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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by cooooooks(m): 4:28pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
True talk. I said something similar a few hours ago. We are many in the world and obviously, our views will differ. So people should respect each other's opinions. angelfallz: 3 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by chineduuf: 4:29pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
It saddens me whenever I travel back to Nigeria to see my parents and see ladies in churches praying for husbands. Really? Come to the UK and see career women. An average 25 year old lady in Nigeria is already desperate to get married to just anybody that come their way. No spec, no taste. Just anybody! Please don't get me wrong, I have seen Nigerian ladies who burst their ass out to be at the top of their career, but how many? Too little that the number is negligible. All these ladies here lamenting, it is better to pick correction right here. You wonder why you are still not married? Men don wise o. Nobody wants a liability, not just to themselves but also their children. Before I got married, one question that I always asked myself when I start dating a lady is "What will happen to my wealth when I die?", "Can my wife manage it till my kids grow old enough to take over?". Again, don't get me wrong, I give my wife the best I can, but at least she takes care of some of her daily needs. Ladies, get a job or get a business! Wish you all the best! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 4:30pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
cooooooks:On point, boss. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 4:30pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
It's simply because of hard times, some men are really finding it hard to pick up,i wish God can just bless everyone. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 4:33pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Men please marry early as soon as you can,marriage brings forth double blessings, take this to the bank 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by virginprincess(f): 4:34pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
angelfallz:Pls how do i create a tread, because i want to create one concerning this very issue. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Anayxz(m): 4:35pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
As a young married man, I advised that u go for working class lady if you want to settle down, no mind all this small gals here wey no fit fix der hair with their own Money saying that women contributing to the family is by choice my brother if you marry liability na looted palliative warehouse go get hope pass u. ka m bia 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 4:39pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
humilitypays: But when I first quoted you, it’s because you wrote that more single men are losing interest in marriage everyday all over the world not just in Nigeria because previous marriages benefited only the women. And now you’re saying they want to get married. Which do I believe? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by humilitypays(m): 4:45pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
nenyewrites:yes more men are losing interest in marriage not because they are getting free sex without being married, but because how marriage is arranged/structured, it favors women more, which makes it more and more unappealing to men of today, and for those who still desire to marry, lack of money makes it difficult for them, and when they consider how they will be struggling to make money to satisfy a woman called wife who hardly contribute to make things easier for him, they get even more discouraged 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by angelfallz(m): 4:52pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: That is simple Just go to the front page Tap on the appropriate category, like; career, romance, family Once you are in the category, just look for create new topic and tap it. Make sure you observe the rules Type in the subject Then type in what you have to say 1 Like
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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by virginprincess(f): 5:00pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
angelfallz:Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by denjjy(m): 5:25pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
elonize:I will be glad if you can put me through and enlighten me more about the aforementioned crypto trading |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by UncleJJ(m): 5:36pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
pocohantas: Dude... I asked myself this question so many times. But, the commenters are little men of little means. So when they say a working-class woman. I do not think they speak of single women (actively looking for husbands) working in Shell, NLNG, GTB e.t.c in good positions earning 1 quarters of a million and change every month. No! Most men I have found who insist "my wife must have a job"; actually mean my wife must earn money however, it should be less than I do. I prefer and respect a hands-on wife. The children and family gain more from having a mum who is available most of the time. I think they are called "Super Moms". It's just that Nigerian men don't appreciate a good woman. And, they don't even want much .. just attention. Funny! 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Gerrard59(m): 5:37pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
humilitypays: Women are hypergamous, nothing wrong with their decisions. If that set of women (those with well paying jobs) get married to struggling men, we'd have more posts of men complaining of their wives who cheat, keep late nights, don't listen to their commands etc. Money brings forth assertiveness while most men have egos. Should women who have more money marry struggling men, anything they see, they should take it like that. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Oloshotoclassy: 5:39pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Not everyone cares nowadays. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by zeusdgrt(m): 5:42pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
nenyewrites:Lol.... sorry I can never be broke in my life,u still daft to understand wen I meant Shiloh people like you spend years and years going to Shiloh looking for husband after being unreasonable at the stage u were suppose to settle down 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 6:13pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
zeusdgrt: Lol, I’m sure it was you I saw on TV with sack clothes rolling on the floor and praying like a mad man for wife and money. What a sad life! At least women only go there for husband. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Chessg(m): 6:27pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Kranediggy:I feel am (so touching) |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Edge1(m): 6:39pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Chii59: Take a break, simp. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by komodapson(m): 6:56pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
elonize: Your mum, she's %100 spot on. Quite a few of modern day Nigerian Ladies lack the requisite knowledge for Marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by zeusdgrt(m): 7:17pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
nenyewrites:Well I will just laff cz u never can tell who u chatting with. and even if I will do that is to praise God not for a wife cz I don't lack quality relationship if I want |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 7:26pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
zeusdgrt: Why are you still on about who I’m “exchanging words” with? Isn’t it obvious I don’t bloody care? |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by zanshi: 7:29pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by UrVillagePpl: 7:33pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:Seriously. Are you that dumb or you're just being silly? Do ladies still have such mentality? This is the 21st century. Better hustle and stop leeching around 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Cj4charles(m): 7:43pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Niggas in Paris are wise now## |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Raalsalghul: 8:18pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Chii59: She's not strong, she's foolish. How can you explain having two kids for a man who's not married to you? Women: will always support theirselves even for the wrong things. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by zeusdgrt(m): 8:24pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
nenyewrites:Cz the mentality u have and use tojudge people's financial state is so funny and absurd. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by shantti(m): 8:26pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
ZIINI: oil dey ur head |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 8:51pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:Wait wait hold up, what in all nine hells is this bullshit you just spewed? |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by IamAngelica(f): 8:52pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:I honestly can not believe that in this generation, girls with this backwards mentality like you still exist! Your fellow female peers are changing the world, breaking records, adding value to society and mankind and what is more important to you is becoming a housewife..who are raising these children? Who told you that your entire essence as a woman is tied to a man? Who told you that these men owe you something and all you have to do is sit around and let him work for you? Who taught you to be entitled and selfish and lazy? Y'all be claiming to be feminists fighting for equality when you don't see the man as an equal but you depend on him for survival and yet you give back nothing? 6 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by virginprincess(f): 8:58pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
IamAngelica:You guys should learn to read and understand, i just created a tread concerning this same issue, maybe you should look for it and read before coming to attack me. |
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