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pcguru1:
Financial security for some and for most, it's because they know time is coming, so whoever is interested they go, reasons why you see couples having marital issues because they are mostly likely not somehow they wanted to end up with, maybe the person was responsible until their feelings get complicated, and you know how women can be with their feelings ?

binary007:
That was how I was in the Bar this weekend watching Arsenal vs Manchester United... The lady serving drinks was just nagging endlessly how her husband wouldn't give her money for her father's burial that man is wicked and his children which also happen to be her children would do the same thing to him.... Plenty swear, trust me! One would have been moved to open a GoFundMe account for her but I wasn't buying any of it at all... If fact I was getting pissed off.

God vindicated me when one of her fellow co-worker told her that is it no just last month that he gave you money for rent? She replied by saying that was before her father died.
Madam , was he the one that killed your father?
Sebi its your father that died!
She earns 15k monthly and she is talking of killing a cow for the party.
I just left the bar for another bar before I start fighting another man's battle.

skales67:
It is not uncommon anymore seeing marriages and relationships falling apart out of so many reasons bordering from [b][/b]infidelity, domestic violence and other reasons.

Other reasons may stem from incompatibility, financial hardship, sexual weakness etc but about 80% of these breakups are from the first two reasons i stated earlier.

[I am not a religious person but the BIBLE which Christians read says in Proverbs 14 that [i]"A wise woman buildeth her home but the foolish woman pulls it down with her own hands"

luminouz:
YOU CANNOT SAVE A DAMAGED/TOXIC WOMAN, NOT NOW,NOT EVER. JUST LET HER BE, OR BE DRAGGED DOWN TO DARKNESS WITH HER[/b]

luminouz:
Lol, they are not confused. That is what they want you to think. They know what they are doing, AT THAT TIME. This is because they are ruled by emotions, not logic. When a particular emotion dries up, their behavior switches based on the next emotion they experience. Their emotion is also tied to their mood. Infact, they are the same thing.

Sixfeetbelle:
You have successfully managed to put women on the pedestal to be bashed again. Suddenly even men who don't know anything about single mothers or married women are concurring and commenting one-sided fallacies just to appear 'manly'.

Well done. You'll receive the reward you deserve.

Cc: skales67

plessis:
I always laugh when men say women are confused. Imagine me telling who constantly exploits me that he is confused.

If women are confused or fools, why do we have an ideology(red pill) exposing the vices and tactics of women, with millions of men supplementing and strengthening the ideology with their experiences?

Why are men complaining of the same brutal exploitation?

I think what women want is that they want everything at the same time. They want the Hollywood star, the musician, the fat ugly CEO, they want to look like Beyonce, they want unwavering attention from men while married, they want yam-sized cocks, they want to be able to sleep around like men etc. Unlike men who have simple wants/needs, Women want everything at the same time and they go after what they want rashly, ruthlessly and carefreely, without thinking of consequences.

Example, women want to sleep around like men, but they don't consider that men cannot be impregnated nor have wombs that can be damaged. Men are conscious and careful enough that they even ask their fellow men for condoms to protect themselves. how many women have bought female condoms in their lives to protect themselves?
How about the way an average woman walks away the moment her man becomes broke? They don't care. They just want to get whatever they want or act without thinking of consequences.

LilMissFavvy:
I don't believe these women are naturally toxic as you claim, rather something or someone triggered such toxicity in them. It could be a bad upbringing, especially where a dad maltreats mum, or it could actually be their ex husband's who made them toxic. You mentioned that INFIDELITY AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE account for like 80percent of marital break-ups...... a WHOPPING 80percent ? I totally agree with that. Now my question is, if 80 percent of marital break-ups are due to infidelity and domestic violence, taking a look at your immediate environment, have you not seen that husband's are not faithful and most of them beat their wifes? If you are sincere, you will agree with me that a good number of men are the ones who commit infidelity in marriage, same men beat their wife, so men are responsible for such marital break-ups, don't shift blames.

Men are truly the perpetrators and women the victims. Most of the married toxic women became toxic due to sad marital experiences, same with the single mothers, it may not be all, but most of such toxicity were caused by bad experiences. The problem is that these women refuse to drop all their bitter experiences when they enter new relationships, but would there really be a need for them to drop their bitterness, especially since there is every possibility that the next man would come with same baggage? Toxicity is not an innate attribute, it is learned. As for the Bible passage you mentioned, not all marriages are worth building, especially where a man isn't interested in making it work. In the process of staying to make it work, she may lost her life, health, etc. Stop shifting blames. Thread should also be in family section

Lamanii22:
Skales!!!! Where have you been??

Freestainworld:
that is how married women will be giving me appointments in a hotel, some were single when I was chasing after them, immediately they got married, they started chasing after me, fear women, luckily enough I have a pretty wife who is loyal and satisfy my needs now.

skales67:
odi1278, LawyerLomo, drake99, emmanuelpopson, gafman222, luminouz, sweettinz20

New thread connected to former. The main thread will still get updates.

I am penning this one down here like some sort of "reportage" on my "FIELD WORK"

Sixfeetbelle:
You have successfully managed to put women on the pedestal to be bashed again. Suddenly even men who don't know anything about single mothers or married women and the effects bad marriages and relationships have on their psyche are concurring and commenting one-sided fallacies just to appear 'manly'.

Well done. You'll receive the reward you deserve.

Cc: skales67

Administration1:
Inasmuch as I would like to buttress your point, but it's necessary I share my story.
I just moved into this area due to work(transfered to cover a colleague who was killed in the line of duty), I started searching for a place to always drink my beer, I stated from a roadside kiosk that serves chilled Heineken to the most happening club in the area.
I noticed a young lady who according to my fellow beer drinkers is a very devout Christian, she comes to buy fufu late at night and something else which I never knew as the kiosk owner already wraps it for her even before she arrives.

We crossed paths , linked up and I happen to visit her, and in the course of discussion I found out that she is a single mum. We finally had sex, by before that she told me the story of her life, how the person who got her pregnant abandoned her bla bla bla. She ran away from him because he was always drinking before coming home.

I decided to keep her as a "sure" sex object, as we never got to date officially, when I am drinking beer at my normal spot, she comes buys her "black nylon bag" thing and goes home, when I go home, with my alcoholic breath, I still make love to her.

One day, I asked her, why she didn't reject nor push me away when I come stoned drunk with alcohol and we still make love, her response was that, it's my life, yet she like the smell, stupid me, I believed.

... I'll update later as I am in a terrific traffic

LilMissFavvy:
I don't believe these women are naturally toxic as you claim, rather something or someone triggered such toxicity in them. It could be a bad upbringing, especially where a dad maltreats mum, or it could actually be their ex husband's who made them toxic. You mentioned that INFIDELITY AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE account for like 80percent of marital break-ups...... a WHOPPING 80percent ? I totally agree with that. Now my question is, if 80 percent of marital break-ups are due to infidelity and domestic violence, taking a look at your immediate environment, have you not seen that husband's are not faithful and most of them beat their wifes? If you are sincere, you will agree with me that a good number of men are the ones who commit infidelity in marriage, same men beat their wife, so men are responsible for such marital break-ups, don't shift blames.

Men are truly the perpetrators and women the victims. Most of the married toxic women became toxic due to sad marital experiences, same with the single mothers, it may not be all, but most of such toxicity were caused by bad experiences. The problem is that these women refuse to drop all their bitter experiences when they enter new relationships, but would there really be a need for them to drop their bitterness, especially since there is every possibility that the next man would come with same baggage? Toxicity is not an innate attribute, it is learned. As for the Bible passage you mentioned, not all marriages are worth building, especially where a man isn't interested in making it work. In the process of staying to make it work, she may lost her life, health, etc. Stop shifting blames. Thread should also be in family section

chingle5:
This post is too long .... I wonder how people hv the time to read through long post And still comment

SavageResponse:
Lazy Nigerian youth spotted

skales67:
It is not uncommon anymore seeing marriages and relationships falling apart out of so many reasons bordering from infidelity, domestic violence and other reasons.

Other reasons may stem from incompatibility, financial hardship, sexual weakness etc but about 80% of these breakups are from the first two reasons i stated earlier.

In the event of a breakup in relationship or marriage between two people, for the reason of domestic violence or infidelity, one person is seen as a perpetrator while the other is seen as the victim.

As you all know, in most cases of these events, the men are seen as the perpetrators while the women are seen as the victims. All over social media, we see ladies and women of all ages screaming blue murder about how they made sacrifices for the previous men they dated and how they ended up being dumped by these men.

Many of them who are single mothers from previous failed relationship(s) or failed marriage come online at any slightest opportunity to vent about how their ex got them pregnant and absconded or left her to raise their child alone.

While i would like to truthfully point out that there are indeed dead-beat dads all over the place who are irresponsible, my personal experience has also taught me to be wary and made me look in-depth at the scenarios that come to play while being with a fraction of the women who fall in this category which made be draw a solid conclusion based on my analysis before crucifying the men these women have either been with or are currently with. Oh yes...women who are single and even MARRIED...yes...i have dated them all and even opened a thread about some of my escapades with some of the married women i have had affairs with (see the thread here if you wish to be entertained or "disgusted" depending on your social and "moral standing" in the society)

Before you begin to throw charades at me, ask yourself inwardly if you are any better. We all have done things which society may not be give us accolades for but it takes guts to come out in the open and admit it like i am about to do so read on.

Like i said earlier, women seem to place themselves on the receiving end of most failed relationships and marriage as victims and the men seen as the villian but i have discovered that this is mostly false in it's entirety because most of the time, the man does not speak up.

Between 2014 till date apart from single ladies whom i have had something romantically with, i took a census which arrived at 8 married women and about 9 single mothers i was involved with.

All these women had something bad to say about their present or ex partners except just 1 among them. The only one case who never bad-mouthed her hubby as a matter of fact broke up with me as she said she was feeling pangs of guilt after making out with me and going home.

We were coursemates in the university back then and never talked to each other while in school but got reunited via our alumni Whatsapp group where i found her more appealing and radiant after having 4 kids. I approached her online via Facebook, we started chatting and before you could say "Jack Robinson", we kick-started a steamy amorous affair which but lasted for about 4 months.

While we were together "doing our thing" we never had any serious form of altercation or arguments or fights unlike the other ones who were slandering their partners or ex-partners as the case may be. We only ended it because she still had that love and respect for her husband even though she was caught up in the heat of the moment when i was making passes at her (trust me, i am very sweet-mouthed and artistic in seducing women)

I decided to really sit down and do an in-depth research and analysis and found out that these women's husbands and exes were really not the problem but the women themselves because they eventually displayed their crass attitude which their husbands and partners experienced to me!

The only case i made an exemption of apart from the "coursemate" was the very first married woman i dated. She is a mother of 3 but presently separated from him because of his negligence and the crude behavior from her in-laws which i later investigated and found out to be very true.

Of the other women, i investigated their husbands and found out that for some, they were either slandering the man or there was very little truth in their claims but mostly, the man was being who he was because of the negative and TOXIC character which they eventually displayed to me in due course!

This made me realize that the only and most effective way of finding out if what a married woman says about her husband is true is to DATE HER and in no distant time, her true characteristics will surface because like they say, "A leopard cannot shed its spots"

These women go all over social media groups, talkshows etc talking about how bad men treat them while they are the problems themselves.

Painfully the society takes whatever they say seriously and begin to berate the man because when they narrate "their ordeals", they go emotional and the man is seen as the devil because when he is narrating his own side (that is if he is even given the chance and opportunity to do so) he is barely emotional but says it with either a vent of bile or a straight face.

I will in due course recount my experiences with these women starting from the very first i dated till the last one which i broke up with few days ago.

My reason for creating this thread is to change the narrative that women are generally the victims of failed relationships while to me, it seems it is largely the other way round.

I am not a religious person but the BIBLE which Christians read says in Proverbs 14 that "A wise woman buildeth her home but the foolish woman pulls it down with her own hands"...if we should interpret that passage to my own understanding, it can be said that THE MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE while the WOMAN IS THE ONE WHO RUNS THE HOME! This is akin to a captain who steers a ship but the wife is like the ship mate who organizes the crew...if the crew becomes disorderly, the captain can be disoriented and that can wreck the ship!

If we should go with the narrative of the bible which say that the foolish woman pulls her house down with her own hands, then it is pertinent to say that so many of our women are really getting damn foolish these days because of so many broken homes we see and single mothers all over the place who lack decorum and display their brash attitude at any slightest given chance. (APOLOGIES TO THE FEW GOOD ONES WHO ARE THE REAL VICTIMS).

My fellow men, it is time for us to look inwardly...it is high time we begin to take the narratives of these slanderous women with a pinch of salt until we hear from the man's side or better still, try to get involved with the woman and no matter how hard you try to do things differently and better from "her husband or ex who she slandered" you will still get your own fair share of her venom!

A toxic woman will always be toxic even if she dates or marries JESUS CHRIST!

Will drop my harrowing encounters with some of these women whom i dated subsequently on this very thread so you all will learn from it!

Stay tuned!

Aditkd:
This is absolutely true what he wrote. Most failed relationships both marriage and all is caused by the female.
But pls not all females are toxic and cruel as he rightly mentioned. They re some few of us out there that still have something upstairs.
But seriously, you men really have to be careful and observant before diving into a relationship.

Aditkd:
This is absolutely true what he wrote. Most failed relationships both marriage and all is caused by the female.
But pls not all females are toxic and cruel as he rightly mentioned. They re some few of us out there that still have something upstairs.
But seriously, you men really have to be careful and observant before diving into a relationship.

Mide3367:
na them. Always coming with the I am not like that gimmick but they know what they are doing. . NAWALT crew them