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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Xantel(f): 7:01am On Jan 10, 2021
It will be sweet now

But in future your children will suffer it.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by sylve11: 7:16am On Jan 10, 2021
funny comments grin

@ op, your life, your choice. cool
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by OyinO: 7:21am On Jan 10, 2021
Nothing spoil. You're so very much on point.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by GetMeRight: 7:22am On Jan 10, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

Do what you want, don't take advice from sentimental people. Most killings between couples in Nigeria occurred mostly between one man one wife family, don't let anyone scare you

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by OyinO: 7:22am On Jan 10, 2021
Ahmad62:
What possible reason do you have to marry Two girls..



The devil is laughing at you right now

There's no Devil
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by GetMeRight: 7:26am On Jan 10, 2021
bigpicture001:


Just say ur a muslim( hence permissible) ..or want to go the way of your father( no one is stopping you)....you now want to say that tony elumelu,bill gate etc dt are with one wife and have peace dont know wot they are doing.....baba,ur life, ur problem!

Funny, like we don't have plenty of Christians out there with two or more wives. Some are even marrying two or more on the same day
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by KennDEO(m): 7:27am On Jan 10, 2021
The day you actualise this your dream of marrying more than one wife, that's when you will understand the different between mìñi and mànú.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by osusuallstars: 7:27am On Jan 10, 2021
Life
Everybody with his own peculiar wahala
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by 1Dray(m): 7:37am On Jan 10, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

I laugh when people even dream of polygamy, my dad is a living proof. He's regretting it with tears, no one has forgiven for that singular step. You're heading towards your ruin. They're being lured to your damnation. Resist the démon of polygamy before it will be too late for you. He that has ear let him hear.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Tadeus(m): 7:37am On Jan 10, 2021
If you can't stay with one wife, just have baby mamas and enjoy ur life. Please don't marry more than a wife, it's not healthy for you and your future kids. My opinion
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by bamite(m): 7:38am On Jan 10, 2021
Ishilove:

You haven't even married one and you're already thinking of polygamy? It is the ladies who will enter your trap with their eyes wide open that I pity.

What am I even saying sef? Na you I go pity las las. Don't try us o, we are deadly grin tongue

Why are you afraid of uploading your real picture? Are you ashamed?
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by mechanics(m): 7:40am On Jan 10, 2021
Don't try it, it's not even biblical.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by 1Dray(m): 7:40am On Jan 10, 2021
Coldie:
I see nothing wrong with polygamy.

How can you see when you are not there.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Lovelyperson(m): 7:41am On Jan 10, 2021
doggedfighter:
You are not even talking like a man that can befriend two women comfortably not to talk of marrying them.

You think it's all about enjoying two pussies?

And have them fight for your attention?

Gerrrrrarahia grin


He tout it all about the bolded. But marriage is more than that.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Lovelyperson(m): 7:45am On Jan 10, 2021
Ishilove:

You haven't even married one and you're already thinking of polygamy? It is the ladies who will enter your trap with their eyes wide open that I pity.

What am I even saying sef? Na you I go pity las las. Don't try us o, we are deadly grin tongue

A real woman talk. Listen to this op. As she talk am na so e be.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by freeman5050: 7:48am On Jan 10, 2021
H2ho:

Hold this girl @Sterope

Who knows....she might be your second wife you've been searching for grin grin

Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Monday60655(m): 7:51am On Jan 10, 2021
You're nothing but an attention seeker. You are yet to marry even one. How do you now know the importance to marry two wives when you have not tested your capability to know if at all you can manage one.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by dangwarmai(m): 7:53am On Jan 10, 2021
Raggy:
Marry more than one wife at ur own peril. One sef is headache & high BP not to talk of two or more. Oga do U want to die young?
One funny thing with women is that the more their number the more they live in peace and adventurous, and the more you are willing to give the more you get.
Unfortunately, you can't understand until you try it yourself.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Totalconcept(m): 7:58am On Jan 10, 2021
zed7:
Follow your heart. It has it's advantages and disadvantages. But know that wetin dey sweet dey kill. Be financially buoyant, perhaps that may foster some sanity in your home.



Ask your parents how they runs their family..... I came from polygamy family too and I thank God lot of competition and it will take outsiders before you can even identify who born this who born that

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Oluromantic: 7:58am On Jan 10, 2021
femalecobra:

She won’t look u in eye wen she offends you?
Are u raising a slave as wife
I fear ur mentality subtly from afar
You're too superficial and literary
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by delishpot: 8:05am On Jan 10, 2021
Oluromantic:

It's tragic when the ignorant calls others ignorant

You know nothing about life but keep on acting as if you know.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by GetMeRight: 8:06am On Jan 10, 2021
Mocata:


I see grin

You want to be dipping your wick in a different sump every other night. It's the classic male fantasy but like they say in Africa, sweet food is usually injurious to health.

If you were a muslim I'd have said go ahead, look for two sweet young muslimas and get them both pregnant, seeing as you're christian though, the chances of you getting ladies compliant with your degenerate fantasy are quite slim. Good luck in your carnal quest for heaven on earth bro

See this one yabbing rubbish like he has never seen any male Christian with two wives in his life.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Oluromantic: 8:08am On Jan 10, 2021
delishpot:


You know nothing about life but krrp on acting as if you know.
Mumu
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by delishpot: 8:11am On Jan 10, 2021
Oluromantic:

Mumu

Toooh!

Truth hurts ba? Sorry but you have to start getting used to hearing it.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Platony(m): 8:12am On Jan 10, 2021
My brother, marriage no be beans o.
Women are very pretentious during courtship. Marry them put for house, mk u jam character.
U see all these so called educated women, na dem be the real FEMINISTS.
They feel they know it all. U can't talk to dem without a clapback.
If women trouble u in marriage ehn, u go wish say u no even marry at all.
Ur next world, u go fear women.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Oluromantic: 8:13am On Jan 10, 2021
delishpot:


Toooh!

Truth hurts ba? Sorry but you have to start getting used to hearing it.
Hurts kwa. You're a mumu for real o. Too superficial and literary. Too shallow too
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by matm: 8:16am On Jan 10, 2021
For what purpose?Perhaps for sex .Know u that sex is overrated and there is nothing mysterious or special about it.However,for the immature mind who has seen little in life,sex seems to be a great thing,but after sex what next? And no amount of sex can make u feel satisfied rather u will be seeking for more options ,styles and variations which will sap all ur life energy.It really pays to start working on self control.Tell urself, there is nothing I can't survive without except God.
Even with two wives or more,as time passes,what makes ur woman attractive to u in the first place vanishes,and it's only true love and discipline that would still keep u stuck to her in terms of intimacy.So don't be surprised when u see men cheat,and same for married women.Even ur wife will be using sex denial to get back at u over a minor misunderstanding when she knows ur whole life is on sex.Dont be surprised,that couples stay for months without touching each other just b/c of a little misunderstanding.Anyway u may not understand now until u marry.For many youths think marriage is just all about sex and sex all about marriage without restriction.
The temptation to explore other bodies,the imagination and fantasy of what the experience will look like.perhaps different from that of ur spouse is always there in marriage and not only among the unmarried people.
Be wiser,life is deeper than u see it,and prevention is better than cure.The bottom line is self control and not making anything indespensable in ur life apart from God.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by delishpot: 8:22am On Jan 10, 2021
Oluromantic:

Hurts kwa. You're a mumu for real o. Too superficial and literary. Too shallow too

Tooh,

grin Like I said, keep practicing.

This 2021 you will hear a lot of truth as people around you get tired of your egoistic ignorance.
They will not keep nodding and swallowing your nonsense. They will start telling you how vain and "stupid" (no insult intended) they really think you are and they will mean it. Pkele. It will take time but you will start appteciating life more.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Elderniercri(m): 8:27am On Jan 10, 2021
Join Cele or those white garment churches


You’ll still be able to marry 2 wives as a Christian and clean fine babes join sef... come still educated join

For once in your life, you can actually eat your cake and still have it grin
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Goldie16(f): 8:30am On Jan 10, 2021
The danger of polygamy is that, in your old age, you will be left all alone. Your children whom you have loved and invested so much in, will walk away with their mothers. Why? Because, they were already born into rivalry and will have a silent resentment towards you for the rest of their lives for not loving only their mother. The bond between mother and child is very strong and the best way to win your child's love is to show love, loyalty and commitment to their mother and the number 1 way of doing so is by having her alone.
No amount of education can stop envy, jealousy and rivalry. If you like, school in Harvard or Yale. Ask Maryam Sanda (a barrister of law who schooled abroad). There are many more examples. You could be poisoned to death and die without a suspect. Be careful what you wish for.
Better Do IVF with gestational surrogacy and move on with your life since you can't love a woman

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by zang: 8:30am On Jan 10, 2021
Bros anything that rock your boat
You will be fine
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by HRprof: 8:34am On Jan 10, 2021
All i can tell you is that your village people are watching you with 3D touch light. Test one first to decide if the second one is neccessary. If two pussy dey hungry you at same time (twosome) don't bring it into your marriage life, you can still have one wife and runs things outside like every other Nigeria man.
My 2 cent

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