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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by lightangel65i(m): 8:42am On Nov 07, 2020
phorget:



How about real women getting their ass up to help support and build their home?
Just keep waiting for the man that will ask you to become a full house wife o.

Nah our average nigerian lady is an Olosho who belives men are the only ones destined to be great while women are farm tools tools meant for breeding and dumping sperm in

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Vcblinks(m): 8:43am On Nov 07, 2020
Churchill6767:


Shameless leech.
that lady is irritating,very stupid leech

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Ojukwubucket(m): 8:43am On Nov 07, 2020
jimmychang:

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This one papa scam her mama grin grin grin
grin grin grin
Crazy guy

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 8:44am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

Let me break my age-long rule and call you a demented fellow.

God forgive me. Eve, here, caused me to sin

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by zeusdgrt(m): 8:46am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.
Typical lazy Nigerian woman

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kog45(m): 8:46am On Nov 07, 2020
Kranediggy:
Bitter Truth: Main Reason Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays.

Its simply because, majority of ladies are broke & depend on their future spouse, to continue from where their parents stopped in breeding them. There's no way only the man's income will be enough to run the family. Women should be earning too, in marriages to balance the financial weight, you should be able to earn even before marriage...

I strongly believe that if women save up for marriage as men do, then couples can easily marry for love & all these few years contract-marriages will end. The most annoying part of this is that most ladies think men need just a housekeeper, cook or a nanny; but they really need a partner who should be a real woman; which is a true helper of her man, that's what woman means.

Common! the two people became one under marriage, there's nothing like the woman's money & there's also nothing like the man's; both are meant to share everything together. Many ladies love a man's material things not him nowadays, that's why marriages hardly start or last today...
Please who told you men are scare of marriage.

My man better brace up and face the challenges ahead.Marriage wey dem dey do every weekend.

The wise ones are getting marry every weekend and the foolish ones are the one lamenting.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 8:46am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.
those broke men are doing better than ur dad cheesy

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Lovelies1: 8:46am On Nov 07, 2020
ZIINI:

Full house what!!!! angry
Girls like you are just a piece of shit TF angry

Hi

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Osobi32(m): 8:47am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.
Am not surpriseed, Only a broke lady who have nothing to offer will sound like this.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by ehinmowo: 8:47am On Nov 07, 2020
It is extremely difficult to marry in today's NIgeria. The bills alone will kill you.

As man you could could survive hunger. No matter how a woman wants you, once money is not forthcoming, problem will surface. Some will try to get cash from their family, exes, friends etc. That in itself will end up in premium tears. So just give yourself peace of mind. And allow marriage to come in its time.


It better for guys to chill. As a man, you can always give birth anytime you want.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by zeusdgrt(m): 8:47am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.
Madam is a must stop making men die untimely cz of pressure.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by BRASH: 8:47am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.
True. But it won't be a crime for a woman to tell her man to relax so she can take care of him and the family. Or don't you guys want equality again?
What a man can do, a woman can do better.

For me, I don't care if my woman has money, so long bad she has what I want, I will use my money to establish her. Just be faithful

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by pocohantas(f): 8:47am On Nov 07, 2020
I like this thread, because it shows that men also seek financial support from their partners. Be it present or in future. Let’s normalize having expectations from our partners. grin

Men not marrying because women are broke? Nah! I don’t think that applies to most of those men. The unemployed women even marry faster.

You can’t be 33, looking for financial support from your spouse and go for a 21yrs old girl. When you were 21, did you know your left from your right? Be using your head in this relationship abi na marriage something.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Angelfrost(m): 8:49am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

Okay... How many of such men actually exist in an impoverished nation like Nigeria?!!!... More importantly, how many of such "real men" are actually walking the legitimate path??!

In addition, is anything out of place in every woman attaining some significant level of financial independence prior to venturing into marriage??!!!... Is marriage supposed to be a full time job for women??!

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by King44(m): 8:49am On Nov 07, 2020
Money and right partnee

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Joseph08(m): 8:50am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

One of them spotted from Parents breeding to Husband breeding grin

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Blackmiserable(m): 8:50am On Nov 07, 2020
400billionman:
The funny thing with the ladies is immediately you want to strike a conversation with them, they will frown their faces. Once you drop a story and mention million in it, they start smiling at you.

This thing about sleeping with women after giving them food is true.

I was chatting up this young fed govt employee, she was just giving me negative responses. Saying stupid things that were degrading. I struck a date with her and fed her after work one day. For the first time in her life, she initiated a call to me.

I went home like a gentle man after the date. Next thing, she is in my house trying to sleep with me. Her girlfriend even texted her asking her if we have started the action. We were using her phone when the msg dropped. Meaning she informed her friend that she was going to sleep with a new guy.

Ladies.

Most girls dont have good priorities. The crave for comfort is what drives MOST women. Stop blaming men for not getting married.

I had to bold and add "MOST" to what you said because you couldn't have been more truer. Lol. Women are incapable of love.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by sckulboy: 8:50am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.
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How did your father marry your mother?

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Endsars147: 8:51am On Nov 07, 2020
Its simply cause men don wise up baby daddy shit is the best all at least 90% of girls ladies now are hoes give her belle accept full responsibility of the child let her continue hoeing it will save lot of stress

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Osobi32(m): 8:51am On Nov 07, 2020
Kranediggy:
Choi! Aspiring housewife spotted. Nne no go develop yourself and your mentality; be there looking for a man that will spend what your daddy can't spend on you. This is 21st Century o! Women are now becoming powerful and you're here wallowing in outdated lifestlye. Your type will press your man with iron...
Honestly i dont understand why these broke Ladies feel entitled to a man's money....... Any woman that cant add value to her man or marriage is nothing but a intimacy gadget and a baby factory.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Cutehector(m): 8:52am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.
so this is why your mother gave birth to you? That your father had to spend money in vain to train you in the university only to come up with this lousy opinion. Waste of fees.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by timwudz(m): 8:53am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.
So you're looking for a man that'd ask u to be a sit at home wife? Even chef chi dey work! Annie idibia dey work! Adesua ewatomi dey work!

Then who are you??

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Ibrahiimo(m): 8:53am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.
GOLD digger spotted!!
Everybody should AVOID this one!!
NEXT!!!

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by zeusdgrt(m): 8:53am On Nov 07, 2020
CHoccolaTE:


They have no usefulness at all, none.

In many cases, once the woman starts earning considerable amount of money, the men abandon breadwinning for them and start spending their money on frivolities like carrying girls up and down.

Only them want to boss women around and expect submission from women but the same women must be earning money to feed them an pay their bills, these same women must throw away their fathers name after marriage and start bearing the name of a man she is feeding and paying his bills.
Ur mentality is wrong, Nigerian men are not south Africans.An educated working guy or a guy having something to do will always take his role and can't abandon it all for the wife, maybe na u dey meet the ones wen nor get work.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by temicyborg(m): 8:55am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.
jobless girl spotted full housewives spotted gossiper in saloon spotted Waiting 4 husband 2 arrived 4rm work b4 she buy maggi spotted

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Ibrahiimo(m): 8:56am On Nov 07, 2020
Liposure:
I blame the traditional upbringing of the female child where the man is seen as breadwinner and provider while the woman is seen as caregiver. We need to change that mentality and start reorientating these girls
You're on POINT!!!

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by King44(m): 8:56am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.
empowering laziness
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 8:56am On Nov 07, 2020
Lovelies1:


Hi
Who dar fûck is you angry
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by freeman131: 8:57am On Nov 07, 2020
HomerTimpson:
so deep

Op dey counter his own write up...wahala
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by when2(f): 8:57am On Nov 07, 2020
Lazy and miserable men blame women for everything. Even men that are naturally he goats; jumping from one woman to another, and are unable to organize their miserable life will still blame women. Even when such men come in contact with women that are financially stable and ready to settle down, they will still mess up. But there are responsible and matured ones out there, they don't come to nairaland looking for whom to blame for their shortcomings.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 8:57am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.
Come on lady, your mentality is disgusting, I have been married for 10 years and my wife supports me with every kobo she makes and I don't hide a din from her, in fact she know where I keep my money in my jackets, but still will take permission from me before taking a kobo, all this lazy ass girls with no brains are the one making marriage's look like hell for the men, wake up girl, learn a skill, read books and start something that will bring money so u can contribute to your home, don't come here saying its only broke ass men that are looking for working class ladies, its mostly insecure men that don't allow their wives to work and when the man suddenly dies you will see them widows coming all over social media begging because if the had a livelihood they wouldn't beg for support, get a life women if not for anything but it will help you during the raining days which always happens in all marriages.

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