| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Raysleek: 5:02pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020:
Pls help me people. My world is collapsing. It's a marriage of 10years and blessed with 3kids (2 boys and a girl). Like every other marriages, we've had our own shares of ups and downs. No marriage is perfect.
Last month i went to work. By the time I came back the children were no where to be found, including my husband. Initially, I thought they went out or something. Around 11pm I got worried and called my brother in-law who is a police to track my husband numbers
He contacted other family members and he found out my husband left for UK with our children forever.
I don't know what to do. I'm running mad. Pls is there any authority I can contact in the UK? Or can I go to the UK/ British Commission in Nigeria to lay a formal complaint? Is there any NGO I can contact?
Modified For those saying I'm a bad wife, I'm not. I've been very supportive in a every way a wife can be. I've lived in both physical and verbal abusive marriage within the last 10years of my life. He's a violent man, adulterous, alcoholic and a fervent smoker. He gets drunk and get home and beat me up Infront of the children unprovoked. I have evidences and witnesses
I often threaten him I would take my children and go away cause I can't watch and allow them to grow in such a toxic home. Madam just calm down, find a way to reach your husband and talk to your kids, its not the end of the world. They are still your children ok. After you try to reach them through social media and all, Always try to talk to them on a daily basis and keep that motherly bond. No matter what they are still your children and I believe even if your husband doesn't love you and you don't love him, the children love you. |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by katyamizotta: 5:03pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020:
Pls help me people. My world is collapsing. It's a marriage of 10years and blessed with 3kids (2 boys and a girl). Like every other marriages, we've had our own shares of ups and downs. No marriage is perfect.
Last month i went to work. By the time I came back the children were no where to be found, including my husband. Initially, I thought they went out or something. Around 11pm I got worried and called my brother in-law who is a police to track my husband numbers
He contacted other family members and he found out my husband left for UK with our children forever.
I don't know what to do. I'm running mad. Pls is there any authority I can contact in the UK? Or can I go to the UK/ British Commission in Nigeria to lay a formal complaint? Is there any NGO I can contact?
Modified For those saying I'm a bad wife, I'm not. I've been very supportive in a every way a wife can be. I've lived in both physical and verbal abusive marriage within the last 10years of my life. He's a violent man, adulterous, alcoholic and a fervent smoker. He gets drunk and get home and beat me up Infront of the children unprovoked. I have evidences and witnesses
I often threaten him I would take my children and go away cause I can't watch and allow them to grow in such a toxic home. 1. Fill the contact form putting in as much detail about the children as possible https://www.gov.uk/report-immigration-crime2. Send a petition to the UK embassy 3. Before doing 1 and 2 consider carefully if your husband is mean to the kids and if they wont be better off in a saner environment. Do not bring those kids back if you cannot afford post secondary international school fees 13 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Kondomatic(m): 5:03pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020:
Modified For those saying I'm a bad wife, I'm not. I've been very supportive in a every way a wife can be. I've lived in both physical and verbal abusive marriage within the last 10years of my life. He's a violent man, adulterous, alcoholic and a fervent smoker. He gets drunk and get home and beat me up Infront of the children unprovoked. I have evidences and witnesses
I often threaten him I would take my children and go away cause I can't watch and allow them to grow in such a toxic home. Then what's your problem?
Why do you want to continue with him after going through hell for 10 solid years?
I am not a judge but your story doesn't add up.
For him to plan all these right below your nose and you didn't notice or suspect anything shows how little you care.
The kids too, how old are they? Why are they willing to leave with him?
And finally, are you angry because he took your kids away or because he beat you to it?
I just have this feeling that all the people who want the kids back in this visionless, planless and directionless Nigeria are witches and wizards. 26 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by pastorcyrus(m): 5:03pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020:
Pls help me people. My world is collapsing. It's a marriage of 10years and blessed with 3kids (2 boys and a girl). Like every other marriages, we've had our own shares of ups and downs. No marriage is perfect.
Last month i went to work. By the time I came back the children were no where to be found, including my husband. Initially, I thought they went out or something. Around 11pm I got worried and called my brother in-law who is a police to track my husband numbers
He contacted other family members and he found out my husband left for UK with our children forever.
I don't know what to do. I'm running mad. Pls is there any authority I can contact in the UK? Or can I go to the UK/ British Commission in Nigeria to lay a formal complaint? Is there any NGO I can contact?
Modified For those saying I'm a bad wife, I'm not. I've been very supportive in a every way a wife can be. I've lived in both physical and verbal abusive marriage within the last 10years of my life. He's a violent man, adulterous, alcoholic and a fervent smoker. He gets drunk and get home and beat me up Infront of the children unprovoked. I have evidences and witnesses
I often threaten him I would take my children and go away cause I can't watch and allow them to grow in such a toxic home. This is really strange, most of you women when working commits a lot of atrocious acts and thinks that you will get away with it. That man by running away with the kids shows that he is a responsible man.only God knows what your hubhy have been going through your hands that turned him to be an alcoholic, smoker even a mad man that will be beating you without any provocation. 8 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by hstar: 5:03pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020:
Pls help me people. My world is collapsing. It's a marriage of 10years and blessed with 3kids (2 boys and a girl). Like every other marriages, we've had our own shares of ups and downs. No marriage is perfect.
Last month i went to work. By the time I came back the children were no where to be found, including my husband. Initially, I thought they went out or something. Around 11pm I got worried and called my brother in-law who is a police to track my husband numbers
He contacted other family members and he found out my husband left for UK with our children forever.
I don't know what to do. I'm running mad. Pls is there any authority I can contact in the UK? Or can I go to the UK/ British Commission in Nigeria to lay a formal complaint? Is there any NGO I can contact?
Modified For those saying I'm a bad wife, I'm not. I've been very supportive in a every way a wife can be. I've lived in both physical and verbal abusive marriage within the last 10years of my life. He's a violent man, adulterous, alcoholic and a fervent smoker. He gets drunk and get home and beat me up Infront of the children unprovoked. I have evidences and witnesses
I often threaten him I would take my children and go away cause I can't watch and allow them to grow in such a toxic home. Why would you call yourself temi bami? Come on, we all have what we are going through. May God help you solve the problem |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Mynd44: 5:03pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Zzor:
For the man to have done that, you must be a bad wife and him taking the children along means he's a good and responsible man who loves his family, I hate women who treats Good men badly. You know you are defending a crime right? No matter what the wife might have done, the best thing is to get a divorce, file for custody and then travel. What he has done is wrong. OP, make sure he is in the UK, find out more like passport number and address then approach the police and British embassy. He will be deported 11 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 5:04pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Zzor:
For the man to have done that, you must be a bad wife and him taking the children along means he's a good and responsible man who loves his family, I hate women who treats Good men badly. Shock us, we are your shock absorber  @ the poster- Ohun ti ọkunrin naa ṣe ko tọ, 1 Like |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Starships4u(m): 5:06pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Righteousness2:
Is this a movie or For Real?
If it is For Real, Don't run mad.
Calm yourself down. Try all the Possible contacts you can to get Him on phone to know What really is on Ground.
Possibly make a Complaint to His Parents, the Nigerian police and the British Embassy.
Prayers will be your Main key in these times..
Prayers can control him and bring him back with your kids the same way he left.
Be Calm! Stay Calm!
Don't create tension for yourself..
Sir, no one processes UK Visa overnight... That's been a perfectly thought out plan... He is probably a UK citizen and gives him the easy process to take his kids along... She should pray for herself first not the marriage (she won't die there).. Recall she said they went to live there forever which means he is fully grounded in the UK.. Embassy would do little.... 9 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by MoneyTrees(m): 5:06pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Pvssy ass niggars em people & their weird news  Your husband is a real niggar... He finally smoked a jumbo sized Mali kush now his brain cells are unlocked, he no longer needs a wife... Things are rightfully as it is You're now a baby mama, WELCOME TemiBami2020:
Pls help me people. My world is collapsing. It's a marriage of 10years and blessed with 3kids (2 boys and a girl). Like every other marriages, we've had our own shares of ups and downs. No marriage is perfect.
Last month i went to work. By the time I came back the children were no where to be found, including my husband. Initially, I thought they went out or something. Around 11pm I got worried and called my brother in-law who is a police to track my husband numbers
He contacted other family members and he found out my husband left for UK with our children forever.
I don't know what to do. I'm running mad. Pls is there any authority I can contact in the UK? Or can I go to the UK/ British Commission in Nigeria to lay a formal complaint? Is there any NGO I can contact?
Modified For those saying I'm a bad wife, I'm not. I've been very supportive in a every way a wife can be. I've lived in both physical and verbal abusive marriage within the last 10years of my life. He's a violent man, adulterous, alcoholic and a fervent smoker. He gets drunk and get home and beat me up Infront of the children unprovoked. I have evidences and witnesses
I often threaten him I would take my children and go away cause I can't watch and allow them to grow in such a toxic home. 4 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Coolcalmcollect(m): 5:06pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
so are you angry he didn't take you along or you really want your kids to come and suffer in Nigeria?? 5 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by bstan12: 5:07pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
GboyegaD:
I will advice you like a family member. Contact the British High Commission to let them know he never sought your consent. Once you can justify the consent letter he submitted was falsified, his records are shattered and he might be deported. You can find a way to get his number and have that discussion with him before doing that to bring him back to his senses
Have you contacted his HR to be sure he resigned? They should be able to give you that information as his next of kin of he has you listed.
Lastly, to the clowns saying she must have been a bad wife, you don't have enough information to judge any of the parties in this marriage. That said, I know situations where the bad ones are the ones trying to run away with the kids. am just holding back not to insult you. They should deport him and the kids cause of one woman. She should travel over there and find them . 9 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Sterope(f): 5:08pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
She could have been a terrible wife to deserve this OR this man is an actual monster. Until you have all the information, don't judge thesicilian:
Sorry for your predicament. But a man does not just suddenly wake up and run away with 3 children because of the regular "shares of ups and downs in marriage". And how was he even able to process his and the kids travel documents without you knowing?
Start the story from the beginning. 1 Like |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by HisMajesty1(m): 5:09pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
So many things appear wrong with this story... The little I know about traveling, particularly traveling to the UK, Hmm, the story sounds fishy. |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by magkhan(f): 5:09pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Zzor:
That man is a good man,I can see through her post This is relative really. A man can be a bad husband but a good father. The two roles are mutually exclusive. @ poster I know you are hurt but look on the bright side, if they are truly in the UK don’t do anything to sabotage that move and bring them back to this Nigeria. They have a better future in UK than in Nigeria. If he is a good father and you know they’ll be fine with him, as painful as it can be, let them stay in UK with him. You look for a way to negotiate constant communication with them to stay in touch that’s paramount. Then take the separation to develop yourself, I mean you’ve been given a ticket out of a bad marriage. Channel the pain and heartbreak to pursue success. Your kids will ALWAYS remain your kids. And who says you can’t relocate yourself to UK to be close to your kids?. Hopefully you are an independent woman. You can achieve a lot if you set your mind to it. But really don’t drag those kids back to Nigeria. 6 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by OYENIYIJK: 5:09pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
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| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Sterope(f): 5:09pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
You don't need to insult him. It is what it is. bstan12:
am just holding back not to insult you. They should deport him and the kids cause of one woman. She should travel over there and find them . |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 5:10pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
How is this story possible?
I do not think the man is in UK.
How is your relationship with his friends and family?
How close are you to those your your children he absconded with? Some children can create a funny scene if they don't their mother for a day or days.
Search yourself very well. 2 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by 1x2x3: 5:10pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Lol she will everything to get them back to Nigeria so they can all suffer . I'm not sure your husband was a drunk and a smoker before he married you otherwise you won't be complaining. Madam anything you do will not only get him back but also get those kids back to this shithole. Let the kids grow up in a better place and they will come for you. 5 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by GboyegaD(m): 5:10pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
bstan12:
am just holding back not to insult you. They should deport him and the kids cause of one woman. She should travel over there and find them . You don't have to hold back on your insults. That said, she is their mother and has same vested interest like the coward of a husband. If as a man he wasn't bold to tell the wife he was walking out of the marriage and would want custody of the kids for whatever reasons, don't you think he is just a sissy? 3 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Depressed101: 5:11pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020:
Pls help me people. My world is collapsing. It's a marriage of 10years and blessed with 3kids (2 boys and a girl). Like every other marriages, we've had our own shares of ups and downs. No marriage is perfect.
Last month i went to work. By the time I came back the children were no where to be found, including my husband. Initially, I thought they went out or something. Around 11pm I got worried and called my brother in-law who is a police to track my husband numbers
He contacted other family members and he found out my husband left for UK with our children forever.
I don't know what to do. I'm running mad. Pls is there any authority I can contact in the UK? Or can I go to the UK/ British Commission in Nigeria to lay a formal complaint? Is there any NGO I can contact?
Modified For those saying I'm a bad wife, I'm not. I've been very supportive in a every way a wife can be. I've lived in both physical and verbal abusive marriage within the last 10years of my life. He's a violent man, adulterous, alcoholic and a fervent smoker. He gets drunk and get home and beat me up Infront of the children unprovoked. I have evidences and witnesses
I often threaten him I would take my children and go away cause I can't watch and allow them to grow in such a toxic home. madam start this story from part 1,and stop giving us the trailer... Experience has thought us not to believe the first party hook, line and sinker especially when it's a woman 5 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Openbusiness: 5:11pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Make peace with your husband, apologize and submit to him, that's your only viable option. Even though you are both the parents, the children are HIS, not yours. That's why children bear their father's surname, not mother. Even Jesus bore his father's name and took after the Lineage of Joseph, not Mary. That's the law of Nature, that's the system God put in place.
If you report to UK embassy, it won't change anything. You will only worsen the situation for yourself. 4 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 5:11pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
.... 4 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by obowunmi(m): 5:12pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020:
Pls help me people. My world is collapsing. It's a marriage of 10years and blessed with 3kids (2 boys and a girl). Like every other marriages, we've had our own shares of ups and downs. No marriage is perfect.
Last month i went to work. By the time I came back the children were no where to be found, including my husband. Initially, I thought they went out or something. Around 11pm I got worried and called my brother in-law who is a police to track my husband numbers
He contacted other family members and he found out my husband left for UK with our children forever.
I don't know what to do. I'm running mad. Pls is there any authority I can contact in the UK? Or can I go to the UK/ British Commission in Nigeria to lay a formal complaint? Is there any NGO I can contact?
Modified For those saying I'm a bad wife, I'm not. I've been very supportive in a every way a wife can be. I've lived in both physical and verbal abusive marriage within the last 10years of my life. He's a violent man, adulterous, alcoholic and a fervent smoker. He gets drunk and get home and beat me up Infront of the children unprovoked. I have evidences and witnesses
I often threaten him I would take my children and go away cause I can't watch and allow them to grow in such a toxic home. I DESPISE women who stay with abusive husbands. My parents were extremely abusive so you all can go Bleep yourselves. |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Jaraontop: 5:13pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020:
Pls help me people. My world is collapsing. It's a marriage of 10years and blessed with 3kids (2 boys and a girl). Like every other marriages, we've had our own shares of ups and downs. No marriage is perfect.
Last month i went to work. By the time I came back the children were no where to be found, including my husband. Initially, I thought they went out or something. Around 11pm I got worried and called my brother in-law who is a police to track my husband numbers
He contacted other family members and he found out my husband left for UK with our children forever.
I don't know what to do. I'm running mad. Pls is there any authority I can contact in the UK? Or can I go to the UK/ British Commission in Nigeria to lay a formal complaint? Is there any NGO I can contact?
Modified For those saying I'm a bad wife, I'm not. I've been very supportive in a every way a wife can be. I've lived in both physical and verbal abusive marriage within the last 10years of my life. He's a violent man, adulterous, alcoholic and a fervent smoker. He gets drunk and get home and beat me up Infront of the children unprovoked. I have evidences and witnesses
I often threaten him I would take my children and go away cause I can't watch and allow them to grow in such a toxic home. Calm down. He will call you soon. Then next thing is he will process your travelling too. |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by kapelvej: 5:13pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
thesicilian:
Sorry for your predicament. But a man does not just suddenly wake up and run away with 3 children because of the regular "shares of ups and downs in marriage". And how was he even able to process his and the kids travel documents without you knowing?
Start the story from the beginning. UK is the last place this man will ever run to. But taking the children along suggests the man is not all that irresponsible 6 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by greatness77: 5:13pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020:
Pls help me people. My world is collapsing. It's a marriage of 10years and blessed with 3kids (2 boys and a girl). Like every other marriages, we've had our own shares of ups and downs. No marriage is perfect.
Last month i went to work. By the time I came back the children were no where to be found, including my husband. Initially, I thought they went out or something. Around 11pm I got worried and called my brother in-law who is a police to track my husband numbers
He contacted other family members and he found out my husband left for UK with our children forever.
I don't know what to do. I'm running mad. Pls is there any authority I can contact in the UK? Or can I go to the UK/ British Commission in Nigeria to lay a formal complaint? Is there any NGO I can contact?
Modified For those saying I'm a bad wife, I'm not. I've been very supportive in a every way a wife can be. I've lived in both physical and verbal abusive marriage within the last 10years of my life. He's a violent man, adulterous, alcoholic and a fervent smoker. He gets drunk and get home and beat me up Infront of the children unprovoked. I have evidences and witnesses
I often threaten him I would take my children and go away cause I can't watch and allow them to grow in such a toxic home. some people are very wicked how will someone be supporting this kind of crime against this lady, d man is wicked and should be treated as a kidnapper, nigeria is a country where woman doesn't have single right, madam take heart your hubby is just a bestial man, go to twitter make a post about it and tag British embassy to nigeria and also NPF stop bringing your problems to nairaland because they can make u commit suicide, I cried when I started reading their comments 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by GboyegaD(m): 5:13pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
magkhan:
This is relative really. A man can be a bad husband but a good father. The two roles are mutually exclusive.
@ poster I know you are hurt but look on the bright side, if they are truly in the UK don’t do anything to sabotage that move and bring them back to this Nigeria. They have a better future in UK than in Nigeria. If he is a good father and you know they’ll be fine with him, as painful as it can be, let them stay in UK with him. You look for a way to negotiate constant communication with them to stay in touch that’s paramount.
Then take the separation to develop yourself, I mean you’ve been given a ticket out of a bad marriage. Channel the pain and heartbreak to pursue success. Your kids will ALWAYS remain your kids. And who says you can’t relocate yourself to UK to be close to your kids?. Hopefully you are an independent woman. You can achieve a lot if you set your mind to it. But really don’t drag those kids back to Nigeria. It is a two way street. There's also the tendency of them ending up as nuisance. Remember he needs work harder to give them the life he wants which could mean he might not have adequate time to raise them.. |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by stagger: 5:13pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020:
Pls help me people. My world is collapsing. It's a marriage of 10years and blessed with 3kids (2 boys and a girl). Like every other marriages, we've had our own shares of ups and downs. No marriage is perfect.
Last month i went to work. By the time I came back the children were no where to be found, including my husband. Initially, I thought they went out or something. Around 11pm I got worried and called my brother in-law who is a police to track my husband numbers
He contacted other family members and he found out my husband left for UK with our children forever.
I don't know what to do. I'm running mad. Pls is there any authority I can contact in the UK? Or can I go to the UK/ British Commission in Nigeria to lay a formal complaint? Is there any NGO I can contact?
Modified For those saying I'm a bad wife, I'm not. I've been very supportive in a every way a wife can be. I've lived in both physical and verbal abusive marriage within the last 10years of my life. He's a violent man, adulterous, alcoholic and a fervent smoker. He gets drunk and get home and beat me up Infront of the children unprovoked. I have evidences and witnesses
I often threaten him I would take my children and go away cause I can't watch and allow them to grow in such a toxic home. He did you a favour by acting first. Yeye woman. When you were entering the marriage, you did not know he was a violent man and an alcoholic. A man that can afford to take himself and three kids to the UK is not a poor man. You are yet to tell us what led you into that union. 10 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 5:14pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Mynd44:
You know you are defending a crime right? No matter what the wife might have done, the best thing is to get a divorce, file for custody and then travel. What he has done is wrong.
OP, make sure he is in the UK, find out more like passport number and address then approach the police and British embassy. He will be deported For the man to have successfully execute his plans without the slightest idea from her speaks volume, I'm not justifying the husband's actions but won't condemn it either. 3 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by UDUJ(m): 5:14pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020:
Pls help me people. My world is collapsing. It's a marriage of 10years and blessed with 3kids (2 boys and a girl). Like every other marriages, we've had our own shares of ups and downs. No marriage is perfect.
Last month i went to work. By the time I came back the children were no where to be found, including my husband. Initially, I thought they went out or something. Around 11pm I got worried and called my brother in-law who is a police to track my husband numbers
He contacted other family members and he found out my husband left for UK with our children forever.
I don't know what to do. I'm running mad. Pls is there any authority I can contact in the UK? Or can I go to the UK/ British Commission in Nigeria to lay a formal complaint? Is there any NGO I can contact?
Modified For those saying I'm a bad wife, I'm not. I've been very supportive in a every way a wife can be. I've lived in both physical and verbal abusive marriage within the last 10years of my life. He's a violent man, adulterous, alcoholic and a fervent smoker. He gets drunk and get home and beat me up Infront of the children unprovoked. I have evidences and witnesses
I often threaten him I would take my children and go away cause I can't watch and allow them to grow in such a toxic home. People just wake up and tell funny stories and expect us to take them serious. For those of us that lived a good part of our adult lives overseas this your story makes no sense. Apologies if I sound insulting but your story just doesn't add up. You say you are legally married to your husband, then it's almost impossible for him to get visas for himself and the kids without providing your death certificate or something to show you are no more in the picture. Unless you are telling us he forged the travel documents for the visas, in which case you have legal grounds. But anyway your story doesn't add up. Apologies for being too blunt. 5 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by CorleonOfSicily: 5:14pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Women will start prolem and still turn to be the complainant. E get why... 5 Likes |
| Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Elzakzaky: 5:16pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
GboyegaD:
I will advice you like a family member. Contact the British High Commission to let them know he never sought your consent. Once you can justify the consent letter he submitted was falsified, his records are shattered and he might be deported. You can find a way to get his number and have that discussion with him before doing that to bring him back to his senses
Have you contacted his HR to be sure he resigned? They should be able to give you that information as his next of kin of he has you listed.
Lastly, to the clowns saying she must have been a bad wife, you don't have enough information to judge any of the parties in this marriage. That said, I know situations where the bad ones are the ones trying to run away with the kids. Bros, its obvious she was a bad wife. Did you not see the adjectives she used to qualify the father of her 3 kids? 5 Likes |
