If you like go kill yourself for one person who doesn't value you.
Some men are more in tune with their feminine side than other men.

Guy try smoke weed, your beast mood will be activated

Nazgul:

Do you agreed to whatever she wants with little or no objection?

Does she find it very easy to manipulate you into doing her bidding regardless of what it costs you?

Do you apologize like a hopeless romantic over irrelevant issues between you two?

Do you find it very difficult to raise your voice at her and scold her for an action you know she's clearly wrong?

You do beg her every now and then for her love and affection?

Are you weak, and can't stand up for her publicly?

Do people manipulate you anyhow and you can't speak up?

Does she enjoy sex with you or do you just engage in it because you're lovers?

Have you ever borrowed money to give to her and you later told her about it?

Do you complain about loosing her a lot?

Does she consider you mature enough to share secrets with happens in her family?

If one or more of these questions is positive, then she's right.

You are on point babe!

Cyberterror:
She wants you to give her doggy style.

Very true.

Nazgul:

Do you agreed to whatever she wants with little or no objection?

Does she find it very easy to manipulate you into doing her bidding regardless of what it costs you?

Do you apologize like a hopeless romantic over irrelevant issues between you two?

Do you find it very difficult to raise your voice at her and scold her for an action you know she's clearly wrong?

You do beg her every now and then for her love and affection?

Are you weak, and can't stand up for her publicly?

Do people manipulate you anyhow and you can't speak up?

Does she enjoy sex with you or do you just engage in it because you're lovers?

Have you ever borrowed money to give to her and you later told her about it?

Do you complain about loosing her a lot?

Does she consider you mature enough to share secrets with happens in her family?

If one or more of these questions is positive, then she's right.

I know understand the part you said if he don borrow money for her and tell her . Is there any big deal ? Please enlighten me

You have only one problem

That problem is what Nigeria don't want to legalize

You need to always get your eyes dirty

Don't do drugs oo , smoke loud or Arizona but not s.k

S.k dey smell for body


Smoke loud and get your eyes dirty all the time , give your babe some to smoke as well , the love go tight gidi gan

Don't take alcohol oo , alcoholics don't think , only smoker think right

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.

Women don't like simps.


Take the Red Pill and you will be fine.

Be yourself man.
There's always a lady that suits you personality out there, look for her.

Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.

just look for the thread on redpill and digest it.

Toxic. Sensible girls leave such gas lighters with the speed of light.

Not to mention you will forever be playing games until you don’t even know who you’re anymore

SimpDetector:


Simp spotted.

Apologizing to a girl is simp behavior. Under no circumstance should you apologize to a girl. It sounds like bad advice but it works. Rather than apologize, you tease her. Or just deny her allegation with boldness and make her doubt her sanity. This makes her emotions go hay wire and as long as you are constantly stiring that pot of a girls emotions, she gets hooked to you more.

Contrary to what women say, they actually do not want your apology. It makes them look more in control and whenever a girl feels she is in control, she begins to lose attraction for you.

Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.

And this made front page

Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.

Never you change the way you were born because of one girl or woman. If she thinks you are too gentle, then let her fly. A girl that love you for your gentleman like nature will surely come your way.

Arckeen:
I know understand the part you said if he don borrow money for her and tell her . Is there any big deal ? Please enlighten me

Yes, just tell her that you don't have.

And if you must borrow, make sure it's something involving life and death, not to foot one of her materialistic demands.

If you're borrowing to foot her materialistic demands (which I'm strongly against) there's no point telling her, else might loose the little respect she has for you.

starzone20:

You are on point babe!

I'm a guy o not a babe.

Many of you are too agreeable.


Treating a woman right means also scolding her when she is wrong and praising her when she is right.

But una version of love get as he take be.

Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.

Don't mind her. You are a nice guy and there are some of us who prefer nice guys. Just keep being who you are.

SimpDetector:


Simp spotted.

Apologizing to a girl is simp behavior. Under no circumstance should you apologize to a girl. It sounds like bad advice but it works. Rather than apologize, you tease her. Or just deny her allegation with boldness and make her doubt her sanity. This makes her emotions go hay wire and as long as you are constantly stiring that pot of a girls emotions, she gets hooked to you more.

Contrary to what women say, they actually do not want your apology. It makes them look more in control and whenever a girl feels she is in control, she begins to lose attraction for you.

Ma nigga!!
Once my woman caught me on phone flirting...
I demanded an apology from her and it drove her mad...
I didn't speak to her for days till she apologized and we carried on..
No time for rubbish

NiceMen:


See, I know you are young and in experience in this relationship.

Let me point out to you that women, by default, are naturally built to repel men who are too easy on them. Like a yes, yes yes kind of man.

You will need to learn that all those niceness that you watch in movies displayed by men do not work with this gender in real world.

They like it when you are tough.

As a matter of fact, less works perfectly on them.

If you call her often and chat her often, u need to reduce it.

Make it a once a while kind of thing...

If being nice or soft to women in a relationship is profitable, i would be a billionaire by now but take it from someone that has walked through that path before.

Women don't appreciate men like you.

Now, Google " How to maintain and control a woman nairaland". A thread will pop up. You have to sit down and read every word of the author. In there you will see why being nice to women or soft does not favour a man like you.

Oga experience... Just imagine what women are turning concrete black men into... wtf??
It just made me remember my time in 200l where I was walking with my ex along our school road: I was confronted by one of these cultists boys and said I should stay clear off that babe, that she’s their capons babe. See, on a regular day if I had intentions of marrying her I wouldn’t even go ahead still. These “vagina people” will always give you a reason to die for them and the moment you back off they tag you weak...

Don’t ever conclude you’re weak especially if it’s coming from a woman. Never! They don’t choose the kind of man they want to be with. You’re the man, you decide the kind of family you want to groom.
But if you just want to fvck, then I have no advise for you

Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.

You can't fake being tough, however you can be stern , I guess you're the pleasing type not just with women but everyone , you prob don't have much confidence in yourself, and it shows when you talk to people because you don't want trouble. With time you will find that confidence it usually comes with a fulfilled life and goal. But if you wanna be tough, trust me hit the gym and take up boxing, that's what I intend to do, physical combat will make you more tough and vicious. Lol

Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.

You don't need to be taught on how to be tough

Life situations will teach you how to be tough

Overall 90% of girls on this planet earth don’t like nice guy you’re a big turnoff for them
Don’t treat any girl nicely
E get why

I strongly disagree with the apology part. Me, if you're too proud to apologize, I get turned off real fast. When you admit your faults and take responsibility, then you've got my loyalty.

SimpDetector:


Simp spotted.

Apologizing to a girl is simp behavior. Under no circumstance should you apologize to a girl. It sounds like bad advice but it works. Rather than apologize, you tease her. Or just deny her allegation with boldness and make her doubt her sanity. This makes her emotions go hay wire and as long as you are constantly stiring that pot of a girls emotions, she gets hooked to you more.

Contrary to what women say, they actually do not want your apology. It makes them look more in control and whenever a girl feels she is in control, she begins to lose attraction for you.

Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.

@ op, don't stress urself looking for nairaland advice. being gentle is neither a sign of weakness nor a deficiency. A girl dat can not cope with a gentle man must be arrogant, troublesome and disrespectful in nature. Do urself, ur mother, ur siblings and ur unborn kids a favour by dumping d girl and look out for another lady dat will value and appreciate your personality.

Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.

You are dealing with the most complicated creation of GOD and the 7th wonder of the world so please if you know you want to live long just be yourself and don't force any relationship with any lady.

When you meet a lady who will appreciate your persona, trust me, you will be blown away.

Don't allow any confused lady complicate your life.

Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.

If she doesn't like a gentleman to hell with her and find you someone who deserves a gentleman

Nazgul:

I'm a guy o not a babe.

OK, I see.

joyousever:
I strongly disagree with the apology part. Me, if you're too proud to apologize, I get turned off real fast. When you admit your faults and take responsibility, then you've got my loyalty.

I hope you are also able to apologize not only when you are wrong but when someone tells you he or she is offended by you even if you have no clue.

SimpDetector:


Simp spotted.

Apologizing to a girl is simp behavior. Under no circumstance should you apologize to a girl. It sounds like bad advice but it works. Rather than apologize, you tease her. Or just deny her allegation with boldness and make her doubt her sanity. This makes her emotions go hay wire and as long as you are constantly stiring that pot of a girls emotions, she gets hooked to you more.

Contrary to what women say, they actually do not want your apology. It makes them look more in control and whenever a girl feels she is in control, she begins to lose attraction for you.

God bless you brother.

You’re one of the 10 sane men in this country.

Tenshades:
Tell her to enter car park in your area to look for tough guy...

All those agbero with thick black lips go satisfy am.

Guy, no kill yourself ontop vaginah people cos u can never satisfy them.

Listen to this guy!

Op, find yourself an easy going girl that matches your temperament. Not all lions eat first, some have to wait for the dominant cats to eat first.
Also learn about and beware of any chick's history, many have abusive backgrounds and are damaged goods beyond psychological repair. Some even have been smutted out by local guys or worse, family members. Run quick, there's no saving dem from that deep seated trauma.

Nazgul:

Do you agreed to whatever she wants with little or no objection?

Does she find it very easy to manipulate you into doing her bidding regardless of what it costs you?

Do you apologize like a hopeless romantic over irrelevant issues between you two?

Do you find it very difficult to raise your voice at her and scold her for an action you know she's clearly wrong?

You do beg her every now and then for her love and affection?

Are you weak, and can't stand up for her publicly?

Do people manipulate you anyhow and you can't speak up?

Does she enjoy sex with you or do you just engage in it because you're lovers?

Have you ever borrowed money to give to her and you later told her about it?

Do you complain about loosing her a lot?

Does she consider you mature enough to share secrets with happens in her family?

If one or more of these questions is positive, then she's right.

.