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So a friend of Mine posted the above question on his status which i responded to affirmatively. He sent a voice note in response arguing that Most ladies don't. At first i argued profusely, maintaining my stance but along the line I got to see things from his Perspective. One question which threw me off balance was "If you are right Dee, why are ladies always in need of URGENT 2k?" Lol.... While trying to find the right answer to that, another came. Why do Ladies hardly celebrate their Men? , then another : Why are most women dependent? Why do they see relationship as a source of livelihood?. After the long chat I asked myself his initial question , Do women ever consider themselves too broke for a relationship?

"Relationship should be between two people with an agreement to do things MUTUALLY." he said. Everything in a relationship should be reciprocated. Financial expenses in relationship shouldn't be on a person. Relationship becomes sweeter when your partner (the lady precisely) can afford to surprise you, relieve you and be there for you"

Honestly, dude is right. Women hardly ever consider their financial capability before agreeing to date. The average Nigerian lady sees relationship as a Charity home, in her mind all she needs is good face, nice body. She believes she should be taken care of, unfortunately this mentality of hers does more harm to her than good.

Every woman wishes to be treated like Queen but do not know How to be a Queen. When the lady vith no value but with the dreams of a queen gets what she deserves, she starts jumping from pole to pole screaming "Men are Scum" little does she know that she gets what she could offer.

Be a Woman of value and you will never be replaced, Queen attracts Kings!...

What do you think of this?

Yeah. Social media shouldn't be a PH scale to measure a woman's dependency or autonomous lifestyle; most women I've met and entangled with has always stood in that circle of self-resilience and self-determination. Few women have some self-respect for themselves, unlike leeches who never achive their dream goals just because they banked on someone's wealth. God bless smart women.

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Especially this december

Personally, I expect that they should.

Especially with the way men make themselves the Almighty for every financial favor.


Who has the energy to deal with that?

Country hard abeg...no time to waste on broke hoes.

ePoster:
Personally, I expect that they should.

Especially with the way men make themselves the Almighty for every financial favor.


Who has the energy to deal with that?

My thought exactly!

A financially independent woman has lot of choices and is more valuable than a dependent one.

Funny thing be say na the foolish ones they jump enter relationship carelessly. People wey no understand themselves go dey find perfect partners.

Just have fine face and curves like David Beckham

You need not to Hustle
Sugar daddy and GBoys will foot the Bills

Palema007:
My thought exactly!

A financially independent woman has lot of choices and is more valuable than a dependent one.

Financially independent women are the ones with Rights.


The rest, not so much.


For the sake of not being treated like trash, females need to step up and own it.


The entitlement mentality the global culture encourages is the stumbling block of gender equality.


Females generally shooting their own foot.

Op. Have u always been like dz or u're jxt in a special happy mood today or is dz a cloned acct

2dice01:
Just have fine face and curves like David Beckham

You need not to Hustle
Sugar daddy and GBoys will foot the Bills

Except you're proudly a gigolo, sorry that wouldn't work.

Women can get away with "looks for money", men can't.


Few Nigerian women would date a handsome but broke dude.

Most would settle for an ape who's more than financially stable.


You would end up as a fvck mate.


The pretty boy she sneaks away at night to meet.


Not important,


Easily replaced.


Sugar daddies and Gboys would be of more value.


Can your ego take that?

ePoster:
Except you're proudly a gigolo, sorry that wouldn't work.

Women can get away with "looks for money", men can't.


Few Nigerian women would date a handsome but broke dude.

Most would settle for an ape who's more than financially stable.


You would end up as a fvck mate.


The pretty boy she sneaks away at night to meet.


Not important,


Easily replaced.


Sugar daddies and Gboys would be of more value.


Can your ego take that?

100000 million question!

ePoster:
Except you're proudly a gigolo, sorry that wouldn't work.

Women can get away with "looks for money", men can't.


Few Nigerian women would date a handsome but broke dude.

Most would settle for an ape who's more than financially stable.


You would end up as a fvck mate.


The pretty boy she sneaks away at night to meet.


Not important,


Easily replaced.


Sugar daddies and Gboys would be of more value.


Can your ego take that?

We are on the same page bro

Am talking about women having fine face and curves

ePoster:
Financially independent women are the ones with Rights.


The rest, not so much.


For the sake of not being treated like trash, females need to step up and own it.


The entitlement mentality the global culture encourages is the stumbling block of gender equality.


Females generally shooting their own foot.

One of the many reasons i laugh Nigerian feminists. They clamour for equal treatment but reject equal responsibilities, they want the gain but not the work.
It baffles me how you will want a "burden" off your neck but still want to be fed for a cause you reject. How do you expect a Man to treat you differently when you still beg for crumbs? Do they know what gender equality mean to a typical Nigerian man?

Honestly my heart breaks when i see women remain in toxic relationships all because the Man foot the bills. I hate it when Guys talk low of Women, or ask women what they offer aside sex. Women need to wake up!

PrinceofAgoAre:
Op. Have u always been like dz or u're jxt in a special happy mood today or is dz a cloned acct

Looking for the correlation between the subject of discourse and your submission.

Palema007:
One of the many reasons i laugh Nigerian feminists. They clamour for equal treatment but reject equal responsibilities, they want the gain but not the work.
It baffles me how you will want a "burden" off your neck but still want to be fed for a cause you reject. How do you expect a Man to treat you differently when you still beg for crumbs? Do the know what gender equality mean to a typical Nigerian man?

Honestly my heart breaks when i see women remain in toxic relationships all because the Man foot the bills. I hate it when Guys talk low of Women, or ask women what they offer aside sex. Women need to wake up!

The Nigerian feminist are the ones on twitter, categorizing all men as dogs.


Nothing more.


When their broken heart heals, it's back to begging for transport fare and inviting their friends to a personal romantic date so they would get a free meal.


Do they know their rights?


Nope!


Most 'Feminist' don't even believe they have such.

They don't consider themselves being too broke for a relationship, because they have tow tow to give in exchange

Nazgul:
Country hard abeg...no time to waste on broke hoes.

The usual online boast, same you go offline to buy a woman the "world " only to put the tip.

Nonsense and Nl redpillers!

Palema007:
So a friend of Mine posted the above question on his status which i responded to affirmatively. He sent a voice note in response arguing that Most ladies don't. At first i argued profusely, maintaining my stance but along the line I got to see things from his Perspective. One question which threw me off balance was "If you are right Dee, why are ladies always in need of URGENT 2k?" Lol.... While trying to find the right answer to that, another came. Why do Ladies hardly celebrate their Men? , then another : Why are most women dependent? Why do they see relationship as a source of livelihood?. After the long chat I asked myself his initial question , Do women ever consider themselves too broke for a relationship?

"Relationship should be between two people with an agreement to do things MUTUALLY." he said. Everything in a relationship should be reciprocated. Financial expenses in relationship shouldn't be on a person. Relationship becomes sweeter when your partner (the lady precisely) can afford to surprise you, relieve you and be there for you"

Honestly, dude is right. Women hardly ever consider their financial capability before agreeing to date. The average Nigerian lady sees relationship as a Charity home, in her mind all she needs is good face, nice body, a functional Pussy and womb. She believes she should be taken care of, unfortunately this mentality of hers does more harm to her than good.
Every woman wishes to be treated like Queen but do not know How to be a Queen. When the lady vith no value but with the dreams of a queen gets what she deserves, she starts jumping from pole to pole screaming "Men are Scum" little does she know that she gets what she could offer.

Be a Woman of value and you will never be replaced, Queen attracts Kings!...



Lalasticlala
Mynd44
What do you think of this?

You are smart.

Raalsalghul:
You are smart.

Because i typed something you agree with?

Palema007:
Because i typed something you agree with?

Nope, but because you're trying to look at it from both perspectives, something most in your gender would never do.

Raalsalghul:
Nope, but because you're trying to look at it from both perspectives, something most in your gender would never do.

Alright... Thank you.

I'm an advocate of Balance.

Palema007:
The usual online boast, same you go offline to buy a woman the "world " only to put the tip.

Nonsense and Nl redpillers!

Do you even know me?

Not Nigerian ladies they believe its their right to be broke in a relationship.


You are asking a Lady out and she's asking u can u take care of a woman?

First sign of a broke Lady, a mans job is not to take care of u its your fathers job

Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright
Ain't got anything to say

I have them on my WhatsApp. Always posting status to beg subtly, and then get angry if you don't oblige.

Big ups to hard working girls though.

Majority of the ladies we have in this country are dead Broke with virtually nothing to offer.They see relationship as poverty alleviation scheme.The worst ones are those jobless Slay queens,waiting for one unfortunate man that will spend on them and their families.To any young man with ambition hoping to go far in life,do not go into any relationship with any jobless girl or woman.its better you date a lady that’s working,even if she is earning five thousand naira(they know the value of money)than those jobless slay queens.

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See as e come FP sharp sharp...