Chrisjay1998:



Babe see ehhh have been reading ur Comments and the people Quoting you
your Reasoning is below Average to be Honest with you
Did you Just said a woman's Money is not meant to be shared ??
which Century do you think your living ??
in the 1990s ??
Your Fellow girls are out their Hustling and your here getting angry because people termed you a " leech "
and Seriously you sounded like One
if your dating or you have a fiancee , I seriously Hope and pray The Young Man would see the kind of Person you Are and take his life from your Miserable Life
don't go And Upgrade your self wait for a Prince charming to do Everything for you
A saying Goes that " It's only a Girl that is dependent on her boy friend in a relationship Fears Break up more Dan Anything

Chii59:
Ever childish ZIINI. When will you grow and have sense?

Skepticus:


What are the valuable benefits of marriage to men these days outside raising kids and the deception called companionship?

virginprincess:
No it still happen till now, especially with a particular tribe in nigeria, i am not aspiring to be a full time housewife, Godforbid, if i am then why am i wasting my parent money going to school, i just said that because it still happening in this era.

denjjy:
Nigeria is not just a country where a youth would think the next step to take is to lead a lady to the alter. if you must settle down as a youth in this country, you need to be financially and materially bouyant. I usually gets dejected anytime I think about been single at my age, but what will I do, I can't kill myself na. I've been deserted twice by ladies who I promised marraige but couldn't wait any longer because of the delay. Graduated since 2016 and still living in my parent's house, recieves #15000 monthly from a private firm, tell me; considering the hyper inflation in our country today and the bizarre cost of living, can #15000 cater for a family for a month? absolutely no. I know we are in this messful country together, let's hope 9ja go better one day

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

Mutemenot:
Marry an Igbo woman, you won't regret it... she's money oriented and would do all possible to fetch money for you.. Get her any biz from sratch, she ll grow it wella.

DimplesLikeWow:
Men are the broke ones these days, OP. Don't get it twisted.

Chii59:

A lot of women are taking up such roles as breadwinners, even women who have husbands.

OyinO:


This is what they do in the USA. The Woman and the Man share the responsibilities of getting married and life after marriage. You're 100% on point, and you're a great Intellectual and analyst.

pocohantas:


This is Nigeria, everyone would never earn 100k, let alone 400k. I remember making my hair somewhere and one lady there said the only way she can work in corporate Nigeria is if they pay her like 150k. I was shocked at her target, but it reminded me of the reality in Nigeria.

The most important thing is to get a supportive partner and cut down on unnecessary things. We should also watch the number of kids we have. Nigerians too born abeg!

Wedding has never been compulsory. Especially when the couple cannot afford one.

Paxxcarl:
those broke men are doing better than ur dad

virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice[b], a woman money is not suppose to be shared[/b].

virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice , a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

cybernaut:
It all depend the way you want your families to look likes. If she is broke and you like her and her character is good to you while not update her so that she can be useful to you while you enjoy your family in peace.

When it come to relationship I think you choose who you like and who is inline with your spirit.

ehinmowo:
It is extremely difficult to marry in today's NIgeria. The bills alone will kill you.

As man you could could survive hunger. No matter how a woman wants you, once money is not forthcoming, problem will surface. Some will try to get cash from their family, exes, friends etc. That in itself will end up in premium tears. So just give yourself peace of mind. And allow marriage to come in its time.


It better for guys to chill. As a man, you can always give birth anytime you want.

Mineisgrace:
It's true partial but what about people who are married and it is only the wife that has a job but the husband doesn't.

zeusdgrt:

Madam is a must stop making men die untimely cz of pressure.

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

Kranediggy:
Bitter Truth: Main Reason Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays.

Its simply because, majority of ladies are broke & depend on their future spouse, to continue from where their parents stopped in breeding them. There's no way only the man's income will be enough to run the family. Women should be earning too, in marriages to balance the financial weight, you should be able to earn even before marriage...

I strongly believe that if women save up for marriage as men do, then couples can easily marry for love & all these few years contract-marriages will end. The most annoying part of this is that most ladies think men need just a housekeeper, cook or a nanny; but they really need a partner who should be a real woman; which is a true helper of her man, that's what woman means.

Common! the two people became one under marriage, there's nothing like the woman's money & there's also nothing like the man's; both are meant to share everything together. Many ladies love a man's material things not him nowadays, that's why marriages hardly start or last today...

tobe1985:
In my opinion if a man is not earning 400k and above he has no business getting married in this Nigeria if 2020.
A decent wedding will cost u a minimum of 500k.
U must rent a house (at least a 2 bedroom), buy furniture, a generator, a car hospital bills etc.
Even good food is becoming expensive these days because of inflation.
To top it all up, u go and marry a typical money hungry nigerian woman that will be demanding heaven and earth from u, worse still her family members will also demand their own.
When children come, your cost triples.
Abeg I'll wait till I'm super rich before I marry even if I'm age 50.

denjjy:
Nigeria is not just a country where a youth would think the next step to take is to lead a lady to the alter. if you must settle down as a youth in this country, you need to be financially and materially bouyant. I usually gets dejected anytime I think about been single at my age, but what will I do, I can't kill myself na. I've been deserted twice by ladies who I promised marraige but couldn't wait any longer because of the delay. Graduated since 2016 and still living in my parent's house, recieves #15000 monthly from a private firm, tell me; considering the hyper inflation in our country today and the bizarre cost of living, can #15000 cater for a family for a month? absolutely no. I know we are in this messful country together, let's hope 9ja go better one day

Kranediggy:
This is really wrong my dear and also outdated. Come online!

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

CHoccolaTE:


They have no usefulness at all, none.

In many cases, once the woman starts earning considerable amount of money, the men abandon breadwinning for them and start spending their money on frivolities like carrying girls up and down.

Only them want to boss women around and expect submission from women but the same women must be earning money to feed them an pay their bills, these same women must throw away their fathers name after marriage and start bearing the name of a man she is feeding and paying his bills.

virginprincess:
Don't you ever in your miserable life insult my parent again, i don't joke with them, if your parent didn't teach you manners then look for who will teach you, miserable he-goat.

virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

lahizak:

But a man is a breadwinner, a husband and a father. Sincerely, i have never seen a newly married man that allow his working wife do all the house chores without giving a hand. Men most often stop dos things when d children are of age to take over from em. No sane man will sit and allow his wife do all the work when she is also working.