₦airaland Forum

Bloooody:
It seems women are very very dull when compared to us men especially Nigerian women.
I dare any man to try to bring an intellectual debate with his girl like the government or the existence of god or evolution or the theories of natural selection.
Almost no woman would answer you especially a nigerian woman.
It's very unsettling and makes you question if truly they deserve equality with us men.

rasheedatt:
am serious ask me productive and serious questions not questions for kids

pretydiva:
Including your sisters

etrange:
Is this what you understand when I say "lend justification to racism"? So much for the intelligent gender. I will explain.

We're here kicking against racism cause there's no basis for a particular group of humans to claim superiority based on skin colour (a biological factor that no one gets to choose). We posit that even if some countries are more advanced than others, each person should be treated based on thier content cause some blacks are still smarter than some whites and they also are as American as the whites. But then ya'll in Africa rejecting equality and unapologetically advocating for male superiority only end justifying the racist's line of thought. You keep telling the world it's OK to claim "superior human being" based on biological factors. The adverse effects of discrimination, regardless with the form, do no spare any gender. It reduces the overall output of a people. Women might perceive things differently but not necessarily in an inferior way. In fact, this difference in perception is needed to balance things out. But when they are relegated to the back, we lose out on thier style/approach.

In Africa, women have bent to society. A lot of them are have yielded to the claim that they are only there as ornaments. This is not because their brains are inferior, rather it's because of the indoctrination they get from home. Argue all you want, a child could be trained to be in anyway regardless of the gender and provided there are no congenital factors involved. But then parents in Africa structure thier homes to give the impression that girls are just care givers. Girls are explicitly trained to wash, cook, serve and please the boys while boys are allowed to be advebturous and are hardly ever held culpable for thier actions; after all, boys will always be boys. In this process, the male kid in Africa begins to feel superior because of his organs while the girl child is consumed by the desire to be acceptable, getting a good husband. This sense of superiority is further accentuated by the fact that parents invest more in the male child. What's the point in sending the girl abroad to study when another man will come and take her? She can study English Language in school and run a boutique afterwards. Let's spend the money on the man, he will always be here. These are the lines of thoughts that the African parents entertain, and the girl child is further relegated. Sadly, there are some indoctrinations she cannot change as an adult.

What we end up having is a biased society. Our male children end up not having equally capable female counterparts and because they don't appreciate the origin of the problem, they run around insulting women on Nairaland. And because the male child has been trained to get away with anything, it doesn't matter if they sleep around, cheat, etc., Nobody insults the male gender when men engage in online theft, rape, etc. but when a girl does something bad, the entire female gender is insulted. We already believe women can't be successful so anyone women that has some money must be a prostitute. They shouldn't even bother eying some leadership positions where voting is involved. At the end,w're all deprived of what they might be able to offer cause we don't give them the chance.

To correct this, women need to be encouraged, empowered and supported. Gender equality needs to be pushed to a practical level and we must stay open minded and stop seeing people who seek gender equality (feminists) as man haters (misandrists).

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Missyford31:
1) But U need women in your life.
2) How would you be loved?
3) How would you have children?
4) Who would Satisfy your konji?
5) Who will you marry and have cooked your meals, washed your clothes?
6) Who's breasts would you stare at?
7)Who's bum would you admire?
Or do man have best ass too lol?

You ladies( just like my sister) like over-hyping yourselves and make it look like y'all are special when in reality, there's nothing special in you...
1) I dont NEED a woman....she needs me...bcz she is just a compliment/bonus to me
2) The best way to be loved is to be loved by yourself
3) Children are everywhere ma'm...orphanages are full...Also, a man who knows his onions would have ladies begging to carry his genes
4) only a weak man cant control his konji...there are millions of things aside sex( and masturbation) that can satisfy konji..
5) Who tf cares about Marriage ...I can cook any dish i eat and there's washing machine for clothes....we also have hands and dry-cleaners
6) I would stare at the breast developing in my bank account....its succulent and firm
7)I rather admire myself than admire someone's bum....Who bum help...
Note: The "I's" above not just refer to me But any man out there that knows his onions..
Also Note: If you cant reply me without insult, then get ready to be starved of attention...
GL

Zabiboy:

You ladies( just like my sister) like over-hyping yourselves and make it look like y'all are special when in reality, there's nothing special in you...
1) I dont NEED a woman....she needs me...bcz she is just a compliment/bonus to me
2) The best way to be loved is to be loved by yourself
3) Children are everywhere ma'm...orphanages are full...Also, a man who knows his onions would have ladies begging to carry his genes
4) only a weak man cant control his konji...there are millions of things aside sex( and masturbation) that can satisfy konji..
5) Who tf cares about Marriage ...I can cook any dish i eat and there's washing machine for clothes....we also have hands and dry-cleaners
6) I would stare at the breast developing in my bank account....its succulent and firm
7)I rather admire myself than admire someone's bum....Who bum help...
Note: The "I's" above not just refer to me But any man out there that knows his onions..
Also Note: If you cant reply me without insult, then get ready to be starved of attention...
GL

Zabiboy:

You ladies( just like my sister) like over-hyping yourselves and make it look like y'all are special when in reality, there's nothing special in you...
1) I dont NEED a woman....she needs me...bcz she is just a compliment/bonus to me
2) The best way to be loved is to be loved by yourself
3) Children are everywhere ma'm...orphanages are full...Also, a man who knows his onions would have ladies begging to carry his genes
4) only a weak man cant control his konji...there are millions of things aside sex( and masturbation) that can satisfy konji..
5) Who tf cares about Marriage ...I can cook any dish i eat and there's washing machine for clothes....we also have hands and dry-cleaners
6) I would stare at the breast developing in my bank account....its succulent and firm
7)I rather admire myself than admire someone's bum....Who bum help...
Note: The "I's" above not just refer to me But any man out there that knows his onions..
Also Note: If you cant reply me without insult, then get ready to be starved of attention...
GL

pretydiva:
Including your sisters

Preshieben:
women aren't dull
they ain't just interested in history.

Ikillbrokehoes:
Nigerian girls are dull

Preshieben:
women aren't dull

they ain't just interested in history.

Ikillbrokehoes:
Dullard

etrange:
Fear. Africans fear whatever they don't know or have not experienced. Africans don't give new things a chance and that is why the continent is stagnant. Where I live, gender is the last thing that comes to mind when someone's capabilities are being tabled. This way, the society gets the best out its people instead of limiting its talent source to less than half of the population out of the fear that women will 'out-do' them when given the chance. The funny thing is that we've never had a great leader in Nigeria (at least, none comparable to the leaders of Germany and New Zealand) and yet no one sees it as incompetence on the side of men but once a lady becomes the president of Nigeria, every single misstep will lead to an attack on the female gender. While this is terrible, women have been known to do more just to counter the perception that they can't perform and a lot of them end up performing better (in their little positions) when given the chance. If men are really superior by nature, they shouldn't be afraid helping to empower the women. If you entertain such fear, then maybe you aren't really superior but just taking advantage of the biased society.

etrange:
The funny thing is that we've never had a great leader in Nigeria (at least, none comparable to the leaders of Germany and New Zealand) and yet no one sees it as incompetence on the side of men but once a lady becomes the president of Nigeria, every single misstep will lead to an attack on the female gender. While this is terrible, women have been known to do more just to counter the perception that they can't perform and a lot of them end up performing better (in their little positions) when given the chance. If men are really superior by nature, they shouldn't be afraid helping to empower the women. If you entertain such fear, then maybe you aren't really superior but just taking advantage of the biased society.

etrange:
. If men are really superior by nature, they shouldn't be afraid helping to empower the women. If you entertain such fear, then maybe you aren't really superior but just taking advantage of the biased society.

seanwilliam:
i disagree with the bolded.. can u list discoveries or inventions by women in the last 100 years and compared to their male counterparts? intelligent is more than being first class student in school bro.. u have nothing to backup the bolded..

pretydiva:
You mean your sisters

cristy149:
we are not afraid of giving them power ...but look at what little empowerment to women has cost us ...do you know how many men has lost more than half of their possession because of this little wave of empowerments we gave them...

Bloooody:
It seems women are very very dull when compared to us men especially Nigerian women.
I dare any man to try to bring an intellectual debate with his girl like the government or the existence of god or evolution or the theories of natural selection.
Almost no woman would answer you especially a nigerian woman.
It's very unsettling and makes you question if truly they deserve equality with us men.

Eagba:
guys check out this trend, in primary schools, the girl child are always topping most class and giving the guys a run for their efforts. That's to say,in most classes, you find a girl child or two among the top four or five most brilliant kids in the class. but on getting to the university, the number diminish greatly to one in 20 top student in the department.
I think evolution and environment played a big part in choosing their survival pattern from the ways a guy will choose to survive.
men will understand that for them to be relevant, they have to top their class or hustle more to be richer, while a girl will understand that to be relevant, she have to be more beautiful, thereby concentrating more on their hair, make up , fashion, implant etc.
only a few girls try to or actually bends the curve or blend the trajetories well enough and they are forever worshipped.

kingel:
What of if they aren't interested in things like that. What you like isn't what they like. Yes most, don't even think about think about it, that doesn't mean they don't deserve equality Chief

Bloooody:
Truth be told we're better than women in everything.
Smartest human is a man
Fastest is a man
Richest is a man
Strongest is a man
Tallest is a man
We beat them in everything.
The average woman isn't smart at all.
Giving them "equality" is wrong.

RealEzee:
Omo I got smart ladies in my contact who can converse in almost all topics intelligently, gbam na Naija babes kwa , I wonder where u dey go find the ones way you dey regret? , intelligence knows no nationality, anyone can be silly regardless of nationality tho, hence stop the stereotyping, one thing I know is if you want to Yan silly stuffs babe sef go follow u Yan am too, u lead they follow, hmm na wetin I know b that.

Just be fair with them ladies and not belittle or demean them, ever heard hell knows no fury like a woman? There is reason it doesn't say man tho, the same key you use to unlock their fury can be used to unlock the star in them if only you know what to do kwa.

Bloooody:
It seems women are very very dull when compared to us men especially Nigerian women.
I dare any man to try to bring an intellectual debate with his girl like the government or the existence of god or evolution or the theories of natural selection.
Almost no woman would answer you especially a nigerian woman.
It's very unsettling and makes you question if truly they deserve equality with us men.

Missyford31:

Children in orphanages are born by women so women are needed for that. As is the man.

We need each other. Women do have value.
Depends on the kinda woman they are.
U will get useless women, lazy, dull, boring women n those women should work on themselves to be better cos only you can work on become the better you.

1) Lol wen U masturbate cos U dnt need a woman as U say..then wat will U masturbate over? If not a woman then what? A goat? A statue? Lol. Even wen masturbating U need women U see.
Unless is money U fantasize making love to lol.

Yes men can live without a woman but really wat kinda lonely life is that?
2) Loving yourself can't compare to the love of that special someone.

3) God created man to be with woman.
If we was created just to breed then we wouldn't have brains or mouths to speak lol.
N I wasn't insulting U sir I was just giving my thoughts on the topic.
Attention dnt matter to me tho.
I just think women are equal to men.
I myself believe wen U marry then your man becomes the boss n I respect my man n all that stuff...that's wat makes him the man but women still have equal value.
4) We just gotta make ourselves valuable just like any man does.

1) i never said i masturbate....re-read that number again
2) False ma'm....no one can love better than yourself
3) ...stop twisting the narrative....God created woman to be with/compliment/ as a bonus to man...not the other way round
4) Good girl...now we are on the same path...The big question is "How many are ready to go through the stress needed to become valuable when they can just upgrade only their body and get almost the same result'"? ..
GL

BornSnner9:
I dare y'all to debate with your girls on Facebook likes, Instagram, twitter followers, bbn, grilled catfish and chips, Brazilian hair, restaurant, food, power bank, valentine's day etc and see how interestingly intelligent they are

SegFault:
And where is your evidence. Or source.

Regex:
Her question and your answer proved one thing I keep reading here:

If a man can control his dick, wash his clothes and make his food, he is almost uncontrollable...