SILENTandSMART2:



Bro i jusss try to calm down sha


But the truth is i don't take dat girl serious jare , if the story is true i will never say dat


But nah there backyard you dey life ?


Anyway all is sir

Fvckhypocrite:
huh

SILENTandSMART2:


nah "live" i wan type ooo

soulstalker:
there's always a second chance over and over again till u get it right.
Think about it...

Donspicey:


No be one day Job oooooo......


First tin first u go gv ur sef brk frm love matters....

tobechi74:
Stand in love

Do not fall in love

Fvckhypocrite:
I knw, me sef no be wetin i wan write be that na modified i do wey make we jus write huh

soulstalker:
For u guys bashing the op, these is a faceless forum, everyone are sharing their life experiences either it true or false, we have to encourage ourselves, and not humiliate. We don't know what anyone is nursing underneath. And ur candid advice won't remove shishi from ur pocket, so let's be real and behave like human created in God's image. #Peace

BaddieFreak:


Hmm. There is no second chance here since I don't even have one chance. I have never been in love. Though I have some few male friends that I like but love no.

BaddieFreak:


Hmm. There is no second chance here since I don't even have one chance. I have never been in love. Though I have some few male friends that I like but love no.

Fvckhypocrite:
Bro her stroy is true

bro Keep the gyal well ,people like her are rare

soulstalker:
bro, u are mixing this up already. What do u mean by keep her well? Am i a keeper?

Fvckhypocrite:
I thnk say u don shoot ur shot and una don dey yarn together na em make i say make u dey serious with her

soulstalker:
nah! Am not sure she's into that. She hasn't been replying my mails sef, i think i messed up sha

BaddieFreak:
I was molested as a kid when I was six by a grown man 45-50 years. Before that incident, my father had left my mom when she was pregnant with me.

So I grew up without a father. I only grew up with my step dad who also harrased me sexually and regularly beat my mom to stupor. I got disgusted by any male, regardless of their age, after that. When I was in secondary school, a boy had a crush on me and confessed, and I hated him for that.

Anyone who confessed his love to me would disgust me. As I grew older and reached my teenage years, my friends would start talking about boys, and I would get left out since the topic wouldn’t interest me and I would walk out of the conversation.

As time passed, my desire to be in a relationship grew, but I couldn’t find a stunning guy I’d like to be involved with.

So I tried to start a relationship with men. I met this entrepreneur who made a decent living, had a 10/10 personality, is accepting, loving, responsible, initiative, young, rich, works out, has a six-pack, eats healthy food, travels but I couldn't feel any thing for him so I left.

I met another guy like that. He was arrogant and proud and was used to women chasing after him. I liked his carefree personality but disliked his irresponsible ways. He was more like a typical hooligan, too immature and irresponsible.

Even though I liked him, I decided that I wouldn’t date him since I thought being in a relationship would force me to be vulnerable and I wasn’t ready to be vulnerable with anyone, so I left him.

I met one or two handsome guys who were extremely rude and arrogant, self-centered, and expect the world to revolve around them. I immediately dismissed them.


I am surprised by women who fall in love with every single guy they meet all the time. Does anyone have a similar experience? How do you treat my case?

soulstalker:
u should try love to someone again, u will need it at d long run. Not all men are the same, likewise d women. My mom once told me a very emotional story about herself. I cried while listening to her, but here she is today, becuz she continued to give herself a second chance. Baddiefreak, pls never give up. Give love a chance in ur life, u can't act becuz of all u heard or seen on social media. But only giving this advice because am a new friend who wants to see happy always. I can tell u d story about my mom, if u wanna cry, lmao..

Sarita01:


you're truly a brave and strong woman,and Its sad you had to pass through all that at such a young age.
Regarding your question,I think there are people like you,I for one can't love,love comes with a lot of rules and regulations that I can't adhere to,I have problems with commitment, though I don't know the source of my problem,but I think yours is psychological and would advice u see a therapist. The difference between yours and mine is you're more open minded to love while I'm not.

BaddieFreak:
I was molested as a kid when I was six by a grown man 45-50 years. Before that incident, my father had left my mom when she was pregnant with me.

So I grew up without a father. I only grew up with my step dad who also harrased me sexually and regularly beat my mom to stupor. I got disgusted by any male, regardless of their age, after that. When I was in secondary school, a boy had a crush on me and confessed, and I hated him for that.

Anyone who confessed his love to me would disgust me. As I grew older and reached my teenage years, my friends would start talking about boys, and I would get left out since the topic wouldn’t interest me and I would walk out of the conversation.

As time passed, my desire to be in a relationship grew, but I couldn’t find a stunning guy I’d like to be involved with.

So I tried to start a relationship with men. I met this entrepreneur who made a decent living, had a 10/10 personality, is accepting, loving, responsible, initiative, young, rich, works out, has a six-pack, eats healthy food, travels but I couldn't feel any thing for him so I left.

I met another guy like that. He was arrogant and proud and was used to women chasing after him. I liked his carefree personality but disliked his irresponsible ways. He was more like a typical hooligan, too immature and irresponsible.

Even though I liked him, I decided that I wouldn’t date him since I thought being in a relationship would force me to be vulnerable and I wasn’t ready to be vulnerable with anyone, so I left him.

I met one or two handsome guys who were extremely rude and arrogant, self-centered, and expect the world to revolve around them. I immediately dismissed them.


I am surprised by women who fall in love with every single guy they meet all the time. Does anyone have a similar experience? How do you treat my case?

Fvckhypocrite:
I thnk say u don shoot ur shot and una don dey yarn together na em make i say make u dey serious with her

Sarita01:


you're truly a brave and strong woman,and Its sad you had to pass through all that at such a young age.
Regarding your question,I think there are people like you,I for one can't love,love comes with a lot of rules and regulations that I can't adhere to,I have problems with commitment, though I don't know the source of my problem,but I think yours is psychological and would advice u see a therapist. The difference between yours and mine is you're more open minded to love while I'm not.

BaddieFreak:


It is not easy like you pointed out. I have tried so many times and it didn't work out well. People don't understand when I tell them that I don't know how to love, it is strange but true.

EmmaNuella77:
My dear, I have a similar experience.
Except I wasn't molested.

I just find it hard to fall in love
After I broke up with my first ever boyfriend. Its been hard
. I'm in love today and out of love tomorrow.
I'm 19 tho.
My friends keep asking me If I'm not of age and what not.. The matter tie wrapper o

soulstalker:
am not understanding oo, u claimed u never fell in love? But u have a son already. Did u suddenly become a modern day virgin mary, mother of jesus, lol. Am just curious

SILENTandSMART2:



the thing tire me my brother

SILENTandSMART2:



the thing tire me my brother