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JIMMY1393:
Who are all these guys na...and here I thought it's only white folks that did this obsession of a thing ....it can be energy draining ...how can you be giving update for activities withing the house na...that's madness lmao...and me myself I've been hoping to find someone that would call as frequently as this but all these stories are scary af and I don't want again

Favy1235:
If you meet guys that never takes NO for an answer you will understand.
Back then in school i dated one guy,when the love wasn't there any longer i plainly told him.
The next day i was still sleeping he came over and refused to agree to my 'NO'. stayed with till evening,same thing happened the next day.
I had to pack my bags and travel home that weekend because of ASUU strike.
Even uptil today he still reminds me i'm his gf.

Fountainofyouth:
Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.

paulolee:
yeah....back then when I visited my uncle in p.h...she say she be virg n am her first BT it didn't seem so to me...she was soo into me n just CNT free me even after seeing me flirting with other girls openly...
she Do say she normally dream abt d both of us getting married.... I jus bear her wahala n craze till I leave pH...d Bea folo join d reason why I left pH soo early, mk Bea no go allow obsession take stab me for nite...

WoundedLamb:
Lol... how can the person refuse? It takes two to tango. Once one person is done, there's no relationship anymore.

Favy1235:
If you meet guys that never takes NO for an answer you will understand.
Back then in school i dated one guy,when the love wasn't there any longer i plainly told him.
The next day i was still sleeping he came over and refused to agree to my 'NO'. stayed with till evening,same thing happened the next day.
I had to pack my bags and travel home that weekend because of ASUU strike.
Even uptil today he still reminds me i'm his gf.

paulolee:
yeah....back then when I visited my uncle in p.h...she say she be virg n am her first BT it didn't seem so to me because she also brought up dier normal rape lamba as her first....
she was soo into me n just CNT free me even after seeing me flirting with other girls openly to make her forget me
she Do say she normally dream abt d both of us getting married and cnt wait to leave her dreams, I jus bear her madness n craze till I leave pH BT also enjoyed her nice care n swet love but it all got boring at some point bcoz she was restricting oda girls n even fighting with them bcoz of me..
d Bea was d main reason why I left pH soo early, mk obsession no go mk Bea read my chats n stab me for night... after all even my mama no fit carry me for head like dt..
and now am dead single for years...maybe na karma...

crackhaus:
NO, it never gets past the usual questions; Why do you want to end it? Why are you doing this to me? What are you saying?

Probably because I made it a necessity to never date women with mental health issues.
No matter how pretty or well put-together a woman is, I can usually tell.

But now that I think of it, I'm still friends with my exes surprisingly...

Stephen2324:
Ever tried breaking up with someone and the person refused?
How did it go?

Psych412:
mine was 3years ago(when I was schooling in imsu). when I broke with him, he didn't do anything (he claimed nothing will make him beg me to accept him back).


but, when I went to school with my course mate(male). we were holding hands together, from nowhere my ex and his useless boys(his a cultist) stopped us, and started beating up my course mate. I had to kneel to beg him to leave him alone




he did the same thing to three other guys.



he told me, "if he can't have me, no one can"



my stay in imsu, he was the only one I had an intimate relationship with.


I never got into another relationship because of him(threatening to kill any guy am in relationship with)

Stephenmoka4:
Heard of hydrogen bond before

ezenwajosh:
really? BUT WE MUST REMAIN ONE NIGERIA BY ALL MEANS....ARE WE NOT RUNNING MAD ALREADY

Fountainofyouth:
Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.

Stephen2324:
Ever tried breaking up with someone and the person refused?
How did it go?

otemeh01:
wawu. you sure say u no jazz this guy. lol

Pancakeey:
This is funny. Because people react to things differently
Talk to them and try to make them understand.

You should know that they’re hurting too and they’re reacting the only way they know how too.

It hurts when someone who was your everything slowly becomes nothing.
In a relationship there’ll always be a weaker person. Someone who can’t let go of the other person no matter how bad the relationship is.

You need to talk, be there for them.
If they cry, be a shoulder
Make them see why you can’t be together anymore. Explain the bad things that would keep happen if yiu remain together.
Please don’t suggest to be friends because that’s a lie.
[b]People say we can be friends but it’s not possible. [/b]You’ll go back to being strangers no matter how much you try.

Make them see reason. And if it’s that you already have someone else you like, let them know. So they don’t keep hoping that things might work out

You’re welcome!

Fountainofyouth:
Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.

paulolee

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yeah....back then when I visited my uncle in p.h...she say she be virg n am her first BT it didn't seem so to me because she also brought up dier normal rape lamba as her first....
she was soo into me n just CNT free me even after seeing me flirting with other girls openly to make her forget me
she Do say she normally dream abt d both of us getting married and cnt wait to leave her dreams, I jus bear her madness n craze till I leave pH BT also enjoyed her nice care n swet love but it all got boring at some point bcoz she was restricting oda girls n even fighting with them bcoz of me..
d Bea was d main reason why I left pH soo early, mk obsession no go mk Bea read my chats n stab me for night... after all even my mama no fit carry me for head like dt..
and now am dead single for years...maybe na karma...

Daum:
I feel I am in a toxic relationship and sometimes I wish am out. My girlfriend always has mastered the act of gaslighting.

Just last night I was on the phone with her
Talking and talking and she was giving me replies like it was an interview, den I got tired then boom....she says am acting like she is forcing a conversation.

I am already used to it, I knew the blame game was coming. She does it always. How can you blame people for your mood.

I love my me time die, but her own is like it's a must to talk for hours or chat. I get busy.

I even fear to spend days with her

DamolaDamola:
Sounds exactly like my story, only that she's a girl and she's not a sex freak that much. But she's already in my house from 7:30 to 8:00 A.M. She's a Muslim too so, the church part doesn't apply to me. She already knows all my place of hangout, even places that my family doesn't know. She just shocks me every time as if she already injects a GPS tracker in my body

WoundedLamb:
Lol... how can the person refuse? It takes two to tango. Once one person is done, there's no relationship anymore.

Fountainofyouth:
Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.

Liposure:
She pleaded. She cried. But my mind was made up. The game was over, we couldn't continue anymore. I had to move on. Very sad. Sometimes i miss her

Fountainofyouth:
Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.

adg98:
Yes that was two years ago
Wasn't a funny experience, he break us when he started fooling around with plenty of girls, I cried a lot for that guy. Funny thing I settled with myself that he will always cheat on me but still I couldn't leave him cos he was my saving grace after my first boyfriend broke up with me.

I later find solace in another guy's arm (my current boyfriend) told my ex that I was getting intimate with another guy thought it will make him see a reason to break up with me but instead, he became more aggressive and started treating me like a prisoner, he refused to travel to his workplace because he wants to be monitoring. One day he told me to pack my bags that I will be moving to Benin with him from Awka I refused and the next thing I know he started hitting me and almost forced his way into me saying he is going to prove that no other man's dick is better than his.

I flee from the house with my torn gown and went to my friend's place. When my current boyfriend found out he was so mad because he has told me initially to break up with my ex so that we can become official but when I tried it wasn't having any of it. My boyfriend contact his cousin who is a DPO, my ex was arrested and detained for some days, after that he left me for good and also left awka too