Fact1:



What you said isn't valid at all,,,,,.. we're stronger than the girls,,

If a girl hit me first,,(though it can never happen),,,,,, i will not hit her back,, but if nah male blood go dey flow on ground,,,


If i hit a girl she will faint instantly,,so why will i,,,?


If i wanna try my power my fellow male dey,,,


All this nah exaggeration ,, because I'm a displined and respected guy so no girl can raise her hand to hit me,,,,,,, only if we're playing,,,,,,,,

And if she hit me first without me doing anything,, I won't return it just because she's a girl,,,

hmmmmmmm, faintly instantly huh? Do you have six packs?

Shortyy:


All these epistle because of 2 minutes pleasure. You people are funny.

You don't know what this woman was going through at this point in time, you don't know if she communicated but the man never cared.

I've seen these things happen, that's why it upsets me. Married women go through lots of emotional trauma, but they'll rather keep it to themselves because no one would understand, especially if you're not married, and some married ones that are in the same shoe have accepted their fate because nothing can be done about it.

Most times it's not really the hubby, but there are some kind of depression that hits some married women after child birth. I just can't explain it. I'm not married, but I've studied lots of married people.

Sometimes talk to your wife, gently ask her questions and understand why she's acting up. It's not always about your right, your right, and what you want, sometimes inquire what she wants too.

You talk about communication but if you read my epistle you would see where i mentioned these things: communication, understanding.... it obvious you yourself don’t practice what you are preaching.

@FirstBolded. Sister stop assuming, stop jumping into unintelligent conclusions. Did she tell you she tried talking to her husband... Women are so special that with a little wisdom they can subtly control even the crudest man. Sadly many lack wisdom nowadays.

@TheSecondBolded: No man should ever raise his hands on his wife. But how do you know this man hasn’t tried to talk sense to his wife. Lets face man beating his wife (which I don’t ever support) is either given to anger or at the end of his wits.

World’s statistics tells you sex is the most “importantest” matter, Religion tells you same, yet you choose to downplay it; if it’s not ignorance I don’t know what it is.

What you call epistle is essential and the wise would see and adhere. If the bible can dedicate verses upon verses on top the matter don’t you think it would be important or are you wiser than the Spirit of God that inspired these verses.

Harddiskng:


You talk about communication but if you read my epistle you would see where i mentioned these things: communication, understanding.... it obvious you yourself don’t practice what you are preaching.

@FirstBolded. Sister stop assuming, stop jumping into unintelligent conclusions. Did she tell you she tried talking to her husband... Women are so special that with a little wisdom they can subtly control even the crudest man. Sadly many lack wisdom nowadays.

@TheSecondBolded: No man should ever raise his hands on his wife. But how do you know this man hasn’t tried to talk sense to his wife. Lets face man beating his wife (which I don’t ever support) is either given to anger or at the end of his wits.

What you call epistle is essential and the wise would see and adhere. If the bible can dedicate verses upon verses on top the matter don’t you think it would be important or are you wiser than the Spirit of God that inspired these verses.

I read your post. And that's why I'm telling you this. And I'm not assuming anything.
As a husband if you don't communicate with your wife, that marriage won't last.

And it's an epistle to me because it all circles round sex. Sex is not the most important in any relationship no matter how you men want to twist it.

This is why I've decided to stop taking most of you here serious, obviously the only thing y'all after is sex. Very pathetic.

You bring in God and Bible when y'all want to push your agenda. God himself said you should love your companion, did he not? And you don't know that love also means, listening, forgiving, caring and being attentive to your partner? Please please. Leave God out of your narratives.

Shortyy:


I read your post. And that's why I'm telling you this. And I'm not assuming anything.
As a husband if you don't communicate with your wife, that marriage won't last.

And it's an epistle to me because it all circles round sex. Sex is not the most important in any relationship no matter how you men want to twist it.

This is why I've decided to stop taking most of you here serious, obviously the only thing y'all after is sex. Very pathetic.

You bring in God and Bible when y'all want to push your agenda. God himself said you should love your companion, did he not? And you don't know that love also means, listening, forgiving, caring and being attentive to your partner? Please please. Leave God out of your narratives.

@Bolded right now you are just being emotional and its affecting your objectivity. First I brought in facts (statistics) and if statistics is not enough for you I also brought in religion.

You want to leave God and His word out of this aspect of your life, Fine. However I would advise you to listen to statistics; may it not end in tears.

Don’t turn this to the war of the sexes and judge the matter at hand appropriately. He is wrong for beating her but is denying him sex an appropriate action. - - - while I was young no matter what offense you committed, in my house you always get your perfect yummy 3 square meals and even more as you require it. Yes, You would definitely eat it amidst your hot tears; Oneday I committed a notable offense househelp’s judgment was that I wasn’t going to eat, mom got back and was furious. In her words “starving a child should never be considered as a form of punishment”. Apply this analogy. - - -

You talk about listening, forgiving, caring and being attentive (to you did the woman practice any of these) If this woman loved her husband like she ought in obedience to God like you are saying would she be denying her husband sex contrary to the words of the same God?

Harddiskng:


@Bolded right now you are just being emotional and its affecting your objectivity. First I brought in facts (statistics) and if statistics is not enough for you I also brought in religion.

You want to leave God and His word out of this aspect of your life, Fine. However I would advise you to listen to statistics; may it not end in tears.

Don’t turn this to the war of the sexes and judge the matter at hand appropriately. He is wrong for beating her but is denying him sex an appropriate action. - - - while I was young no matter what offense you committed, in my house you always get your perfect yummy 3 square meals and even more as you require it. Yes, You would definitely eat it amidst your hot tears; Oneday I committed a notable offense househelp’s judgment was that I wasn’t going to eat, mom got back and was furious. In her words “starving a child should never be considered as a form of punishment”. Apply this analogy. - - -

You talk about listening, forgiving, caring and being attentive (to you did the woman practice any of these) If this woman loved her husband like she ought in obedience to God like you are saying would she be denying her husband sex contrary to the words of the same God?

To me, did the woman practice any of these? And what makes you think she didn't? Were you there? She didn't deny her husband sex. If you as a man doesn't have sex in day, will you die? And don't tell me I'm being emotional here, because I'm talking facts.

You're even the one letting your emotions rule you, because of pleasure, you decide to beat your wife. It means you're controlled by your emotions, by your third leg, and not your brain.

You men should check yourselves. Especially most of you that think sex is all that matters in life, and it's only thing you need from your partners. Check yourselves. Y'all have serious problems, and I'm not even joking here.

Bible says "wives submit to your husbands" it never said "husbands beat your wives mercilessly any day she doesn't have sex with you" I'll keep saying it, any man that lays a hand on a woman because of sex or any other reason is no man.

Shortyy:
A woman posted that she was beaten because she denied her husband sex. And all the comments from men here commended the man for beating his wife. Is this how low men have become because of sex? No atom of sympathy whatsoever! I do hope it's their normal jokes and trolling, becausw if truly this is how all men are, God will surely understand if I decide not to be with one.

Nobody bothered to know what could have led the woman to make such decision. Could it be she was sick, or she was having menstrual cramp, or she wasn't just in the mood! Fgs no matter what, bride price or no bride price, humanity comes first. How could you justify a human beating his fellow human just because of 2 minutes pleasure? Are you all beasts? Oh My God. I am disgusted.

A woman you dated, promised to love for the rest of your life against all odds. Then you turn her into a punching bag because of sex. You never married her for any other reason just for sex. How unfortunate.

give me the link to the trend

Shortyy I've come to realize that some male romancelanders say one thing on here and do the opposite in real life.They just type nonsense on here for likes.

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MhisTahrah:
Shortyy I've come to realize that some male romancelanders say one thing on here and do the opposite in real life.They just type nonsense on here for likes.

Abi sef

@ shortyy...u getting way 2 emotional ontop dis mata...jst few questions 4 u tho..1) are u married?.2) still a virgin? 3) a christian?.there are tynx beyond ur comprehension..na Bleep up 4 d man to panel beat d babe face...marriage nor be BOBO JUICE...SEX wen u dey down grade so na very powerful tool oo..how do u intend keeping ur man?..take it or leave it, dnt joke with SEX,UNDERSTANDIN & COMMUNICATION in marriage mostly..e dey BIBLE & QURAN oo abi u knw pax d HOLY BOOKS..mayb na 2 mins sex bring u cum dis world sha bt 4 me na powaful 1hour sex na cari me cum...hw dare u talk ill of SEX..deal wit d man's brutality..if u like get d whole world, ur material possession gat ntyn to do wit HIGH LORD SEX.u go prefer adultery?..MARRIAGE = multiply,build 2geda,assist each oda nd Bleep each oda at all times.if e pain u,remain SINGLE nd Bleep ya self.

Shortyy:


To me, did the woman practice any of these? And what makes you think she didn't? Were you there? She didn't deny her husband sex. If you as a man doesn't have sex in day, will you die? And don't tell me I'm being emotional here, because I'm talking facts.

You're even the one letting your emotions rule you, because of pleasure, you decide to beat your wife. It means you're controlled by your emotions, by your third leg, and not your brain.

You men should check yourselves. Especially most of you that think sex is all that matters in life, and it's only thing you need from your partners. Check yourselves. Y'all have serious problems, and I'm not even joking here.

Bible says "wives submit to your husbands" it never said "husbands beat your wives mercilessly any day she doesn't have sex with you" I'll keep saying it, any man that lays a hand on a woman because of sex or any other reason is no man.

Again for the Umpteen time I don’t support any man beating his wife. It just goes to confirm you say things like communication (cause it sounds nice) while you yourself you don’t listen. You don’t practice what you preach.

You were given statistics & religion but you choose the discredit the importance of sex with “sex is not food” its say alot about you. You are intrinsically selfish, marriage is about two people (common interest, compromise) not only yourself. Please don’t consider getting married if you think everything has to be to your timing or at your whine, you would add to the statistics of bad marriage.

“Sex is not food” do you know how many women are in sexless marriages, desperate, demoralized and unhappy. Again I am telling you this is not battle of the sexes. Check yourself.

Jimbadly:


A real born again Christian doesn't touch the private part of their intending spouse. It's forbidden.

Marriage will shock a real born again Christian. Please tell the real born again not to come here and start complaining

Harddiskng:


Again for the Umpteen time I don’t support any man beating his wife. It just goes to confirm you say things like communication (cause it sounds nice) while you yourself you don’t listen. You don’t practice what you preach.

You were given statistics & religion but you choose the discredit the importance of sex with “sex is not food” its say alot about you. You are intrinsically selfish, marriage is about two people (common interest, compromise) not only yourself. Please don’t consider getting married if you think everything has to be to your timing or at your whine, you would add to the statistics of bad marriage.

“Sex is not food” do you know how many women are in sexless marriages, desperate, demoralized and unhappy. Again I am telling you this is not battle of the sexes. Check yourself.

You're more selfish Sir. If you think everything in marriage and life revolves about sex. Know your wife first, her concerns comes first before sex. If as a husband you're only concerned about sex and not your wife's affairs. Then you are very selfish.
And yes, you're in support of the man beating the wife, because your argument doesn't make any sense.
And yes, sex is not food. Sometime someone might not be in the mood to have this sex, as a reasonable person, give the person a break.

Shortyy:

You're more selfish Sir. If you think everything in marriage and life revolves about sex. Know your wife first, her concerns comes first before sex. If as a husband you're only concerned about sex and not your wife's affairs. Then you are very selfish.
And yes, you're in support of the man beating the wife, because your argument doesn't make any sense.
And yes, sex is not food. Sometime someone might not be in the mood to have this sex, as a reasonable person, give the person a break.

Where is the place of wisdom and compromise in what you wrote. You are not in the mood (which you concluded yourself without any concern for your husband), fine.

I don’t know what actually went down in this incidence but we both would agree this man would be a mad man to beat his wife for being not in mood at one time, just once in years. Let’s take a wild guess. How many times do you think she wasn’t in the mood for this man to lose his cool and descend on her. Again I don’t support wife-beating but its clear this woman is not blameless.

If you are not in the mood, what about compromise. There are other ways to appease your husband. Do you think the husband is always in the mood to pay schools, leave money for this and that or do this and that? (Assuming this man does).

The same way it goes for a woman not being in the mood, it also applies to a man. Do you know how many men haven’t been in the mood to have sex with their wives for years. How do you think these women feel?

Girl: wisdom, understanding and compromise.

Do you know that a married woman no longer has exclusive right to her body.
Bitter truth!

Harddiskng:


Where is the place of wisdom and compromise in what you wrote. You are not in the mood (which you concluded yourself without any concern for your husband), fine.

I don’t know what actually went down in this incidence but we both would agree this man would be a mad man to beat his wife for being not in mood at one time, just once in years. Let’s take a wild guess. How many times do you think she wasn’t in the mood for this man to lose his cool and descend on her. Again I don’t support wife-beating but its clear this woman is not blameless.

If you are not in the mood, what about compromise. There are other ways to appease your husband. Do you think the husband is always in the mood to pay schools, leave money for this and that or do this and that? (Assuming this man does).

The same way it goes for a woman not being in the mood, it also applies to a man. Do you know how many men haven’t been in the mood to have sex with their wives for years. How do you think these women feel?

Girl: wisdom, understanding and compromise.

There are men who are naturally angry and frustrated. Small thing, their temper flares up. I don't justify what that man did in any way, and If you do, then good for you. Have a good night.

Nuel4:
no two people are equal. Some men are superior to women some women are superior to men. There are millions of of women whom I can't lace their shoes there are millions of women who can't lace my shoes. Equality is a mirage, a social lie to prevent mass suicide

That's equality. Equality is acknowledging the absence of superiority and getting rid of the prejudice that come with it. It doesn't mean they will be equally strong, rich, etc. No, it's about giving equal opportunities and treatment.

@ shortyy wetin u gat yarn concernin women living in SEXLEZ marriages?.women wey their hubby nr dey reason dem.. u say sex is nt fud'.. u knw marriages wen dey go dwn d drain bcox of sex..MADAM get ur fact ryt..deal wit d man's brutality nd SEX..4 CLARITY,if my wife tel me say she nr dey in d mood mayb due to tirednex or bla bla bla,i nr dey argue,i rspct ha dcision bt den she must do 1 or 2 tyns to make me feel alryt nd i feel ok BCOX she undrstndx d IMPORTANCE ND CHEMISTRY behind SEX..she getx to apologise nd promise 2 do beta..dis 1 nr be issue 2 argue abt..D man did wrong bt d woman did WRONGEST..tho d reason wasnt stated.stp talkin out of emotion nd cal a spade a spade.wt do u knw abt marriage?..MARRIAGE NOR BE BOBO JUICE.u nid to tender an apology 4 mis yarn.

swiz123:


Aptly written, but wrong as regards to the earlier thread. This is because while most men were blaming the woman for putting herself in that position, they didn't necessarily say the man is right for doing what he did.

If a man made a thread about beating his wife because of sex, Men here would still take him to the slaughter...
Hope you understand.

One would expect that calling out and blaming the man would be the first thing before thinking of what the woman would have done differently. But the reverse was the case. The fact is, men will always drag women at the slightest opportunity. A girl was recently killed by her boyfriend and the front page was full of men asking why she put herself in that situation knowing the guy smokes. See that they didn't support the guy but they blamed the girl nevertheless. Girls are always policed and expected to behave in a certain way to be safe while the actual perpetrators of these acts don't get as much attention. If the story was the other way round, the woman would be called all sorts of names by Nairalanders. Not just her, they would have been insulting the entire female gender. It's as though they are wired to first find out what the woman would have done better.

Shortyy:


There are men who are naturally angry and frustrated. Small thing, their temper flares up. I don't justify what that man did in any way, and If you do, then good for you. Have a good night.

So the your conclusion is that this particular man is highly irrational and his wife have no fault and she is justified in not performing her wifely duties by always not being in the mood, I hear you

Please remember to pray before you go to bed, ask for wisdom and commit your marriage into God’s hands (that is if you want to get married).

Harddiskng:


So the your conclusion is that this particular man is highly irrational and his wife have no fault and she is justified in not performing her wifely duties by always not being in the mood, I hear you

Please remember to pray before you go to bed, ask for wisdom and commit your marriage into God’s hands (that is if you want to get married).

You need the wisdom more. Good night please.

A responsible man doesn't beat his woman, however may we not have reasons to do so.

Some women are nasty, mean and irrational.

Shortyy:

You need the wisdom more. Good night please.

Proverbs 15:1 - "A soft answer turns away wrath...” God knows if a woman has wisdom no man would descend on her.

....Of cause I would be asking the Good Lord for more wisdom. It is the principle thing

StacyO:

Some people have sold their souls cause of sex. Especially men.
It's a pity.

sex is sweet

#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv


Nairalanders are funny..
In the initial thread of the beating... The guys blasted the lady..
Now a lady created a thread and criticized the guys for it . Now good guys sprang into action immediately and condemned the guys and the woman's husband that supported him for beating her up .

Personally, I won't beat up a partner for denying me sex..
And Personally also, I have no PITY for the woman that was beaten up by her husband ..
Na her cup of tea be that.
I won't side any of them..
Let her continue posting it on social media.. she will get her social media judges (feminist) to sentence the husband..
Before you start foaming in the mouth.. Dbanj was accused of Rape on social media.. when Dbanj sued the accuser in a real Court of law.. the useless fool chickened out and opted to settle out of court..
I don't pity any clown seeking for attention on social media.. you know where to settle your issues..

FanOfMyself:

Just to be on their side, this brother is laying false accusations on his papa.

I swear Brah..
You took the words outta my mouth..
Even thou his dad does such.. must he spill it here just to be in their (nairaland girls) good books..
So many Effeminate males and Asslickers here..

WoundedLamb:


That's equality. Equality is acknowledging the absence of superiority and getting rid of the prejudice that come with it. It doesn't mean they will be equally strong, rich, etc. No, it's about giving equal opportunities and treatment.

it's 100% impossible to treat everyone equally. You can't confidently tell me you treat your cousins the same way you would treat a Fulani Herdsman. We all have prejudices. Pretending that everyone can be treated the same way irregardless of gender, tribe, race or social status is simply delusional or dishonest.

Sotland:



From the beginning and till the end of the world.. There have never been any such thing as equality "men and women equal" not in as a christian, Muslim or even the idol/traditional worshipper and it cannot be.

So, if you campaign for gender equality, you'd be deluding yourself.

The fact remains that both husband and wife should do what edify the presence of God in their lives.. Many people say there is no particular rule to marriage, but I tell them there is a commandment and if you follow n keep that commandment of marriage, you will experience peace in your marriage life....

Commandment as follows:

Husband: love your wife as thyself. Men love is natural selfish, for they love themselves more.. If the man in the context loves his wife, he won't have beaten her.. because 2 has become 1. A man who beats his wife beats himself.. Only mentally derail man slaps himself.

Wife: Submit Your self to thy husband. Most Women are naturally stubborn and often display their stubbornness through action or words. A woman who submit completely to her husband will experience peace(absolutely being submissive) Again.. Men are the authority of the house.. No body whether man or woman who's the head of any place will take it slightly if his or her authority is denied or not taken.. By authority, it doesn't mean force... There is a big difference btw an Authority and Force... In most cases, many men uses force in place of authority because the wife/woman is not submissive..

Finally, Life is not a bed of rose. We should always remember that challenges and the storm of life must surely come by, how we manage the scenario is all that matters.. May God help us all.. Amen

Soty

It's not all about religions. If Christianity had started in a more liberal society, that part wouldn't have been there. If the bible had been written in a more recent time, many of these wouldn't be there. We need to appreciate the fact that the people that wrote the bible were not without culture. Everything written is within the context of their culture and the time. Imagine asking women not to speak at all in the church. Who still obeys that? Asking the couple to love and cherish each other is perfectly sufficient. But the man being the head of the family isn't a problem cause someone has to be a leader after all. The problem is when the society is explicitly tweaked to give men more recognition and freedom. This is exactly the situation in Nigeria (at least, the western world is taking giant strides to reduce the gap).

Some organizations would never have a female leader cause men would be uncomfortable with it. Women are policed. They are told what to do, wear or say so that they'll be seen as good ladies. They are shamed for the slightest misstep while the males get away with virtually anything. Women are blamed for men's action. They are told "don't you know he's a man?". People think it is wrong for a single woman to live alone and drive a cool car cause that will scare men away. It's always about what works for men. Imagine a woman being told to cook delicious meals or dress well or pray so the man would stop cheating. Lol. It's just ridiculous. The funny thing is that some women have come to see themselves as the lesser beings. Well, you won't see this cause you're not on the receiving end.

Nigeria needs equality for everyone to be safe. Equality is acknowledging the absence of superiority and getting rid of the prejudice that come with it. It doesn't mean the two genders will be equally strong, rich, etc. No, it's about giving equal opportunities and treatment. Not just gender wise but generally. Even so, all men are equal before God

Nuel4:
it's 100% impossible to treat everyone equally. You can't confidently tell me you treat your cousins the same way you would treat a Fulani Herdsman. We all have prejudices. Pretending that everyone can be treated the same way irregardless of gender, tribe, race or social status is simply delusional or dishonest.

You are mixing it all up. Personal affection for people is your business and no one can tell you how to do that except your conscience. The problem is when you do not give people the same playground/opportunities. You can love your cousins from the here to the moon but when you are in HR and you give the job to someone from your family instead of the more qualified fulani guy, then that's inequality. When two people apply for a job and you give it to the man cause you think the women can't do just cause she's a woman, that's prejudice. When you call wizkid's baby mamas "olosho" and call Wizkid "wizy my guy", that's bias.

If not, so why do we denounce tribalism, racism and politics brutality? Why do we complain when politicians send theirs kids abroad and leave us with dilapidated hospitals? Why don't we say, "well, we are not equal"? The fact is that we only complain of inequality when it affects us. Otherwise, we make excuses for it.

WoundedLamb:


It's not all about religions. If Christianity had started in a more liberal society, that part wouldn't have been there. If the bible had been written in a more recent time, many of these wouldn't be there. We need to appreciate the fact that the people that wrote the bible were not without culture. Everything written is within the context of their culture and the time. Imagine asking women not to speak at all in the church. Who still obeys that? Asking the couple to love and cherish each other is perfectly sufficient. But the man being the head of the family isn't a problem cause someone has to be a leader after all. The problem is when the society is explicitly tweaked to give men more recognition and freedom. This is exactly the situation in Nigeria (at least, the western world is taking giant strides to reduce the gap).

Some organizations would never have a female leader cause men would be uncomfortable with it. Women are policed. They are told what to do, wear or say so that they'll be seen as good ladies. They are shamed for the slightest misstep while the males get away with virtually anything. Women are blamed for men's action. They are told "don't you know he's a man?". People think it is wrong for a single woman to live alone and drive a cool car cause that will scare men away. It's always about what works for men. Imagine a woman being told to cook delicious meals or dress well or pray so the man would stop cheating. Lol. It's just ridiculous. The funny thing is that some women have come to see themselves as the lesser beings. Well, you won't see this cause you're not on the receiving end.

Nigeria needs equality for everyone to be safe. Equality is acknowledging the absence of superiority and getting rid of the prejudice that come with it. It doesn't mean the two genders will be equally strong, rich, etc. No, it's about giving equal opportunities and treatment. Not just gender wise but generally. Even so, all men are equal before God

Did i hear you say "The problem is when the society is explicitly tweaked to give men more recognition and freedom ''lol... Sorry bro, nothing was explicitly tweaked as said.....It's our culture from origin and an abstract of the same culture in the bible..


No matter how you try to twist it.. The facts remains that men and female are never equal and cannot be equal.. Its shown in every instance even in sports.. That being said, Bible wasn't writing with carnal knowledge but with the wisdom from above.. No matter how wise you claim to be, you can never be wiser than Solomon..

Even in the western world, when they speak of gender equality, it's definition is completely different from how u define it in this part of the world...

milann:
sex is sweet

How will I know that?

Shortyy:
A woman posted that she was beaten because she denied her husband sex. And all the comments from men here commended the man for beating his wife. Is this how low men have become because of sex? No atom of sympathy whatsoever! I do hope it's their normal jokes and trolling, becausw if truly this is how all men are, God will surely understand if I decide not to be with one.

Nobody bothered to know what could have led the woman to make such decision. Could it be she was sick, or she was having menstrual cramp, or she wasn't just in the mood! Fgs no matter what, bride price or no bride price, humanity comes first. How could you justify a human beating his fellow human just because of 2 minutes pleasure? Are you all beasts? Oh My God. I am disgusted.

A woman you dated, promised to love for the rest of your life against all odds. Then you turn her into a punching bag because of sex. You never married her for any other reason just for sex. How unfortunate.

lol. this one vex you o. no go fight man cos the way you sound e be you like make you slap person.

Hurt people hurt people!
Too many broken men out their.
Most of these cases are nothing but transferred aggression.
As long as you have the same features as someone who really hurt them in the past these men or women will always try to feel better by hurting the closest person that looks like someone who hurt them in the past. it takes knowledge or Gods help not to tow that part. That weird feeling you have towards the opposite sex after a traumatic breakup can linger and even affect you in the long run if left unchecked. It takes a special kinda love, woman or wisdom to heal these men. Marriage is a beautiful thing don't let this sad tales tell you otherwise. The best thing any girl can do is to pray for a good man or at least be wise enough to see the signs early.

Fact1:



What you said isn't valid at all,,,,,.. we're stronger than the girls,,

If a girl hit me first,,(though it can never happen),,,,,, i will not hit her back,, but if nah male blood go dey flow on ground,,,


If i hit a girl she will faint instantly,,so why will i,,,?


If i wanna try my power my fellow male dey,,,


All this nah exaggeration ,, because I'm a displined and respected guy so no girl can raise her hand to hit me,,,,,,, only if we're playing,,,,,,,,

And if she hit me first without me doing anything,, I won't return it just because she's a girl,,,

This response is not just satirical, sarcastical, rhetorical, but fvcking hilarious