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Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by AFvckingAlpha(m): 10:40am On Oct 15, 2020 |
The fvck Niggarr!! |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by protests: 10:40am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Peace to you. Oh Lord, send Angels to keep your children today. They have sent thugs today in buses to attack us We rally not for hate, but to deliver our brothers and sisters. Therefore let all the souls of compatriots departed, rest not, but fight today. Arise oh departed. Don't sleep. Fight SanwoOlu's govt and his backers. Fight Buhari's govt and his backers. Let your blood come alive. Amen.
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Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by rolams(m): 10:41am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Anyhow! |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by tolumizzy(m): 10:41am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Life goes on |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by austinelex: 10:43am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Sorry for ur loss but what really killed that beautiful soul |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by MrColdsweat: 10:45am On Oct 15, 2020 |
[s] Zzor:[/s] It's obvious you're a small inexperienced girl. How can you say he shouldn't be too emotional about death? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Omezif(m): 10:46am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Pray to God to rest his soul in peace whenever you remember him. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Nobody: 10:46am On Oct 15, 2020 |
now u have a taste of what love truly means...I think I should move on to making ur mind more creative and have goals, tasks to accomplish honestly, would she be happy knowing ure in this current state? |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Kentuforchrist(m): 10:47am On Oct 15, 2020 |
am sorry for your loss bro, |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by sammy7410(m): 10:47am On Oct 15, 2020 |
oh my guy Simon Templar we all go die but u chose to go before me. We all go die but na d date we never know rest on Life goes on 1 Like
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Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by AntiWailer: 10:48am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Don't rush to move on. Don't be in hurry to make the pain disappear. Go through the process. "There is nothing that can take the pain away. But eventually, you will find a way to live with it. There will be nightmares. And every day when you wake up, it will be the first thing you think about. Until one day will be the second thing." Raymond Reddington, The Black List 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Nobody: 10:49am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Monchadam: The day that phone number will ring and someone picks it what will you do? If you must grow, let go of emotions. The past is gone can't be brought back. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by michlins(m): 10:50am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Abouwaza:just try and have sense please |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Misterdhee1(m): 10:50am On Oct 15, 2020 |
I am exactly in the same position as you. I lost someone I considered my better half, the most beautiful, peaceful soul Ive ever met. She died August after a protracted kidney disease. It's even worse because I had to suffer emotionally and psychologically all through the time she was sick, with the hope that she would be fine and get back to normalcy. We even had lots of plans on how to make up for the lost times when she gets well. But death happened out of the blues. I've cried more tears within the last two months than I have cried my entire life. It gets worse every morning and deep into the nights. One thing that has been helpful is trying hard to come face to face with the reality each day - that makes it better with time. It's hard to forget such lovely souls, as they will forever be part of us, and every single thing would remind us of them, but learning to carry the scars as part of our individual lives will set us up for better days. You won't heal, but you will learn to live with it. The pain and emptiness is incomparable - my hugs. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Dreyton36: 10:51am On Oct 15, 2020 |
E clear Time heals everything |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by hahn(m): 10:52am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Monchadam: Chai. Friend zone don hold this one for kidney |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Nobody: 10:52am On Oct 15, 2020 |
michlins:abi dey craze? So you don't know this op is just chasing clout? Who looses someone close to them and need nairalanders on how to get over them Bunch of jokers |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by chatinent: 10:53am On Oct 15, 2020 |
May we chat out of here so I can be sharing you articles on this issue? |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Regex: 10:54am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Monchadam: She would want you to own every day wherever she is. You just have to move on, I don't think she'd be happy seeing you not owning the day, especially today. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Plebian(f): 10:54am On Oct 15, 2020 |
I signed into my nairaland account to type this. Because I understand how you feel. The vacuum. I lost a friend this year. And I realized how much I loved her after she died we weren't as close months leading up to her death. So I was left with guilt. I used ho'oponopono ( check YouTube) It's ok to cry and miss them. Talking about them with people who loved them also helps. Understanding they are freer, and would want you smiling. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Rugaria: 10:55am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Very hard to console someone going through the genuine intense pain and sorrow of loosing a loved one... Lost my eldest brother who was very close to me about ten years ago, but in my private moments these days, I still weep...., I mean for different reasons; he was still young, he liked life, he was like our role model in the house with his extremely ambitious adventures across the globe.., he complained to me about his fear of early death few months before he passed on, he didn't take my advice on a family issue and I was sort of "carrying face" for him when he suddenly died! Bros, the pain no be here! I did two things though; firstly, I always console myself with the many examples of people who have lost loved ones and have managed to carry on with life. It kind of provides you with a road map to survive the pains. Secondly, I started to pretend to myself that he was still there but deu to the distance between us, I can't see him. He was living in Europe then, I was tucked away in Asia. In years leading to his death, we seldom came home the same time though he was planning to visit but couldn't deu to health challenges. So I just pretended he was still over there and the years dragged on... Anything to hang in there till the day I die too.. It can be very painfull bro. Only those with the experience can understand.. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by bmdthemix: 10:55am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Abouwaza:a she died, apparently u just reas headline, buhari follower 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Nobody: 10:56am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Honour her memory by living the life she would have wanted you to live. Make the most of all opportunities that comes your way so that her spirit will continue to smile on you. Live your life like you are living it for 2 persons. She will return to you in the form of another woman |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by heendrix(m): 10:57am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Zzor: Thrash come on Get tf outta here |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by oogbiko(m): 10:59am On Oct 15, 2020 |
You need closure. Go see a therapist, you would be amazed at what therapy can do for you and the new things you'd discover for yourself. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by krownie: 10:59am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Monchadam:Bro what you're feeling right now is grief don't let it break you, she would want you to be happy. Take one day at a time and pray for God to take the pain away. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Liposure: 11:00am On Oct 15, 2020 |
okanlanwon44879:god will bless you for this comment |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by Nobody: 11:00am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Abouwaza: Which type of weed you dey smoke? No be only follow him, na follow hum 2 Likes
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Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by uniqueboi1(m): 11:04am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Monchadam: Try to detach yourself from the feelings. Let her rest in peace bro. If you keep showing her you can't live without her, she might make arrangements for you over there. Spirits don't like the ones they left behind to be in pain. Let her go. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by bluefilm: 11:04am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Monchadam: The best and only option I can see for you right now is to die now. That way you can join your friend and you guys can continue your friendship. |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by classicfrank4u(m): 11:05am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Abouwaza: Shut up, you're a kid! |
Re: How Do I Move On After My Friend's Death.. Still Hurts by tppzzy01(m): 11:05am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Well! You wouldn't feel 1 dot of what I felt and what am still feeling now when I lost my beloved wife, on the 18th of August in the cold blood of accident. Yours is still a friend but mine is a friend, a wife,and a mother of my 3 young kids. Each day seems to end quickly in my eyes. I feel like killing myself to meet her but for the Children she left behind for me, want me to stay. Right now, my life is shattered that I don't know where to start from and how to pickup. She is my business partner and my everything. I have lost everything. Well, thanks to her family that are there for me and encouraged me. I still don't know how to continue my living without her 14 Likes 2 Shares |
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