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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by BanRobinson: 12:27pm On Sep 10, 2020
Kingscee:
Guy focus on your education first and forget about HOLE for now, nothing good comes out of it except giving birth, make money first the rest will be assured, and they will be the one running after you.

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Prechgold1180(m): 12:27pm On Sep 10, 2020
MrTee28:
At 23, the best thing you are worried about is asking a girl out.
Develop your self rather. What will you gain by asking them out?
oga shut up Nigerians are way too backward
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by jaxxy(m): 12:27pm On Sep 10, 2020
Jfix:
Please nairalanders
I'm 23, turning 24 next Month October and I have never asked a girl out. The truth is that I have been scared, literally afraid of talking to them, I do have female friends But Occasionally when it comes to asking any girl I liked out, I just go off not being able even communicate my feeling to them.

I do see teenagers of 16 and 17 years claiming to be in a relationship and I wonder how is that possible.

This is irritating because I hang of with guys and we all try to boost of being smart and sharp guys but deep down I know that I'm just blabbing cause when the opportunity comes I just find a way to avoid it.

I'm i a simp or do everyone goes through the same thing and I might overcome it later please let me know cause it really embarrassing to know a problem and still act like everything is okay.

U have to work on urself intentionally or else even at 30 u may not still overcome it. U have a lot to offer bt don’t know how to communicate it sensibly or in the right way.

Most sharp guys now went through this uphill journey b4 becoming good or great at it. Calm down and learn.

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by RPG2020(m): 12:27pm On Sep 10, 2020
bjprodint:
pls study hard,clean up,make money,they will ask u out




am not responsible for what i just typed,my fingers are!


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wow,another ftc on front page

i want to dedicate this great achievement to my late mum,i promised to make her proud,and am doing it.

i dedicate this to my c.r.k teacher in secondary school,aunty vicky thanks for making me believe in myself.

my jealous neighbours ,its unfortunate that you cant see this achievement but hey,we go party with enough cabin biscuit this weekend.

thank you nairaland for making me happy today because am really down.


Finally Thank you for making someone smile ��

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Nobody: 12:28pm On Sep 10, 2020
Jfix see the funniest thing is that nobody will teach you.
When the time come you'll see that courage will come from no where .
It's a normal thing especially for first timer
I was once like you even back then my two legs use to shake if I want to woo a lady .
Even till now I sometimes get scared in the process,especially if the lady is porch but not like before whereby my two legs will be shaking grin
Don't worry na guy's like you dey later turn bad guy. grin

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Nobody: 12:29pm On Sep 10, 2020
GreenKalada:


Lol good for you. But the dude needs a lady in his life that's important. You Nigerians put too much emphasis on money money money!!! That's why your country has a failed system, corrupt politicians, yahoo boys and runs girls everywhere...
Brother it is not really about money, haven't you seen the useless misogynistic threads bouncing up and down on NL, this is how they start, a boy wants to date for fck, he finally gets to date then the girl no gree fck am then he comes back here to disturb us about "useless Nigerian women that are only good as sex objects".

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by AshipaEk0: 12:30pm On Sep 10, 2020
Jfix:
Please nairalanders
I'm 23, turning 24 next Month October and I have never asked a girl out. The truth is that I have been scared, literally afraid of talking to them, I do have female friends But Occasionally when it comes to asking any girl I liked out, I just go off not being able even communicate my feeling to them.

I do see teenagers of 16 and 17 years claiming to be in a relationship and I wonder how is that possible.

This is irritating because I hang of with guys and we all try to boost of being smart and sharp guys but deep down I know that I'm just blabbing cause when the opportunity comes I just find a way to avoid it.

I'm i a simp or do everyone goes through the same thing and I might overcome it later please let me know cause it really embarrassing to know a problem and still act like everything is okay.

At your age you should be focused on other things.

you'll only understand later in life sha.

truthfully when i was at that age i couldn't understand when people told me the same thing.

women will flock to you effortlessly later in life if you have the right priorities now and achieve all you are meant to.

so be patient. dem no dey win medal for woman matter. thats the original vanity in life


moreover, you will only get heartbroken over and over.

prioritize friendships and getting ahead.

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Murjem(m): 12:30pm On Sep 10, 2020
At age 23, asking any woman out shouldn't be a priority to you...

Truth is always bitter anyway.

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by soleexx(m): 12:31pm On Sep 10, 2020
I don't understand the word scared!

Ask her out

She only have two option for you

Yes or No

Yes! Congrats,
No! Move on
And find another lady that will value you.

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by SocialJustice: 12:31pm On Sep 10, 2020
Jfix:
Please nairalanders
I'm 23, turning 24 next Month October and I have never asked a girl out. The truth is that I have been scared, literally afraid of talking to them, I do have female friends But Occasionally when it comes to asking any girl I liked out, I just go off not being able even communicate my feeling to them.

I do see teenagers of 16 and 17 years claiming to be in a relationship and I wonder how is that possible.

This is irritating because I hang of with guys and we all try to boost of being smart and sharp guys but deep down I know that I'm just blabbing cause when the opportunity comes I just find a way to avoid it.

I'm i a simp or do everyone goes through the same thing and I might overcome it later please let me know cause it really embarrassing to know a problem and still act like everything is okay.
The earlier you start the better. Just ask. There's no other way to do it. To make it easier, ask for number and ask them out through WhatsApp. Remember, the earlier you start, the better.

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Nobody: 12:31pm On Sep 10, 2020
Voggonto:
Am 26 with same problem

Are u not afraid to be a father now, can you feed urself not to talk of kids and woman?

Its normal if u still fear to ask girl at ur age, you don't need woman now but money.

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by SheyiFCA: 12:31pm On Sep 10, 2020
goan make money first !

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Emaprince: 12:32pm On Sep 10, 2020
Carmal90:
This thing did me till I reach 25 years.....
I had to watched and read a little still no headings, I summoned courage and told a girl let be dating, though she didn't agree to date but I was relieved, ever since then na cruise...
How far babe, can you verify my girlfriend??
Straight up, no hidden, no sweet talk...
Verify your girlfriend?
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Nobody: 12:33pm On Sep 10, 2020
SegFault:

Brother it is not really about money, haven't you seen the useless misogynistic threads bouncing up and down on NL, this is how they start, a boy wants to date for fck, he finally gets to date then the girl no gree fck am then he comes back here to disturb us about "useless Nigerian women that are only good as sex objects".

Hmm! Well I'm aware of that. But he just wants some advice on how to boost his self-esteem when with the opposite sex. I don't think there is anything wrong with that.

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by solmusdesigns: 12:33pm On Sep 10, 2020
grin



All you have to do is to start asking a girl out. No two ways about it , expect rejection and shakara but that's part of the excitement and thrill...

Let me give you a simple plan

*Every fvcking day walk up to a girl and give her honest compliments

*Ask her for her number and if she would like to hangout

* Go out with girls to hangout spots and have real discussions with them



.

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by money121(m): 12:34pm On Sep 10, 2020
Ok
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by zicoraads: 12:35pm On Sep 10, 2020
You should.

Focus on bettering yourself first.

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Nobody: 12:36pm On Sep 10, 2020
Konji neva hol u b4. lipsrsealed
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by WorkTheTalk(m): 12:37pm On Sep 10, 2020
At 23, don't kill yourself if you're not having your way with girls yet. You still have better things to do at this formative age. A time will come when having them will just come naturally. Focus on earning good income, and women will even be the one asking you out.

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by yemionline(m): 12:37pm On Sep 10, 2020
All In Good time bro

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by DoubleEngine007: 12:37pm On Sep 10, 2020
Op they will only distract you.. Girls are not what you need right now at age 23.. But if you insist......Truth is, asking a girl out is not hard as you think.. The key is being yourself and saying what's on your mind. Don't be afraid of rejection, and also learn to watch out for green light.. Don't go asking ,as if your whole life depends on it. Go with the mindset of making frds, just like you are with ur male frds. Ask and see what comes out of it.. This way you won't feel anything, even if she says she is not interested. (Back then wen we dey learn,my teacher go say ...Shoot 5,atleast one must enter grin)

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Nobody: 12:38pm On Sep 10, 2020
GreenKalada:


Lol good for you. But the dude needs a lady in his life that's important. You Nigerians put too much emphasis on money money money!!! That's why your country has a failed system, corrupt politicians, yahoo boys and runs girls everywhere...

Money is important all over the world
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Chris2863(m): 12:38pm On Sep 10, 2020
bjprodint:
pls study hard,clean up,make money,they will ask u out




am not responsible for what i just typed,my fingers are!


modified
wow,another ftc on front page

i want to dedicate this great achievement to my late mum,i promised to make her proud,and am doing it.

i dedicate this to my c.r.k teacher in secondary school,aunty vicky thanks for making me believe in myself.

my jealous neighbours ,its unfortunate that you cant see this achievement but hey,we go party with enough cabin biscuit this weekend.

thank you nairaland for making me happy today because am really down.

Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by ViktorCash: 12:39pm On Sep 10, 2020
My brother,go and make money. Dont give yourself headache over any girl.it is not worth it.

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Chris2863(m): 12:39pm On Sep 10, 2020
lefulefu2:
guy be focused in passing ur jamb first
leave girl matter for the now
there is time for everything
grin grin grin grin did he tell you he is still writing jamb?

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by MrNipplesLover(m): 12:39pm On Sep 10, 2020
see advices everywhere make him go face studies grin


how I wish say I got these advices before I fvcked a girl for the first time in my life at 15 or before self. grin

I started running GFs parole immediately.



still..... grin grin

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Sterope(f): 12:39pm On Sep 10, 2020
You are obviously an idiot if you can drag 'simp' into an unrelated matter.
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by omooba969(m): 12:40pm On Sep 10, 2020
bjprodint:
pls study hard,clean up, make money, they will ask u out




am not responsible for what i just typed,my fingers are!


modified
wow,another ftc on front page

i want to dedicate this great achievement to my late mum,i promised to make her proud,and am doing it.

i dedicate this to my c.r.k teacher in secondary school,aunty vicky thanks for making me believe in myself.

my jealous neighbours ,its unfortunate that you cant see this achievement but hey,we go party with enough cabin biscuit this weekend.

thank you nairaland for making me happy today because am really down.

EVERYTHING IS ABOUT MONEY.

Very vain and artificial bunch. cool
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Openbusiness: 12:40pm On Sep 10, 2020
Nawa oh, OP, I really feel for u. Wish I could type the solution for you, but my mind no dey dar side now. Asking a girl out is the 2nd most EASIEST thing to do in the world. The 1st is breathing. See how easy and natural breathing is, that's almost how easy it is to scope any girl. Na fear of rejection dey make many guys no dey get liver to talk. See dis life, u gotta embrace rejection, OWN IT, see it as no big deal, then kaboom, everything will just be flowing like milk and honey, because when rejection is tired of you and see say u sef no dey send am again, one day one day, the doors of acceptance will begin to open and open and open till u blow. Na dar time u go dey land like 10 babes in a week, dey change woman like singlets. But las las, u will realize that there's more to life than women and just get tired of everything and move on to a higher purpose in Life.

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Chris2863(m): 12:40pm On Sep 10, 2020
fuckingAyaya:
Pass WAEC first

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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Nobody: 12:40pm On Sep 10, 2020
SegFault:

Brother it is not really about money, haven't you seen the useless misogynistic threads bouncing up and down on NL, this is how they start, a boy wants to date for fck, he finally gets to date then the girl no gree fck am then he comes back here to disturb us about "useless Nigerian women that are only good as sex objects".


Thank you my oga, many of those guys bashing women are completely frustrated in dating women, they are outwitted by guys that better than them, they now resulted to condemn women as if they are not part and parcel of our society, they also resulted to names calling for guys that outplayed them in game of dating, you can see op who is still teenager has been referring to " simp

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