Fountainofyouth:



Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.

Haba...11times??
Nne eh people deh this life oh

Unemployment in our country is the main reason for that.

This is what too much bollywood cause

It has never happened to me before. I have broken up with several girls and we all moved on.....One of them tried to act funny sha thinking I wasn't serious when I told her I was no longer interested. Las Las she had to accept it after sending me numerous messages which I didn't reply. It wasn't a big deal.




But in some relationship it won't be easy like that o. After investing so much in a partner the person can't just wake up one-day and tell you it's over. Some people won't take it lightly........Na dat kinda relationship bring the slogan " WE DIE HERE"

paulolee:
yeah....back then when I visited my uncle in p.h...she say she be virg n am her first BT it didn't seem so to me because she also brought up dier normal rape lamba as her first....
she was soo into me n just CNT free me even after seeing me flirting with other girls openly to make her forget me
she Do say she normally dream abt d both of us getting married and cnt wait to leave her dreams, I jus bear her madness n craze till I leave pH BT also enjoyed her nice care n swet love but it all got boring at some point bcoz she was restricting oda girls n even fighting with them bcoz of me..
d Bea was d main reason why I left pH soo early, mk obsession no go mk Bea read my chats n stab me for night... after all even my mama no fit carry me for head like dt..
and now am dead single for years...maybe na karma...

Just dey sharpen your D1CK guy man, another KPEKUS is on the way

mdchikezie:


MY BRO NA SOOOOO.
ME WEY DON DEY SINGLE ALL MY LIFE

As in ehen?!

I carry olosho daran oo....based on say I be ( hust niggar) I dey yab I love u I love u anyhow....
The girl collect my number, na hin she go dey Call me Everytime ooooo..she come realized I no get gf join, chai, she won turn her to house wife already, I blocked her unblocked her again, but don block her again now, but I dey fear small Sha...cuz nah C&S she be..., She come dey reason me dey make me feel guilty say I broke her heart, . shey I no dey pay her ni.... fucking hell joor

Chii59:
People don't break up nowadays, they ghost. Especially guys, they just leave you there to date yourself.

Was expecting your comment

Daum:
I feel I am in a toxic relationship and sometimes I wish am out. My girlfriend always has mastered the act of gaslighting.

Just last night I was on the phone with her
Talking and talking and she was giving me replies like it was an interview, den I got tired then boom....she says am acting like she is forcing a conversation.

I am already used to it, I knew the blame game was coming. She does it always. How can you blame people for your mood.

I love my me time die, but her own is like it's a must to talk for hours or chat. I get busy.

I even fear to spend days with her

you better run for your life bro..been there and it never ends well

BREYZ:


Dude loved you but you took it as something else. It could be because of his past experience that he gave you this restrictions not obsession. He was probably insecure and needed help but you walked away He will be feeling sad wherever he is right now

Or he could move to the opposite end of the spectrum. Become cold as fvck.

adg98:
Yes that was two years ago
Wasn't a funny experience, he break us when he started fooling around with plenty of girls, I cried a lot for that guy. Funny thing I settled with myself that he will always cheat on me but still I couldn't leave him cos he was my saving grace after my first boyfriend broke up with me.

I later find solace in another guy's arm (my current boyfriend) told my ex that I was getting intimate with another guy thought it will make him see a reason to break up with me but instead, he became more aggressive and started treating me like a prisoner, he refused to travel to his workplace because he wants to be monitoring. One day he told me to pack my bags that I will be moving to Benin with him from Awka I refused and the next thing I know he started hitting me and almost forced his way into me saying he is going to prove that no other man's dick is better than his.

I flee from the house with my torn gown and went to my friend's place. When my current boyfriend found out he was so mad because he has told me initially to break up with my ex so that we can become official but when I tried it wasn't having any of it. My boyfriend contact his cousin who is a DPO, my ex was arrested and detained for some days, after that he left me for good and also left awka too

leaving another guy for another guy isnt the best...u should take time to heal

Niwdog:
exactly the problem am having in my current relationship
We could chat for Three hours non-stop..
Call like seven times a day and if I don't feel like to answer or reply her chat accusation will start

run

Fountainofyouth:



Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.

Go and give thanksgiving that you are still alive to type this.
He is mentally unbalanced. In fact he is a psychopath.

Fountainofyouth:



Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.

You probably exaggerating or amplifying it.
How can someone do all these because of a woman bikonu?

Psych412:
mine was 3years ago(when I was schooling in imsu). when I broke with him, he didn't do anything (he claimed nothing will make him beg me to accept him back).


but, when I went to school with my course mate(male). we were holding hands together, from nowhere my ex and his useless boys(his a cultist) stopped us, and started beating up my course mate. I had to kneel to beg him to leave him alone




he did the same thing to three other guys.



he told me, "if he can't have me, no one can"



my stay in imsu, he was the only one I had an intimate relationship with.


I never got into another relationship because of him(threatening to kill any guy am in relationship with)

imsu and cultists sha lol...

[quote author=PrinceMo post=95442280]

It doesn't sound like love,yes i agree.

I am not in support of toxic relationships but [b]trust me some people can do insane things over those they love even if it means causing harm to them when the thought of loosing them arises.

Physical harm or deaths threats should never be taken for granted, it happens. [/[/b]quote]

Wetin you dey try talk... Can you kill for love?

SolexxBarry:


Very true, thanks a lot boss

Oga, they are advising you now but you dont want to understand. Let me break it down for you.
1. She broke up with you because she found another guy who she believed was richer or better than you in bed.
2. They had a sexual relationship for the 8 months period she was out of your life.
3. The guy, probably a playboy, got tired of her and moved on with another lady.
4. She is presently feeling sad about loosing the guy but needs someone to fall back on, and she remembered you.
5. She can never stay permanently with you because you do not meet everything she needs in a man. So if another man with better qualities comes around, you are toast again.

Now put all of this in your mind, if you want to continue with your ex.

KevinDein:


Or he could move to the opposite end of the spectrum. Become cold as fvck.

Possibly

FanOfMyself:

You probably exaggerating or amplifying it.
How can someone do all these because of a woman bikonu?

She exaggerated everything to get the kind of reactions she's getting on this forum and feel good about leaving him.

paulolee:
yeah....back then when I visited my uncle in p.h...she say she be virg n am her first BT it didn't seem so to me because she also brought up dier normal rape lamba as her first....
she was soo into me n just CNT free me even after seeing me flirting with other girls openly to make her forget me
she Do say she normally dream abt d both of us getting married and cnt wait to leave her dreams, I jus bear her madness n craze till I leave pH BT also enjoyed her nice care n swet love but it all got boring at some point bcoz she was restricting oda girls n even fighting with them bcoz of me..
d Bea was d main reason why I left pH soo early, mk obsession no go mk Bea read my chats n stab me for night... after all even my mama no fit carry me for head like dt..
and now am dead single for years...maybe na karma...

Bros, naso the thing do me too oo, after losing one girl wey s love me like mad. Have been single for years too now

You are not ready to break up

Ishilove:

Were you cohabiting with him?

Nonsense and Ishi Q ... Upon everything she said that's all you care to ask .... ShigidiShiiii Cohabiting , Yes, ShiCohaabiiitted !!

Na ghosting sure pass atleast you still have hope of hitting the kepkus one last time when you guys see again but then what do I know.

I also smell lies in some comments here but still what do I know.

Peace

uckennety:



rubbish

obviously the ìdiot loved her but she didn't love him!

bros, you are right but I see a trace of abusive tendency there and I wouldn't ask her to risk it.

Also, women generally don't like it when you are too attached to them and this kind of attitude comes when a guy hasn't dated much girls (lack. Of experience) , but women don't care to know this.

Also women, many of them, want to have a lot of fun and you would be making a mistake trying to cage them like a monitoring spirit.

This same girl here would be praying for what she just rejected when she eventually gets married... I have seen it many times but that is how their world is wired and they should live with it.

Hope nothing wrong with me?...I'm age 25 no girl friend I luckily had one when I was 23 and the relationship only last for 2month I've being single from this far and as a matter of fact I only had sex once in my life...and there's nothing like being afraid to ask ladies out but my life is just always like this.pls hope is normal because In few months time I'll clock 26 and yet no any woman in my life.

mrcrabs:
Na ghosting sure pass atleast you still have hope of hitting the kepkus one last time when you guys see again but then what do I know.

I also smell lies in some comments here but still what do I know.

Peace

Na me be king of ghosting back then
Funnily enough when I started doing it I didn't even know it had a name. I'd disappear for weeks then come back when I wanted sex. They'd be acting up and complaining and I'd just promise to change and be a good partner. Boom. That's it.
I'd have the cookie for like a week then ghost again
The girls them tire for me but they just couldn't resist me

JimmyDarmody:
in my experience, he or she will think you love them more when clearly they are choking you with their presence. It's like mental illness

it is not a mental illness, bro.

I was once like that but not to the point that she described him.

This kind of attitude often stem from inexperience, like when you are new to dating and clouded by what you have watched in movies or read in romance books, at least that it was for me until I woke up

BREYZ:


Dude loved you but you took it as something else. It could be because of his past experience that he gave you this restrictions not obsession. He was probably insecure and needed help but you walked away. He will be feeling sad wherever he is right now

There are girls that can love like that. Go and find one, we dey wait update. Una go just dey type nonsense. Love indeed.

KevinDein:


Or he could move to the opposite end of the spectrum. Become cold as fvck.

If you like, be as cold as ice fish. You won’t be the first or the last. Neither is it the cure for Corona. Whatever he becomes is up to him, na make e no kill person pikin be the koko.

Sawzer:
I can't relate ,I've been single all my life

Same here bro
still waiting for my first opportunity

Sawzer:



As in ehen?!

WETIN DEY OCCUR

WoundedLamb:
Lol... how can the person refuse? It takes two to tango. Once one person is done, there's no relationship anymore.

u've not seen by fire by force relationship before

atmy1:
She brought out a knife and locked the door after calling my new gf that she would kill her if she ever set her eyes on her. She threatened to kill herself if I leave her alone. When I didn't answer she brought out sniper and poured in her mouth. I became scared and started begging her to spit it out. One of our neighbors helped me in taking her to the hospital and she fell sick for two months and I was the one paying the bills. After she got well I prepared to bail out and just leave her with everything in the house but she discovered and went to seize my laptop. I paid cult boys on the street who threatened to kill her before she revealed where she kept it. I left her in the morning crying her hearts out. I came back to pick something in the evening and still saw her crying in front of the house

:oWTF

uckennety:


rubbish
obviously the ìdiot loved her but she didn't love him!

Mumu, is that love or curse