Samakus:


Well said. Immediately, she made frantic moves to make me change my mind, I knew that this girl dey game . For her eye, I resemble John .

Anyways we move. She likes me sha. I know when a girl likes me.

Stay there and allow guys who never see girl pant talk less of girl liking them fool you into believing nonsense. Don't be too quick to judge a person's character. Besides you ought to ask her if she's OK with d venue if not you change it. Simple. What she was before she met you shouldn't b ur concern but what she decides to be knowing u.

BestAccessories:


Oga, stop being a child. For first date, ask her to suggest a venue and location.

It's takes two to tangle, if she doesn't like the place you suggested, you should have asked her where is comfortable and convenient for her.

Up your game.

U want to take a girl out for the 1st time and you want her to choose a place,?and you say you got game really??
A date is meant to be a place she does not know to Introduce a wee element of surprise. asking her to chose is like telling her you gonna go dutch!

na olosho wey repent..

Bennysam:
She have a boyfriend or someone around there that fucking her and she doesn’t want that person to see her

Badoooooooooooo spotedddddddddd

Since you said that she is a church girl, she might be scared of what people in the area might say when they see her going out with a man considering the fact that they know that she is a church girl.

You know this 'silly church mentality'.

Incase you don't know na me talk

Ogbeni, na the money she want...no be any cool place to hang out..just offer her say you go send money see the speed of light she go send acct details...oshi...wetin dey sweet my body this evening na how Davido pikin dey sing Jowo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YF9OU0wzZAA

She don cast for that eatery. A bunch of niggas have probably took her there in the past so she's scared of bumping into one of her numerous boyfriends

Listen and listen good, that girl is definitely hiding something from you and that's the reason she's trying to avoid that particular area. Take her to another joint or allow her choose a place, but have it in mind that you're dealing with a runs or Parole chick. Do your own and free her with immediate effect. You're dealing with an "ABANDA". dont fu.....ck and stay, fu.....ck, refuck and leave for your own good. When it comes to women, dont swallow whatever they tell you "Hookline and Sinker", use your head and not your heart.


Lastly, Op you be Original Mumu.

Starz825:

chai... nairalanders no dey disappoint

op...use your head

For sure.

Samakus:
Hey guys.

I will be brief. So, I met a girl in church and one thing led to another and we exchanged contacts. We been chatting and talking ever since. I can tell she likes me a lot as she's always calling me on WhatsApp call and video calls.

So, we fixed our first date to be today. Told her I will call her by 4pm to give her the venue. I decided for us to hang out in a popular eatery close to my area. The place is quite busy on Sundays with lots of guys and babes coming around for dates and to chill. They usually have live band too with good meals and all other things.

Called babe by 4pm as I promised and gave her the location and she refused coming there. I even offered to pay for tfare even though I knew that that's not the reason but she wasn't having any of it. Initially, she said that she hasn't gone there before but wouldn't want to go there either. Pressing forward, babe gave a new funny excuse that her village people usually come to that venue . Like WTF . Granted, she's from the town but how will someone know that her village peeps goes to a place if you haven't been there before. Ofcourse i stood my ground and the date had to be cancelled. She's been chatting me and I haven't replied yet.

To the question, does it make sense for a lady to choose for a guy where to take her especially on a first date? Who wouldn't want to hangout in a popular relaxation spot if he/she doesn't have anything to hide? Anyways, I had to take two plates of goat peppersoup from my budget and a chilled Heineken beer to watch my Arsenal team mumu themselves, by the way. I can't come and kill myself on top my own money too

A girl I met today. I asked her let's see she said where am I taking her to. I told her shoprite to watch movie. She said no I should take her for shopping instead to buy clothes. Nigerian girls are useless o

Samakus:
Hey guys.

I will be brief. So, I met a girl in church and one thing led to another and we exchanged contacts. We been chatting and talking ever since. I can tell she likes me a lot as she's always calling me on WhatsApp call and video calls.
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It shows she is a good girl.

It is your first date for goodness sake. And you want to showcase her to your peers and neighborhood.

What happens to her image if the friendship/relationship led no where?

You have to invest some time and patience until the friendship gets a direction.


She is smart.

1. She is thinking of her safety. Many young ladies have been kidnapped through this method.

2. Many young ladies have been raped by this method.

By the way, Why do you have to call by 4pm after making your arrangement? Is it not enough to raise suspensions?

You did the right thing jare. And i am sure the girl is a young girl, which can be excused.

Mine was an old ass girl-29yr old woman fa, and i cldnt overlook it for any reason.

We met once and after some days, i tried to fix a date-to take her one of the best places in our side of town. She was like, nooo- the place is always too busy- she diesnt want that kinda bottles set up and noisy music. She didnt call me when she was supposed to call me, so i come get her. So chinned up and let it slide. By the way, the place was near her work place, why i chose it in the first place to avoid getting stuck in traffic.

Okay, following weekend, i said lemme take her out again. She asked, hope not that same place i wanted to take her last time, i said no.

I now asked her what she likes. She said dinner (am sure so she would be doing snapchat on my bill), movies and stuff. I said ok, no p, with the intention to take her to a cozy alfresco bar/ restaurant in her side of town.

Very sleek place, one of the best in the city, meaning one of the best in Nigeria. She obviously didnt knw the place, which was neaer her side of town.

When i mentioned it, like an hour before il come get her, this grown woman(not 16 or 23) said she is not interested. Surprised, i asked why? Do you know the place? She said no. Is it because its on this side of town? She said yes.

I said no problem. Shame that you dont know the place, you cldnt even google it, and you decided against. No p il go on my own, i refused to change venues.

Seems she now googled the place, was wowed and then hit me up, saying, her judgement about the place was quite hasty she shoulnt have concluded just like that. I said good, she knows, but i was gone.

She was watching my snap as i was frolicking two other girls with buffet dinner. The peppering on my status was too much. I think she blocked me two weeks later.

Stoooopid bitch. Becos u get big breast n big nyash. Nansense. How can you be condioning me, where to take you on my own bill. Because you get boutique? All these big breast, big nyash girls no dey get sense. They are like a tribe

No b one no b two, she b palliative many guys for that place don loot her tire.

Confirmed Guy! Guy you sabi. Person wey u neva marry... U don dey control

BestAccessories:


Oga, stop being a child. For first date, ask her to suggest a venue and location.

It's takes two to tangle, if she doesn't like the place you suggested, you should have asked her where is comfortable and convenient for her.

Up your game.

Cutehector:
She Don cast for that area. Use your head bro, she is not who you think she is.

Tho badt gan

Samakus:
Hey guys.

I will be brief. So, I met a girl in church and one thing led to another and we exchanged contacts. We been chatting and talking ever since. I can tell she likes me a lot as she's always calling me on WhatsApp call and video calls.

So, we fixed our first date to be today. Told her I will call her by 4pm to give her the venue. I decided for us to hang out in a popular eatery close to my area. The place is quite busy on Sundays with lots of guys and babes coming around for dates and to chill. They usually have live band too with good meals and all other things.

Called babe by 4pm as I promised and gave her the location and she refused coming there. I even offered to pay for tfare even though I knew that that's not the reason but she wasn't having any of it. Initially, she said that she hasn't gone there before but wouldn't want to go there either. Pressing forward, babe gave a new funny excuse that her village people usually come to that venue . Like WTF . Granted, she's from the town but how will someone know that her village peeps goes to a place if you haven't been there before. Ofcourse i stood my ground and the date had to be cancelled. She's been chatting me and I haven't replied yet.

To the question, does it make sense for a lady to choose for a guy where to take her especially on a first date? Who wouldn't want to hangout in a popular relaxation spot if he/she doesn't have anything to hide? Anyways, I had to take two plates of goat peppersoup from my budget and a chilled Heineken beer to watch my Arsenal team mumu themselves, by the way. I can't come and kill myself on top my own money too

Well since you met her in church yiu should have allow her to pick venue just for her peace of mind. Then next time you take her to.your preferred location we live to learn i hope you've learn from this experience.

BestAccessories:


Oga, stop being a child. For first date, ask her to suggest a venue and location.

It's takes two to tangle, if she doesn't like the place you suggested, you should have asked her where is comfortable and convenient for her.

Up your game.

After all, two can play the game

Enjoy yourself jare. Life na once. You can't come and kill yourself. But wait o...wetin dey do some girls Afterall, na you go still use your money pay for meal and drink. Her job, na just to chop clean mouth That's why men need to look for how to double their income becos if care is not taken, you will finish all you have on top woman without knowing. You keep money in the Bank, bank too don turn SARS. They will keep deducting ur money telling you its for charges.
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Women are like smoke ,anywhere you notice smoke ,fire no far

Guy ,are you sure say no be for Blue Spot cafe u want carry her go? Because the way u describe the place want come be like Blue spot for morrocco junction.

Samakus:
Hey guys.

I will be brief. So, I met a girl in church and one thing led to another and we exchanged contacts. We been chatting and talking ever since. I can tell she likes me a lot as she's always calling me on WhatsApp call and video calls.

So, we fixed our first date to be today. Told her I will call her by 4pm to give her the venue. I decided for us to hang out in a popular eatery close to my area. The place is quite busy on Sundays with lots of guys and babes coming around for dates and to chill. They usually have live band too with good meals and all other things.

Called babe by 4pm as I promised and gave her the location and she refused coming there. I even offered to pay for tfare even though I knew that that's not the reason but she wasn't having any of it. Initially, she said that she hasn't gone there before but wouldn't want to go there either. Pressing forward, babe gave a new funny excuse that her village people usually come to that venue . Like WTF . Granted, she's from the town but how will someone know that her village peeps goes to a place if you haven't been there before. Ofcourse i stood my ground and the date had to be cancelled. She's been chatting me and I haven't replied yet.

To the question, does it make sense for a lady to choose for a guy where to take her especially on a first date? Who wouldn't want to hangout in a popular relaxation spot if he/she doesn't have anything to hide? Anyways, I had to take two plates of goat peppersoup from my budget and a chilled Heineken beer to watch my Arsenal team mumu themselves, by the way. I can't come and kill myself on top my own money too

OK

Cutehector:
She Don cast for that area. Use your head bro, she is not who you think she is.

You already have my response, I will que behind you on this.

probably she chop food for that eatery once and she japa she no pay

Guys no dae chyke girls again o. Y are u wasting ur money

People know her with different men! Her matter don cast for that place,

Samakus:
Hey guys.

I will be brief. So, I met a girl in church and one thing led to another and we exchanged contacts. We been chatting and talking ever since. I can tell she likes me a lot as she's always calling me on WhatsApp call and video calls.

So, we fixed our first date to be today. Told her I will call her by 4pm to give her the venue. I decided for us to hang out in a popular eatery close to my area. The place is quite busy on Sundays with lots of guys and babes coming around for dates and to chill. They usually have live band too with good meals and all other things.

Called babe by 4pm as I promised and gave her the location and she refused coming there. I even offered to pay for tfare even though I knew that that's not the reason but she wasn't having any of it. Initially, she said that she hasn't gone there before but wouldn't want to go there either. Pressing forward, babe gave a new funny excuse that her village people usually come to that venue . Like WTF . Granted, she's from the town but how will someone know that her village peeps goes to a place if you haven't been there before. Ofcourse i stood my ground and the date had to be cancelled. She's been chatting me and I haven't replied yet.

To the question, does it make sense for a lady to choose for a guy where to take her especially on a first date? Who wouldn't want to hangout in a popular relaxation spot if he/she doesn't have anything to hide? Anyways, I had to take two plates of goat peppersoup from my budget and a chilled Heineken beer to watch my Arsenal team mumu themselves, by the way. I can't come and kill myself on top my own money too

The money wey you want go spend for her, I'll be glad if you can send me Airtel#500 from it...

Thanks

erico2k2:

U want to take a girl out for the 1st time and you want her to choose a place,?and you say you got game really??
A date is meant to be a place she does not know to Introduce a wee element of surprise. asking her to chose is like telling her you gonna go dutch!

Well, basically if we meet online and we are meeting for the first time, I give the lady the honour of suggesting a place she is comfortable with for a start.

Maybe because I drive, it's convenient for me to navigate my way around and also remember I said First meeting.

For girls I meet offline, I suggest the place we meet. Patapata, I will come pick you up at your apartment and drive you to the location/venue.

Asking a girl I meet online to suggest a place we will meet for the first time allows me:

1. Understand if allow taste aligned.
2. The type of person you're truly are.
3. No strings attached, opportunity to japa if what I expect isn't what you got.

It works for me.

Asking her to suggest, doesn't mean I will accept the suggestion. It's a Suggestion, I asked for not Recommendation.

Samakus:
Hey guys.

I will be brief. So, I met a girl in church and one thing led to another and we exchanged contacts. We been chatting and talking ever since. I can tell she likes me a lot as she's always calling me on WhatsApp call and video calls.

So, we fixed our first date to be today. Told her I will call her by 4pm to give her the venue. I decided for us to hang out in a popular eatery close to my area. The place is quite busy on Sundays with lots of guys and babes coming around for dates and to chill. They usually have live band too with good meals and all other things.

Called babe by 4pm as I promised and gave her the location and she refused coming there. I even offered to pay for tfare even though I knew that that's not the reason but she wasn't having any of it. Initially, she said that she hasn't gone there before but wouldn't want to go there either. Pressing forward, babe gave a new funny excuse that her village people usually come to that venue . Like WTF . Granted, she's from the town but how will someone know that her village peeps goes to a place if you haven't been there before. Ofcourse i stood my ground and the date had to be cancelled. She's been chatting me and I haven't replied yet.

To the question, does it make sense for a lady to choose for a guy where to take her especially on a first date? Who wouldn't want to hangout in a popular relaxation spot if he/she doesn't have anything to hide? Anyways, I had to take two plates of goat peppersoup from my budget and a chilled Heineken beer to watch my Arsenal team mumu themselves, by the way. I can't come and kill myself on top my own money too

Please let's be talking about things we can do to move this country forward abeg. Not all these chin chin matter. Things like this, just discuss them with your close friends and allow real issues take the front page. Thanks

Samakus:
Hey guys.

I will be brief. So, I met a girl in church and one thing led to another and we exchanged contacts. We been chatting and talking ever since. I can tell she likes me a lot as she's always calling me on WhatsApp call and video calls.

So, we fixed our first date to be today. Told her I will call her by 4pm to give her the venue. I decided for us to hang out in a popular eatery close to my area. The place is quite busy on Sundays with lots of guys and babes coming around for dates and to chill. They usually have live band too with good meals and all other things.

Called babe by 4pm as I promised and gave her the location and she refused coming there. I even offered to pay for tfare even though I knew that that's not the reason but she wasn't having any of it. Initially, she said that she hasn't gone there before but wouldn't want to go there either. Pressing forward, babe gave a new funny excuse that her village people usually come to that venue . Like WTF . Granted, she's from the town but how will someone know that her village peeps goes to a place if you haven't been there before. Ofcourse i stood my ground and the date had to be cancelled. She's been chatting me and I haven't replied yet.

To the question, does it make sense for a lady to choose for a guy where to take her especially on a first date? Who wouldn't want to hangout in a popular relaxation spot if he/she doesn't have anything to hide? Anyways, I had to take two plates of goat peppersoup from my budget and a chilled Heineken beer to watch my Arsenal team mumu themselves, by the way. I can't come and kill myself on top my own money too

Actually alot of gals like to pick a convient place on the 1st date. It’s only gentlemanly to oblige being a 1st and even 2nd date until she’s comfortable or u know what and type of places she likes.

Some gals like noisy places where u can barely hear urselves talk and some like quiet places where u have good conversation. Especially on a 1st date.

I really don’t know what u expected or probably the time of gals uve been used to.

Reminds me of my amazing ex remember our 1st date we meet at a quiet eatery jusy outside her estate and there were barely people inside just a handful. We had good conversation, shared experiences and it was simple bt good date. Her smile was like the sun rays in the night. I feel bad almost everyday that I let her go bt we move. Lol

Uzomacharles:


Are you the one in charge of the relationship or the girl?

Relationship? Is that what y'all call first date in Nigeria? Why do you let ego come in the way of logic? You walked up to a girl and convinced her to go out with you and then you turn around to start dictating where the meeting must be? The girl hasn't even accepted to be your girl and you're already fighting for who's in charge? Wow...