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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by generationz(f): 5:32pm On Dec 08, 2020
LagosInter:


Genotype and small ish bro. We still talk, i still send her money sef

Aww, that's sad.
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by musicwriter(m): 6:56pm On Dec 08, 2020
slyfoxxjoe:
Not everything Is spiritual. She obviously liked you because of your looks and you liked her for the spending...It was never deep. After months of not taking care of yourself and dedicating your life and energy to just satisfying her in bed, it obviously took a tool on your body.

This was a relationship destined to fail from the start but you both got into it at the time out of desperation and selfish interests. Now that this interests no longer align (her money finished and you stared looking haggard) the “love” has naturally died. Move on with your life and make better choices in women next time. Never get into a relationship out of financial desperation, Especially as a man. It never ends well for us.

Don’t blame the poor girl. She is a ho but she really did try for you. Your mistake was leaving everything you had to follow her.

And none is ever spiritual. Not one thing is spiritual.

There's nothing spiritual at all in the world........ or rather, what you call ''spiritual'' could be explained by metaphysics. The girl had her interest, which is finding a cool headed guy she loves in a place of scarcity for such men. The guy too had his own interest, which is finding a girl to truly love him and taking care of him despite her type of business.

Even if the a so called runsgirl goes to babalawo to get some ''spiritual'' powers to marry a man, she'll still have to fulfill the task of luring the man with her womanly skills. It is in that process of genuinely loving the man to the max that the jazz works. If a woman loves you and you know she genuinely love you; what else are you supposed to do as a man? Doesn't nature mandate that you should love her back?

The jazz can't work by just getting it and doing no work at all to make it work. The jazz works when you have put in emotion+work because at that point you'll be working at the frequency for obtaining that which you desire. Nature would then have no objection than give you what you want.

In case you still doesn't understand....... If you go to a different hotel and script this same story with another bar man (in same condition the OP was when he worked at the bar), and have a girl act out the script, doing what the girl in this story did, the same thing would most likely happen. They''ll both fall in love!. You can replicate it as many times as you want and they'll most likely fall in love.

Jazz is not spiritual, its natural. Ancient people studied how nature works and tried to replicate it as a science. That science could fool the mind but the knowledge has been largely lost and its what we call jazz today.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by david102(m): 7:26pm On Dec 08, 2020
rowland545:
u r right bro....everything u wrote from top to bottom is the truth...

I also have this girl she is a virgin..I think she is just 20 years of age....the kind of love she has for ehh I can't describe it...

She came over to d house last week and we were smooching and I got hard she was not ready to loose it but if I had insisted she would have ...

I just told her she should let me put it in just small DAT I won't disvirgin her and she trusted me and agreed....nah so I take put just d head ooo and she was so wet... DT I even released.

And she went home a virgin... I'm happy she is happy... ..d greatest satisfaction u can get from sex is doing it wit a woman who is into u...no matter how small ur dick is she will still be satisfied... U can't get this from a call girl
bro she could get pregnant without deep penetration.
You may not believe, but I'll see your trend in few months time on how it is possible to get pregnant without penetration ���
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by rowland545(m): 8:04pm On Dec 08, 2020
david102:

bro she could get pregnant without deep penetration.
You may not believe, but I'll see your trend in few months time on how it is possible to get pregnant without penetration ���
which kind prayer b DAT...I did not pour inside her...I poured it on her body...


Except u wan to see a thread were u can get pregnant without Cumming inside
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by rafosky1: 8:20pm On Dec 08, 2020
As i got to that place of 300k, a house and relocating to Benin with her, i just fell down laughing as i know my brother abhago ugbo ndeoshi. lol...
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by adeheritage: 9:24pm On Dec 08, 2020
Monjerk:


Just tell me you are joking.

@OP please ignore this advice.

Actually wasn't joking.


The good work God started through you must continue, but it works best if you have a good economic plan for yourself.

She was good to you,

On a most serious note, if both of you are medically OK, chose to plan together and settle down.

Dem no dey put friendship for CV
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by brain54(m): 11:28pm On Dec 08, 2020
TOPCRUISE:
Olosho business is booming in Lagos. Girls into it call it different names They don't call it prostitution. They will give you vague descriptions if you ask them what they do for a living. I can't just trust any girl in Lagos when it comes to relationship and sex.
met a stripper one time in Ikeja...she confided in me she make at least 25k every night...I was dumb founded... my head burst... those people make a hell of cash daily from olosho business.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by kreezy(m): 11:37pm On Dec 08, 2020
musicwriter:


And none is ever spiritual. Not one thing is spiritual.

There's nothing spiritual at all in the world........ or rather, what you call ''spiritual'' could be explained by metaphysics. The girl had her interest, which is finding a cool headed guy she loves in a place of scarcity for such men. The guy too had his own interest, which is finding a girl to truly love him and taking care of him despite her type of business.

Even if the a so called runsgirl goes to babalawo to get some ''spiritual'' powers to marry a man, she'll still have to fulfill the task of luring the man with her womanly skills. It is in that process of genuinely loving the man to the max that the jazz works. If a woman loves you and you know she genuinely love you; what else are you supposed to do as a man? Doesn't nature mandate that you should love her back?

The jazz can't work by just getting it and doing no work at all to make it work. The jazz works when you have put in emotion+work because at that point you'll be working at the frequency for obtaining that which you desire. Nature would then have no objection than give you what you want.

In case you still doesn't understand....... If you go to a different hotel and script this same story with another bar man (in same condition the OP was when he worked at the bar), and have a girl act out the script, doing what the girl in this story did, the same thing would most likely happen. They''ll both fall in love!. You can replicate it as many times as you want and they'll most likely fall in love.

Jazz is not spiritual, its natural. Ancient people studied how nature works and tried to replicate it as a science. That science could fool the mind but the knowledge has been largely lost and its what we call jazz today.



I hope you meet something that will almost kill you spiritually and then you would know what to do.
Them noor dey tell person.
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by macho44(m): 12:19am On Dec 09, 2020
Watersly:
.... Whr in Ajegunle is it face 2,wilmer or jejelaye
Bros u be LEGEND!!! JejeLaiye that year, we dey always like pass that street if we dey return from school.
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by RioCarputo(m): 7:25am On Dec 09, 2020
sharpwriter:

Kai.... Na God save you o
boss naso oooo.person have to learn lesson o

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by overdrive(m): 7:39am On Dec 09, 2020
Mineisgrace:
This is quite a story but I think she wanted the best for you. No woman wants a sit at home hubby.


Hello I want to ask you about something,how can I reach you?
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by mekzyjoe(m): 9:01am On Dec 09, 2020
nnamdiosu:


1. She made him leave a honest paying job with false compliments that he was better than it

2. She made a man relocate from his location without thinking properly.

3. She was rendering him as a sex machine...just eat and sleep with her

(This are just the physical demerits. I dont want to even start with the spiritual part)
Nnamdi leave all dis unnecessary topics n go complete ur topics that are left untouched..we need more bro
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by nnamdiosu(m): 9:33am On Dec 09, 2020
mekzyjoe:

Nnamdi leave all dis unnecessary topics n go complete ur topics that are left untouched..we need more bro

Lol. Ok sir grin grin
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by musicwriter(m): 10:29am On Dec 09, 2020
kreezy:


I hope you meet something that will almost kill you spiritually and then you would know what to do.
Them noor dey tell person.

For your information, my father lived and died as a native doctor, always preparing jazz for people. I can't count how many times I killed goats and fowl for sacrifice but even as a kid I was inquisitive enough to just think about what he was doing and I understood how it works. Its mental!. All is mind, the universe is mental.

At his old age he said the Gods has chosen me to come to the village and take over the enterprise. I made a bet with him. I told them to tell him that I am not coming unless he use the jazz to bring me home. Old man prove your jazz and I'll believe you. Guess what? He began giving excuses until he came here in Lagos wanting to see me. They told me he's in Lagos and I told them to inform him that the challenge remains, and that he should use his jazz to make me to come and see him since he was nearby. He went back to the village depressed and I never saw him. He worked on it for 25 years until he died and I never saw him again. His jazz didn't work on me because I know how it works. Now, everybody in the family knows that jazz doesn't work and that's exactly what I wanted to prove to everyone. My next move would be to explain to everyone that its the same with Jesus, Jehovah, Muhammad, Allah. I tried to explain part of it on this thread https://www.nairaland.com/4892922/message-native-doctors-ritualists-science

Sorry, but no matter what I say, I may not help you understand this because this's the real SALVATION that only very few people would experience.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by kreezy(m): 10:46am On Dec 09, 2020
musicwriter:


For your information, my father lived and died as a native doctor, always preparing jazz for people. I can't count how many times I killed goats and fowl for sacrifice but even as a kid I was inquisitive enough to just think about what he was doing and I understood how it works. Its mental!. All is mind, the universe is mental.

At his old age he said the Gods has chosen me to come to the village and take over the enterprise. I made a bet with him. I told them to tell him that I am not coming unless he use the jazz to bring me home. Old man prove your jazz and I'll believe you. Guess what? He began giving excuses until he came here in Lagos wanting to see me. They told me he's in Lagos and I told them to inform him that the challenge remains, and that he should use his jazz to make me to come and see him since he was nearby. He went back to the village depressed and I never saw him. He worked on it for 25 years until he died and I never saw him again. His jazz didn't work on me because I know how it works. Now, everybody in the family knows that jazz doesn't work and that's exactly what I wanted to prove to everyone. My next move would be to explain to everyone that its the same with Jesus, Jehovah, Muhammad, Allah. I tried to explain part of it on this thread https://www.nairaland.com/4892922/message-native-doctors-ritualists-science

Sorry, but no matter what I say, I may not help you understand this because this's the real SALVATION that only very few people would experience.

So you think we just got to earth by wind?
The people that die, where do they go?
Why is that scientist can go beyound space?
How does the blind receive his sight back ?
All these are just nothing but a joke to you?
I went for a job Interview and before going I prayed and I understood the path of righteousness . I was denied that job only for to get home and start crying and yelling at GOD for failing me . Only to realise a bigger opportunity which I wasn't expecting came for me the following week. You believe what you believe brother but don't change people's opinion about GOD. You are not the first to embark on this path neither would ya be the last .
Its up to you if you believe or not .

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by musicwriter(m): 11:24am On Dec 09, 2020
kreezy:


So you think we just got to earth by wind?
The people that die, where do they go?
Why is that scientist can go beyound space?
How does the blind receive his sight back ?
All these are just nothing but a joke to you?
I went for a job Interview and before going I prayed and I understood the path of righteousness . I was denied that job only for to get home and start crying and yelling at GOD for failing me . Only to realise a bigger opportunity which I wasn't expecting came for me the following week. You believe what you believe brother but don't change people's opinion about GOD. You are not the first to embark on this path neither would ya be the last .
Its up to you if you believe or not .

And I was thinking you're an adult.

Good luck with you're belief.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by ZaRuleOfLaw: 11:24pm On Dec 09, 2020
Mtvbaseng:


I'm beginning to suspect u know this story personally, but if you are a total stranger then u are wrong

bro, someone is deleting your posts on the Yahoo story. I suggest you create a free blog and mention us to continue the story. when one door closes, another one opens. thumbs up
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by premierlead: 6:55am On Dec 10, 2020
Where is always righteousness89 when you need him the most?
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 8:00am On Dec 10, 2020
ZaRuleOfLaw:


bro, someone is deleting your posts on the Yahoo story. I suggest you create a free blog and mention us to continue the story. when one door closes, another one opens. thumbs up


I have pasted part 3 and part 4 but the mods are deleting it .they also banned me from creating new topics ,quoting and liking comments....
I don't know what to do .. these mods are scanners too.. they are monitoring my every move .. .

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Tony142: 8:05am On Dec 10, 2020
Mtvbaseng:



I have pasted part 3 and part 4 but the mods are deleting it .they also banned me from creating new topics ,quoting and liking comments....
I don't know what to do .. these mods are scanners too.. they are monitoring my every move .. .



create another account, if they still ban it, still create another one again, continue creating different account until they get tired and free u
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 8:15am On Dec 10, 2020
Mtvbaseng:



I have pasted part 3 and part 4 but the mods are deleting it .they also banned me from creating new topics ,quoting and liking comments....
I don't know what to do .. these mods are scanners too.. they are monitoring my every move .. .
but why didn’t you write everything once and for all .. why you day do season film ?

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by dljbd1(m): 8:20am On Dec 10, 2020
Mtvbaseng:



I have pasted part 3 and part 4 but the mods are deleting it .they also banned me from creating new topics ,quoting and liking comments....
I don't know what to do .. these mods are scanners too.. they are monitoring my every move .. .

I hope you have the writeups duplicated. Cos I can't imagine having to rewrite such epistle.
I look forward to other parts. smiley

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by ZaRuleOfLaw: 8:43am On Dec 10, 2020



I have pasted part 3 and part 4 but the mods are deleting it .they also banned me from creating new topics ,quoting and liking comments....
I don't know what to do .. these mods are scanners too.. they are monitoring my every move .. .
a lot of funny characters on the forum. you can open a free blog on then post the complete story there and share the link with us
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Snowkel(m): 9:11am On Dec 11, 2020
dljbd1:


I hope you have the writeups duplicated. Cos I can't imagine having to rewrite such epistle.
I look forward to other parts. smiley
do u have the part 3 and 4 so u can send to my mail please
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by dljbd1(m): 12:11pm On Dec 11, 2020
Snowkel:

do u have the part 3 and 4 so u can send to my mail please
Unfortunately I don't any parts. I have only read 1 & 2 sef
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Mineisgrace(f): 12:24pm On Dec 11, 2020
overdrive:



Hello I want to ask you about something,how can I reach you?
Feel free, I am available here . Good morning.
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by overdrive(m): 12:53pm On Dec 11, 2020
Mineisgrace:

Feel free, I am available here . Good morning.

Good morning ma. I read one of your post in the past where you wrote about drugs for conception (something like that), can you shed more light on it. Thank you
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Ibrahim3307(m): 9:15pm On Dec 11, 2020
Preshieben:
you want me to admit that I'm an olosho?


Okay 1.5mil....a night
i am interested
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Mineisgrace(f): 7:55am On Dec 12, 2020
overdrive:


Good morning ma. I read one of your post in the past where you wrote about drugs for conception (something like that), can you shed more light on it. Thank you
quote me with the post. Can't recall
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Stainlezzking: 9:14pm On Dec 12, 2020
Snowkel:

do u have the part 3 and 4 so u can send to my mail please

Bro did he send it to you
I literally created an account just so I can reach him ( mtvbaseng ) .. Do you have a way to contact him
I really want to read the complete, maybe he should post it somewhere

Nairaland mods should let him please

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Snowkel(m): 10:25pm On Dec 12, 2020
Stainlezzking:


Bro did he send it to you
I literally created an account just so I can reach him ( mtvbaseng ) .. Do you have a way to contact him
I really want to read the complete, maybe he should post it somewhere

Nairaland mods should let him please
I'm not sure they will
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by ledaman: 12:13am On Dec 13, 2020
Madman what was your own contributions to the Lady's life? Nothing only banging her and collecting freebies from her. God punish that your mouth for saying you were under spell idiota! undecided

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