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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 11:10pm On Dec 04, 2020
You suppose don pkai as E be say your heartbreak.Abi you get spare heart wey make you still dey live?
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Saintly01(m): 11:10pm On Dec 04, 2020
Swinger60:
I'm surprised to read men feel heartbreak.

op, you will be fine Las Las.
We do, it hits us so badly. Thank God I survived one.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by debbydams(f): 11:10pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:


Put me in your prayers...
it okay I will.. But u have to work it out self.. D0nt underate yourself dont look down on yourself.. Your body is. Complete u are a fine man �..com'on forget her.. U will meet someone beta dan her x100

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by EditorsPalace(m): 11:11pm On Dec 04, 2020
God will console you and give you a better person.

Don't let it affect you.

It's for a reason.

To make you a better person.

Everything works together for good for those who believe.

It's a blessing in disguise.

So rejoice.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by EditorsPalace(m): 11:12pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful


God will console you and give you a better person.

Don't let it affect you.

It's for a reason.

To make you a better person.

Everything works together for good for those who believe.

It's a blessing in disguise.

So rejoice.

Rejoice my brother, rejoice!

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Saintly01(m): 11:12pm On Dec 04, 2020
Tab4kids:


Let me tell you a story. I hope it helps.

So I just starting serving when i met him, not long after we started dating, I really fell in love with him. Some months after a very minute misunderstanding came up and the guy threatened to dump my as$. Come and see crying and beggin. He ghosted me for like 2 months. I couldn’t just imagine what my life would be without him. Those ‘little misunderstanding ‘ quarrels and ghosting didn’t just stop it, it continued and I would always beg or he would just come back after ghosting me and I would accept. This guy has ghosted me for a whole year before.

I was wounding myself and I didn’t even know. I spent like a year plus after service looking for a job, used my savings frm ppa to start something small, later God willing, he gave me a testimony. I took my mind completely off him and got very busy with creating wealth and carving an inch for myself. He probably realized this and blurted out was one day, in his usual breakup manner which i was now very used to,that I don’t respect because i am now ‘independent’. I told him not being with him or thinking about him has been the best thing that has evrr happened to me, because it gave me time to focus and stop chasing after a relationship that wqs never meant to be.


You just get busy. Getting busy takes your mind off the failure of a relationship and make you realize you have a lot to achieve as a person for yourself
Nice one.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Preetti(f): 11:13pm On Dec 04, 2020
debbydams:
it okay I will.. But u have to work it out self.. D0nt underate yourself dont look down on yourself.. Your body is. Complete u are a fine man �..com'on forget her.. U will meet someone beta dan her x100
Someone cheated and you're saying he would meet someone better than her. No he can never meet someone better than her, he would meet a girl as cheap as himself then they can freely cheat on one another

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by surebona(m): 11:14pm On Dec 04, 2020
debbydams:
it okay I will.. But u have to work it out self.. D0nt underate yourself dont look down on yourself.. Your body is. Complete u are a fine man �..com'on forget her.. U will meet someone beta dan her x100

Have never looked out for any other girl. She was sufficient. .. till date I can't explain why it all happened

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by enemyofprogress: 11:14pm On Dec 04, 2020
Go out and break girls’ hearts. Boat singled and married break their hearts to pieces. Start from mynd44 and down to vickyrotex, ajepako, fatymore, Folake4u, funkebabee, bola146, seunmohmoh and all others if possible include your landlord’s wives and children. Be very brutal with anything skirt
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by mariahAngel(f): 11:14pm On Dec 04, 2020
Bigggloadofcum:
Just wake up every morning then scream

FVCK Y'ALL BITCHES. It works magic. Trust me

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 11:14pm On Dec 04, 2020
Time will heal you.
Just help yourself get back on your feet

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 11:15pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:


Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...

You are not meant for each other, thats is why you cheated on her so that she can leave you and someone actually meant for you will come. Push forward, no regret, time to develop yourself in new things. When you are successful, girls will be flinging round you. Dont you just stay there in self pity or suicidal. Be a man and learn to be alone without depending on a woman or anyone whatsoever

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by surebona(m): 11:15pm On Dec 04, 2020
Tab4kids:


Let me tell you a story. I hope it helps.

So I just starting serving when i met him, not long after we started dating, I really fell in love with him. Some months after a very minute misunderstanding came up and the guy threatened to dump my as$. Come and see crying and beggin. He ghosted me for like 2 months. I couldn’t just imagine what my life would be without him. Those ‘little misunderstanding ‘ quarrels and ghosting didn’t just stop it, it continued and I would always beg or he would just come back after ghosting me and I would accept. This guy has ghosted me for a whole year before.

I was wounding myself and I didn’t even know. I spent like a year plus after service looking for a job, used my savings frm ppa to start something small, later God willing, he gave me a testimony. I took my mind completely off him and got very busy with creating wealth and carving an inch for myself. He probably realized this and blurted out was one day, in his usual breakup manner which i was now very used to,that I don’t respect because i am now ‘independent’. I told him not being with him or thinking about him has been the best thing that has evrr happened to me, because it gave me time to focus and stop chasing after a relationship that wqs never meant to be.


You just get busy. Getting busy takes your mind off the failure of a relationship and make you realize you have a lot to achieve as a person for yourself

Thanks alot

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by EdoFirstBorn(m): 11:15pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

Kai all these kpomo men wey dey everywhere
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by mariahAngel(f): 11:17pm On Dec 04, 2020
debbydams:
it okay I will.. But u have to work it out self.. D0nt underate yourself dont look down on yourself.. Your body is. Complete u are a fine man �..com'on forget her.. U will meet someone beta dan her x100

smiley

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Paperworka: 11:17pm On Dec 04, 2020
Abeg leave that girl go hustle joor! angry angry angry

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by joe4christ(m): 11:18pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:


Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...

You're completely a simp. A girl broke up with youz cos u cheated? Damn Niggar!
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Alexaonfleek: 11:20pm On Dec 04, 2020
Nazgul:

Suicide what....don't say that again. You want to kill yourself over a woman who has made it crystal clear that it's over between you too. Haba don't say that again.

[s][/s]One of the best way to make your ex regret leaving you is to work hard and attain massive success[s][/s]. She would sit in agony and regret why she left you. So begin your journey to the top, and forget about her. When you get to the top everyone including her would celebrate your success.

Good luck
una nor go ever let una ex rest with all these revenge.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Obason22(m): 11:20pm On Dec 04, 2020
She moved away to make away for ur success.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by onadana: 11:20pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

You will be fine.Time heals all things.The fastest way is to fill your heart with the words and thoughts of God,renew your mind.Listen to Christian messages, read your bible,pray.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by mewenu: 11:22pm On Dec 04, 2020
You will be fine , just try and get busy.
Had gone through such lately but better now.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by PeachtreeReside(f): 11:23pm On Dec 04, 2020
Take it a day at a time.
You will be fine eventually.

Don't indulge in negative activities.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by lilyheaven: 11:26pm On Dec 04, 2020
Have you ever lost a loved ones ?
How did you deal with the pain?
Cry as much as you can, but one day you won’t even remember how her face looks like.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by debbydams(f): 11:26pm On Dec 04, 2020
Preetti:
Someone cheated and you're saying he would meet someone better than her. No he can never meet someone better than her, he would meet a girl as cheap as himself then they can freely cheat on one another
so op cheated on his gf.. M confused � o..

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Indigine689: 11:27pm On Dec 04, 2020
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surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
you need jesus ,only him can help you through

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by baby124: 11:27pm On Dec 04, 2020
How can you date somebody’s daughter for 6yrs and have the guts to complain about heartbreak Some people that started dating when you started have kids that are 5yrs! It’s like something is wrong with you. Rubbish post. If you know you are not ready for marriage don’t use one yeye relationship to hold anybody’s daughter!

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by jasman1: 11:27pm On Dec 04, 2020
She finally received some sense after wasted years with a confused dude. I wish her well
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Coolbadguy: 11:27pm On Dec 04, 2020
Take heart my guy just put your trust and hope in God in time like this, be around people and make sure you don't stay alone, seek counseling and advice from a counselor or a pastor or friends that can help you get over it and seek God for direction and help because he is the only one that make you get out of this easily.
Once again make sure you go out all the time and talk with your friends they will help you in process of getting out.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by LordVaiki: 11:28pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
Go smoke some weed and you will realize she was never the best thing that happened to you grin
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by debbydams(f): 11:28pm On Dec 04, 2020
debbydams:
so op cheated on his gf.. M confused � o..
forget her forcus on making more money ladies will fall � in place..
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by U2ice(m): 11:28pm On Dec 04, 2020
thatsleepboy1:
buy a thick towel and soak it inside hot oil and use it to massage your chest.

This one off me grin grin
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by BarrElChapo(m): 11:29pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:


How can I mean nothing to her after those years


How can she mean nothing to you after those undecided why did you break her and her trust by cheating ?

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