edo3:
Forget ds epistle u wrote up there,, i can confidently tell u that dating naval or airforce offrs is no risk at all.. They don't go to war,, what they are good at is writing memo n carrying files in d office.. Come n see dem in abj or anywhere.. They have a lot of time for their spouses cos they dont do anything.. The only people I have respect for is the army chaps fighting in the NE cos those guys face fire everyday n fear of d unknown.. Those ones that are not fighting have a lot of time to drink n womanize.. I know what am saying..

Navy have a lot of time? Are you kidding me?

utenwuson:
This girl no go kill person.....

He didn't ask for sex like most Nigerian men.... Sex just happen..... Like a thief in the night...

Hehehehe

True though, you don't have to tell a lady let's have sex, the mood will determine.

Joro Olumofin can hire you.

Your fabrication skill is flawless dear.

Cheers!

ABANGWABOI:
#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

You just brought back memories
Lost the best woman ever for me coz of my job..
There wasa time i spent roughly 3 years in the jungle.. travelling just thrice within the period..
Babe, thought Boko haram dn kill me finish..jungle wey network to make call no even dey sef..
Didn't blame her for moving on..

Halima, anywhere you are.. You are a beautiful soul... If i could turn back the hands of time, would have married you in 2012.. my son would have been 8 yrs old by now..
It is well thou..

U sound very accurate and genuinely

saaphiere:
If you are dating or ever dated a military personnel, share your experience.

Here is mine.

There's this naval officer I met years back in Port Harcourt. We were sitting opposite each other in a wedding reception but from a distance. The way he was looking at me, I knew he had something to tell me. He was very neat from head to toe. I love neat and smart people. I guess that was what made be fell easily for him.

He was a shy type. He couldn't even approached me. So he gave someone his number to give me. Immediately the piece of paper where he wrote his number was handed over to me, he left his seat. I didn't see him again till I left the venue.
Some days passed, I call his number and he picked. We started talking till we became more familiar and wanted something more so we dated.
He was every caring.

The first day he invited me to his house, I thought he will demand for sex like most Nigerian men do but to my surprise he didn't.
Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened.
The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him.
There were moments I could not go a day without setting my eyes on him. He was so meek and down to earth.He told me if he wasn't in the military he would be a pastor.

After months of dating him, trouble set in. He wasn't having time for me anymore due to the nature of his work. I was in a relationship but I was lonely. He will go for months and I won't hear from him.

There was a time he told me he was going for two weeks operation and after two weeks he will be back.

Two weeks came and gone I didn't hear from my love. A month came and gone still didn't hear from him. After 3 months I heard a news that militants attacked Nigerian Naval officers I knew my love was among them. I would cry myself to sleep. I later put myself together and moved on.

Two years later he called me. I was shocked. I didn't believe he was the one so I requested to see him in person. He came all the way to PH. When I saw him at first, I wanted to run because I thought he was his ghost. He proved to me that he was real and not a ghost then told me everything that happened.

Right there I told him I've moved on and I can't continue again. He knelt down and begged me to marry him I told him I can't. That he is not always around me.

He left that day in tears. I unfriend him on my Facebook and he didn't bug me like most Nigerian men would do after telling them it's over they still come to your inbox disturbing you. He was so so cool and a quiet type.

Today I went to Facebook, I just decided to chat him up. I was shocked by what I saw on his timeline.

Rest on my love.

Nice story. But what did you see on the Facebook timeline?

that's the life of a soldier

saaphiere:
If you are dating or ever dated a military personnel, share your experience.

Here is mine.

There's this naval officer I met years back in Port Harcourt. We were sitting opposite each other in a wedding reception but from a distance. The way he was looking at me, I knew he had something to tell me. He was very neat from head to toe. I love neat and smart people. I guess that was what made be fell easily for him.

He was a shy type. He couldn't even approached me. So he gave someone his number to give me. Immediately the piece of paper where he wrote his number was handed over to me, he left his seat. I didn't see him again till I left the venue.
Some days passed, I call his number and he picked. We started talking till we became more familiar and wanted something more so we dated.
He was every caring.

The first day he invited me to his house, I thought he will demand for sex like most Nigerian men do but to my surprise he didn't.
Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened.
The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him.
There were moments I could not go a day without setting my eyes on him. He was so meek and down to earth.He told me if he wasn't in the military he would be a pastor.

After months of dating him, trouble set in. He wasn't having time for me anymore due to the nature of his work. I was in a relationship but I was lonely. He will go for months and I won't hear from him.

There was a time he told me he was going for two weeks operation and after two weeks he will be back.

Two weeks came and gone I didn't hear from my love. A month came and gone still didn't hear from him. After 3 months I heard a news that militants attacked Nigerian Naval officers I knew my love was among them. I would cry myself to sleep. I later put myself together and moved on.

Two years later he called me. I was shocked. I didn't believe he was the one so I requested to see him in person. He came all the way to PH. When I saw him at first, I wanted to run because I thought he was his ghost. He proved to me that he was real and not a ghost then told me everything that happened.

Right there I told him I've moved on and I can't continue again. He knelt down and begged me to marry him I told him I can't. That he is not always around me.

He left that day in tears. I unfriend him on my Facebook and he didn't bug me like most Nigerian men would do after telling them it's over they still come to your inbox disturbing you. He was so so cool and a quiet type.

Today I went to Facebook, I just decided to chat him up. I was shocked by what I saw on his timeline.

Rest on my love.

So you wrote this super story just to get to front page? this your kind of attention seeking is something else.

Some people are saying this is a nollywood,script I don't blame them cos,theyve never had close friends or relatives in the military that's why.
Prior to boko haram in nigeria, marrying or dating a military man was prestigious, but now it means signing into a life of loneliness and probably widowhood

Lanrexkay:
Thats the problem am facing now two girls of different occasion that am willing to marry but there family go against it because am a soldier....i know it's not easy

Hooops!! Don't think over it Soldier you will soon find your own love and perfect lady

Eehya rip to him,such an emotional story...

saaphiere:
If you are dating or ever dated a military personnel, share your experience.

Here is mine.

There's this naval officer I met years back in Port Harcourt. We were sitting opposite each other in a wedding reception but from a distance. The way he was looking at me, I knew he had something to tell me. He was very neat from head to toe. I love neat and smart people. I guess that was what made be fell easily for him.

He was a shy type. He couldn't even approached me. So he gave someone his number to give me. Immediately the piece of paper where he wrote his number was handed over to me, he left his seat. I didn't see him again till I left the venue.
Some days passed, I call his number and he picked. We started talking till we became more familiar and wanted something more so we dated.
He was every caring.

The first day he invited me to his house, I thought he will demand for sex like most Nigerian men do but to my surprise he didn't.
Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened.
The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him.
There were moments I could not go a day without setting my eyes on him. He was so meek and down to earth.He told me if he wasn't in the military he would be a pastor.

After months of dating him, trouble set in. He wasn't having time for me anymore due to the nature of his work. I was in a relationship but I was lonely. He will go for months and I won't hear from him.

There was a time he told me he was going for two weeks operation and after two weeks he will be back.

Two weeks came and gone I didn't hear from my love. A month came and gone still didn't hear from him. After 3 months I heard a news that militants attacked Nigerian Naval officers I knew my love was among them. I would cry myself to sleep. I later put myself together and moved on.

Two years later he called me. I was shocked. I didn't believe he was the one so I requested to see him in person. He came all the way to PH. When I saw him at first, I wanted to run because I thought he was his ghost. He proved to me that he was real and not a ghost then told me everything that happened.

Right there I told him I've moved on and I can't continue again. He knelt down and begged me to marry him I told him I can't. That he is not always around me.

He left that day in tears. I unfriend him on my Facebook and he didn't bug me like most Nigerian men would do after telling them it's over they still come to your inbox disturbing you. He was so so cool and a quiet type.

Today I went to Facebook, I just decided to chat him up. I was shocked by what I saw on his timeline.

Rest on my love.

There's nothing sexier than a good looking guy in camouflage. I met a Yankee one here in Australia years ago but only talked for like ten mins but damn he was fine

Rawhumper:
There is Nothing much there.

Years back,i dated a Navy Lt (Doctor) married to an Army Colonel. When her Husband was assigned to another State. She stayed back in The barracks and was a Naval Doctor in a Military hospital.
She was a Beauty to behold, people asked if she really did Training cos she was Ajibo.

I have also dated two different Policewomen both singles.I got one during a checkpoint around Govt House Then. She was surprised i had The courage to approach her, that Made her to accept and respect me.

When it comes to women,i have touched in every spheres and categories.

I just see uniformed ladies as ladies nothing More or less and i make love to Them as i would with a civilian Girl.

Next Please....

When it comes to women,i have touched in every spheres and categories got me puting my hands up in the air for you...

your the real mvp

My wife uyaiincomparabl has made me to believe all that is posted in Nairaland is fiction

Missyford31:


There's nothing sexier than a good looking guy in camouflage. I met a Yankee one here in Australia years ago but only talked for like ten mins but damn he was fine

why didn't you shoot your shot since you say he was very handsome?

You may not understand, it is different when your decision to breakup was willing rather than one caused by that career path &its challenges.

Is well

NaijaTalkTown:

Yeah

Nice meeting you here...

Am from olubo ojo area...

lefulefu:
okafor"s law guy

davillian:
Lucky you by now you would have been a widow....

I know some people will read this out of context. But I am a widow and if I was told I would be a widow at 33, I would still have chosen my late husband over the other guy if they were the last men on Earth. I would have just had the foresight to prepare my self for it. Sometimes, half bread is better than full bread.

OscarJaden:
why didn't you shoot your shot since you say he was very handsome?

Lol na my bestie n I were hitching a ride at like near four am and he was passenger in a taxi n told the driver to stop n pick us up. He was drinking alcohol n seemed like someone had just broke his heart. Lol but I have never forgotten that guys face

everyone is gonna die some day..my wife is not a millitary but she is dead within 10yrs of marriage.
i die too cox loosing someone you love is worse than death itself.

ABANGWABOI:
#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

You just brought back memories
Lost the best woman ever for me coz of my job..
There wasa time i spent roughly 3 years in the jungle.. travelling just thrice within the period..
Babe, thought Boko haram dn kill me finish..jungle wey network to make call no even dey sef..
Didn't blame her for moving on..

Halima, anywhere you are.. You are a beautiful soul... If i could turn back the hands of time, would have married you in 2012.. my son would have been 8 yrs old by now..
It is well thou..

Do you guys ever feel the need to leave the job for any reason? Do some of your colleagues regret joining the force? Is it possible to just resign your position? If some have left, are they happy they left or they regret leaving? I would understand if you can't answer these questions, thanks.

I never dated one before.

After reading, I observed more than a minute silence.

saaphiere:
If you are dating or ever dated a military personnel, share your experience.

Here is mine.

There's this naval officer I met years back in Port Harcourt. We were sitting opposite each other in a wedding reception but from a distance. The way he was looking at me, I knew he had something to tell me. He was very neat from head to toe. I love neat and smart people. I guess that was what made be fell easily for him.

He was a shy type. He couldn't even approached me. So he gave someone his number to give me. Immediately the piece of paper where he wrote his number was handed over to me, he left his seat. I didn't see him again till I left the venue.
Some days passed, I call his number and he picked. We started talking till we became more familiar and wanted something more so we dated.
He was every caring.

The first day he invited me to his house, I thought he will demand for sex like most Nigerian men do but to my surprise he didn't.
Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened.
The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him.
There were moments I could not go a day without setting my eyes on him. He was so meek and down to earth.He told me if he wasn't in the military he would be a pastor.

After months of dating him, trouble set in. He wasn't having time for me anymore due to the nature of his work. I was in a relationship but I was lonely. He will go for months and I won't hear from him.

There was a time he told me he was going for two weeks operation and after two weeks he will be back.

Two weeks came and gone I didn't hear from my love. A month came and gone still didn't hear from him. After 3 months I heard a news that militants attacked Nigerian Naval officers I knew my love was among them. I would cry myself to sleep. I later put myself together and moved on.

Two years later he called me. I was shocked. I didn't believe he was the one so I requested to see him in person. He came all the way to PH. When I saw him at first, I wanted to run because I thought he was his ghost. He proved to me that he was real and not a ghost then told me everything that happened.

Right there I told him I've moved on and I can't continue again. He knelt down and begged me to marry him I told him I can't. That he is not always around me.

He left that day in tears. I unfriend him on my Facebook and he didn't bug me like most Nigerian men would do after telling them it's over they still come to your inbox disturbing you. He was so so cool and a quiet type.

Today I went to Facebook, I just decided to chat him up. I was shocked by what I saw on his timeline.

Rest on my love.

What an emotional story. You didn't do enough for him. Love is all about making sacrifices.

It is well my lady.Military men that some press their switch(on/off) anytime.A few are exceptional though.If you take them too seriously,na u sabi.For the married ones,their wives learn to live off them.Their matter dey tire person sef!

This remind me of baby J as I usually call her we have been in constant relationship for 3 years but things was very rough for me back then she still stick to me trying all her efforts both in prayer and financial support i have to leave the country with the little money I have. She calls everyday writing me both on Facebook and SMS I told her that i can't be picking her call or replying her messages anymore cuz if I keep thinking of her or the things we share I can't stay or focus in the country I found myself she call and message several times no picking or replying her messages 3 months after I went to her timeline to wish her happy birthday in advance I was told she is no more that she died two days ago.
R. I. P baby J.

Reallv:
everyone is gonna die some day..my wife is not a millitary but she is dead within 10yrs of marriage.
i die too cox loosing someone you love is worse than death itself.

True talk but you won't die cos thats not wat she would have wanted u to do.

I wish I never open this page.

edo3:
Forget ds epistle u wrote up there,, i can confidently tell u that dating naval or airforce offrs is no risk at all.. They don't go to war,, what they are good at is writing memo n carrying files in d office.. Come n see dem in abj or anywhere.. They have a lot of time for their spouses cos they dont do anything.. The only people I have respect for is the army chaps fighting in the NE cos those guys face fire everyday n fear of d unknown.. Those ones that are not fighting have a lot of time to drink n womanize.. I know what am saying..

Who told you so? So many officers of the N. N and A. F in Northeast.