of friends, these are not friends in the traditional sense of the word but they're competitors. They compete on who has the latest bag, shoes, expensive treats, trips, wears the most expensive cologne etc. This factor shows you why there's a lot of jealousy among female cliques because each is constantly trying to outdo the other. In Nigeria where young women are judged to be incapable of doing most of the jobs and where they also have to resort on the ever booming but saturated beauty industry to feedback on the competition, they're not very likely to make a lot of money here so it's guys that finance this competition. When I was in school I dated this particular girl who has about 3 very close friends-cum-enemies. They fight everyday and they're best friends. They lie to each other they say all manner of things out of jealousy that are just unbelievable. One day this girl received a Zara 8.0 designer perfume from her brother in Dubai and she told these friends that I, her boyfriend got it for her. These friends started gisting her how they will change it for their boyfriends until the poor guy buys them perfume worth over 20k. The day we broke up was after the clique was in my room then so I noticed they wanted to discuss something but just going superficially. Before then I have gotten a wind that my girl is cheating with a yahoo guy. I told them I wanted to get something outside so they should stay. I left my phone on voice recording and hid it somewhere in the room. After 30 mins I returned, played the record in front of everyone and all hell was let loose. Just there I called it quit.

You have the wrong perception of everything and I wonder if you've had any experience with young women. When a woman makes it known to u she's not after your money, she has another boyfriend or she's a prostitute. She has to be in the competition and if you're not financing it, somebody else is.

The kind of women you guys meet eh!
Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by bukatyne(f): 7:36pm On Sep 08, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


THIS IS WHY THROUGHOUT MY ENTIRE LIFETIME I HAVE ALWAYS SAID THAT MEN ARE THE DUMB FISHBRAINS. FROM NIGERIA TO USA, SINCE THE BEGINNING OF THE EARTH, IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN THIS WAY AND SIMPING WILL EXIST FOREVER BECAUSE OF TESTOSTERONE.

That is how nature made it.

A woman who is soft would get a man who loves her to do anything. The boundaries would now be dependent on his self-esteem.

He would conquer the world and bring it to her feet.

Problem starts when baby girl wants to engage the man with 'power' instead of 'influence'; 'hardness' instead of 'softness'.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by bukatyne(f): 7:41pm On Sep 08, 2020
Haywhymido:
Ladies treat good men with no respect in their prime then expect to marry such men after they have played around town with the bad ones. Men are learning fast.

Only a FOOLISH good man with no premium on himself would do that.

Good men with self respect insist on good women.

All the virgin Brothers I know got married to virgins. They wouldn't marry otherwise.

That's why social and emotional intelligence is important.

Teach your kids to be good and choose well.

Also, I am a great fan to catching yourselves young.

Less baggage, less idiosyncrasies and easier to bond that way.

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by TheRedpillguy: 7:41pm On Sep 08, 2020
bukatyne:


Hahahahahahahaha!

What other emotional stimulation does an average Nigerian have? undecided

Omolomo sa fun Emi e!

So far, the thread has all been about sex and money.

The only things a typical Nigerian knows.

Do us a Favour and tell us what you know. Will you be obliged to discuss string theory? How about quantum computing, maybe less talk about space x falcon 9. Are you down for that? Nots like there have been threads here where they talk about politics and programming. Typical Nigerians Men, we just sit and talk about sex all day long. Thanks for pointing that out even thou it might be a thread that sex related topics will need to be discussed. We apologize . Please can you go ahead all mighty non sex talking goddess of all, tell us what to talk about?

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Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by bukatyne(f): 7:46pm On Sep 08, 2020
TheRedpillguy:


Do us a Favour and tell us what you know. Will you be obliged to discuss string theory? How about quantum computing, maybe less talk about space x falcon 9. Are you down for that? Nots like there have been threads here where they talk about politics and programming. Typical Nigerians Men, we just sit and talk about sex all day long. Thanks for pointing that out even thou it might be a thread that sex related topics will discuss in. We apologize. Please can you go ahead all mighty non sex talking goddess of all, tell us what to talk about?

Sex and money is the only thing to discuss?

Polictics? Culture? Food? Travel? Investment? Relationship? Spiritual life? Trending issues? Work? Education? Health sector? Security? Power? Inept leaders? Family?

It does not seem like Nigerian men even talk about sex (it is a fantastic, broad topic): they just think women they spend money on owe them sex undecided

And I said Nigerians in my post: not 'Nigerian man'.

Since you want to make it about the men, carry on.

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