The fvck

Niggarr!!

Peace to you.




Oh Lord, send Angels to keep your children today.
They have sent thugs today in buses to attack us
We rally not for hate, but to deliver our brothers and sisters.
Therefore let all the souls of compatriots departed, rest not, but fight today.
Arise oh departed. Don't sleep.
Fight SanwoOlu's govt and his backers.
Fight Buhari's govt and his backers.
Let your blood come alive.
Amen.

Anyhow!

Life goes on

Sorry for ur loss but what really killed that beautiful soul

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Zzor:
never be too emotional about death,we all would go someday,though I understand it could be hard dealing with the trauma but you've got no options than to continue living and making sure you are happy since that was what she always urged you to do.Never forget praying for her

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It's obvious you're a small inexperienced girl.

How can you say he shouldn't be too emotional about death?

Pray to God to rest his soul in peace whenever you remember him.

now u have a taste of what love truly means...I think I should move on to making ur mind more creative and have goals, tasks to accomplish
honestly, would she be happy knowing ure in this current state?

am sorry for your loss bro,

oh my guy Simon Templar we all go die but u chose to go before me.
We all go die but na d date we never know rest on
Life goes on

Don't rush to move on.

Don't be in hurry to make the pain disappear.

Go through the process.

"There is nothing that can take the pain away. But eventually, you will find a way to live with it. There will be nightmares. And every day when you wake up, it will be the first thing you think about. Until one day will be the second thing."

Raymond Reddington, The Black List

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

The day that phone number will ring and someone picks it what will you do?
If you must grow, let go of emotions. The past is gone can't be brought back.

Abouwaza:
If you can't move on, you follow him

just try and have sense please

I am exactly in the same position as you. I lost someone I considered my better half, the most beautiful, peaceful soul Ive ever met. She died August after a protracted kidney disease. It's even worse because I had to suffer emotionally and psychologically all through the time she was sick, with the hope that she would be fine and get back to normalcy. We even had lots of plans on how to make up for the lost times when she gets well. But death happened out of the blues. I've cried more tears within the last two months than I have cried my entire life. It gets worse every morning and deep into the nights.

One thing that has been helpful is trying hard to come face to face with the reality each day - that makes it better with time. It's hard to forget such lovely souls, as they will forever be part of us, and every single thing would remind us of them, but learning to carry the scars as part of our individual lives will set us up for better days. You won't heal, but you will learn to live with it. The pain and emptiness is incomparable - my hugs.

E clear

Time heals everything

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

Chai. Friend zone don hold this one for kidney

michlins:
just try and have sense please

abi dey craze?
So you don't know this op is just chasing clout?
Who looses someone close to them and need nairalanders on how to get over them
Bunch of jokers

May we chat out of here so I can be sharing you articles on this issue?

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

She would want you to own every day wherever she is. You just have to move on, I don't think she'd be happy seeing you not owning the day, especially today.

I signed into my nairaland account to type this.

Because I understand how you feel. The vacuum. I lost a friend this year. And I realized how much I loved her after she died we weren't as close months leading up to her death. So I was left with guilt.

I used ho'oponopono ( check YouTube)

It's ok to cry and miss them. Talking about them with people who loved them also helps.

Understanding they are freer, and would want you smiling.

Very hard to console someone going through the genuine intense pain and sorrow of loosing a loved one... Lost my eldest brother who was very close to me about ten years ago, but in my private moments these days, I still weep...., I mean for different reasons; he was still young, he liked life, he was like our role model in the house with his extremely ambitious adventures across the globe.., he complained to me about his fear of early death few months before he passed on, he didn't take my advice on a family issue and I was sort of "carrying face" for him when he suddenly died! Bros, the pain no be here!

I did two things though; firstly, I always console myself with the many examples of people who have lost loved ones and have managed to carry on with life. It kind of provides you with a road map to survive the pains. Secondly, I started to pretend to myself that he was still there but deu to the distance between us, I can't see him. He was living in Europe then, I was tucked away in Asia. In years leading to his death, we seldom came home the same time though he was planning to visit but couldn't deu to health challenges. So I just pretended he was still over there and the years dragged on... Anything to hang in there till the day I die too.. It can be very painfull bro. Only those with the experience can understand..

Abouwaza:
If you can't move on, you follow him

a she died, apparently u just reas headline, buhari follower

Honour her memory by living the life she would have wanted you to live.

Make the most of all opportunities that comes your way so that her spirit will continue to smile on you.

Live your life like you are living it for 2 persons. She will return to you in the form of another woman

Zzor:
[s]tever be too emotional about death,we all would go someday,though I understand it could be hard dealing with the trauma but you've got no options than to continue living and making sure you are happy since that was what she always urged you to do.Never forget praying for her[/s]

Thrash

come on Get tf outta here

You need closure. Go see a therapist, you would be amazed at what therapy can do for you and the new things you'd discover for yourself.

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

Bro what you're feeling right now is grief don't let it break you, she would want you to be happy. Take one day at a time and pray for God to take the pain away.

okanlanwon44879:
Everything in life is transient. Hence, we should try not to be unnecessarily emotionally attached to anything/anyone. For moving on, no amount of word will teach you that. Life (time) will!

god will bless you for this comment

Abouwaza:
If you can't move on, you follow him

Which type of weed you dey smoke? No be only follow him, na follow hum

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

Try to detach yourself from the feelings.
Let her rest in peace bro. If you keep showing her you can't live without her, she might make arrangements for you over there.
Spirits don't like the ones they left behind to be in pain.
Let her go.

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

The best and only option I can see for you right now is to die now.

That way you can join your friend and you guys can continue your friendship.

Abouwaza:

abi dey craze?
So you don't know this op is just chasing clout?
Who looses someone close to them and need nairalanders on how to get over them
Bunch of jokers

Shut up, you're a kid!

Well! You wouldn't feel 1 dot of what I felt and what am still feeling now when I lost my beloved wife, on the 18th of August in the cold blood of accident. Yours is still a friend but mine is a friend, a wife,and a mother of my 3 young kids. Each day seems to end quickly in my eyes. I feel like killing myself to meet her but for the Children she left behind for me, want me to stay. Right now, my life is shattered that I don't know where to start from and how to pickup. She is my business partner and my everything. I have lost everything. Well, thanks to her family that are there for me and encouraged me.

I still don't know how to continue my living without her