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Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Monchadam: 12:55pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
jesmond3945: I'll move on.. thanks |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by eburuu: 1:01pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
change is constant.....death is a sure odd...if u have this zeal on you next time u wunt post this shit...way foword!! |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by fujirice: 1:08pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
This is the reason why I let myself go and cried like baby when I got the news of my father’s demise. Believe me, crying helps to relieve the pain. Also, just like someone said, try to occupy yourself with other activities, with time you will regain yourself. Time heals all wounds. Take heart my brother 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by mannasseh(m): 1:13pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
Zzor:na you start d trouble |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Nobody: 1:16pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
mannasseh:cant you avoid trouble if you see any,must you embrace it |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by mozona(m): 1:19pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
na you kill am |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Nobody: 1:19pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
SHE'S GONE FOR GOOD.GET ANOTHER LADY AND WATCH HOW GRADUALLY SHE JUST BECOME A MEMORY.[b][/b] 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by bejeria101(m): 1:52pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
I was in this same situation just like you, tried calling her at a period and got no answer. Her friend got back to me and said she had passed on over the weekend, I broke down in tears, she left behind a 7yearold daughter and parents. Her number is still in my phone because I want to believe she is alive, but the truth is she is long gone. Rest in peace Pamela Yeri. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Michaelota: 2:16pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
Read inspirational books, the word of God and pray without ceasing. We all die one day. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by amliftedhigher: 2:18pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
What killed her? |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Monchadam: 2:21pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
amliftedhigher: An unknown illness |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Exmilitant(m): 2:21pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
jesmond3945:Best advice so far. I wonder why people still cling to things and all that in this uncertain world! I personally frown at attachment!! |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Monchadam: 2:21pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
bejeria101: My condolences |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Deltatoto: 2:22pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
okanlanwon44879:u don talk am finish.d least thg anybody can use to threaten me now is death.e no Dey fear me again.why fear abt smthg that must happen?i lost my elder sis and my dad in one week.we haven’t buried dem.nthg bothers me anymore. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by SavageBoy: 2:33pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
hahn: Are you sensible at all |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Aarenasbaba(m): 2:36pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
The last paragraph says "she decided to leave the world" Death is not anybody decision.... He acts at his own will |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Ceeblaq10: 2:38pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
make we end sars first abeg.... |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Godi25(m): 2:38pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
It is really painful but remember that she always wanted you to be happy so to show that you truly love her, try to be happy to make her happy too. It's difficult but you can do it. If for anything, just try and be happy for her sake. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by hresso: 2:40pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
You never get over it. You forget but then you remember again, and it hurts you. It gets worse and worse. You wonder what you could have done, over and over. Then you relive the days you had together, you relive the day they died. You want to go back in time. You want to fix everything. But you can't. Then the years go by and you forget again, and it actually becomes bearable. But you remeber every so often and the fact that it has been so long kills you. You wan't to cry, but you can't, the tears have dried up inside you and you can't let it out anymore. You are terrified that you'll forget them. You hate yourself for forgetting. You are forever trapped. But then other things happen. You get older, you make more friends, you move to other places. You get married you have kids and well, you learn to be happy. You still go back into those deep lapses of depression, but you can still be very happy. You just have to be distracted.... 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by ledaman: 2:46pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
You should start praying a lot now and don't isolate your self often. Go and meet friends. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by mechanics(m): 2:54pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
Zzor:hmmmm, nothing like remembrance, that's why we have to be Christlike, because we don't know our last day on earth. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by boscho(m): 2:55pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
He should pray for her for what sir ? Zzor: |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by UcheforGod(f): 2:56pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
Zzor:Praying for her as in how? She is dead and buried na. He should pray for himself who is still alive. It is appointed unto men once to die and after that judgement follows. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Nobody: 3:00pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
UcheforGod:we were taught to pray for our beloved ones who are no longer with us on earth,they still need our prayers |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Alexk2(m): 3:05pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
Monchadam:It's painful enough to have a loved one die but more painful when you can't bring closure to the way he/she died. Which one is your case? |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Monchadam: 3:14pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
Alexk2: They said she complained of a headache, moments before she died. No one knew the cause of death |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by AquaSpunky(m): 3:19pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
Healing prayers & comforting hugs to all the people who have lost someone. May God give youse the serenity to bear the loss 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Alexk2(m): 3:28pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
Monchadam:That's it. Stop trying to resolve the misery behind her death but instead hand it all over to God in serious concerted prayer. I mean, "pray" it all to God and leave it there. That will not take the pain away totally but it'll help you to find peace within knowing fully well that God will hand it all....lastly like someone said, live your life, move on even with the pain cos you don't get to forget such. #TalkingFromExperience 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by BREYZ: 3:32pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
Monchadam: its really going to take much time. Mine left in 2011 and it has been pretty difficult ever since but one way or the other i always remember her and whatever i do everyday, i do it for us. she was a pretty soul & each time she always had something to say to me but when it was time to go, i never gave her enough time to tell me that which she always wanted to tell me. continue to rest in peace Emma Gone but will never be forgotten 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Monchadam: 3:35pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
BREYZ: My condolences bro |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Monchadam: 3:35pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
Alexk2: Thanks alot |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Earnonline7: 3:36pm On Oct 15, 2020 |
really |
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