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Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by paulolee(m): 11:39am On Oct 30, 2020
Greatfullheart:
you are so lucky to find a girl who love and cares for you. I wish i had a girl who loves me the way she loved you. I don suffer for girl hand sha.
u say lucky? wen e too much wahala de o....it would seems asif u in bondage n u fit collect stabbing wen u look anoda bea
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by jornwhite: 11:51am On Oct 30, 2020
PrinceofAgoAre:
true.

mine didnt come with mario though. I think it was contra.
yeah d soccer was damn funny bt enjoyable. M.k was my fav game den on sega.

hahahaha. I fit relate on top dat position placing esp ps2 slim, dat console frustrate me die.
bros no be suffer o.
thank God ps4 no dy suffer pesin lyk dat.
Whenever i go down the memory lane,i can't buh help thank God for innovations & technology advancement. ko easy buh it was d best to us.
imagine having to send 400mb movie via infrared, una go cum dey join phones grin .... as a kid i grew muscles just from rewinding video cassettes esp.those india movies... ALOL ! the indomie generation naa dem enjoy pass, the gud thing is we all are beneficiaries. grin
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Fearjah: 12:19pm On Oct 30, 2020
jornwhite:
Lies people in your category tell themselves everyday. sounds like a medication n its best use when you say it, two times in morning, one time @ noon & three times @ nite. #singlerocks capsule. all naa lie grin grin [/b] no one wants to be lonely, fear & commitment is what keep people with chicken mind away.
[b]
Live and let live. You alone are everyone? Do not be the type that push people into relationships. Many have perished in the name of relationship. Do you need to be reminded that we all are unique individuals?
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by jornwhite: 12:59pm On Oct 30, 2020
Fearjah:
[b][/b]
Live and let live. You alone are everyone? Do not be the type that push people into relationships. Many have perished in the name of relationship. Do you need to be reminded that we all are unique individuals?
hehhehe !! i am in no business to promote or force people to be in r/ship, as if i even have the capacity.
Many have perished in r/ship as much as many have perished in loneliness & isolation, ever wonder why loners are mostly depressed. ask any human the most memorable moment of there life, its will either be with loved ones or family, which means there is no memory/moments in been alone except you have one.
Humans are unique,couldn't agree less, buh by default settings we are not meant to be alone buh in most cases when humans want to be alone its because of a reason, majorly fear. am just stating the truth no other motive.
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Osek(m): 1:03pm On Oct 30, 2020
Psych412:
not dating for now.
Is this guy still after u like pushing all other guys away from you
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Fearjah: 1:04pm On Oct 30, 2020
[quote author=jornwhite post=95493346]From the way you spoke about time that wasnt a puzzle, depends on how young you really are, any chick old enough to be d university is old enough to date, it might interest you to know the only boyfriend i know with my younger sister is the one she introduced to me after writing waec grin grin
Please chase your dream buh don't make the same mistake even newspapers here make, promise me you won't end up like them.

Please, Is early dating a guarantee that your sister will not turn out to be an evening newspaper? Will it make guys not to rate her as worldwideweb, atm & wide P?
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Greatfullheart: 1:09pm On Oct 30, 2020
paulolee:
u say lucky? wen e too much wahala de o....it would seems asif u in bondage n u fit collect stabbing wen u look anoda bea
i wonder why people single life is the best? A friend told i dont know how fortunate i am being single at least i dnt have 2 spend on a lady but Am tired of being single
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Greatfullheart: 1:10pm On Oct 30, 2020
Sawzer:
Just have plenty female friends first to get comfortable with women for a long time.
Don't confess love to any of them, just catch cruise. Later when you're comfortable with your esteem, find another babe and move from them.



Wait, what do I know?
I've been single since time immemorial......but I don't care grin
hmmm
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Fearjah:
jornwhite:
From the way you spoke about time that wasnt a puzzle, depends on how young you really are, any chick old enough to be d university is old enough to date, it might interest you to know the only boyfriend i know with my younger sister is the one she introduced to me after writing waec grin grin
Please chase your dream buh don't make the same mistake even newspapers here make, promise me you won't end up like them.
Please, Is early dating a guarantee that your sister won't turn out to be an evening newspaper? Will it make guys not to rate her as worldwideweb, atm and wide P? No offence .
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by FRANKOSKI(m): 1:18pm On Oct 30, 2020
MOST INTERESTING POST IN ROMANCE SECTION THIS MONTH. cool
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Fearjah: 1:29pm On Oct 30, 2020
damis28crown:
LOL


I said that because
am still very young and still hv alot to achieve before i start thinking about men


if i was your younger sister would u allow me to date
Keep Focused.
People date for fun, las las dem go come dey tell us break up story.
We need to ask ourselves:
"What is the purpose of Dating?"
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by jojothaiv(m): 1:44pm On Oct 30, 2020
Maxxim:
I ghost them, quite simple But I know say e go pain them, emi ika grin
Awon Red Piller United..
I see your hands o...
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Psych412(f): 2:02pm On Oct 30, 2020
Osek:
Is this guy still after u like pushing all other guys away from you
nope



i was free from him, when I graduated from imsu.



till date he still calls me on phone.
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by WILLIAMSKECH: 2:15pm On Oct 30, 2020
patoski39:
my man, shame no allow me post since morning sef... Old man like me Na im person take catch cruise,, God dey sha
No be small cruise my brother, the thing pain me.
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by WILLIAMSKECH: 2:17pm On Oct 30, 2020
Dreyton36:
My rules my game
I asked the to provide someone, I don't talk too much
I expected to see 30 moniker pointing out just one person
I can't be in a WhatsApp group with anyone for my kind gesture
They should do all of that and all I wanna see is just 30 people whom I've promised to point out one moniker to receive the funds
I don't wanna see just 3 or 10 people pointing someone out
What if it's just someone with different accounts who's pointing himself out yunno how these things goes naw
I don't like cheating so I'll still keep my money until they're serious
Bros just admit that you bleeped up, it's as simple as that.
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Stephen2324(op): 2:21pm On Oct 30, 2020
Wow my first ever front page.... Mama I made it.
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by jornwhite: 2:24pm On Oct 30, 2020
Fearjah:
Please, Is early dating a guarantee that your sister won't turn out to be an evening newspaper? Will it make guys not to rate her as worldwideweb, atm and wide P? No offense.
Nothing is guarantee in life, mind you I ddnt mention my sis to spike you, you asked if you were my sis, that was what brought that.
if we must talk about her, i think my sis can't endup like evening newspaper here, cos she doesnt see men as rivals/competitor.
Usually i don't give a fvck about people's perception, if her husband to be makes her a borehold or drainage watever how is that anyones headache
Does virginity guarantee heaven, don't know why anyone wil want to die with padlock in her pvssy grin grin.
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by damis28crown(f): 2:36pm On Oct 30, 2020
Fearjah:
Keep Focused. People date for fun, las las dem go come dey tell us break up story. We need to ask ourselves: "What is the purpose of Dating?"
yeah thanks
true

abi
what is really the purpose of dating

to get married Lol
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Chibae4real: 2:44pm On Oct 30, 2020
If you've never experience heartbreak, you will never know how it hurt!

I've dated two guys, but both took advantage of my love. I'm just me in a relationship. I've said to myself i will continue to be nice no pretense, no matter the experience I've had in a relationship previously.

Most times i do ask myself; what do guys really want? Although, one of my friend that is based in U.S.A have told me severally that my type of lady will definitely be taking advantage of by Nigerian guys, and this is what i don't want to believe! I believe individual personality differs.

However, the second guy i dated was from a broken home. Based on my personal experience with him; i wouldn't advised anyone to date someone from a broken home. Their views on relationship and marital affairs is nothing to write home about. Most especially the ones that grew up from the street.
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Sawzer(m): 3:13pm On Oct 30, 2020
Chibae4real:
If you've never experience heartbreak, you will never know how it hurt!

I've dated two guys, but both took advantage of my love. I'm just me in a relationship. I've said to myself i will continue to be nice no pretense, no matter the experience I've had in a relationship previously.

Most times i do ask myself; what do guys really want? Although, one of my friend that is based in U.S.A have told me severally that my type of lady will definitely be taking advantage of by Nigerian guys, and this is what i don't want to believe! I believe individual personality differs.

However, the second guy i dated was from a broken home. Based on my personal experience with him; i wouldn't advised anyone to date someone from a broken home. Their views on relationship and marital affairs is nothing to write home about. Most especially the ones that grew up from the street.
1000000 likes for you
I wish you the best partner
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by damis28crown(f): 3:15pm On Oct 30, 2020
jornwhite:
From the way you spoke about time that wasnt a puzzle, depends on how young you really are, any chick old enough to be d university is old enough to date, it might interest you to know the only boyfriend i know with my younger sister is the one she introduced to me after writing waec grin grin
Please chase your dream buh don't make the same mistake even newspapers here make, promise me you won't end up like them.
yea


LOL


i promise
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Fearjah: 3:42pm On Oct 30, 2020
jornwhite:
hehhehe !! i am in no business to promote or force people to be in r/ship, as if i even have the capacity.
Many have perished in r/ship as much as many have perished in loneliness & isolation, ever wonder why loners are mostly depressed. ask any human the most memorable moment of there life, its will either be with loved ones or family, which means there is no memory/moments in been alone except you have one.
Humans are unique,couldn't agree less, buh by default settings we are not meant to be alone buh in most cases when humans want to be alone its because of a reason, majorly fear. am just stating the truth no other motive.
In your subconscious, you see single people as loners & depressed.
You see those dating as having the most memorable moment of there life.

There are various ways to attain happiness. Their are single people with quality friendships as their emotional support system.

Their are many married ones seeking the way out the relationship. Have you taking a moment to check the current rate of divorce? Please don't be too emotional, also work with logic.
Relationship/marriage never equals happiness.

If relationship/marriage is your way to happiness it is very good.
But if you have another way to happiness and peace of mind very good.

Stop promoting the idea that single people are depressed or slyly pressuring people into relationship/marriage especially when they are not ready.

Each one will carry his own Load.
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Prognose: 3:57pm On Oct 30, 2020
Fountainofyouth:
Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.
Holy sheet.
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by GreatCracker(m): 4:43pm On Oct 30, 2020
ReluctantAdult:
Na me be king of ghosting back then grin
Funnily enough when I started doing it I didn't even know it had a name. I'd disappear for weeks then come back when I wanted sex. They'd be acting up and complaining and I'd just promise to change and be a good partner. Boom. That's it.
I'd have the cookie for like a week then ghost again grin
The girls them tire for me but they just couldn't resist me smiley
DM me, let me help you out with some valuable tips.
No strings attached
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Osek(m): 5:09pm On Oct 30, 2020
Psych412:
nope


i was free from him, when I graduated from imsu.


till date he still calls me on phone.
hmmm that is ok
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by NACE13: 5:16pm On Oct 30, 2020
Iyocartel:
Iyooooooo cartel

And you believed her? The men wey promise her marriages have logged in and passed her on to you the last guy on the queue and she is trying to emotionally blackmail you now to win a way into your heart.
You'll be the biggest f00ll on earth if you take that young lady back..
Give yourself some regards mahn.
Don't get me wrong, brah, I am not trying to defend her but I knew about her bestie's break up issue while we were still dating. Trust me, marriage is the last thing on her mind right now.
I just asked what's his view on it, I never said I wanted to accept her back. We have both moved since then.
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by jornwhite: 5:18pm On Oct 30, 2020
Fearjah:
In your subconscious, you see single people as loners & depressed.
You see those dating as having the most memorable moment of there life.

There are various ways to attain happiness. Their are single people with quality friendships as their emotional support system.

Their are many married ones seeking the way out the relationship. Have you taking a moment to check the current rate of divorce? Please don't be too emotional, also work with logic.
Relationship/marriage never equals happiness.

If relationship/marriage is your way to happiness it is very good.
But if you have another way to happiness and peace of mind very good.

Stop promoting the idea that single people are depressed or slyly pressuring people into relationship/marriage especially when they are not ready.

Each one will carry his own Load.
I think single people are loners because there are limit & spaces friend can't get into, the emotional support friend provide differs from what a spouse or partner provide. just yestidae i watched a movie "what men want" taraji happens to be the main character, she depended solely on her female friends & dad all along, proud single buh the moment she found a man even without telling her friends they knew it, happiness yato sii happiness my dear grin
Yes ! there are various ways to attain happiness buh the fact remains the best moments in our lives are the ones we share with loved ones.
Most of those r/ship with divorce, check it out most are built on needs. infact logic & brain is what is wrong with r/ship these days everybody dey calcu. only fools can stay in love buh over wise dey worry my generation.
Marriage nor human is not my ticket to happiness, i have happiness to give, when two partners co exist as givers they'll be happy.
LOL ! you're really taking my words out of context, its not as if i'm married sef, pressurize bawo, i couldnt just fold my hands n watch people discredit marriage, when it obvious we humans are the problem.
For d record, PLS do what you want o !
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Cornerstone199(m):
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Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Maxxim: 6:31pm On Oct 30, 2020
jojothaiv:
Awon Red Piller United..

I see your hands o...
Naso dude
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by uchenageme(m): 7:30pm On Oct 30, 2020
NACE13:
Bro, I guess the dude never let her go and she knows how play the game. You may be right.

Hope you don't mind that I wanna share similar a experience with you:
Back then just after I graduated, while waiting for service, my girl started acting strange, I saw the signs and ended the relationship. The funny thing was, she kept calling and texting, asking about welfare, while I was busy trying to act tough by not giving a damn about her (trying so hard to forget her). We moved on, into different relationships, but after about 6months, she called and was crying, begging me to forgive her that she still loved me.

I asked why was she telling me this now. She opened up to me that she actually wanted me to break up with her because she was scared of that life after school. She believed I was going to dump her since I was going for youth service and definitely other girls will snatch me from her. Her best friend experienced same thing when her boyfriend went for service, so she's scared it would happen to her too.

I asked her if she was seeing another guy before we broke up, she swore she wasn't but started dating another dude two months after we broke up.

I'm telling you this to get your own view of things. What would you have done in such situation?
.

Well. we all have different experiences and our judgements are usually based on our experiences. I am not a kid and i advice based on one who has seen it all.

Even though that lady swore to you that she wasn't dating when she left you, though i have my doubts about how true that could be, the motive is certainly not what she told you. A lady can date you even when there's no promise of a future together. I have had many sexual relationship with ladies who knew that marriage was out of the question. So far as you meet some of her needs. Financial security, sexual needs, soulmate and ego needs. These are the four most important reasons why ladies go into relationship.

So if a lady leaves you at any point, either she thinks you are not good enough in one or more of these categories and is eyeing someone better or she's already found someone better and she's leaving you to be with that person.
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by leonard002(m): 7:46pm On Oct 30, 2020
Ha nawao
Fountainofyouth:
Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by FRANKOSKI(m): 8:39pm On Oct 30, 2020
SolexxBarry:
In this case i was the one that couldn't let go easily grin i begged, cried for 3 months did all i could yet she refused

Then i let her go got another babe and things were moving fine for 8 months, then out of the blues last month she came back begging, till now i don't know what to do cause i really do love her and my current babe is also an amazing person
SHE STOOPS TO CRUSH YOU.let her be !
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