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Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by ODJ124(m): 10:20pm On Oct 11, 2020
kennethfranc:

Dora nko?
I swr.. And Dora's front..
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Nobody: 10:20pm On Oct 11, 2020
ZIINI:
Have you experienced one before ?
Yes,on facebook.
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Toks2008(m): 10:20pm On Oct 11, 2020
Burstscam:
If you asked this question few years a go, I would have said yes. I used to brag that any woman that will have the courage to woo me will become my wife. But my experience two years ago changed everything.

During NYSC, I met this lovely girl and we became friends. Along the line, she was so much into me that she started wooing me. I felt very sorry for her. First, her innocence was out of this world; I saw pure love in her eyes, but accepting her proposal would only amount to me using her to satisfy my sexual urge and then move on. I didn't feel the same way she felt towards me.

My initial plan when I met her was to get her closer and bed her, but seeing the purity of her heart, I wouldn't forgive myself if I ever used her. So I took out time to explain to her that we would be better off as just friends. It was very difficult. I won't lie, at times I made out with her, but I exercised great constraints...

Till date she still tells me that she misses me

Better go back to her if you are still single and if you find her attractive.

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Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by MoneyTrees(m): 10:22pm On Oct 11, 2020
If she has good Mali Kush
Am I mad not to accept?


Alexgman1:
We all have one girl, lady or woman out there we are deeply inlove with but can not date or have access to her maybe because:
1) she has rejected your proposal or
2) shes beyond your level and class or
3) you cant ask her out because shes in a seriously relationship (probably engaged) and cant double date.

But if per-adventure a lady who is deeply inlove or crushing on you toast you and ask you to give her a chance will you accept?
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by HappyCanadian: 10:23pm On Oct 11, 2020
I will accept if the girl wooing me is my crush.. but the ones that have are not
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Vyiecyie: 10:23pm On Oct 11, 2020
Op
it all depends, if the feeling is mutual then no issues na
There was a girl back then in Sec School that frustrated my life with by wooing me. I didn't accept her cause i wasn't attracted to her in any way. Another one in my compound i rejected her, 2 in my office, 3 back then in university 100 LEVEL i rejected them too. I wasn't attracted at all.
But My babe with whom am engaged to now woo me herself. I love courage!
We were both in the same Level and Department in school. She's a muslim and i don't practice any religion even though i believe God exists but i strongly hold humanity.
She has a pure heart, untouched and well mannered. Her love was beyond what i can say and her beauty is out of this world. She approached me the same way other coursemates approaches me for tutoring. She requested for tutorials on some courses which i accepted and from there indirectly she made her intentions known. At first i felt weird but now i can't lie to you, she's my happiness and am very proud of her.

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Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Csami(m): 10:23pm On Oct 11, 2020
If my need for detachment fits her need for attachment.
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Nobody: 10:23pm On Oct 11, 2020
BarrElChapo:


Why is it high ? What if the lady is the man's dream girl. The message should be that even guys have tastes same way ladies do not agree to every guy's proposals too. Its not about the gender asking generally
but what if the guy doesn't love the lady?, or what if he rejects her?
It's better for you to show the guy all the 'green-light' that is necessary, but asking him out is like running a risk...
Believe me, some guys can do more 'Shakara' than women when you ask them out, they may even start to give you some unreasonable snubbing, and that will only break your heart

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Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Oct 11, 2020
righteousness666:
lieeees

Lol,,,, why did you say dat nah,,grin

Shey you know me nii,,,,,grin


Girls always chase me nii ,,, if you see me lasan you go know say nah complete package i be ,,,tongue
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by adioolayi(m): 10:24pm On Oct 11, 2020
kennethfranc:

Oga you should be thankful to God for the fact that you earn above 150k... Teachers earns b/w 45k up, with the exception of private which is very miserable
Me sef nah 20k

Not about me..but about some people saying #200,000 per month is SMALL in Nigeria. I am surprised oooo

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Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Oshokalo: 10:25pm On Oct 11, 2020
sshe must have money drive a range rover have a house in banana planet
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Nobody: 10:25pm On Oct 11, 2020
...

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Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by abbey621(m): 10:26pm On Oct 11, 2020
I swear most Nairalanders are slowpokes! Women have been asking guys out since the time of Adam & Eve. Y'all focusing on words rather than action. A girl winks at you, a girl goes out of her way to make sure you noticed her, she keeps asking her friends and your friends about you. She enjoys your company, she glows up anytime she sees you. These and more are ways women ask guys out nowadays, whether it is in real life or DMs on social media, girls don upgrade, sit down there dey wait for words grin grin grin

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Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 10:26pm On Oct 11, 2020
weblord1900:
Who go day pay the urgent 2k...if I may ask
She cheesy
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Oct 11, 2020
Fact1:


Lol,,,, why did you say dat nah,,grin

Shey you know me nii,,,,,grin


Girls always chase m[s][/s]e nii ,,, if you see me lasan you go know [/s]say nah complete package i be[s],,,tongue
anoda lieeeee
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Elsueno: 10:28pm On Oct 11, 2020
Sorry but no.

Am very paranoid, if you ask me directly I will just think you have a sinister agenda. I prefer green lights and signs
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Nobody: 10:32pm On Oct 11, 2020
We men are trying, to ask a lady out ain't easy
If we set aside a day for ladies to do the toasting aspects, you all will see that most women will be single throughout their lifetime cause you'll hear words like
Over my dead body. some of them won't know how to pick up lines

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Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by fdigital(m): 10:32pm On Oct 11, 2020
it depends if the guy equally finds the girl
attractive
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Oct 11, 2020
If she’s my type then I will definitely accept but if she’s not I will politely turn her down. Life is not so complicated. No big deal

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Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Oct 11, 2020
righteousness666:
anoda lieeeee

Egba mii,,,,,grin

.this man dey tackle me ni sha,,,,,,,grin

.haa,, me dat i be fine boy looking sexy grin grin


Dis night ehh,,nah 3 girls face me say oboy i like yaa swag,,, haa nobe joke oo,,,,

I dey control girls like remote,,tongue
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Burstscam: 10:34pm On Oct 11, 2020
Toks2008:


Better go back to her if you are still single and if you find her attractive.
that's the problem. From the moment she started wooing me, the attraction vanished with the speed of light.
I have another experience. This one was my sexmate (I actually define my relationship with everyone and make it clear). After sometimes she started talking about feelings and how, although she understands my stand in the relationship, she wants more. From there onward, I started losing interest in her. Right now she doesn't even cross my mind anymore.

Meanwhile I'm fighting tooth and nail to have a girl that doesn't even give a fvck about my existence. Too bad!
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Nobody: 10:34pm On Oct 11, 2020
hilfinity:
How ruubish topics like this dey make front page self when naija dey boil now

I tire for all these mods ooo...

All headlines now must be on the critical issue on ground, and not irrelevant topics like this one.
Make we still take small break grin grin, it's been that way since yesterday wink wink
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by budusky05(m): 10:34pm On Oct 11, 2020
I will reply thank you
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by FuckThaMod: 10:35pm On Oct 11, 2020
If i like her I'd welcome her wholeheartedly.. If i don't like her then she'll receive a dirty slap.

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Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Joshmanuel10(m): 10:35pm On Oct 11, 2020
Burstscam:
If you asked this question few years a go, I would have said yes. I used to brag that any woman that will have the courage to woo me will become my wife. But my experience two years ago changed everything.

During NYSC, I met this lovely girl and we became friends. Along the line, she was so much into me that she started wooing me. I felt very sorry for her. First, her innocence was out of this world; I saw pure love in her eyes, but accepting her proposal would only amount to me using her to satisfy my sexual urge and then move on. I didn't feel the same way she felt towards me.

My initial plan when I met her was to get her closer and bed her, but seeing the purity of her heart, I wouldn't forgive myself if I ever used her. So I took out time to explain to her that we would be better off as just friends. It was very difficult. I won't lie, at times I made out with her, but I exercised great constraints...

Till date she still tells me that she misses me
Do u miss her?
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Geofavor(m): 10:36pm On Oct 11, 2020
Nothing special about this. It's not new. Been there more than once. I will assess her the same way a girl will assess any guy who woos her.

If she meets my standard, I may agree. If she doesn't, I reject. Simple.

I've always politely said no though because I'm not interested.

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Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Nobody: 10:36pm On Oct 11, 2020
phazotron:



Wrong. Very wrong. Very very wrong.
I may be right, I may be wrong, but it all depends on how you see it smiley
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Joshmanuel10(m): 10:36pm On Oct 11, 2020
abbey621:
I swear most Nairalanders are slowpokes! Women have been asking guys out since the time of Adam & Eve. Y'all focusing on words rather than action. A girl winks at you, a girl goes out of her way to make sure you noticed her, she keeps asking her friends and your friends about you. She enjoys your company, she glows up anytime she sees you. These and more are ways women ask guys out nowadays, whether it is in real life or DMs on social media, girls don upgrade, sit down there dey wait for words grin grin grin
Doesn't mean they are interested some are just bored and looking for someone to pass the time with

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Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Burstscam: 10:38pm On Oct 11, 2020
Joshmanuel10:

Do u miss her?
I don't think I do. But I like her; she's a good girl
Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Nobody: 10:39pm On Oct 11, 2020
abbey621:
I swear most Nairalanders are slowpokes! Women have been asking guys out since the time of Adam & Eve. Y'all focusing on words rather than action. A girl winks at you, a girl goes out of her way to make sure you noticed her, she keeps asking her friends and your friends about you. She enjoys your company, she glows up anytime she sees you. These and more are ways women ask guys out nowadays, whether it is in real life or DMs on social media, girls don upgrade, sit down there dey wait for words grin grin grin
Most guys get rejected after falling for these signs. The best thing is to let her do the wooing. I have actually fallen for these signs before, but will never do so again. My current girlfriend actually made her intentions known to me, and I took it up from there because I liked her too. It's best when a girl likes a guy more than he likes her.

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Re: If A Girl Or Lady Toasts You, Will You Accept? by Nobody: 10:39pm On Oct 11, 2020
I have rejected some anyways but won't reject from sisisioge

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