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Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

Sanchez01:
SMH...

Whatever she did or said before she met the OP is none of his business. He has shown signs of a cheat? No. Has she been caught cheating? No. Were there indications of cheating in the OP's tale? No. The lady's only crime is that she replied a Christmas compliment and it is a big deal? For the first time, I am almost tempted to say there is a problem with the average male psyche. You are someone's ex and I believe you still communicate with your exes or talk once in a while. Exes are humans and not necessarily enemies. They only pose a threat when they attempt to jailbreak your present happiness. I have had exes call me these past few days to wish me the best of the season. No big deal.

Although I understand some people don't handle ex issues well. That's for them to contend with but just because someone responds to an ex's holiday message shouldn't be a big deal, let alone one worthy of a thread. The OP is insecure and there is no need to sugar coat this.

pretydiva:
Including your sisters

pretydiva:
Including your sisters

Kapilta:
Nah he's neither insecure nor naive. Op is just mad and stupid. He's a useless attention seeker.

Sonnobax15:
Can you withstand the fact that your girl keeps on replying her ex chat,on a regular basis ?
Before you judge others,try imagine yourself being the one who's in the op shoes..
No man can take it,be him an alpha or a beta male.... sometime,I do pretend as if I ain't angry when my gf replies or receive calls from other guys,but deep down,I dey vex and she knows it..

Icedplane:
Whenever we are having a discussion she always have a way of bringing him in the picture.
I personally ask her to block the guy on her phone that got missing. Now I got her another phone. She keeps watching the guy's status, and even replied his chat.
This was the same person we blocked.
What height of insult is that?

Icedplane:
Whenever we are having a discussion she always have a way of bringing him in the picture.
I personally ask her to block the guy on her phone that got missing. Now I got her another phone. She keeps watching the guy's status, and even replied his chat.
This was the same person we blocked.
What height of insult is that?

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

Icedplane:
Whenever we are having a discussion she always have a way of bringing him in the picture.
I personally ask her to block the guy on her phone that got missing. Now I got her another phone. She keeps watching the guy's status, and even replied his chat.
This was the same person we blocked.
What height of insult is that?

Icedplane:
Whenever we are having a discussion she always have a way of bringing him in the picture.
I personally ask her to block the guy on her phone that got missing. Now I got her another phone. She keeps watching the guy's status, and even replied his chat.
This was the same person we blocked.
What height of insult is that?

Kobicove:
What exactly is the offence here? Replying a season's greeting?

JustCruise:
Wait bro, you want to break up cos of a compliment?

Icedplane:
Whenever we are having a discussion she always have a way of bringing him in the picture.
I personally ask her to block the guy on her phone that got missing. Now I got her another phone. She keeps watching the guy's status, and even replied his chat.
This was the same person we blocked.
What height of insult is that?

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

neighbourhud:
For me, i will advice the girl to run for dear life. You sound convincingly, a jealous and insecure tyle.

Bro, you are the problem, not her. Work on yourself.

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

LaReinaa:
So she shouldn’t reply compliment of the season because she is your girlfriend not husband oooo..

Is she in a relationship with you or dictatorship

She is even begging you and you’re feeling like a demi god, please collect your phone and let the poor girl have peace..

Nah insecurity and sense of entitlement dey worry you

Icedplane:
Whenever we are having a discussion she always have a way of bringing him in the picture.
I personally ask her to block the guy on her phone that got missing. Now I got her another phone. She keeps watching the guy's status, and even replied his chat.
This was the same person we blocked.
What height of insult is that?

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done