angelfallz:


Well that is the way you see marriage which is fine. That is why i have always advocated that men should go after women that have the same views about marriage as they have.

I see marriage differently. I have talked about this many times and i am not going to talk about it right now.

cooooooks:
Chii59 said the same thing on the first page.

I personally know people who are getting married even if they are not making 120,000 a month together.

Women who marry and give birth are looking for, and finding, work.

Go to any school now and you will see a long list of application letters by women, single and married, with or without children.

angelfallz:


sure go ahead

humilitypays:
You are talking about very few insignificant number of Nigerian men; the few successful men who can afford to have a babymama


I am talking about majority.


The number 1 reason majority of Nigerian men marry late is lack of money resulting from bad Nigerian economy as a result of years of foolish governance by old corrupt fools who have looted away the future of Nigeria.


Nigeria need a revolution that will shock the world. A revolution that will lead to a nationwide attack on all past and present political office holders. That is the only way to put Nigeria on track and put fear in the hearts of next generation leaders and politicians to lead well

nenyewrites:


But when I first quoted you, it’s because you wrote that more single men are losing interest in marriage everyday all over the world not just in Nigeria because previous marriages benefited only the women. And now you’re saying they want to get married. Which do I believe?

virginprincess:
Pls how do i create a tread, because i want to create one concerning this very issue.

angelfallz:

That is simple Just go to the front page Tap on the appropriate category, like; career, romance, family Once you are in the category, just look for create new topic and tap it. Make sure you observe the rules Type in the subject Then type in what you have to say

elonize:
don't b dejected..nobi ur fault, mehn I don even analyze am.in my own case,it won't b possible but 1tin is for sure,I don start another way,which I believe say I fit dey use am see light.try Google n find out how u fit hammer with cryto currencies gather d money, try osusu,u fit use am do forex...reason in dis line...n pray to God o

pocohantas:

_{Men not marrying because women are broke? Nah! I don’t think that applies to most of those men. The unemployed women even marry faster}

humilitypays:
This is what I have been telling them and nobody want to agree.


The major reason Nigerian guys marry late is lack of money resulting from bad economy of Nigeria.


Many single guys are unemployed, underemployed and earning peanuts, how can they desire to get married with such miserable condition


Guys of our time have woken up, nobody except some careless ones want to bring an innocent child into this world without financial preparation to cater for the child.

And the ladies that have good job aren't helping the situation as they refuse to marry the struggling young men and team up with them to build a healthy home, all the ladies both the rich, the middle class, the broke and the wretched want a ready made guy with all the good things of life, which is why successful young men have too many girlfriends and fiancees to themselves today

nenyewrites:


Mumu, this one has changed from men dying before their time to Shiloh. Nairaland and trashy men. You think it’s everyone that’s broke and single like you. Shioor

zeusdgrt:

Lol.... sorry I can never be broke in my life,u still daft to understand wen I meant Shiloh people like you spend years and years going to Shiloh looking for husband after being unreasonable at the stage u were suppose to settle down

Kranediggy:
Choi! Aspiring housewife spotted. Nne no go develop yourself and your mentality; be there looking for a man that will spend what your daddy can't spend on you. This is 21st Century o! Women are now becoming powerful and you're here wallowing in outdated lifestlye. Your type will press your man with iron...

Chii59:

Quote where I specifically wrote "all".
I refuse to exchange words with a child on this forum.

elonize:
my dear,I told my mum dat I won't marry a liability, if she no get work she go get handwork.
My mum just say who tell u say na by dat 1,sm fit get handwork n nor still contribute to d family. My eyes cm dey shine.last last,I resigned to leaving it in God's hands

nenyewrites:


Lol, I’m sure it was you I saw on TV with sack clothes rolling on the floor and praying like a mad man for wife and money. What a sad life! At least women only go there for husband.

zeusdgrt:

Well I will just laff cz u never can tell who u chatting with. and even if I will do that is to praise God not for a wife cz I don't lack quality relationship if I want

Kranediggy:
You sound like a future single mom dear...I can perceive it.

virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

Chii59:

Awww. You're a strong woman.

nenyewrites:


Why are you still on about who I’m “exchanging words” with? Isn’t it obvious I don’t bloody care?

ZIINI:


What you typed up there use to happen 2000 years ago not this 21 century
We already have independent girls now
I'm sure you come across them when you go out don't you envy them too.?
Just this morning I saw a girl driving a Benz E class
And here you are, aspiring to be a full house wife
When your husband money is gone you as a wife you're expected to support him now tell me how do you want to support him when you sit your ass at home all day
Doing nothing all in the name of house wife.
After sometimes without him dropping anything at home you will later frustrate his life
And from there problem will set in ...
Girls of nowadays I don't know maybe you think with your pusssy. Girls like you are just a piece of junk

virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

IamAngelica:
I honestly can not believe that in this generation, girls with this backwards mentality like you still exist! Your fellow female peers are changing the world, breaking records, adding value to society and mankind and what is more important to you is becoming a housewife..who are raising these children? Who told you that your entire essence as a woman is tied to a man? Who told you that these men owe you something and all you have to do is sit around and let him work for you? Who taught you to be entitled and selfish and lazy? Y'all be claiming to be feminists fighting for equality when you don't see the man as an equal but you depend on him for survival and yet you give back nothing?