alexisbaby:
I[s]f I may ask are you a virgin that you think you deserve one[/s].

No need to quote me cause I know you are not.. whether I am or not shouldn't be a worry to you.. I am the one that wants to marry and that's what I want.. thanks

It is well

RedPhoenix:


Woow. My mouth can't close.

Lol..i get that a lot

IamAngelica:
Lol..i get that a lot

They just don't listen, and always fall for false appeal, missing the right for the wrongs and end up with so much psychological and internal wounds

RedPhoenix:



They just don't listen, and always fall for false appeal, missing the right for the wrongs and end up with so much psychological and internal wounds

They get those wounds that never heal and make others suffer for it..use their experience(s) as the main basis to pass judgement on the others and that was what led to "all men are scum"

IamAngelica:
They get those wounds that never heal and make others suffer for it..use their experience(s) as the main basis to pass judgement on the others and that was what led to "all men are scum"

I'm in trouble. Am I sure I'm speaking to a human being like this cause this couldn't be more succinct.


After a while, there's none to wound cause the attention enjoyed within an age hap begins to decline steadily with time

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

in this 2020 I can't believe that we still have this kind of woman in this world.. women are breaking records but you are here wishing to seat at home only to be having sex

RedPhoenix:



I'm in trouble. Am I sure I'm speaking to a human being like this cause this couldn't be more succinct.


After a while, there's none to wound cause the attention enjoyed within an age hap begins to decline steadily with time

You bet your ass you are..then all of a sudden they start looking for real love cuz they're done with having "fun" and they wanna settle down..prolly because of pressure and how time is not on their side anymore, and then in a bid to save themselves from being shamed, they marry anyone that comes their way or put pressure on the guy they're dating for them to get married and even after marriage, they continue having affairs..they disregard marriage and their spouses and continue to have "fun". Only very few women respect and don't go beyond the boundaries that come with being married..the majority see marriage as more or less a safe house.

[quote author=virginprincess post=95761512]All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.[/]

my dear, aside the money you emphasized on, how do you hope to make an impact in the world if you sit at home all in the name of full housewife?
Kamala Harris the elected VP of America, was she picked from under her husband roof ? okonjo iweala is another example , Helen Johnson of Seria loane is also there.
It's not always about the money you earn as a wife, at times, it's about achieving your full potential. common drop this mentally.

nenyewrites:


And women don't have mental,physical and psychological pressure down to the pressure of getting married or having well-brought up kids while going to work with pregnancy and still ensure the smooth running of her home? You must be brainless. If you like don't eat well and stop smoking, drinking, and having sex up and down, you will die early.

Most of the mental, physical and psychological pressures are external. By that I mean not as a result of the man BUT mainly because of ‘what other people think’ ‘ what my friends or family think’

Women will stay in terrible relationships if it looks perfect to the outside world. False people

MLTR:




Thank God you know, reason men delay in getting married is "Expectation".
these expectation ranges from culture to societal to inlaw, even family & friends. As the man everyone expect you to be the provider.
No reasonable man would want to go into marriage with the hope of " my wife will support me". a man is aware, support from a woman is a threat to his dominance on a short run or long run. so men just simply wait till when dey feel they're capable or look for one low class gurl that settles it. when those gurls to get you your age they will know

Why do these primitive men need to dominate a woman?

MusaChukwudi:


Most of the mental, physical and psychological pressures are external. By that I mean not as a result of the man BUT mainly because of ‘what other people think’ ‘ what my friends or family think’

Women will stay in terrible relationships if it looks perfect to the outside world. False people

Really? You've not heard people DISTURBING a lady of marriageable age to get married? You've not heard people BLAMING the mother for raising a child wrongly? You've heard people BLAMING a woman for failing to take care of her home? How is it thinking when its been said aloud?

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

Eni wa ifa yori ofo!

humilitypays:
are you telling me that you don't see how young men struggle to make money to the extent some go to babalawos for charm to make money in business and even to get promotions and contracts


In fact, guys of today are more desperate to make money more than men of the past.


Do you know my father used to pity me at a point in the past, watching how his smart, intelligent, brainy, hardworking son was struggling doing everything on earth to become a man, he said during their time things were not as difficult as it is today. They had opportunity to study on scholarship abroad. Getting scholarship to study abroad was very easy he said...getting married was stress free, you don't need much he said.


There were jobs for able bodied and qualified young men then.

If you put in little effort you achieve a lot. To join the army was easy, but today even as our army has become a suicide mission, many young men are struggling to join but cannot join all because they don't have top army officers to endorse them.


Life has become harder and more difficult for young men today than before. It is the economy hardship that's making most young men not to marry early today not because of free sex.


Do you think men marry because of sex Sex is one of the least reasons men marry.

Nigeria men marry mostly to have an heir and to bear children. Another reason is to have a homekeeper to keep their home organised and homely for them when they return from daily stress. Not because of sex. If it is for sex, my sister I can promise you, majority of men won't marry at all.

Yes things use to be easier but population explosion and less dollar revenue and our lack of productivity.

Things will get harder for men if we fail to control our useless population and lack of productive capacity.

Wife is the last thing a man should worry about in Nigeria.

humilitypays:
You are talking about very few insignificant number of Nigerian men; the few successful men who can afford to have a babymama


I am talking about majority.


The number 1 reason majority of Nigerian men marry late is lack of money resulting from bad Nigerian economy as a result of years of foolish governance by old corrupt fools who have looted away the future of Nigeria.


Nigeria need a revolution that will shock the world. A revolution that will lead to a nationwide attack on all past and present political office holders. That is the only way to put Nigeria on track and put fear in the hearts of next generation leaders and politicians to lead well

Revolution?

cooooooks:
MAdness full ground.

If he did not marry after 9 years, what new excuse is he looking for?

Also, this is not a Nigerian problem alone. This is also an issue in other countries. However, most of these countries enforce marriage laws on couples of 1-year plus or with children.

That’s why you have several baby mamas. Which one will the law enforce you to marry?

Zzor:
Men please marry early as soon as you can,marriage brings forth double blessings, take this to the bank

This foolish mentality creates poverty and population explosion.

MusaChukwudi:


Revolution?

Yes, the political structure and foundation of Nigeria is completely wrong and causing poverty in Nigeria.


It needs to be changed and few people in power, enjoying the failed system will never want it changed because its feeding their pockets, which brings the need for revolution to force in people's mandate that will start the revamping of Nigeria from population control to complete restructuring and electoral act overhaul to address numerous loophole that make rigging very easy.



The revolution will also bring about a change in approach towards inspiring young Nigerians to become more productive and apply useful technologies to boost our productivity and create new solutions to local, regional and global problems that will fetch us $$$

UncleJJ:


Dude... I asked myself this question so many times.
But, the commenters are little men of little means. So when they say a working-class woman. I do not think they speak of single women (actively looking for husbands) working in Shell, NLNG, GTB e.t.c in good positions earning 2 quarters of a million and change every month. No!

Most men I have found who insist "my wife must have a job"; actually mean my wife must earn money however, it should be less than I do.

I prefer and respect a hands-on wife. The children and family gain more from having a mum who is available most of the time. I think they are called "Super Moms". It's just that Nigerian men don't appreciate a good woman. And, they don't even want much .. just attention.

Funny!

You say “Just attention” ?

After working round the clock in slavery to a woman, she is expecting attention?

How many married men with children and the attendant pressures have the time or mindset to be showering the wife with attention?

The same woman who changed your destiny in such a profound way?

humilitypays:
Yes, the political structure and foundation of Nigeria is completely wrong and causing poverty in Nigeria.


It needs to be changed and few people in power, enjoying the failed system will never want it changed because its feeding their pockets, which brings the need for revolution to force in people's mandate that will start the revamping of Nigeria from population control to complete restructuring and electoral act overhaul to address numerous loophole that make rigging very easy.



The revolution will also bring about a change in approach towards inspiring young Nigerians to become more productive and apply useful technologies to boost our productivity and create new solutions to local, regional and global problems that will fetch us $$$

I loved and cherish your ideas thank you.

In terms of the revolution, please explain exactly how you envision it to be carried out. Is it via disorder, disobedience, violence or simply through the ballot box? If by ballot boxes who are the likely candidates?
Also, I hope you know that Nigeria is a very very poor country and revolutions do not make a poor country rich.

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MusaChukwudi:


I loved and cherish your ideas thank you.

In terms of the revolution, please explain exactly how you envision it to be carried out. Is it via disorder, disobedience, violence or simply through the ballot box? If by ballot boxes who are the likely candidates?
Also, I hope you know that Nigeria is a very very poor country and revolutions do not make a poor country rich.

There can never be peaceful revolution, or revolution through the ballot because the people that control the ballot and the outcome of the election are the problem needed to be uprooted and they cannot aid their uprooting....so there is need for a violent revolution targeted at the past and present political office holders from all tribes and regions of Nigeria.


The ones who held critical positions killed, the ones below them jailed for life at a maximum security prison.....and all the properties seized and converted to Nigerian people's property....their bank accounts freezed......their immediate family members' bank accounts freezed to ensure they become poor and powerless.


A new constitution will be drafted to make stealing of any government fund or property a capital offense that attracts death sentence without appeal.


School curriculum changed from primary to university......with a course on anti corruption stressing the consequences of stealing whether as a public office holder or as a private employee......


Nigerian restructured to empower local governments, regional governments......senate changed to house of rule of law, and members will be paid per sitting, no extra income or preference.....and you must be gainfully employed or own a successful business to be a member of the house of rule of law....it will be a contract role not permanent employment......


infrastructural management like road will be handed over to community development council who will be in charge of the roads around their community or estate......and members of the community development council will not be paid any money......community will elect them after people indicate interest to serve their community, people will cast their vote for or against the persons to make up the council.


There will be 6 regional governments in Nigeria to follow the 6 geopolitical zones and each zone must have equal number of states - 6 states in each geopolitical zone.....and each zone will have a zonal minister......and from the 6 zones, each zone will elect a prime ministerial candidate to contest for the prime minister of Nigeria to handle the central government of Nigeria as a civil servant without much power except in protecting Nigeria from external attacks and foreign policies....


and because of our diversity.....the prime minister will be rotated between the 6 regions of Nigeria; each serving a single 5 year term in office, no reelection for any prime minister. the same for regional ministers.


Each region will manage their resources and return a certain calculated % to the central government of Nigeria for running the central government and for helping states and regions with less resources to ensure equal development in all regions.


regions or states that have excess natural resources will have to remit more % to the central government, and a stipulated amount that will be wll calculated will be given to low-revenue generation states to catch up with carrying out their state and regional developmental projects. This fund will be called equal-revenue share or something.


All the 6 zones must have a seaport; whether dry port or wet port, it must be made compulsory to ensure equal opportunity to all regions of Nigeria.

humilitypays:
There can never be peaceful revolution, or revolution through the ballot because the people that control the ballot and the outcome of the election are the problem needed to be uprooted and they cannot aid their uprooting....so there is need for a violent revolution targeted at the past and present political office holders from all tribes and regions of Nigeria.


The ones who held critical positions killed, the ones below them jailed for life at a maximum security prison.....and all the properties seized and converted to Nigerian people's property....their bank accounts freezed......their immediate family members' bank accounts freezed to ensure they become poor and powerless.


A new constitution will be drafted to make stealing of any government fund or property a capital offense that attracts death sentence without appeal.


School curriculum changed from primary to university......with a course on anti corruption stressing the consequences of stealing whether as a public office holder or as a private employee......


Nigerian restructured to empower local governments, regional governments......senate changed to house of rule of law, and members will be paid per sitting, no extra income or preference.....and you must be gainfully employed or own a successful business to be a member of the house of rule of law....it will be a contract role not permanent employment......


infrastructural management like road will be handed over to community development council who will be in charge of the roads around their community or estate......and members of the community development council will not be paid any money......community will elect them after people indicate interest to serve their community, people will cast their vote for or against the persons to make up the council.


There will be 6 regional governments in Nigeria to follow the 6 geopolitical zones and each zone must have equal number of states - 6 states in each geopolitical zone.....and each zone will have a zonal minister......and from the 6 zones, each zone will elect a prime ministerial candidate to contest for the prime minister of Nigeria to handle the central government of Nigeria as a civil servant without much power except in protecting Nigeria from external attacks and foreign policies....


and because of our diversity.....the prime minister will be rotated between the 6 regions of Nigeria; each serving a single 5 year term in office, no reelection for any prime minister. the same for regional ministers.


Each region will manage their resources and return a certain calculated % to the central government of Nigeria for running the central government and for helping states and regions with less resources to ensure equal development in all regions.


regions or states that have excess natural resources will have to remit more % to the central government, and a stipulated amount that will be wll calculated will be given to low-revenue generation states to catch up with carrying out their state and regional developmental projects. This fund will be called equal-revenue share or something.


All the 6 zones must have a seaport; whether dry port or wet port, it must be made compulsory to ensure equal opportunity to all regions of Nigeria.

Great ideas!!!

Implementation go hard.

If the people of Nigeria refuse to vote the government will collapse. Simple.

The revolution must include complete destruction of the Nigerian Army.

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

lol, e sure me say your papa na bastard.

Because if you get papa, uno go type this rubbish wey you just type. This is 2020, if you like don't have a skill, job or business...na your toto u go use take care of yourself because you have nothing else to offer.

After you don use your toto finish hustle, your body go sag finish then you will start selling agbo jedi and opa eyin since you want to be useless in life.

Anumpama.

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

Apart from ur fish hole what can u offer asshole

MusaChukwudi:


This foolish mentality creates poverty and population explosion.

lol. it's a foolish mentality indeed .

don't mind that cunning bitçh see her mouth like marry early. these liabilities be looking for a horse to work for them and their children while they bring nothing to the table but pissy.

A biased topic from a toxic Feminist



Dont be fooled by Leftist media CNN who seek to promote radicalized feminism , homosexuality, gay marriage, LGBTQ, abortion under the disguise of supporting End SARS look at their DJ Switch media talk and compare to their news of female celeb Adele divorce from her spouse, who after the divorce she will be feeding as their culture support female hypergamy creating broke emasculated men , my fellow youths let's not be deceived , the ends protest has been hijacked

Obviously its expected she married an emasculated Simp(a potential gay**t), because their society is so progressive and allows for female hypergamy hence the rise of weak nonvirile men , homosexual men, non binary men, She Male,Bisexual men,and other aborminations we see openly in these society,I commend her success as an individual , attaining these height in her music career based on her own merit but I'm against their society killing natural masculinity in their men via queerness,sexless,and genderless notion

The African Man is a natural redpiller , our conservative culture alone produces Alpha male,and also strong independent women who don't see men,babies,marriage,family as threats to achieving their personal set out objectives eg Mrs Folorusho Alakija(richest woman in Africa),Mrs Awoseka of first bank , Arch bishop Mrs Idahosa , Mrs Tara of house of Tara, Former senator Mrs Florence It's Giwa, Rev Mrs Adejumo, Aisha Yesufu of Endsars protest, Mrs Stella okoli the founder and current CEO of Emzor pharmaceutical,and a host of others

These compared to what the leftist american media who want to promote single motherhood,divorce,queerness and other progressive ideologies and we see in some of our female celebrities Toke Makiwa (divorce),Vanetta of big brother(divorce),Genevieve Nnaji (single mother),Waje(single mother ),INI Edo(divorce),Tiwa savage(divorce and single mother) and a host of others

Note I'm not against single women or men Apostle Paul was single,Jesus was single,Mother Theresa was single, you can be single and still fufil destiny, have peace of mind, attain happiness without needing the institution of marriage or family,what I'm against and I now see in some women is that they now see that marriage, family, .men, babies all as threats to attaining women right,and women independence hence the wave of radical feminism, toxic feminity ,progressivism,LGBTQ, genderless and queerness notion

An example is an NGO called feminist coalition that was headed by modern feminist kiki mordi and a host of other ladies who where one of the major sponsors and organizers of the End SARS protest specifically in Lekki toll gate protest under the guise of fighting for police reform,end to police brutality ,end to extra Judicial killing, were actual fighting for radical leftist ideologies like LGBTQ,abortion,gay marriage, etc which are against God and Nature, they were verified by progressive twitter owner Jack Dorsey to gain popularity and donation for these so called purpose

We are all complaining about Buhari today , his bad economic policies as we are seeing rise in fuel,food,transportion costs etc. poor govt educational policies keeping youths from school because of ASUU strike, dictatorial tendency by trying to ban social media,corruption by holding covid 19 pallatives ,etc. We see former pres Jonathan as a weak, incompetent , corrupt politician who could not handle the Boko Haram terrorist insurgency ,people don't see the reason for these was his refusal to accept progressive Obama Gay marriage policy,Jonathan not only refused these satanic leftist feminist ideology but also penalized homosexuals with new legislative bill of 13 yrs imprisonment of homosexuals,Obama punished Nigeria by refusing us the money and arms to fight these terrorist hence leading to countless loss of lives and properties,human displacement into IDP camps,violation of women body and right in the case of Chibok girls , and now these tribalist bigot incompetent president Buhari.

Raalsalghul:


The bold statement is plain stupid.

Truth always hurts for those that failed to accept it.

... continue lamenting when guys are walking their ladies to the altar.

Kog45:
Truth always hurts for those that failed to accept it.

... continue lamenting when guys are walking their ladies to the alter.

How does getting married equate to wisdom?

This is not a female bashing thread. Please let's be civil. I think there is a growing number of eligible bachelors who are not so keen on marriage for some reasons.

1. Life is getting harder for men.
The media might not report it as much as females seem to be pitied more than males. With resources thinning out populatuon growth, and competition with women alike for jobs and livelihood. Men are taking longer to some level of financial independence which is a prerequisite to starting a family.

2. Women have evolved.
The women 50 and 100yrs ago are not the same as the ones we have now. Women are now working as hard as men and becoming financially independent leaving her with little desire for a man as she is independent. Freedom and social media has had a negative impact more on our women than men.

3. Relationships demand effort.
Alot of men might not say this, but being in a relationship requires calling the babe, checking on her , buying gift etc. Some men like me dont even have that energy and the lady would think introverted me does not like her.

4. Men are enjoying the benefits of marriage without being married.

Sex, baby mama etc is becoming the norm. By going this route a man avoids the responsibility of a husband but takes on the demands of being a father.

5. See ehn. Men of knowledge known that all of these are signs of the end time. Sometimes ehn, I feel Angel Michael should just blow the trumpet. Some of us know where we dey go,.let rapture cut us the chase.

As life continues to get harder for men, relationships will get tougher on women.

Peace.

smart men shun Marriage. It has always been a scam,
Marriage will restrict your personal financial and mental development, because you will be too afraid to take risks that may make you grow
Historically marriage was a union btw 2 or more powerful families to consolidate wealth and political power, something 99% of us do not have.
if it's children you want, make bastard money and women will beg you to cum inside them without asking for a ring

ZIINI:
Men don wise up
Na women marriage pay that's why their very desperate to get married
Was in a prayer one day and this lady next to me is praying so loud that I can hear her clearly.
Her prayer in youruba was O lord provide my own husband for me .
The pastor call off the prayer and I looked at her closely although she's not that old mere looking at her she can't be more than 27/30 if my age was the same with hers there ain't no way I'm gonna think of marriage.
And come to think of it marrying a girl in this era is a bad idea. A girl that already have 15 to 20 body count before marriage knowing this will I still want to marry her plus you're not a proustite and your puunani is public. Let's be sincere the only way a nigarrr can marry you is if he doesn't know all this .
One major problem is our country
A nigarrrr that is earning 35K and you're telling him to go and marry abeg shey you wan kill am nii
35k wey be say you no fit carry am go ball for quilox
And person wey him wan marry no get work.
Ladies if you're yet to get married don't think it's a generational curse or maybe you have husband issues
NO the better truth is men don wise up


All this likes you're giving me
How I wish I can multiply it by dollars and cash out562 x 383 = #137,880

Leave women, many no get sense, and I trust feminism to destroy all other privileges they have left. Marriage is on the brink of collapse and I fear what it holds for women in the future, because whether they admit it or not, a major aspect of a woman's happiness in life will always be relationship, for christ sake, the evidence is on her body. She has not just one, but two breast fastening on her chest that she can't do away with, a womb to carry a baby and the emotional capacity to go through it.

Men have gladly carried their burden society placed on them, from dying in war, being the family and societal workhorse, rewarded only for doing not being, and their problem not taking seriously, just to name a few. You now come and tell them that they created one thing called patriarchy to oppress women when it is clear that men suffers the most in that so called patriarchy. As I am now, I wish I have the privilege to browse through life sweetly courtesy of my deek, to be pursued by numerous females and all I have to do is choose the best one, and subject the rest to per month billing and live a good life off their sweat, that the economical situation won't be my concern because no matter how e bad reach, the successful women in that system are my toasters. I can go on and on on lots of privilege women enjoy, that man will never experience until he die.

How about to be catapulted to the highest seat in society just because you married an influential man (eg being a first lady because your hubby na president), and having the option to be a stay at home wife, but me as a man must work, no choice. Just work. And if I refuse to, I'll be invincible to most women in the society that something as natural as sex, i will never taste it. Women will never experience what it feels to want to desperately fork, with your prick fully erected, energy on full charge, and all that remain is for a woman to show up. This is uniquely a male experience. And now you're blaming patriarchy on me, your papa.

I have a lot to say, but make I stop here, to avoid turning this to a textbook. But one thing is sure, it will always get worse women. I no swear for you, I no wish you bad, I get sisters, mothers, partner and hopefully I'll born a daughter by God's grace, but with the way society is heading, it will get worse, especially for women. When you teach women about freedom without self-control, rights without obligation, entitlement without responsibilities, timeless qualities such as self control, delayed gratification, dignity, integrity and positive qualities, then that society will produce nothing less than worthless women that their only usefulness is their ability to be forked, reforked, and denied the joy of life such as a stable family, love, and depth. Una lay una bed, oya, come and sleep on it. I can always trust feminism to be the hitman that will vacuum all your joy. Mumu people.