ORIJIN201:
Be creative with your opening messages. She is likely to play along or she is just a sadist. Be different. Ditch the Hello, hey, hi and all those boolshit. She has the same messages in her dm in 100s!!!

Today on Tinder!

Smoov nigga... Mehhnn how can I get that sticker ?

Lemme call you Sir Harddon. This is the way we call people we respect and honour in my school fellowship. All I have to say is thank you.
I have read and digest the thread from page 1- 268 and I can Say you've change my mindset about how relationships and dating works.
Well...... My own story is that of a typical nice guy, always wanting to please them ladies and be good to them. Before now I had a girlfriend before I gained admission to school in 2016, but she broke up with me in 2018. Since then I have not be in a relationship. But I have four female friends that are close to me. They were use me for their advantage and I was Meeting their needs but they were not meeting mine.
So i started to question myself during this corona period and ASUU strike. I knew I was do things the wrong way cause I was not getting a result. Then I came in contact with this thread, and TRP and coupled with some books. Now I can say I'm delivered, once I was blind now I can see. Now I send less, I put my happiness first and I'm working to improve myself.
I can't wait for ASUU to call of this strike and lemme resume. I know am going to enjoy my 400l and 500l. Thank you Sir Harddon
N.B: there was where you said on the thread on whether you will live to see people ask you of your account number, there I just smile. I have the intention but not the capacity. But when I things change I will do something even though is as little as to recharge your phone.
Thank you once again for what you've done here. God bless you.

MikeGreat00:
Good afternoon house,


I started chatting this babe on dating site using d cf approach. She had 3 pix and wasnt smiling in all. I told her to try to laugh, she replied with ok. I realized d chat was becoming boring, so I stopped. I observed that after that she uploaded 4 more sexy pix eventho she wasnt smiling in most of them. I told her that I can see her smiling is coming up, and that she can do better. She replied in a way to put me off balance. "r u mad, who d fc.k r u to tell me what to do, u can delete me because I hate ur gut. "
I haven't replied yet, based on what I've read, I just smiled on seeing it. Hi @Harddon and other gurus in d building. Pls help with a way to respond.

What is with you and smile? Are you sure she is a female to start with. And for your info don’t take anyone you see on a date site serious. The only mind set you should go with in a date site is that I want to chat with someone, or I wanna book an olosho etc.
You don’t go telling people to smile.

In all honesty you should ignore her all together or give her some piece of you gut if you feel like.

If you wanna go soft then name it how rude she was and if she spit fire still then let fire roll. If not then maybe she could apologize. I don’t see the other way out.

Omooooo. I'm not done with the thread, just in page 93, I just decided to hail una and our boss @Harddon. my story is long o.
from childhood, treating a woman like a god has been drilled into my head, I even grew up with 4 sisters. so I was the dreaded nice guy from little. I was also shy, extremely shy. not to only girls but guys as well, but it was due to some psychological factors in my upbringing sha. All my life I've been in useless relationships, most were because they liked me, not because I liked them, but because they liked me. So last year I dated this girl in my dept at school. spoiler!! it has been the worst relationship of my life. she was among the general top5 hottest girl in the department (not to me though, she was way outside my 'type' of girls zone). I never really gave her much attention, majorly because she was light skinned, (they always seem to have this enormous ego that irritates me. ) So I noticed in yr 2 that she started making moves towards me. started talking to me all of a sudden, even collected my phone number and gave me hers without asking. I took it for greenlight and after a while of talking and meeting, she coerced me into asking her out( the hanty can play mind games ehn). That's where Hell's gate finally welcomed me. every week I was apologizing for one thing or the other. she would get angry for no reason and say that a girl doesn't need a reason to get angry and her boyfriend doesn't need to have a reason before apologizing. like an idiat, I continued apologizing, behaved like a needy fellow, I used to have a lot of girls I chat with before her, I ignored them all to focus on her, she made me stop hanging out with friends(I know, I'm a fool). she wasn't my spec so I wasn't even sexually attracted to her, and that made her pissed, wanted me to beg for a kiss, I didn't really care for one. we hugged only when I asked. she had no respect at all for me. we could be walking together and one of those boys like Harddon would call her and she would leave me waiting for minutes to talk to the guy( and I the fool would wait for 20mins while she flirted), she would tell me that so so so guy is chatting with her and their hitting it off. pick other guys calls in my presence and zone me out. once we had a dept party coming up. she said she wasn't going to attend. I begged her for weeks she refused. them one night while strolling, she picked a guy's call and he told her he was attending the party, after she hung up. she told me that she'll go to the party now cos of that guy. the guy is my friend now sef, he wants to avenge me muahahahaha. she continued all those beechy attitudes throughout the semester. then, I lost my dad during the holidays, I grew distant and she didn't even care.A month later i celebrated my 19th birthday, because I didn't message her first( yeah, she waits for me to message her before chatting, has only called me like 5 times) she didn't say pim. even though our dept group chat was spammed with birthday wishes. then by 10pm she sends me HBD (beeah). 2weeks later we resumed. lectures didn't start on time so we didn't meet. our hostels were beside each other, she didn't ask we meet and neither did i( her matter don tire me). so during fresher's introduction abi watin dem dey call am. I saw her with her friend. I waited till after and went to see her. she was talking to her friend and behaved like she didn't see me. her friend turned to me and greeted me (I and her friend had close matric no. so we were usually in the same lab groups, so we talked regularly) she just turned and eyed me up and down in disgust. I had been coming to school for two weeks and have been wearing new clothes, that day I decided to wear one of last years own. while she on the other hand was clad in tear rubber from up to down. she continued talking to her friend. I decided to wait for her, she must be in one of her moods(ode). after talking she told me to excuse her that she's not felling fine and wanted to go home. I told her to call me when she got home. 4hrs later no call, and her house is about 2hrs for school. I called her three times, mo answer. sent her an SMS and. WhatsApp message. came online at night and saw that she left the WhatsApp message on red. fuming, I wrote a long epistle complaining about her beechy attitude (immature, I know, but how she irked me). I ended the epistle with 'I may have low self esteem and all but I deserve way better than this'. my plan was to end the relationship depending on her response. her message was short and sweet. you do deserve more, I think we should end this, sorry for wasting your time(cheesus is lord). I replied alright, she replied fyn. no tears, I'm still mourning my dad and this yellow hued demon isn't worth my emotions. I had been saving for this cool gift for her birthday next month, I cancelled the order, took part of the money and bought bread with four eggs and viju milk. I am this person who posts a lot of memes on their status, I posted obe a few minutes after, a funny one. I made sure I didn't post anything about heartbreaks for months. about 2weeks after the break up I ran into her on a staircase. I adept at making people seem invisible behaved like I saw nothing. the look in her eyes was one of shock. like she's surprised I haven't spoken to her. I gained a little confidence and started chilling with girls wella. I noticed that she always looked up when a girl shouted my name. so fast forward to this year. all about improvement, for my shyness, I joined ushering dept in church to help cope with stage fright. it has helped a lot. 100% I don't even feel shy. my only problem is maintaining eye contact, still working on that. I focused on money, started a blog, making some success, started working out, making noticeable progress(I'm a fine boy on a normal day, even guys stare, older women give me the danm eyes (you know what I mean). average height and have this little ish with my teeth but, don't let it pull me down. my greatest improvement is stumbling into nairaland. I first found a Redpill thread, a good one. finished it, that's were I saw the link for this thread. the things I've learnt so far, Chai. it has upped my game. haven't started meeting women physically yet though, but my DMS are on faya. every week I get more girls for practicing. I've cut some off gan.one is in my church, away boning face when she see's me, I just flash my winning smile and pass by her( she got too comfortable with our chats. making me do all the work). I'm not successful with all though, but I don't let it bother me. there's one I ignored for weeks, she didn't message me too. I posted a Christmas greeting with me singing in a bass voice in the background (not too good though) and she messaged me in seconds. I will open it tomorrow( me sef dey craze small small). I just want to thank you boss man. by the time I'm done with this thread. them go hear am. I'm not really in support of hurting girls though, but I want that crazy ex to see what she missed out on treating me like filth(she still checks my status sef)

sorry it was so long o
when I think about that girl, vex dey posses me

merry Christmas gentlemen

congrats
Helios14 just incase you never see this thread sha https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

nobodii:
congrats
Helios14 just incase you never see this thread sha https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

Thanks mahn. I haven't seen it.

Kudos @ Harddon you really did a great job here.

......

Remmedy:
Hardon you are a good teacher but there's only one problem , I practice all you said but I end up single I am not regretting it 'I ask you out as a lady you begin to do Shakara I will just abandon you,I had this experience with 3 ladies this month once you snub my Whatsapp message for 3 hours I snub yours for 3 days sometimes I block you ... The redpills has swallowed me up ... small thing dey vex me for woman lol .... Hahaha I need help sha

It hasn't sinked yet; these drills. Yes, you are, still simply, putting new wine into old bottles.
Asking a gurl out? Nah, they ain't fooled by the new wine that the old bottle is spilling....

Get to the point, where this knowledge of the super you sinks deeply into your subconscious. Not just merely craming it.

By the way, if you fail in the lil ish called YOUR emotions, how can you succeed in the much ( life and ladies?).

This knowledge seeks to librate not make an angry mantis out of you.
Learn from ladies; how they con guys into buying them stuffs and sponsoring their lives and instead of getting angry, ask yourself simple questions when you are home: how do I become irresistible to ladies? how do i, with a lil smile or a sexy look, disarm them? How do I always have my way and have em at my whims and caprices?
Think up solutions, go into the world and filter out what works and what doesn't. ( with the help of this thread)


When you get to that point where ladies are glad to chat, talk and generally love to have you around no matter your side naunces, then and only then, are you truly on the true path.
Till then, keep learning and practicing.

Merry Christmas and a glorious prosperous 2021!

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Feronze:
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Alright, let's reduce volume then, shall we?

New Meets (sitting close to each other)

Me:

Hi, come a lil closer, I want to whisper something into your ears.

Harddon

Preparing for 2021

I remember when I purchased BANG RULE and ADVANCED BANG RULE, around 2016/17. It's like four years down the line, we've got to know women better and how to play with their psyche.

Rollo Tomassi in his book- Rationale male, once said and I quote "Be in Control of the frame but reject the impression you control it" he also said "The person with most power in a relationship is one that needs the other the least"

If you understand concept to you naturally get women to see you differently.

Below is one of chat I had with one sisi recently that's trying to get my attention. I still dey catch cruise.

HARDON you remember that year


Enjoy the cruise

Limitless72:
I remember when I purchased BANG RULE and ADVANCED BANG RULE, around 2016/17. It's like four years down the line, we've got to know women better and how to play with their psyche.


Enjoy the cruise

"Baddie"

Limitless72:
I remember when I purchased BANG RULE and ADVANCED BANG RULE, around 2016/17. It's like four years down the line, we've got to know women better and how to play with their psyche.

Rollo Tomassi in his book- Rationale male, once said and I quote "Be in Control of the frame but reject the impression you control it" he also said "The person with most power in a relationship is one that needs the other the least"

If you understand concept to you naturally get women to see you differently.

Below is one of chat I had with one sisi recently that's trying to get my attention. I still dey catch cruise.

HARDON you remember that year


Enjoy the cruise

please help your guy and send me advance bang rule. my email is a2tahir200@gmail.com

Fresh wine just dropped!

https://datingdrill.com/psychological-confidence-boosters/

It is an expository read.

Don't wait to be told.

HARDDON:
Fresh wine just dropped!

https://datingdrill.com/psychological-confidence-boosters/

It is an expository read.

Don't wait to be told.

Bro your site is not well optimized. What browser do you recommend for me to display your content perfectly? I used Chrome, UC browser and Opera touch and it's the same.

HARDDON:
Fresh wine just dropped!

https://datingdrill.com/psychological-confidence-boosters/

It is an expository read.

Don't wait to be told.

I was expecting to read some new datings tips but mehn, the write up is really the bomb. A good starter for the new year.

Great work Harddon. Now, can we go back to the drills�

Omox100000000 Harddon still dey update this place after how many years , bro you are too good and you changed my perspective a lot although I wasn’t that bad before I came across this thread but no nigga can ever say he hasn’t learned anything from youuu, I came across this thread during lockdown and had time to read everything. I advice y’all to read from 1- till d end o too much to learn from this boss I don Dey forget some of those pick up lines sef but yawa no Dey Tiri gbosa for Hardon no questions thread understood perfectly

Trex4:
Bro your site is not well optimized. What browser do you recommend for me to display your content perfectly? I used Chrome, UC browser and Opera touch and it's the same.

Ouch, guess it's because of the massive table and it occurred only on this post. I'd look into it.

thanks for bringing this to my attention. it renders well on laptops though.

MikeGreat00:


I was expecting to read some new datings tips but mehn, the write up is really the bomb. A good starter for the new year.

Great work Harddon. Now, can we go back to the drills�

The drills, sure. Remind me, where did we stop?

HARDDON:
Fresh wine just dropped!

https://datingdrill.com/psychological-confidence-boosters/

It is an expository read.

Don't wait to be told.

Wow. Reading that piece was as if am listening to my mentor again. Thanks. This is timely. I will start again with my plans and follow through and make the necessary adjustment. Gracia

They want to bill me this morning

Joeeasy:
They want to bill me this morning

Lol.... You use style japa. You represent!

Sir Harddon. you've got mail :PSir Harddon. you've got mail

Helios14:
Sir Harddon. you've got mail :PSir Harddon. you've got mail

Or should I post it here. it's not really personal, but it's kinda embarrassing.

Helios14:





Or should I post it here. it's not really personal, but it's kinda embarrassing.

Post it here please, so that we can all learn and give our advice too.

banjicom:


Post it here please, so that we can all learn and give our advice too.

okay, this is the mail I sent, I've edited a bit though


Sir Harddon, hope you're good. I recently started following your dating drills thread on NL and I need your help on something. I've been chatting with this girl for sometime now, I've been balancing the cocky, funny and seriousness well and I've been able to make her chat dirty. We've never met before, but it's certain we'll see this year. 


So we chat dirty sometimes and she says I make her wet an all that and she can't wait for us to meet. So the issue now is, when we meet, would sex on the first meeting be wise?

Also, I'm 21 but still a virgin(that's the embarrassing part), she's not. I've never told her that, but from our chat's I've assured her I can give her an orgasm, and she says she'll have to find out. 


I've read your drills on sex, about using the lips to explore her body and all that to build anticipation. But I would like to know if you have more tips I can use so that our first encounter would be truly memorable. 

it's not like I'm chasing sex or anything. but I'll be done with school soon, and I would prefer I lost it before then. most people think I'm a pro st it cos of the way I talk

P.s: I'm just interested in a friends with benefits relationship



Awaiting your response Sire