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Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by nnamdiosu(m): 11:06am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Time Would heal your wound. Take time out to do those things you loved to do before.(it don't be easy and you'll probably find your thoughts going back to her death), but its ok. Also, taking time out to focus on someone else or a selfless service really helps. Church, orphanage, old peoples homes, service really heals the soul. You can also talk to God. Pour out your pains and heart to him Most importantly, don't bottle it up. cry if you feel. You'll feel better after . Breath. Trust me its gonna be fine. I know cause ive being there. Just breath brother. Its gonna be all right eventually. Peace. You can pm me if you just wanna vent or talk. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by greenskittles: 11:07am On Oct 15, 2020 |
I lost a friend in 2017. Truth is, the pain never really goes away. You just learn to live with it. For the first 6 months I couldn't sleep and was having nightmares. But after a while when you think of them you won't be filled with grief per se but instead the memories you guys shared while they were alive. For example anytime I hear this particular song (On Bended Knee by Boyz II Men, there's a funny story behind it) I remember him and laugh a little. If I have a son I'll probably name him after him. You'll be fine, you just need time. 7 Likes |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Olarewajutv: 11:07am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Monchadam: Guy try to move on, is that easy but just try.. Don't always stay alone try to always be with mix of people that make you happy laugh.. And also find way of keep yourself busy okay. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by lollyrowland(f): 11:09am On Oct 15, 2020 |
We all have different ways of dealing with grief.. So no advice can be perfect. Good emotional and mental support is very vital to your healing. Also give yourself time... It heals wounds.. Try as much as you can no to allow depression set in. You'll be fine |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Misterdhee1(m): 11:10am On Oct 15, 2020 |
tppzzy01:Condolences bro. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Humanoid01(m): 11:11am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Monchadam:You have to let go, and the fact that you have to means it's possible. No amount of grieving will bring her back, you can only hope you'll meet again in God's side of eternity. You can only hold on to the fond memories, let that person you saw and admired in her reflect in you, and let that shape up your view towards humanity. That was her mission in your life, and I only hope it's well fulfilled. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Guyman02: 11:12am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Sorry about your loss bro, you need to take out time to cry from your heart, let the tears flow, after that wipe your face and tell yourself you have to move on. The memories are forever but remember she always wanted you to be happy, tell yourself I am going to be happy and successful to honour her memory. Pray for her soul and get engaged in positive ventures, draw inspiration from your time but don't dwell on it. With time you will be healed naturally, don't blame yourself for not getting over her but pray to God to make your healing process quicker |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Nobody: 11:12am On Oct 15, 2020 |
MrColdsweat:Do you want me to tell him to keep being sober and emotional,you console people by gearing them Up and not adding to their pain with unnecessary sympathy.You are the inexperienced one here |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Rubyventures: 11:13am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Monchadam: Take it one day at a time and hold on to the memories you had. Time is a great healer. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by adajoe555: 11:13am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Monchadam: I understand exactly how you feel, when I lost my best friend it was as though the world is going to crumble, she was the only sister I have ever have, but death came and took her away, I was depressed for months I couldn't eat, I couldn't do anything. When I started mingling with people, got busy with things I started getting over it . Try and stay around people, gradually you will start getting over it. and try to avoid things that can trigger that emotions, and lastly pray. God will give you the strength to overcome. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Nobody: 11:13am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Zzor: This post made no sense at all that's why very few people liked it unlike the post above you which over hundred people liked |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by TPound(m): 11:13am On Oct 15, 2020 |
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Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by AFONJACOW(m): 11:14am On Oct 15, 2020 |
If you can't move on, die join her nah... Ewu |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Amhappy(f): 11:14am On Oct 15, 2020 |
My condolences @OP. Many her soul rest in peace. May you find comfort. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Humanoid01(m): 11:14am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Zzor:This is really nice. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Nobody: 11:15am On Oct 15, 2020 |
TPound:E shock u? |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Terminal1805: 11:16am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Zzor: hahahahahahahahahahahwhahahahahahahah |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by mannasseh(m): 11:17am On Oct 15, 2020 |
i lost my friend of 18 years,every minute fr over a year he always came to my mind... you will move on too |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Humanoid01(m): 11:21am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Abouwaza:You're obviously a teenager, but if you're an adult, you should hang your head in shame. You've terribly failed your guardians. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by egunna(m): 11:22am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Monchadam:hmmmm.my own say she dey travel come back in d evening.i accompanied her to the road only to get a call from her sister say she die for accident.later dat nite I see her for dream dey smile at me while I dey cry.e be like movie,trust me,it happened.11th August 2018. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Nobody: 11:24am On Oct 15, 2020 |
mannasseh:Eiya,and I was busy fighting you anywhere you pop up,sorry too.Dust yourself and take things in your stride and move on with life.Good to know you've moved on.But stop looking for trouble |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by mamato(f): 11:24am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Good people hardly live long and I don't know why. Only time shall heal your pain but the memory might not go away. I lost my mum in 2017, no day passes without me dropping tears for her. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Davash222(m): 11:25am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Zzor:Never believed I’ll live to see you make a reasonable and sensible comment. Hope the world is not ending today? |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by DukeNija(m): 11:29am On Oct 15, 2020 |
I was once in your shoes, back in 2016 I lost my closest friend. We were colleagues and we both loved each other. I was devastated and heartbroken for one year. It’s a terrible experience so I understand exactly how you feel. I took solace in the knowledge she’s in a much better place. Unfortunately, there’s nothing you can do to fast track the healing process. You’ll just have to take it a day at a time and eventually like everything else, time will sort it. But never deny the pain, embrace it and mourn. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Nobody: 11:31am On Oct 15, 2020 |
[s] Abouwaza:very stupid comment coming from you |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Ten06(m): 11:31am On Oct 15, 2020 |
If you are a Christian go and do 3days dry fasting and deliverance in your church. So that God can take the weight off your shoulder. I have gone through that kind of situation before |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Omotakins(m): 11:32am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Years after I lost my dad, I still wept. Adulthood couldn't prevent me from doing that. Loss of a loved one leaves indelible mark particularly one you shared good and bad times with. However, I know time will heal you of all the deep wounds her demise created. Keep fulfilling dreams and making her proud. Let her memories spur you into achieving endlessly. It is well. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Nobody: 11:33am On Oct 15, 2020 |
mamato:me also I wonder why ?! because my mum back then when I was still small during those time in 2008 I can't forget when she wanted to give birth to our third born but everything happens for a reason and my mum was badly in love with going to church and praying she never ever miss a service or weekly activities or night vigil I still love her but if it someone who caused her death God will judge the person....... I LOVE YOU MOM !!! 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by ndiri(m): 11:33am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Monchadam:....... brother she's gone forever, kindly delete her pictures from your phone, delete her phone number, delete her memories, there are so many good ladies out there. This is my signature.................... good morning |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Oizee(f): 11:33am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Bros, don't worry bcuz u will move on, when I lost my Mum, I thought I couldn't move on, I felt like following her to d grave, but today I think of her every day , but I'm not depressed anymore. Just keep d good memories and assume she travelled, u will move on 1 Like |
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