Fountainofyouth:
He went to meet a friend of his that is my colleague, to give him a list of all the males I talk to at work, thinking I broke up with him cos of one of them,

He called me 70 times everyday, I didn't pick

He sent me 20 sms of disfiguring my face and body threats, 30 sms of death threats, 20 sms pleading for me to take him back,

He came knocking at my door, I didn't open, he shouted at me to the hearing of my neighbours that if I dont open the door, he'd burn the house with me inside, my neighbours flung him out of our compound,

How he eventually left me alone was when I got his elder brother's number, reported everything to him, the elder bro then told their mum, the mum called my ex to leave that state, and start coming to Lagos, this dude actually quit his job and left for Lagos the next day, weird but a relief,

The tory plenty but I'll stop here, this happened 4 yrs ago, I saw signs of obsession thinking it was 100% love and loyalty.

imgaine, some guys the Bleep up

My brother some girls are temptation.i have this girl that have I broke up with but she refused and keep calling me and disturbing me,I sometimes I do pick her call and invite her over not because I want her but because she is making me pity her,not that I was with her for long before I broke up we were together for just 4months and I was not seeing what I expected in her.

WoundedLamb:
Lol... how can the person refuse? It takes two to tango. Once one person is done, there's no relationship anymore.

WoundedLamb:
Lol... how can the person refuse? It takes two to tango. Once one person is done, there's no relationship anymore.

You haven't seen begging before. Don't pray to see tears.

jornwhite:



Did he sound like someone depressed

Did I ask you?

Ishilove:

Seems like you have been emotionally manipulated.

It will end in tears. I don't know whose, but I sense tears in the horizon.

Please take am easy na.

Someone just said he was getting married soon and you're foreseeing evil.

The lady was dying of heartbreak and the guy did good by going back into the relationship...

The guy didn't mention any evil character of hers and probably wanted to just chop and move on... Emotional sickness is real and she didn't threaten him in any way. He must have seen her extent of suffering because of his love..

Love is as strong as death....

Freelane33:
The title of your situationship is called ... WEDIEHERE..

Hahahahahahaha!

Eva165:
I have had such an experience....that particular day, I told babe am done, although our relationship was 2 years nd. After I quit taking her calls I was like finally am out oo. The next 3 days i received a call from one man who referred himself as a doctor. He said a lady is dieing in my hospital now, her BP is 180 high,we have been trying to save her life but no changes. Imidietly another call came in,it was her father.This man beged me to forgive her duather that she is about to die.Although I refused to listen to any of them. In one hour latta the doctor called again that if I can see her through video calls,then I will understand why they all calling me.I accepted for the video calls, Everything about her changed both her color and she became so thin.She said that she will never accept the breakup and even the doctor and her parents was beging me to forgive her if ever she did anything wrong. Finally we are getting married very soon.

Omg! Thank God you guys are getting married o... But people can be funny oo... So she'd end her life cause of you?....

Fountainofyouth:



Huh!!! Did you really read my first two comments with an open mind Did you see the threats before breaking up with him? Did you see the "no breathing space" "no me time"? Do you know if I've complained several times to the extent that, one time, he almost turned violent

My dear


You did very well, in relationship the two parties must be first. " complete " individuals. That can function alone and then as couples that can complement each other

But where one part does not have a life of his own ie not complete...... He will shock you


Because he will never give yo breathing space ... And for fear of losing you he will make sure you also lose everyone you have as friends


That's bondage

Liposure:
She pleaded. She cried. She begged. But my mind was made up. We couldn't continue anymore. The game was over. I had to move on. Very sad. Sometimes i miss her

Don't miss her, but you told my story.

Alexaonfleek:
Are you happy in the marriage?

I know what you mean.

I have 3 children that I adore, there can't be regrets. Happiness or not, love or not, my marriage is for better and for worst.

NiceMen:
I didn't like it, man. It is past now cos I have outgrown it.

I'm a lady.
All the best

adanny01:


I know what you mean.

I have 3 children that I adore, there can't be regrets. Happiness or not, love or not, my marriage is for better and for worst.

Okay.
I wish you all the best in your married life.

zoomman:

Welcome to the club bro....if you know what is good for you, kindly look for a suitable replacement before the bomb drop...coz ur in a sinking ship.

Already have someone around.

The issue with her is, she does it to everyone. Especially those she is close to. She has this anger issue. I have tried finding out what went wrong in her childhood but its blurry.

Imagine I told her I was playing game, she said I am now putting game before her. Blood of Zacharia, can't I have me time.

I am Capricorn and I love my space

I LIED ?

bukatyne:



Hahahahahahaha!

Klass99:


Your situation reminds me of a movie titled Entrapment (starring Sean Connery & Catherine Zeta Jones)

You had me lol then wondering WTF are you still doing with this person? Your last sentence in particular has me ROTFL .

Guy, just free yourself abeg. Your situation sounds mentally stressful to me, who is reading it.

I will do it slowly

paulolee:
yeah....back then when I visited my uncle in p.h...she say she be virg n am her first BT it didn't seem so to me because she also brought up dier normal rape lamba as her first....
she was soo into me n just CNT free me even after seeing me flirting with other girls openly to make her forget me
she Do say she normally dream abt d both of us getting married and cnt wait to leave her dreams, I jus bear her madness n craze till I leave pH BT also enjoyed her nice care n swet love but it all got boring at some point bcoz she was restricting oda girls n even fighting with them bcoz of me..
d Bea was d main reason why I left pH soo early, mk obsession no go mk Bea read my chats n stab me for night... after all even my mama no fit carry me for head like dt..
and now am dead single for years...maybe na karma...

E don do you juju lols. But it's sweet to be single nah.

.

Alexaonfleek:
Okay.
I wish you all the best in your married life.

Thanks

paulolee:
yeah....back then when I visited my uncle in p.h...she say she be virg n am her first BT it didn't seem so to me because she also brought up dier normal rape lamba as her first....
she was soo into me n just CNT free me even after seeing me flirting with other girls openly to make her forget me
she Do say she normally dream abt d both of us getting married and cnt wait to leave her dreams, I jus bear her madness n craze till I leave pH BT also enjoyed her nice care n swet love but it all got boring at some point bcoz she was restricting oda girls n even fighting with them bcoz of me..
d Bea was d main reason why I left pH soo early, mk obsession no go mk Bea read my chats n stab me for night... after all even my mama no fit carry me for head like dt..
and now am dead single for years...maybe na karma...

No be karma....you dey broke cos na dough 90% of our women Sabi n maybe you failed to pay.

Eva165:
I have had such an experience....that particular day, I told babe am done, although our relationship was 2 years nd. After I quit taking her calls I was like finally am out oo. The next 3 days i received a call from one man who referred himself as a doctor. He said a lady is dieing in my hospital now, her BP is 180 high,we have been trying to save her life but no changes. Imidietly another call came in,it was her father.This man beged me to forgive her duather that she is about to die.Although I refused to listen to any of them. In one hour latta the doctor called again that if I can see her through video calls,then I will understand why they all calling me.I accepted for the video calls, Everything about her changed both her color and she became so thin.She said that she will never accept the breakup and even the doctor and her parents was beging me to forgive her if ever she did anything wrong. Finally we are getting married very soon.

UNBELIEVE

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Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.




sounds to me like you have missed the love of ur life. ever tried molding him into THE PERFECT MAN you desire? you enjoyed all that he offered but abandon him in his despair, may we never fall in love with a lady like you

Fountainofyouth:



Huh!!! Did you really read my first two comments with an open mind Did you see the threats before breaking up with him? Did you see the "no breathing space" "no me time"? Do you know if I've complained several times to the extent that, one time, he almost turned violent

.

Maybe I didn't get all that my bad
There is no justification for being violent
I can't even imagine myself hitting no lady , that record lies in my lineage
I wish you all the best tho , enjoy

FlordFlorez:
Mine was twice with different ladies. Both threatened me with suicide! The last one was even practically displaying the suicidal, like she'd faints suddenly while we were having such discussion. Later on, I gotta know she's marine spirited. Fear grips me. I confronted her, she admitted and explained her mum told her when I enquired further that she is indeed. I had to start praying fervently for God to deliver me from her. How we separated was still mysterious to me till date. She just stop calling and seeing me. Since then, I knew God love me!

So in other news you don chop Mami water kpekus on countless ocassions/locations be that or I lie?

Ishilove:

Seems like you have been emotionally manipulated.

It will end in tears. I don't know whose, but I sense tears in the horizon.

It will Totally end in Premium Tears ah swear....It won't Last

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PhilGreen:
sounds to me like you have missed the love of ur life. ever tried molding him into THE PERFECT MAN you desire? you enjoyed all that he offered but abandon him in his despair, may we never fall in love with a lady like you

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Bjteensdes24:

Dreyton Dreyton the Ojota guy wey dey meet rich or lemme say big ladies. Money wey you promised 30 people for Man United vs Leipzig thread yesterday, you no pay them o

My rules my game
I asked the to provide someone, I don't talk too much
I expected to see 30 moniker pointing out just one person
I can't be in a WhatsApp group with anyone for my kind gesture
They should do all of that and all I wanna see is just 30 people whom I've promised to point out one moniker to receive the funds
I don't wanna see just 3 or 10 people pointing someone out
What if it's just someone with different accounts who's pointing himself out yunno how these things goes naw
I don't like cheating so I'll still keep my money until they're serious

Fountainofyouth:
He went to meet a friend of his that is my colleague, to give him a list of all the males I talk to at work, thinking I broke up with him cos of one of them,

He called me 70 times everyday, I didn't pick

He sent me 20 sms of disfiguring my face and body threats, 30 sms of death threats, 20 sms pleading for me to take him back,

He came knocking at my door, I didn't open, he shouted at me to the hearing of my neighbours that if I dont open the door, he'd burn the house with me inside, my neighbours flung him out of our compound,

How he eventually left me alone was when I got his elder brother's number, reported everything to him, the elder bro then told their mum, the mum called my ex to leave that state, and start coming to Lagos, this dude actually quit his job and left for Lagos the next day, weird but a relief,

The tory plenty but I'll stop here, this happened 4 yrs ago, I saw signs of obsession thinking it was 100% love and loyalty.

Hmm. Well he was the one doing the begging. I literally begged mine over faults I didn't commit. He thinks I sleep with any guy I talk to, he checks my Facebook messages and questions me on every guy I've chatted with. I have never cheated nor thought of cheating on him.
He told me that he'll forgive my alleged cheating if I sleep with any guy while he watches via WhatsApp video call, and that's the only condition to continue our relationship. I seriously considered it but I just couldn't, the very thought makes me sick. I told him I couldn't and he broke up with me and blocked me on Whatsapp. He said I'll come begging and crying back to him and by then, he'll insist I sleep with two guys while he watches.

JIMMY1393:


What the actual Bleep....I thought at 1st that maybe you just exaggerated but damn this is clear obsession....the calling 11 times per day alone is draining enough for me I can't now imagine all the rest...maybe you were his 1st girlfriend/love?

there is a thin line between love and obsession.After I gave a paramour "72 missed calls",i had to sit down and think what was better,a broken heart or a broken life?.It took me a year to get her off my mind.It is "love in the dark".

Mine was back then, met this lady. We started dating. We got so close, I thought I have found the bone of bone. Till she started monitoring every move I make like GPS. Always Calling to know what I am doing, eating, etc even who i am with. If I miss her call na wahala, she go ask say na which babe I de with. Las Las I made up my mind to inform her that we should break up. Unfortunately, as I wan open mouth tell am ,a movie which had Jim ikye as cast was playing, Jim ikye was a play boy in that movie. Naso babe say "any man wey try break her heart, she'll kill the man and kill her self" oboy naso fear grip me I just lock up. Ever since then na ghosting sure pass.

pocohantas:
Fountainofyouth, this your comment pepper alfa males o. See countering and doubting. Drop the guy’s address make them send am redpills abeg.

Lmao!!!

what the guy needs is rehab.

LovesickG:

Hmm. Well he was the one doing the begging. I literally begged mine over faults I didn't commit. He thinks I sleep with any guy I talk to, he checks my Facebook messages and questions me on every guy I've chatted with. I have never cheated nor thought of cheating on him.
He told me that he'll forgive my alleged cheating if I sleep with any guy while he watches via WhatsApp video call, and that's the only condition to continue our relationship. I seriously considered it but I just couldn't, the very thought makes me sick. I told him I couldn't and he broke up with me and blocked me on Whatsapp. He said I'll come begging and crying back to him and by then, he'll insist I sleep with two guys while he watches.

What da actual fvck

He wants to watch you via video sleeping with guys? He is a stupid evil monster

Do not ever think of going back to beg the fool, da hell.....

uckennety:



rubbish

obviously the ìdiot loved her but she didn't love him!

God bless your wisdom.

Funny thing is she will be wishing a guy somewhere will reply her chats with the same energy and the guy might see her as obsessed too