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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 10:47pm On Sep 11, 2020

intresting love story although it didnt end well.. I wish it ended in mariage with a son to succed him now that he's no more.. R.I.P soldier!

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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 10:54pm On Sep 11, 2020

sounds like a gentle man..though your story sounds zee worldish cheesy

.And as for saying u expected him to bug u on ur inbox as most naija guys do..why would he do such? he clearly has a job to face and one breakup wont now make him be pestering u on inbox.To me its mostly jobless men who pester women on inbox and on the street when such women have made up their mind.You hardly see a man who has job or something going for him pestering women all about.Its jobless men who do such.

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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by otunbadan(m): 10:55pm On Sep 11, 2020

Most unlikely

ZINIBANKS:
And the day he will beat you to stupor
You will come and complain here again

Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 10:57pm On Sep 11, 2020

Ayemileto:
You already broke up with him na. How's he still your love?

.

okafor"s law guy cheesy

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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by bakol: 10:59pm On Sep 11, 2020

This is heart touching...may his gentle soul rest in peace...

Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Simplyleo: 11:00pm On Sep 11, 2020

How many monikers are you using at a time

Saphiere
Saaphiere

huh

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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by mariahAngel(f): 11:00pm On Sep 11, 2020

saaphiere:
If you are dating or ever dated a military personnel, share your experience.

Here is mine.

There's this naval officer I met years back in Port Harcourt. We were sitting opposite each other in a wedding reception but from a distance. The way he was looking at me, I knew he had something to tell me. He was very neat from head to toe. I love neat and smart people. I guess that was what made be fell easily for him.

He was a shy type. He couldn't even approached me. So he gave someone his number to give me. Immediately the piece of paper where he wrote his number was handed over to me, he left his seat. I didn't see him again till I left the venue.
Some days passed, I call his number and he picked. We started talking till we became more familiar and wanted something more so we dated.
He was every caring.

The first day he invited me to his house, I thought he will demand for sex like most Nigerian men do but to my surprise he didn't.
Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened.
The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him.
There were moments I could not go a day without setting my eyes on him. He was so meek and down to earth.He told me if he wasn't in the military he would be a pastor.

After months of dating him, trouble set in. He wasn't having time for me anymore due to the nature of his work. I was in a relationship but I was lonely. He will go for months and I won't hear from him.

There was a time he told me he was going for two weeks operation and after two weeks he will be back.

Two weeks came and gone I didn't hear from my love. A month came and gone still didn't hear from him. After 3 months I heard a news that militants attacked Nigerian Naval officers I knew my love was among them. I would cry myself to sleep. I later put myself together and moved on.

Two years later he called me. I was shocked. I didn't believe he was the one so I requested to see him in person. He came all the way to PH. When I saw him at first, I wanted to run because I thought he was his ghost. He proved to me that he was real and not a ghost then told me everything that happened.

Right there I told him I've moved on and I can't continue again. He knelt down and begged me to marry him I told him I can't. That he is not always around me.

He left that day in tears. I unfriend him on my Facebook and he didn't bug me like most Nigerian men would do after telling them it's over they still come to your inbox disturbing you. He was so so cool and a quiet type.

Today I went to Facebook, I just decided to chat him up. I was shocked by what I saw on his timeline.

Rest on my love.

It was a beautiful love story which ended tragically. sad

Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Sniper101(m): 11:05pm On Sep 11, 2020

Poorly written piece of shit.

Next please...

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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by themaestro08(m): 11:06pm On Sep 11, 2020

"Soldiers never die, they rest." R.I.P to all our fallen heroes cry

I pay my respect cry

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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by blackgoldd(m): 11:07pm On Sep 11, 2020

saaphiere:
He was the best. Very calm. The problem was not having time.

That's for their men, they are always cool and calm but their ladies are the worst thing that can happen to u, I just broke up with one, the experience was too bitter for me to share,

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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by lecturer50(m): 11:08pm On Sep 11, 2020*

Dating a female soldier is actually a very wonderful experience.

It gives you a bit of protection beccause civilians will be afraid to do you wrong.

So you are save with her.

Another thing is that a military lady is feared and respected by civilians.

So if you are able to date her, your fear for her will add to the pleasure you will enjoy with her.

Remember that we are attracted to things that frighten us, things that can discipline us.

The fear for these things add to our pleasure, according to phycologists.

Imagine a dark skin,no nonsense female soldier who is feared and respected by all.

And you are able to friend her. It is one of the best things to happen to a man.

Getting some one whom you fear and who possesses the capacity to harm or discipline you,and making her to love you and be your girl friend,is the greatest pleasure you can find.

I speak from experience.

Marrying a young female no nonsense soldier is my dream.

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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Broadmind: 11:12pm On Sep 11, 2020

What killed him?

Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Sniper101(m): 11:13pm On Sep 11, 2020

solmusdesigns:
Respect the dead Naa, and try respect the mourning girl too

.

LMAO
Bros, who you say dey mourn?

Babe wey dun already dey receive another d!ck since na e you say dey mourn grin

Mourning kor Moaning ni

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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Jaqenhghar: 11:16pm On Sep 11, 2020

saaphiere:
If you are dating or ever dated a military personnel, share your experience.

Here is mine.

There's this naval officer I met years back in Port Harcourt. We were sitting opposite each other in a wedding reception but from a distance. The way he was looking at me, I knew he had something to tell me. He was very neat from head to toe. I love neat and smart people. I guess that was what made be fell easily for him.

He was a shy type. He couldn't even approached me. So he gave someone his number to give me. Immediately the piece of paper where he wrote his number was handed over to me, he left his seat. I didn't see him again till I left the venue.
Some days passed, I call his number and he picked. We started talking till we became more familiar and wanted something more so we dated.
He was every caring.

The first day he invited me to his house, I thought he will demand for sex like most Nigerian men do but to my surprise he didn't.
Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened.
The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him.
There were moments I could not go a day without setting my eyes on him. He was so meek and down to earth.He told me if he wasn't in the military he would be a pastor.

After months of dating him, trouble set in. He wasn't having time for me anymore due to the nature of his work. I was in a relationship but I was lonely. He will go for months and I won't hear from him.

There was a time he told me he was going for two weeks operation and after two weeks he will be back.

Two weeks came and gone I didn't hear from my love. A month came and gone still didn't hear from him. After 3 months I heard a news that militants attacked Nigerian Naval officers I knew my love was among them. I would cry myself to sleep. I later put myself together and moved on.

Two years later he called me. I was shocked. I didn't believe he was the one so I requested to see him in person. He came all the way to PH. When I saw him at first, I wanted to run because I thought he was his ghost. He proved to me that he was real and not a ghost then told me everything that happened.

Right there I told him I've moved on and I can't continue again. He knelt down and begged me to marry him I told him I can't. That he is not always around me.

He left that day in tears. I unfriend him on my Facebook and he didn't bug me like most Nigerian men would do after telling them it's over they still come to your inbox disturbing you. He was so so cool and a quiet type.

Today I went to Facebook, I just decided to chat him up. I was shocked by what I saw on his timeline.

Rest on my love.

. It was bever meant to be.

Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Jaqenhghar: 11:17pm On Sep 11, 2020

blackgoldd:
That's for their men, they are always cool and calm but their ladies are the worst thing that can happen to u, I just broke up with one, the experience was too bitter for me to share,

.abeg share your story nah

Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nobody: 11:17pm On Sep 11, 2020

saaphiere:
If you are dating or ever dated a military ~~personnel~~ officer, share your experience.

Here is mine.

There's this naval officer I met years back in Port Harcourt. We were sitting opposite each other in a wedding reception but from a distance. The way he was looking at me, I knew he had something to tell me. He was very neat from head to toe. I love neat and smart people. I guess that was what made be fell easily for him.

He was a shy type. He couldn't even approached me. So he gave someone his number to give me. Immediately the piece of paper where he wrote his number was handed over to me, he left his seat. I didn't see him again till I left the venue.
Some days passed, I call his number and he picked. We started talking till we became more familiar and wanted something more so we dated.
He was every caring.

The first day he invited me to his house, I thought he will demand for sex like most Nigerian men do but to my surprise he didn't.
Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened.
The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him.
There were moments I could not go a day without setting my eyes on him. He was so meek and down to earth.He told me if he wasn't in the military he would be a pastor.

After months of dating him, trouble set in. He wasn't having time for me anymore due to the nature of his work. I was in a relationship but I was lonely. He will go for months and I won't hear from him.

There was a time he told me he was going for two weeks operation and after two weeks he will be back.

Two weeks came and gone I didn't hear from my love. A month came and gone still didn't hear from him. After 3 months I heard a news that militants attacked Nigerian Naval officers I knew my love was among them. I would cry myself to sleep. I later put myself together and moved on.

Two years later he called me. I was shocked. I didn't believe he was the one so I requested to see him in person. He came all the way to PH. When I saw him at first, I wanted to run because I thought he was his ghost. He proved to me that he was real and not a ghost then told me everything that happened.

Right there I told him I've moved on and I can't continue again. He knelt down and begged me to marry him I told him I can't. That he is not always around me.

He left that day in tears. I unfriend him on my Facebook and he didn't bug me like most Nigerian men would do after telling them it's over they still come to your inbox disturbing you. He was so so cool and a quiet type.

Today I went to Facebook, I just decided to chat him up. I was shocked by what I saw on his timeline.

Rest on my love.

Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by mynd1(f): 11:18pm On Sep 11, 2020

Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Nimirayz: 11:20pm On Sep 11, 2020

Me singing : "This is super story ....alafonstrafensoro ....this is super story e e e " ...
Thank u ( bows out )

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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by phlame(m): 11:24pm On Sep 11, 2020

saaphiere:
If you are dating or ever dated a military personnel, share your experience.

Here is mine.

There's this naval officer I met years back in Port Harcourt. We were sitting opposite each other in a wedding reception but from a distance. The way he was looking at me, I knew he had something to tell me. He was very neat from head to toe. I love neat and smart people. I guess that was what made be fell easily for him.

He was a shy type. He couldn't even approached me. So he gave someone his number to give me. Immediately the piece of paper where he wrote his number was handed over to me, he left his seat. I didn't see him again till I left the venue.
Some days passed, I call his number and he picked. We started talking till we became more familiar and wanted something more so we dated.
He was every caring.

The first day he invited me to his house, I thought he will demand for sex like most Nigerian men do but to my surprise he didn't.
Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened.
The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him.
There were moments I could not go a day without setting my eyes on him. He was so meek and down to earth.He told me if he wasn't in the military he would be a pastor.

After months of dating him, trouble set in. He wasn't having time for me anymore due to the nature of his work. I was in a relationship but I was lonely. He will go for months and I won't hear from him.

There was a time he told me he was going for two weeks operation and after two weeks he will be back.

Two weeks came and gone I didn't hear from my love. A month came and gone still didn't hear from him. After 3 months I heard a news that militants attacked Nigerian Naval officers I knew my love was among them. I would cry myself to sleep. I later put myself together and moved on.

Two years later he called me. I was shocked. I didn't believe he was the one so I requested to see him in person. He came all the way to PH. When I saw him at first, I wanted to run because I thought he was his ghost. He proved to me that he was real and not a ghost then told me everything that happened.

Right there I told him I've moved on and I can't continue again. He knelt down and begged me to marry him I told him I can't. That he is not always around me.

He left that day in tears. I unfriend him on my Facebook and he didn't bug me like most Nigerian men would do after telling them it's over they still come to your inbox disturbing you. He was so so cool and a quiet type.

Today I went to Facebook, I just decided to chat him up. I was shocked by what I saw on his timeline.

Rest on my love.

Damn!!!

This is so heart breaking... cry

Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by humilitypays(m): 11:25pm On Sep 11, 2020

danielistics:
Today's episode on 'Things that never happened'.

Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Tbasicme: 11:25pm On Sep 11, 2020

saaphiere:
Hmm! It is well. Military personnel are prisoners. That's how I feel. They can leave you even at mid night when duty calls.

But they need to be appreciated because most of them risk their lives to see that you are safe. Many of them risk their relationship, love, family, health and friends for your safety. Tribute to all our Heroes

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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by humilitypays(m): 11:25pm On Sep 11, 2020

poweredcom:
@op how this one wan take put food for our tables

You ladies live a life of fairy tales

Abeg make we hear word jare ..nonsense post

Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by seguno2: 11:26pm On Sep 11, 2020

ABANGWABOI:
#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

You just brought back memories
Lost the best woman ever for me coz of my job..
There wasa time i spent roughly 3 years in the jungle.. travelling just thrice within the period..
Babe, thought Boko haram dn kill me finish..jungle wey network to make call no even dey sef..
Didn't blame her for moving on..

Halima, anywhere you are.. You are a beautiful soul... If i could turn back the hands of time, would have married you in 2012.. my son would have been 8 yrs old by now..
It is well thou..

That is why there should be a mail service for the soldiers and officers.

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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Goldenfinger: 11:26pm On Sep 11, 2020

I am here mastubating and dis pple are talking love.chai dis life nor balance.

Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Charlievids(m): 11:27pm On Sep 11, 2020

lol, he can't stay in the same play forever though

MAMBA LIVES

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h7E1degySXc

Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by SenecaTheYonger: 11:28pm On Sep 11, 2020

saaphiere:
If you are dating or ever dated a military personnel, share your experience.

Here is mine.

There's this naval officer I met years back in Port Harcourt. We were sitting opposite each other in a wedding reception but from a distance. The way he was looking at me, I knew he had something to tell me. He was very neat from head to toe. I love neat and smart people. I guess that was what made be fell easily for him.

He was a shy type. He couldn't even approached me. So he gave someone his number to give me. Immediately the piece of paper where he wrote his number was handed over to me, he left his seat. I didn't see him again till I left the venue.
Some days passed, I call his number and he picked. We started talking till we became more familiar and wanted something more so we dated.
He was every caring.

The first day he invited me to his house, I thought he will demand for sex like most Nigerian men do but to my surprise he didn't.
Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened.
The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him.
There were moments I could not go a day without setting my eyes on him. He was so meek and down to earth.He told me if he wasn't in the military he would be a pastor.

After months of dating him, trouble set in. He wasn't having time for me anymore due to the nature of his work. I was in a relationship but I was lonely. He will go for months and I won't hear from him.

There was a time he told me he was going for two weeks operation and after two weeks he will be back.

Two weeks came and gone I didn't hear from my love. A month came and gone still didn't hear from him. After 3 months I heard a news that militants attacked Nigerian Naval officers I knew my love was among them. I would cry myself to sleep. I later put myself together and moved on.

Two years later he called me. I was shocked. I didn't believe he was the one so I requested to see him in person. He came all the way to PH. When I saw him at first, I wanted to run because I thought he was his ghost. He proved to me that he was real and not a ghost then told me everything that happened.

Right there I told him I've moved on and I can't continue again. He knelt down and begged me to marry him I told him I can't. That he is not always around me.

He left that day in tears. I unfriend him on my Facebook and he didn't bug me like most Nigerian men would do after telling them it's over they still come to your inbox disturbing you. He was so so cool and a quiet type.

Today I went to Facebook, I just decided to chat him up. I was shocked by what I saw on his timeline.

Rest on my love.

Is this a real life story? Because this is very sad and I doubt you'd be able to pen down this experience the way you did if it's something that happened to you personally. Also, are you Sapphire on NL long ago? If yes, then this story is faake because the Sapphire I knew didn't like men.

Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by AssistantJesus1: 11:29pm On Sep 11, 2020

Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Excuses: 11:29pm On Sep 11, 2020

u just scripted a storey outta ur head to keep folks busy...u planned it from day time til, u executed it, but its still lies..!

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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by seguno2: 11:30pm On Sep 11, 2020

saaphiere:
You mustn't live in a confined environment to become a prisoner. Stay safe wherever you are. You guys are great people.

Don’t generalise.
Most of our military people are useless in their oppression of civilians. Trash who deserve whatever they get in the war front.

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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by humilitypays(m): 11:32pm On Sep 11, 2020

LadySarah:
My inlaws cousin married a soldier. Just after their marriage he was called for an operation. She took in and had a baby that should be over 3 yrs ow but hasn't seen her dad.
Nobody has heard from him since 4 yrs now. The baby too later died.

My sis just told me the girl remarried early this yr. Wow! Just like that.

Since then when I see pre-wedding photos of soldiers with their brides, I feel sad for them.

Nigerian military was very sweet like oil company job until Northern politicians and Islamic extremists joined together and formed Boko Haram!!

Instead of Nigerian soldiers to pour their anger on Northern Muslims who created Boko Haram with their extreme Islamic doctrines of decades which made Northern youths easy tools for Islamic extremists, they rather come to southern Nigeria to kill, intimidate and extort law abiding Southern Nigerian youths who are after their financial success and happiness in life!!!

Northern Nigeria is the reason Nigeria is gradually turning to Afghanistan and they don't even feel bad about it, instead they brag in their wickedness and Islamic extremism instead of looking for ways to even do away with Islam or extreme Islamic practice to make their region safe for them again angry

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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by mogboyelade(f): 11:35pm On Sep 11, 2020

hmmmmmmmmm! tell me the story is not true because am shedding tears already o.

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Re: Dating A Military Personnel: My Experience. by Rawhumper(m): 11:36pm On Sep 11, 2020

I guess he was not an officer. Ratings and non Commisioned officers bear The weight.

Am an in-law to a Navy Captain,he married my sis after their youth Service in those years,though he quickly rose to The ranks and he is less than 43years now.

I thank God, he has been kept safe and Sound.

Sorry about your loss, and May the good lord give u The fortitude to bear The loss.

But You didnt Tell us how he died, all in all,

i can never enrol in The military or Police even with strong connections in those Institutions.

There lives Are like flowers.....

saaphiere:
If you are dating or ever dated a military personnel, share your experience.

Here is mine.

There's this naval officer I met years back in Port Harcourt. We were sitting opposite each other in a wedding reception but from a distance. The way he was looking at me, I knew he had something to tell me. He was very neat from head to toe. I love neat and smart people. I guess that was what made be fell easily for him.

He was a shy type. He couldn't even approached me. So he gave someone his number to give me. Immediately the piece of paper where he wrote his number was handed over to me, he left his seat. I didn't see him again till I left the venue.
Some days passed, I call his number and he picked. We started talking till we became more familiar and wanted something more so we dated.
He was every caring.

The first day he invited me to his house, I thought he will demand for sex like most Nigerian men do but to my surprise he didn't.
Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened.
The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him.
There were moments I could not go a day without setting my eyes on him. He was so meek and down to earth.He told me if he wasn't in the military he would be a pastor.

After months of dating him, trouble set in. He wasn't having time for me anymore due to the nature of his work. I was in a relationship but I was lonely. He will go for months and I won't hear from him.

There was a time he told me he was going for two weeks operation and after two weeks he will be back.

Two weeks came and gone I didn't hear from my love. A month came and gone still didn't hear from him. After 3 months I heard a news that militants attacked Nigerian Naval officers I knew my love was among them. I would cry myself to sleep. I later put myself together and moved on.

Two years later he called me. I was shocked. I didn't believe he was the one so I requested to see him in person. He came all the way to PH. When I saw him at first, I wanted to run because I thought he was his ghost. He proved to me that he was real and not a ghost then told me everything that happened.

Right there I told him I've moved on and I can't continue again. He knelt down and begged me to marry him I told him I can't. That he is not always around me.

He left that day in tears. I unfriend him on my Facebook and he didn't bug me like most Nigerian men would do after telling them it's over they still come to your inbox disturbing you. He was so so cool and a quiet type.

Today I went to Facebook, I just decided to chat him up. I was shocked by what I saw on his timeline.

Rest on my love.

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