Antoeni:
I don't think you are Ready Yet

Pofgrace:
who is this motivational speaker now?

You're disturbing our peace oh

Scrupulous419:
I wan learn Yahoo

Abeg

Scrupulous419:
I wan learn Yahoo

Abeg

setobaba:

How will I do just that when I have no affiliate with any foreign ladies. Traveling out of this country with an uncertainty mindset has never came across my mind.

Chinemeremjosh0:
Wahala for who never married

fatymore:



God will help you. Your personality attracts them. Maybe you are one of those alpha males who always feel they don't female support.

setobaba:


You see what I’m saying, thanks I’m going back to my hustle. No more wedding for now baby mama can do

setobaba:

I swear
Only dem G gangs Dey marry now


Like how would I get myself attached to someone when myself and my dog never feed to stupor lol

imagrg:
Save money for another two years, then look for a girl who is either earning a good salary or running a lucrative business and who has not more than one family dependant to marry. That way, with her cooperation, you will live well and enjoy a happy home.

400billionman:


But girls after what you do for a living. Sir, " What do you do for a living ?". I run a salon, I kid you not, she will first frown her face.

She wants to hear that you work in UBA or Zenith Bank before she smiles at you.

Even if you are a teller or gateman in Zenith, a Nigerian girl will value your talk better than, a key distributor with Unilever or Dangote cement.

You are on your own.

2dice01:
@ Bolded
Pride Price and Wedding Ceremony have swallowed the 1milli

I have a friend in your kinda situation
He is also a nairalander
He has postpone his wedding simply because his in-law are demanding above 300k for Traditional wedding
Now guess how much he will spend on the White Wedding

If only our Parent can cut their greed of milking their Potential son in-law
Also the wives should cut their coat accordingly
White wedding when we're Africans.. A reasonable gal did her wedding inside the parlour during lockdown, she help d guy save alot

Cheatnotagain:
* The marriage journey is a walk of faith...
From what you’ve said I think you are okay to start the process, your write up was focused on the financial part of the marriage, you’ve not even mentioned the choice of who you will marry which I think is the most important...
* Always focus on the marriage and not the wedding as the latter is just an event of a day or two while the former is for life...
* The steady income part is very important also...
* You also need to know that when you get it right (which I know God will help you to), marriage is a synergy (1 + 1 = 10) where you join efforts with your wife and get tremendous results, so stop seeing everything from your own side of the divide...

stillmaticOG:
How much you have shouldn't determine when to get married.

The important thing is having a steady cash flow and getting married when u think you're ready.

I have more than 10m in my account but believe me I'm still not ready or even thinking about marriage yet

[s]stillmaticOG:
How much you have shouldn't determine when to get married.

The important thing is having a steady cash flow and getting married when u think you're ready.

I have more than 10m in my account but believe me I'm still not ready or even thinking about marriage yet [/s]

400billionman:


But girls after what you do for a living. Sir, " What do you do for a living ?". I run a salon, I kid you not, she will first frown her face.

She wants to hear that you work in UBA or Zenith Bank before she smiles at you.

Even if you are a teller or gateman in Zenith, a Nigerian girl will value your talk better than, a key distributor with Unilever or Dangote cement.

You are on your own.

setobaba:
Hello Nairalanders,

I’m 30yrs of age, and I never for once consider getting married, I lost interest totally, but this should incase i decide to tie the nut, how much should I have in my bank account to be on safer side before dragging myself into a life time contract with someone else daughter??

I currently own a car, and managing a salon plus other bussiness thag comes once a while, I’m working towards having a building of my own before getting married, but you see the country is so messed up right now that building a three bed room apartment for yourself is so difficult.
Families and friends are dragging me to get married without considering my financial status, they all felt I have what it takes to get myself a wife......lol tho I’m not moved or shake by their claims but I really need to know this.

Can one settle down with an available balance of a million naira and feel safe?

If you recently get married here, can you pls do a cost implication of the said wedding and cost of running your marriage since inception??
Many guys are scared, I swear