Preshieben:
Seconded..


You're always on point girl

Thanks babe,i hit the nail on the head as I like

Zzor:
Thanks babe,i hit the nail on the head as I like

more reasons they won't stop hating and insulting..

Nairaland guys are something else...give it to em as e dey hot

Preshieben:


more reasons they won't stop hating and insulting..

Nairaland guys are something else...give it to em as e dey hot

lol,this faceless forum is so interesting

Sixfeetbelle:


And you really think that when simps clear out, the women that depend on men won't go with them? Women leeching on men make them relevant and once the cash cow is gone, the leeches die off.

Know this, when alpha males take over, women will adapt and become feminists. See, what you guys are pushing for is ultimately building a society where more men will become gay because women won't rate men anymore.

Nah... i dont think so, when the simps are gone the leeches will have no choice than to summit to the alphas. we are not pushing to make more gays, rather to elighten men to see women as they really are; ordinary humans just like everyone else, and not to be worshipped and praise unnecessarily, or to let them control and manipulate you to do their biddings.

yunglegend99:
Nah... i dont think so, when the simps are gone the leeches will have no choice than to summit to the alphas. we are not pushing to make more gays, rather to elighten men to see women as they really are; ordinary humans just like everyone else, and not to be worshipped and praise unnecessarily, or to be controled and manipulated to do their biddings.

We have leeches cause simps exist. Once they are gone, no lady will submit to any alpha.

Sixfeetbelle:


We have leeches cause simps exist. Once they are gone, no lady will submit to any alpha.

E go shock u na, thats wen the bible prophecy will be fufilled, and watch how these leeches will beg the available men to take them

yunglegend99:
E go shock u na, thats wen the bible prophecy will be fufilled, and watch how these leeches will beg the available men to take them

I'm telling you they won't. Ladies get married cause simps exist. They have babies cause simps exist. They lie and pretend to be good girls cause simps exist who will spoil them and pet them. Once simps are gone, ladies will show you their true colours unapologetically.

Besides, there's no bible prophecy to be fulfilled cause ladies don't want to stay with one man anymore or why do you think ladies are hopping from one man to another even in this present time? They are hypergamous naturally and it's simps that's making them act like they are content with one man eg our grandfathers.


It's like you don't know what's going on.

Sixfeetbelle:


I'm telling you they won't. Ladies get married cause simps exist. They have babies cause simps exist. They lie and pretend to be good girls cause simps exist who will spoil them and pet them. Once simps are gone, ladies will show you their true colours unapologetically.

Besides, there's no bible prophecy to be fulfilled cause ladies don't want to stay with one man anymore or why do you think ladies are hopping from one man to another even in this present time? They are hypergamous naturally and it's simps that's making them act like they are content with one man eg our grandfathers.


It's like you don't know what's going on.

Lol, i get your point it is true they are like that. ok imagine if there were no simps, who will now spoil and pet them? what will they do? how will their life be like? how will they get back the affection and praises the simps usually showered them?

yunglegend99:
E go shock u na, thats wen the bible prophecy will be fufilled, and watch how these leeches will beg the available men to take them

True. Men are already getting liberated.

Sixfeetbelle:


You don't know Starbucks? You guys don't have them where you stay? I'm shocked by this revelation.

Anyway, the whole point of mentioning Starbucks was to state categorically that no one orders just coffee on a date. Cause when has coffee ever been a "go to" for dates. Unless it's for on the go, then maybe I'll agree.

Nope starbucks is not located here.They have KFC and burger king here though ...their inhabitants love eating friend chicken a lot ..have tasted KFC"s fried chicken though,..tasted like raw meat that was fried..hated the taste .But anytime i have to take a friend out i prefer their local eatery bars mostly frequented by tourists.They have tasty meals there like the chicken patty then the jamaican patty.Tastes nice .

Sixfeetbelle:




Anyway, the whole point of mentioning Starbucks was to state categorically that no one orders just coffee on a date. Cause when has coffee ever been a "go to" for dates. Unless it's for on the go, then maybe I'll agree.

Hmm but is it in our culture to be drinking coffee on a date? I thought its mainly whites who take coffee.I would expect a guy who doesnt have much in his pocket when he wants to take out his girlfriend he could make a modest order of a bottle of malt or any soft drink then a piece or two piece of meatpie.that wont crack his pocket.He doesnt need to order for eight packs of sharwama and fifteen wraps of pizza then an expensive red wine .he would be making a dent on slim pocket .But if his wallet is a little fat then he can go ahead and order what he wants .And besides the reason of meeting each other is to know one another and not to eat so it wouldnt even make sense guzzling down ur stomach with excess food until ur bursting with consumption .Take eat moderately and listen to what he says .

lefulefu:
Hmm but is it in our culture to be drinking coffee on a date? I thought its mainly whites who take coffee.I would expect a guy who doesnt have much in his pocket when he wants to take out his girlfriend he could make a modest order of a bottle of malt or any soft drink then a piece or two piece of meatpie.that wont crack his pocket.He doesnt need to order for eight packs of sharwama and fifteen wraps of pizza then an expensive red wine .he would be making a dent on slim pocket .But if his wallet is a little fat then he can go ahead and order what he wants .And besides the reason of meeting each other is to know one another and not to eat so it wouldnt even make sense guzzling down ur stomach with excess food until ur bursting with consumption .Take eat moderately and listen to what he says .

Obviously that lady you quoted isn't pleased with having 'malt/coke and pie' on a date, she considers it cheap lol , I wonder why...when the purpose of meeting is to get to know each other, not to come and eat. She basically wants food and more food.

Most Nigerian girls are just hungry and the love of what they will eat supersedes the main purpose of the date. That is why they can go on multiple dates with different guys, just to eat, eat, and eat more food.

Dates are never about 'getting to know each other' with most naija girls, rather it's about 'coming to eat'.

PS Any useless lady shouldn't quote me if they don't want to be unfortunate plz.

Joker09:


Obviously that lady you quoted isn't pleased with having 'malt/coke and pie' on a date, she considers it cheap lol , I wonder why...when the purpose of meeting is to get to know each other, not to come and eat. She basically wants food and more food.

Most Nigerian girls are just hungry and the love of what they will eat supersedes the main purpose of the date. That is why they can go on multiple dates with different guys, just to eat, eat, and eat more food.

Dates are never about 'getting to know each other' with most naija girls, rather it's about 'coming to eat'.

PS Any useless lady shouldn't quote me if they don't want to be unfortunate plz.

i believe a lady that comes from a home where there is enough food that eating out wont freak her.Is it rice? is chicken? is it swallow? wetin wan freak her?

lefulefu:
i believe a lady that comes from a home where there is enough food that eating out wont freak her.Is it rice? is chicken? is it swallow? wetin wan freak her?

True bro. I have the same believe.

[quote author=Zzor post=94541288]babe check him out first through any other social media platform he uses and see his face and kind of person he is ooo,dont be too quick to give him your number else you won't be able to chase him away easily if you don't like him.All the guys here are hiding their ugly faces yet they will be sending pm.
hey there I'm not gonna quote u on this main topic buh I ain't ugly and I'm not broke either, if you care to confirm lets meet somehow... I'm not alpha male and I'm not dumb either.... but I got rules that govern me

lefulefu:
Hmm but is it in our culture to be drinking coffee on a date? I thought its mainly whites who take coffee.I would expect a guy who doesnt have much in his pocket when he wants to take out his girlfriend he could make a modest order of a bottle of malt or any soft drink then a piece or two piece of meatpie.that wont crack his pocket.He doesnt need to order for eight packs of sharwama and fifteen wraps of pizza then an expensive red wine .he would be making a dent on slim pocket .But if his wallet is a little fat then he can go ahead and order what he wants .And besides the reason of meeting each other is to know one another and not to eat so it wouldnt even make sense guzzling down ur stomach with excess food until ur bursting with consumption .Take eat moderately and listen to what he says .

Depends on whether we are interested in what he has to say...

Joker09:


Obviously that lady you quoted isn't pleased with having 'malt/coke and pie' on a date, she considers it cheap lol , I wonder why...when the purpose of meeting is to get to know each other, not to come and eat. She basically wants food and more food.

Most Nigerian girls are just hungry and the love of what they will eat supersedes the main purpose of the date. That is why they can go on multiple dates with different guys, just to eat, eat, and eat more food.

Dates are never about 'getting to know each other' with most naija girls, rather it's about 'coming to eat'.

PS Any useless lady shouldn't quote me if they don't want to be unfortunate plz.

See the nonsense threat you're posting here. Are you not ashamed you're still posting childish threats in this your adult age As if the threat will change anything in the lady's life. I've quote you. Oya, do your worst. Mtchewww.



Anyway, before you jumped into the conversation, here's what went down.

The guy I quoted before Lefulefu quoted me was proposing "just malt" on a date and I am seriously refuting that nonsense. I don't mind a snack going with the malt but verily I say unto you, I'd rather die single than go on a date and drink just malt with you. It's not as if malt is this special drink.

lefulefu:

Nope starbucks is not located here.They have KFC and burger king here though ...their inhabitants love eating friend chicken a lot ..have tasted KFC"s fried chicken though,..tasted like raw meat that was fried..hated the taste .But anytime i have to take a friend out i prefer their local eatery bars mostly frequented by tourists.They have tasty meals there like the chicken patty then the jamaican patty.Tastes nice .

Finally, a good date venue. The almighty KFC. Imagine prompting it here and watch how 95% of the guys will start wailing. KFC that daters in America frequent like they're fetching water. If these wailers go there, they won't mind paying for a bucket of chicken wings or drumsticks happily. But the minute it comes to Nigerian girls they become stingy and start forming foolish wisdom.

Sixfeetbelle:


Finally, a good date venue. The almighty KFC. Imagine prompting it here and watch how 95% of the guys will start wailing. KFC that daters in America frequent like they're fetching water. If these wailers go there, they won't mind paying for a bucket of chicken wings or drumsticks happily. But the minute it comes to Nigerian girls they become stingy and start forming foolish wisdom.

Almighty kfc u say??
over here its mostly very low income workers and secondary school students that frequent kfc .here u could see taxi drivers,those who work in the mail delivery services and sometimes policemen and women and those who work in construction sites frequenting it.Kfc is certainly not the place to carry ur date here cos everywhere will be noisy and ppl shouting for their orders .They love their junk food here .There are nice places to take ur date over here.There are italian and chinese resturants..those ones are calmer and there are open air bars they call snackettes facing the sea and ocean.U can take ur date dere to such places and recieve the cool sea and ocean breeze across ur face while having a nice time with him or her.As for KFC or burger king..its a no no area to carry ur date except u two just want to stop over and quickly purchase some take aways cos the place ehn noise .apart from the open air bars they have botanical gardens if u are into nature.U and partner can prepare a meal and take it with u for some picnic in the gardens..These are nice affordable places if u cant afford chinese and italian resturants.

Sixfeetbelle:


Finally, a good date venue. The almighty KFC. Imagine prompting it here and watch how 95% of the guys will start wailing. KFC that daters in

i dont think anybody will wail about kfc..haba! kfc its mostly low income workers who frequent it.If its naija they can buy meatpie nau.abi the kfc in lagos no dey sell meatpie? they dont have meatpie here.what they sell in their kfc here is fried chicken,then french fries plus ice cream and other junks like sharwama.u can buy things cheap dere though kfc"s food is not the type of food someone should be eating everyday cos they are nutritionally deficient.Once in a while is ok but there some familes here na everyday dem they carry themselves and their children to kfc.The wives dont cook.they buy fried chicken and fries everyday for themselves and their kids and maybe that could explain why their children here suffer from obesity

Sixfeetbelle:


Depends on whether we are interested in what he has to say...

aghh if u use ur Tfare to come and visit him then u must be interested in what he has to say nau

lefulefu:
Almighty kfc u say??
over here its mostly very low income workers and secondary school students that frequent kfc .here u could see taxi drivers,those who work in the mail delivery services and sometimes policemen and women and those who work in construction sites frequenting it.Kfc is certainly not the place to carry ur date here cos everywhere will be noisy and ppl shouting for their orders .They love their junk food here .There are nice places to take ur date over here.There are italian and chinese resturants..those ones are calmer and there are open air bars they call snackettes facing the sea and ocean.U can take ur date dere to such places and recieve the cool sea and ocean breeze across ur face while having a nice time with him or her.As for KFC or burger king..its a no no area to carry ur date except u two just want to stop over and quickly purchase some take aways cos the place ehn noise .apart from the open air bars they have botanical gardens if u are into nature.U and partner can prepare a meal and take it with u for some picnic in the gardens..These are nice affordable places if u cant afford chinese and italian resturants.

Imagine. KFC sef is not even a good idea for date overseas but the type of KFC we have here like Domino's pizza is suddenly a big problem for these guys on nairaland. Is it now Italian restaurants that they can afford?

Just forget it cause I know their format. All these "I won't spend on food for dates" na story for who dey listen to them. They have the kind of girls they run that nonsense for. Same way they know who they'll empty their purse for and who to form stingy for. See all these guys saying just malt eh, when they meet high class babes like Nengi, they won't even mind spending their salary in one night. Na these type of men dey cheat pass once they get cause they are forming sense for their wives.

Men can only guy an ignorant girl. That's what I know.

lefulefu:
aghh if u use ur Tfare to come and visit him then u must be interested in what he has to say nau

Not really. We show up to see how free he is in spending. If he's not, we collect our Tfare back and never see him again.

We can't loose out on eating good food and loose out on our Tfare again

lefulefu:
i dont think anybody will wail about kfc..haba! kfc its mostly low income workers who frequent it.If its naija they can buy meatpie nau.abi the kfc in lagos no dey sell meatpie? they dont have meatpie here.what they sell in their kfc here is fried chicken,then french fries plus ice cream and other junks like sharwama.u can buy things cheap dere though kfc"s food is not the type of food someone should be eating everyday cos they are nutritionally deficient.Once in a while is ok but there some familes here na everyday dem they carry themselves and their children to kfc.The wives dont cook.they buy fried chicken and fries everyday for themselves and their kids and maybe that could explain why their children here suffer from obesity

Nairaland men are wailing about KFC. One even opened thread about it.

Shameless he-goats

Sixfeetbelle:


Imagine. KFC sef is not even a good idea for date overseas but the type of KFC we have here like Domino's pizza is suddenly a big problem for these guys on nairaland. Is it now Italian restaurants that they can afford?

Just forget it cause I know their format. All these "I won't spend on food for dates" na story for who dey listen to them. They have the kind of girls they run that nonsense for. Same way they know who they'll empty their purse for and who to form stingy for. See all these guys saying just malt eh, when they meet high class babes like Nengi, they won't even mind spending their salary in one night. Na these type of men dey cheat pass once they get cause they are forming sense for their wives.

Men can only guy an ignorant girl. That's what I know.

I know about domino"s pizza .the thing is that pizza is quite expensive in nigeria.If u compare the price of pizza here to the one in naija the one in naija is quite expensive so i might understand if a guy who has a very lean pocket is wailing .As for KFC ..its a place where hungry ppl go mainly to eat.Its not a place where where ppl who are dating meet.Yes u can carry ur girlfriend and make a quick purchase there when hungry but say u want to have a nice time..nope

Sixfeetbelle:


Nairaland men are wailing about KFC. One even opened thread about it.

Shameless he-goats

open thread on it ke
kfc is not italian or chinese resturant nau
if its a girl he saw on the internet and they want to meet for the first time if the guy is complaining about using a fastfood joint as venue then which vienue is he expecting the girl to meet him?
His house?

Sixfeetbelle:


Not really. We show up to see how free he is in spending. If he's not, we collect our Tfare back and never see him again.

We can't loose out on eating good food and loose out on our Tfare again

guys wey dey do internet dating don suffer

Sixfeetbelle:


Thank you so much for missing the point entirely.

How

Chocogoddess:
Wcom to Nigeria, where a Woman's ability to adapt to poverty determines if she's a wife Material or not... Yes, the woman is supposed to be able to support no matter how small..

Buh most men now use this as an excuse for shying away from their responsibilities...

And remember if those men weren't doing well for themselves, m sure those women won't have given them a chance... No matter how much a lady earns, she needs her man to Spoil her, the take care of some of her needs, iit's not greed, it's natural, it just shows that u are responsible, man enough

U are absolutely correct. But understanding is key between the two parties especially of they both want to end up marrying each other

Cos both of them must have the same vision and are compatible in most areas.

His ability to take care of his lady needs is secondary compared to the love and the vision they both share, it should not be primary. Love and shared vision comes first then wen he loves u and u both share in the same vision then him taking care of her needs and she taking care of his needs will come naturally

demmymoney:



How

I believe who we present ourselves as while dating is who our spouses will imagine us as in marriage.

If we act rich and spendthrift, they'll get angry and frustrated with us if we now suddenly become poor when married. Same way if we act poor and stringent with money while dating, they'll get stingy and unappreciative of our wealth in marriage.

Sha, that's how I see it.

Sixfeetbelle:


I believe who we present ourselves as while dating is who our spouses will imagine us as in marriage.

If we act rich and spendthrift, they'll get angry and frustrated with us if we now suddenly become poor when married. Same way if we act poor and stringent with money while dating, they'll get stingy and unappreciative of our wealth in marriage.

Sha, that's how I see it.

Then one should know the qualities they want in their potential dates b4 jumping into dating and once u see certain red flags then one won't continue further into the dating.



Wat I know is that without love and vision then no relationship can work

See your man

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lefulefu:
guys wey dey do internet dating don suffer