cococandy:


Exactly. I wouldn’t even be surprised if this wasn’t a new incident. Sometimes they find old topics on similar incidents and bring it to the front page so that boys can jubilate about another dead Nigerian woman.

Seun and his MODs really know how to milk the hate his male forum members have for women. Especially women abroad whom they can’t intimidate with their “send her packing”. That hate is so deep they don’t hesitate to come feast on any topic that shows something bad happening to one of such women. It draws traffic.

Na to celebrate for days.

pocohantas:


Nigerian men always talking of foreign women, but never talking of foreign men.

Always comparing Nigerian women with foreign women, but never themselves with the men.

Saao:
maybe the boys gather to fight him in solidarity with their mum. What most men goes through in the hands of women, is only God that knows.

Kewtt:

You said it all. Men stop seeing your spouse as investments

pocohantas:


You went down too na. Why don’t you just marry foreign women? I thought foreign women start rushing you guys from the airport?

Ruined indeed. Shebi na una them go profile as hoodlums all over the world.

cococandy:
so much to unpack in the lameness

cococandy:
These kids are deeply bitter. Wow.
Village people on steroids. See them hating.

Of All the people who kill their spouses, from different walks of life, different professions, different religious and ethnic backgrounds.
But the second it’s one them and a Nigerian woman involved, you see their bitterness and hate shining through.

Anyway the dumbass husband is lucky he’s dead too. Sounds like a win to you people?

Yankee101:
If you must marry a naija babe here, infact any babe here she must bring in 50 50 or more self, if not they can switch on you and take everything

Imagine, Kobe Bryant is dead and his wife inherits everything

The parents that paid for his Jordans, training, feeding, boarding and upbringing get nothing, except at the mercy of the wife. And the dad did not attend his wedding cos he felt it was a wrong choice.

Ask yourself why do successful naija men shoot their wives here. Cos she wants to take everything. Reduce his 30 years of hustle to nothing. Imagine having millions, after a divorce she take the biggest house, cars and all the children. Abeg where do you start? For some men, sometimes it's not even the money. The woman will turn the kids against him and take sole custody.

Where do you begin at 40, 50 or 60?

Does not justify the killing of course.

Stop going to naija just to pick a wife if your sole motive is cooking, cleaning, sex and obedience. It will fade away once she discovers her freedoms here. But marry an independent woman, an equal, from anywhere at anytime and it won't matter.

Imagine marrying a judge, doctor or lawyer who cooks for you and the children amd still cleans the house. That's sexy as fvck. Plus even if she wants to divorce, she's probably as rich as you or close. So no hard feelings. If you share your joint property you still get to keep yours.

Plut01:

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And when death comes, people like me will lend out our hands in honour and say, welcome!


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pocohantas:


I know some too. Educated with submissive foreign women.

CSTRR:
Asians travel abroad too.

Indians, Chinese and Koreans rise to the level of heights Nigerian women dream Of and yet it is always the Nigerian women trying to prove something stupid.

A man that brings you to America likes you.

It's for you to put your head down and remember you are in a foreign land.

It's not the land of your ancestors. You are to maximise the opportunity for the well-being of your seeds.


Dimwits.

Arsenate:

Yeah but these women take the men's kids and properties; everything they worked for their entire lives. The men have nothing to live for as they are usually in their fifties. Can't start life all over again so only the option is to take the women down with them. Some men call the cops on themselves and remain remorseless several years later. Convinced they did the right and I can't blame them. A man with nothing to lose is very dangerous.

pipz:



Lol! I’m a Nigerian married to a Nurse and living in Texas. Reading this thread together with my wife. I looked at her after this comment and we both burSt out laughing. We are blessed and covered by the blood of Jesus, no evil shall prevail over our lives nor any more persons. We won’t hear these kinds of news again in Jesus name. May the Lord console this family and keep the kids under his grace. Amen

cococandy:


That’s not true.

LoveJesus87:
and there is no way you can contact the man and expose the mistake he is about to make to him?

lightpurple:

If the man can’t help himself by rising to the top as well, then he is a liability and a complete f00l

crackhouse:
This man must have pass through hell before he took this decision. God help us to get good woman and not the one that will cause us sorrow.

lightpurple:

You should see Nigerian men here. So disgustingly unbearable. If not for the fact that Nigeria is not habitable to a point, after tasting how easy life in he US is, most of those so called Nigerian women that were brought here by their husbands would have gone back to Nigeria within months of their arrival

angelfallz:


Lol, the problem is not coming to 9ja to pick a wife. It's in the character of the wife. A woman changing because of some perceived freedom is a white lie.
What freedom if I may ask is she enjoying there that she isn't enjoying here in 9ja?

Your thinking is all wrong in the first place. It's just like saying a man that was humble when he was poor all of a sudden started behaving arrogantly when he became rich, its a white lie.
The man was never humble in the first place.
So too the woman, the perceived freedom did not change her. Rather it brought out her true colours.

pipz:



Lol! I’m a Nigerian married to a Nurse and living in Texas. Reading this thread together with my wife. I looked at her after this comment and we both burSt out laughing. We are blessed and covered by the blood of Jesus, no evil shall prevail over our lives nor any more persons. We won’t hear these kinds of news again in Jesus name. May the Lord console this family and keep the kids under his grace. Amen

jedisco:


Hehe... It's not just a Nigerian woman thing
Blacks in the West are underrepresented in the higher paying fields. A good majority of those nurses earn higher than their husbands and finance the home.

Nigerian ladies can push it but same also the men. If a man's reason for marrying a Nigerian lady and bringing her to the West was so she would be at his beck and call and do as he pleases then he's better of marrying a White and seeing how much of those she'd tolerate.

There are alot of happily married Nigerians abroad (seemingly). My point is that it goes both ways.

CSTRR:

He is probably not educated.
Besides he is in Nigeria.

A Nigerian man in America with a good degree will do you the favour of marrying from NIgeria when there are options everywhere in America.

Options that are not beyond his reach.

And you still won't appreciate.

Nigerian women in Canada are crying.

All the good Nigerian men they know have been snapped up by foreigners.

CSTRR:

Nigerian immigrant life is nonsense.
Be specific.

Indian women are CEO of fortune 500 companies, yet they don't misbehave at home.

Ordinary Nigerian Nurse would think she has arrived.

aribisala0:
Well pray it does not come in a way that lets your shooting lessons go to waste. Surely you must display your hard earned skills

hustla:


I think many don't know... Or they allow the women to guilt trip them into not taking one

I am sorry but I can't marry abroad without going the prenup way, no be me person wey I bring from naija go ruin


Either prenup or I go the baby mama route

Arsenate:

Or more likely, Nigerian women will become infamous for being awful, terrible wives, further decreasing their already low SMV in the dating market. Nigerian men aren't having any issues when they marry women of other nationalities, even other Africans. See?

Arsenate:

Or more likely, Nigerian women will become infamous for being awful, terrible wives, further decreasing their already low SMV in the dating market. Nigerian men aren't having any issues when they marry women of other nationalities, even other Africans. See?

delishpot:


Is request of being respectful and loyal to wife emasculation? Cos last time I checked I did not say women should be disrespectful and disloyal

LoveJesus87:
is the same order true for Europe because me I no like America before rara