₦airaland Forum

Introvertmemer:
Ahh finally,people i can relate with

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gl23M3qgbYc

dreaizy:
Hello fellow introverts, how do you deal with this billing culture?
To make people like me, I use to give. I gave to the extent that I lacked. In 5 years at the University, I had this friend (from a poor background) that I spent most of my money on transportation and feeding for both of us. Later, I won't have money to buy handouts at the right time. Sometimes, I had to borrow his handouts and this affected my results.
During NYSC, I got into this cooking together/brotherly stuff. This guys would spend their money on sometimes good (responsibility at home) and sometimes bad (women, clothes, alcohol) stuff and they will end up depending on my money.
In dating too, the only 2 girls I have ever dated just wanted my money.
My point is, I am too nice and I hate asking for money/help.
Most of these people don't really like me, and I will never ask them for help (help that I usually need because I am doing Mr Nice Guy).
Now I am trying to build my self and not ask anyone, including my parents for help. I don't have a regular job but I am making a little money.
Yet, people still bill me, and those who borrow never pay back.
1. I need every Kobo I make, how do I stop people from billing me?
2. How do I choose better friends?

Anybody that asks you for money hence forth, once it’s not a life threatening issue, tell the person you don’t have. Until you have enough to give them always make up excuses and say you don’t have. I learnt this the hard way too
Try to differentiate those you can spare your last kobo to and those you can’t, very important

[quote author=emmanuelonyeakp post=94866272][/quote]Stop spamming

Some of the challenges I face being an introvert is struggling to speak more clearly, working with others, presenting to others, and being an influence to others. But that doesn't mean I don't love being one. It sure has its benefits like being able to think more clearly, being insightful, and paying attention to the things that matter more. I am grateful for those very much.

whocares1:
Boredom is killing me

Can I ask you a question?

Can I ask you a question?

Yes please

[quote author=Cutemind post=94993768]Can I ask you a question?

Yes please

Wow..am in midst of my people... Anyway if you are living in ikotun egbe Lagos let relate

[quote author=whocares1 post=95013360][/quote]Ok.
What are the things that you enjoy doing?

[quote author=Cutemind post=95122255]Ok.
What are the things that you enjoy doing?


Movies. I tweet alot!

Movies and tweeting, interesting.
I care to know what kind of movies and the tweets, general or specifics like on some projects? No,I don't mark projects just want to know.
Ok whocares,why are you bored?

whocares1:
Boredom is killing me

lolzz no matter how introverted u think you are,u must feel bored attimes.....

Mercygreatwoman:
Anybody that asks you for money hence forth, once it’s not a life threatening issue, tell the person you don’t have. Until you have enough to give them always make up excuses and say you don’t have. I learnt this the hard way too
Try to differentiate those you can spare your last kobo to and those you can’t, very important

its not that easy oh, especially when they know you have the money and you yourself knows that too...but this is what i have been doing,mayb it will help,have separate bank account for spending and savings,make up your mind never to touch the money in your savings account except mayb for investment or emergencies,then the other account can be for borrowing and daily spendings...once the spending account gets below a particular amount,stop giving/borrowing money to people

sweetveek:
its not that easy oh, especially when they know you have the money and you yourself knows that too...but this is what i have been doing,mayb it will help,have separate bank account for spending and savings,make up your mind never to touch the money in your savings account except mayb for investment or emergencies,then the other account can be for borrowing and daily spendings...once the spending account gets below a particular amount,stop giving/borrowing money to people

This is so informative and so clear to do. Thanks for this.

Simisola3:
Some of the challenges I face being an introvert is struggling to speak more clearly, working with others, presenting to others, and being an influence to others. But that doesn't mean I don't love being one. It sure has its benefits like being able to think more clearly, being insightful, and paying attention to the things that matter more. I am grateful for those very much.

Definitely one of the best gifts.

Rest of mind and the fact that you're always not the see-finish victim brings more joy.

sweetveek:
its not that easy oh, especially when they know you have the money and you yourself knows that too...but this is what i have been doing,mayb it will help,have separate bank account for spending and savings,make up your mind never to touch the money in your savings account except mayb for investment or emergencies,then the other account can be for borrowing and daily spendings...once the spending account gets below a particular amount,stop giving/borrowing money to people

Any idea of which work an introvert can do to earn?
To do business na war.How do I start telling people to patronise me(something I dread totally)

Albertone:
Any idea of which work an introvert can do to earn?
To do business na war.How do I start telling people to patronise me(something I dread totally)

lolzz...no business idea sha..just pray for an opportunity to come ur way

j3r3myk3n:
Definitely one of the best gifts.

Rest of mind and the fact that you're always not the see-finish victim brings more joy.

the best advantage of being an introvert is peace of mind,asin u have no one to worry about but yourself and mayb family members too...

sweetveek:
lolzz...no business idea sha..just pray for an opportunity to come ur way

Thanks for replying.But this is not what I want.

What opportunities?How can opportunities come my way while indoors listening to Enya?How did yours come?

I don't want to ask too much but please explain things to me...

Albertone:
Thanks for replying.But this is not what I want.

What opportunities?How can opportunities come my way while indoors listening to Enya?How did yours come?

I don't want to ask too much but please explain things to me...

I'm actually a student currently doing nothing oh,, I've been indoors since February me myself and i. different strokes for different folks.. I'm waiting for my own opportunity to come too

sweetveek:
I'm actually a student currently doing nothing oh,, I've been indoors since February me myself and i. different strokes for different folks.. I'm waiting for my own opportunity to come too

Hmm

Well,thanks.

Albertone:
Hmm

Well,thanks.

if u have any source of income, try to be saving it and pray for bit coin to drop like in February,then u buy and wait for it to pump and cashout...na watin me self dae pray for too

sweetveek:
if u have any source of income, try to be saving it and pray for bit coin to drop like in February,then u buy and wait for it to pump and cashout...na watin me self dae pray for too

Nicey

Thanks bro!

..

inkle:
Hiya fellow introverts,
Please I'm in need of any female that can accommodate me in Lag even if it's for a token....for at least 3months before I get my own place. I just got a job in Lag and I'm relocating. I don't have friends to ask for help. I'll start house hunting as soon as I arrive Lag.

Please Please help if you can.

Are you a male or female?

.

inkle:
Hiya fellow introverts,
Please I'm in need of any female that can accommodate me in Lag even if it's for a token....for at least 3months before I get my own place. I just got a job in Lag and I'm relocating. I don't have friends to ask for help. I'll start house hunting as soon as I arrive Lag.

Please Please help if you can.

You never stated your preferred area in lag!

..

A happy new month to all the members in the lounge.

I pray that we have a fruitful month.